Something to be Said about Gorean Life
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Selador Cellardoor
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08-23-2006 16:45
From: Lost Newcomb Kindly tell me what woman finds it fun to log into SL and be put in a kennel for 8 hours straight, forbidden to talk, forbidden to move. They are also instructed RL not to move away from the computer. They are told that the Master or handler would IM them anytime to see if they are near there or not.
This happens in your own Port Cos.
Tell me how fun that is? Tell if this is totally sane women playing a game? What is the point of playing SL with above? You are really beginning to sound unbalanced over the issue. Are you saying that Gorean females in sl are insane? Or are you saying that they are held against their will?
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Lost Newcomb
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08-23-2006 16:47
From: Selador Cellardoor You are really beginning to sound unbalanced over the issue.
Are you saying that Gorean females in sl are insane? Or are you saying that they are held against their will? I'm saying a majority of them are chronically depressed.
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Zephria Zapata
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08-23-2006 16:48
From: Lost Newcomb Kindly tell me what woman finds it fun to log into SL and be put in a kennel for 8 hours straight, forbidden to talk, forbidden to move. They are also instructed RL not to move away from the computer. They are told that the Master or handler would IM them anytime to see if they are near there or not.
This happens in your own Port Cos.
Tell me how fun that is? Tell if this is totally sane women playing a game? What is the point of playing SL with above? Totally agress with you Lost What the point and on another note http://www.weneedafence.com/default.asp
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Selador Cellardoor
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08-23-2006 16:49
From: Corvus Drake Hey look, another cookie-cutter anti-Gor post.
Gor is for males with small penises who get off on brutality and power trips, and the females that adore the abuse and adhere to the concept that they are doing something wrong if in any room that isn't a kitchen or a bedroom (unless they are cleaning).
If you don't envision yourself one of the above, don't waste your time. You'll just get hurt, and hurt others. Thanks for a highly intelligent, thoughtful posting that has contributed enormously to the thread.
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Lost Newcomb
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08-23-2006 16:54
Why are morons discussing semantics in this thread?
Please... those cut-and-paste jobs hurt my eyes.
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Corvus Drake
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08-23-2006 16:54
From: Selador Cellardoor Thanks for a highly intelligent, thoughtful posting that has contributed enormously to the thread. It's not going to go anywhere constructive, anyway. I figured, why the hell not toss my gizz in the gene pool.
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Coyote Momiji
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08-23-2006 16:56
...Wow, not only do you contribute nothing but you try to veer the conversation violently off track!
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Selador Cellardoor
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08-23-2006 16:56
From: Lost Newcomb I'm saying a majority of them are chronically depressed. Even if that were true, which I don't believe it is, what would that mean? That Gor attracts depressed people? If your reasoning is this:- Gorean women must have little self-worth. People who are depressed have little self-worth. Therefore all Goreans are chronically depressed. ... there are several faults in your logic. Right from the first statement. People who are depressed tend not to be sociable. If you have ever attended an event in a Gorean sim, you will see that the audience will be highly animated, and the kajirae will, if allowed, be gossiping and having a great time. You will see Gorean females creating wonderful dances - combinations of words and movement that can be enchanting to watch. If you hear kajirae talking about their Masters, you will hear pride and pleasure in their voices. These are not manifestations of depression. Wherever you have gained your impressions from, they are false ones.
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Corvus Drake
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08-23-2006 16:57
From: Selador Cellardoor Even if that were true, which I don't believe it is, what would that mean?
That Gor attracts depressed people?
If your reasoning is this:-
Gorean women must have little self-worth.
People who are depressed have little self-worth.
Therefore all Goreans are chronically depressed.
... there are several faults in your logic. Right from the first statement. People who are depressed tend not to be sociable. If you have ever attended an event in a Gorean sim, you will see that the audience will be highly animated, and the kajirae will, if allowed, be gossiping and having a great time. You will see Gorean females creating wonderful dances - combinations of words and movement that can be enchanting to watch. If you hear kajirae talking about their Masters, you will hear pride and pleasure in their voices.
These are not manifestations of depression.
Wherever you have gained your impressions from, they are false ones. It's one of those twain things. it DOES attract the mentally insecure and inept. Edit: People in a mental institution are often happy without the assistance of medication, if only to have someone there with them who agrees with everything they say.
