Becoming a Slave

I have given up searching. Exactly how does one become a slave? I would like to keep it simple, not go through hours and hours of training. Is that possible? Are there rules? Risks? Looking for any guidance.
I am an adult woman by the way.

I "heard" of a place, Mistress Knows Best. It's a BDSM Store, but I "heard" they have a pretty good classified wall. Or you could go to Hard Alley and stand about for a few minutes.

Not to pry, but Not wanting to go through a lot of training does not seem to be a good quality for a potential slave.

Doing some research on BDSM and/or Gor on the internet would be the best place to start. Its much easier to get involved in BDSM in