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Coyote Momiji
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08-23-2006 16:59
From: Corvus Drake It's one of those twain things.
it DOES attract the mentally insecure and inept. Sure, but so do all subcultures. Do we really want to get into a pissing contest over which subculture or lifestyle on SL might contain the highest number of truly mentally ill individuals?
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Selador Cellardoor
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08-23-2006 17:00
From: Corvus Drake It's not going to go anywhere constructive, anyway. I figured, why the hell not toss my gizz in the gene pool. Actually I'm sorry for my comment. The thread has addled my brains to the extent that I am unable to recognise irony. 
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Chloe Lowell
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08-23-2006 17:01
From: Hiro Queso My point is that like anything, we have to take responsibility for ourselves, we have to decide individually whether something is likely to become damaging for either ourself, or for others. Some people, as you have pointed out, do end up in a place where they lose control. I agreed with you up until that point. From: Hiro Queso So how do you suggest that be dealt with? Should we condemn it for all? If some kid goes out and blows someone's head off after getting a little too excited after playing a video game, should we then ban all video games? I stated I didn't want to do that with this. From: Chloe Lowell Deal with it? What? Are you insane? I never said anything of the sorts. I suggest you go back and read the posts more clearly before jumping to so many conclusions. Forced slavery is against the law in most countries around the world (most likely all), Gorean is a lifestyle which people chose to enter, I already said that. Back to school with you. Then followed it up with. From: Chloe Lowell Reading not your strong point troll? Gorean isn't real forced slavery, as per my post, if it was it would be against the law. Hence I don't want to do anything about anyones fantasy, as per my original post. Seeing as you asked what I wanted to do about Goreans, I thought I would reiterate. Guess that went over your head too didn't it troll
Your response was. From: Hiro Queso Well yes, I would have to be a troll, wouldn't I? I mean, it couldn't possibly be that you are unable to understand a very clear analogy. Yet again, your posts indicate that you have either not read, or have not understood my posts. It's not rocket science. Here you left the thread and did not respond to my thread related content. Which was followed by and ended up with this after more posts from me, after I responded to your non-thread related posts. From: Hiro Queso hmm and I thought there was two of us involved in this discussion? Does that make you a silly girl?  Anyway, I have addressed your points Chloe, I have addressed all of them. If you really feel I haven't, I suggest you revisit tmy posts, because your replies indicate that you haven't understood the points I made. So where was your on topic response to my last quote from me? There were other parts to our conversation, but that seems to be the backbone. Way back to start with, I say, "I dont want to do anything about this". In response to your initial question of, "So how do you suggest that be dealt with?. Obviously, and back on topic, I dont want to do anything about Goreans as I stated I believe it is their right to experiment in fantasy. So you have to ask yourself, why are you arguing again? Edit to say, if you want me to actually read any response Hiro, IM it to me, as Im going to bed and wont search through all these posts tomorow.
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Selador Cellardoor
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08-23-2006 17:03
From: Corvus Drake Edit: People in a mental institution are often happy without the assistance of medication, if only to have someone there with them who agrees with everything they say.
Right - the original posting was saying that Gorean women are chronically depressed, to which mine was a response. You take things full circle by saying happiness is a symptom of depression. Ok.
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Corvus Drake
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08-23-2006 17:04
From: Coyote Momiji Sure, but so do all subcultures.
Do we really want to get into a pissing contest over which subculture or lifestyle on SL might contain the highest number of truly mentally ill individuals? I despise Gor because of what I've seen it lead to happen to people I care for very much. But the same can be said of SL. Wretched hive of scum and villainy, we are.
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Corvus Drake
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08-23-2006 17:06
From: Selador Cellardoor Right - the original posting was saying that Gorean women are chronically depressed, to which mine was a response. You take things full circle by saying happiness is a symptom of depression.
Ok. No, I'm saying that depressed people when communing with people who are like them usually feel validated. Many women who enter Gor do so out of need for validation; being told what they are and what they are for. The community gives them that, thus staying the depression by giving them identity they didn't find for themselves.
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Selador Cellardoor
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08-23-2006 17:07
I'm going to thankfully leave this thread now.
But what I will say before I go is that it represents a very unpleasant tendency I have noticed in these forums lately and in sl as a whole, to attack a section of the community. We've had it with the furries, now we are getting it with the Goreans. Who is next. Dark-skinned avatars?
Uninformed prejudice is one of the most destructive and least attractive of the human characteristics. I think before we congratulate ourselves on thinking how superior we are to some group or other, we should consider that if we succeeded in getting rid of everybody who was 'below' us - we would end up on the bottom of the pile!
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Lost Newcomb
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08-23-2006 17:08
From: Selador Cellardoor Even if that were true, which I don't believe it is, what would that mean?
That Gor attracts depressed people?
If your reasoning is this:-
Gorean women must have little self-worth.
People who are depressed have little self-worth.
Therefore all Goreans are chronically depressed.
... there are several faults in your logic. Right from the first statement. People who are depressed tend not to be sociable. If you have ever attended an event in a Gorean sim, you will see that the audience will be highly animated, and the kajirae will, if allowed, be gossiping and having a great time. You will see Gorean females creating wonderful dances - combinations of words and movement that can be enchanting to watch. If you hear kajirae talking about their Masters, you will hear pride and pleasure in their voices.
These are not manifestations of depression.
Wherever you have gained your impressions from, they are false ones. Not only does Gor attract depressed women, it attracts depressed or low self-esteemed men. This is how Gor online has worked for as far as I've known. The Masters in Gor often does not have much more self esteem etc than their girls they get, infact this is one reason for this attraction. This type of attraction is bad in a Domination and submission type relationship (of which Gor is one minor sub-lifestyle RL). This is why most D/s people avoid Gor, and advocate against Gor. Gor in SL is not much more different than the Gor on IRC. The same type of people (low self-esteemed men + highly depressed woemn), still populate both areas. The reason why this happens, I believe is the ease at which a Gorean Dom can accuire a slave. There is no foundations of D/s honored (Trust, Respect and mututal understanding). It's true there are some random people who join Gor, who never heard of the LS before and were curious or just joined for fun. But the majority of the hardcore people and those who remain to this day, are the same type that lived in IRC. They have the same decline. Gor as based on the books, as practiced loosely on IRC and SL, can never bring about a true trusting D/s relationship, as by definition Gorean relationships are based on fear rather than trust.
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Chloe Lowell
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08-23-2006 17:11
From: Lost Newcomb Not only does Gor attract depressed women, it attracts depressed or low self-esteemed men.
This is how Gor online has worked for as far as I've known. The Masters in Gor often does not have much more self esteem etc than their girls they get, infact this is one reason for this attraction.
This type of attraction is bad in a Domination and submission type relationship (of which Gor is one minor sub-lifestyle RL).
This is why most D/s people avoid Gor, and advocate against Gor. Gor in SL is not much more different than the Gor on IRC. The same type of people (low self-esteemed men + highly depressed woemn), still populate both areas. The reason why this happens, I believe is the ease at which a Gorean Dom can accuire a slave. There is no foundations of D/s honored (Trust, Respect and mututal understanding).
It's true there are some random people who join Gor, who never heard of the LS before and were curious or just joined for fun. But the majority of the hardcore people and those who remain to this day, are the same type that lived in IRC. They have the same decline.
Gor as based on the books, as practiced loosely on IRC and SL, can never bring about a true trusting D/s relationship, as by definition Gorean relationships are based on fear rather than trust. Exceptionally well said. I couldn't agree more. You deserve a promotion in whatever job you do 
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Corvus Drake
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08-23-2006 17:11
From: Selador Cellardoor I'm going to thankfully leave this thread now.
But what I will say before I go is that it represents a very unpleasant tendency I have noticed in these forums lately and in sl as a whole, to attack a section of the community. We've had it with the furries, now we are getting it with the Goreans. Who is next. Dark-skinned avatars?
Uninformed prejudice is one of the most destructive and least attractive of the human characteristics. I think before we congratulate ourselves on thinking how superior we are to some group or other, we should consider that if we succeeded in getting rid of everybody who was 'below' us - we would end up on the bottom of the pile! Uninformed prejudice is, indeed, as you say. We're informed.
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Corvus Drake
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08-23-2006 17:12
From: Lost Newcomb Not only does Gor attract depressed women, it attracts depressed or low self-esteemed men.
This is how Gor online has worked for as far as I've known. The Masters in Gor often does not have much more self esteem etc than their girls they get, infact this is one reason for this attraction.
This type of attraction is bad in a Domination and submission type relationship (of which Gor is one minor sub-lifestyle RL).
This is why most D/s people avoid Gor, and advocate against Gor. Gor in SL is not much more different than the Gor on IRC. The same type of people (low self-esteemed men + highly depressed woemn), still populate both areas. The reason why this happens, I believe is the ease at which a Gorean Dom can accuire a slave. There is no foundations of D/s honored (Trust, Respect and mututal understanding).
It's true there are some random people who join Gor, who never heard of the LS before and were curious or just joined for fun. But the majority of the hardcore people and those who remain to this day, are the same type that lived in IRC. They have the same decline.
Gor as based on the books, as practiced loosely on IRC and SL, can never bring about a true trusting D/s relationship, as by definition Gorean relationships are based on fear rather than trust. I want to have puppies with you now.
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08-23-2006 17:23
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Coyote Momiji
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08-23-2006 17:25
From: Corvus Drake I despise Gor because of what I've seen it lead to happen to people I care for very much.
But the same can be said of SL. Wretched hive of scum and villainy, we are. Funny, that's one of Circe's favorite things to say about SL. 
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Brock Mostel
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08-23-2006 17:36
From: Chloe Lowell Except it's not virtual. Guess you weren't watching the BBC news when they showed that house in some small town with a Gorean Master being arrested over suspected abduction and rape. Of course the slave said it wasn't real, but it sure was reality. Gorean was born in fictional books and taken into D/s long before SL was born, get a grip! Ughh that is one case, that does mean that it does not logically follow. What you are saying in logic terms is 1) war exist 2) becaue of war, war video games were made 3)thus since war exist, and war video games are made, war video games cause war because some psycho in jerkwater Europe because he was a rapist, doest mean I am locked in some house against my will. I dont think you read the rest of my post, people are responsible for their own actions, this guy as obviousley nuts.
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Lorelei Patel
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08-23-2006 17:42
From: Kelly Bruder I have worked for a number of years as a soical worker. I served in the US Navy as a officer attached to the Chaplains office. I am a rape consular in the town that I live in. I work with BOTH men and woman who have been abused in a sexual manner. Rape Fantasy and the roleplay of rape disturbs me. I see the results of such things in the real world. My question is this. Are there childrend in the world of Gor? If so are those Childrend also used for there sexual pleasure? If the gorean sims are willing to explore the domantion, rape, and abuse of woman, why are they so agaist letting some explore there fantasy of child rape, domanation, and abuse? After all it is Fantasy and a game were consecnting Adults engaging in roleplay? This is the question I ask. Much improved tone! Any Gor sim I've ever been to has expressly stated no children and no child avs. I've personally never seen a kid av in a Gor sim. If you wanna, look me up in game. We can explore some of the sims and compare notes.
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Lost Newcomb
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08-23-2006 17:49
From: Lorelei Patel Much improved tone!
Any Gor sim I've ever been to has expressly stated no children and no child avs. I've personally never seen a kid av in a Gor sim.
If you wanna, look me up in game. We can explore some of the sims and compare notes. Her question was about the world of Gor. In the world of SL, there are children hiding in adult avatar's doing all sorts of dirty deeds, cause they are not carded when they enter the world. In the Gor world, I can only remember of a few instances where Gorean girls were taken sexually below the age of 15 (for sexual reasons that is). Once case was in Trovoldsland, where a young girl was to be force enslaved if her brother was defeated in a hand-to-hand combat with a champion, but forturnatly for her, the protagonist appeared right there and stood for the brother. There are bred Gorean female slaves, bred as a slave. But they are often not touched till 17 (??). But there were mentions of some cases in Turia where men went for these young ones. Also some Gorean females were raised in seclusion, out of sight of men, they were never shown men, this is an exotic type of slave. On the eve of their 17th birthday they are thrown among male slave as a group rape. The books say many of these girls go mad, or kill themsleves after. And then it states that those who come out are the best sexual slaves etc.. etc.. Most of the books are pure BS IMHO.
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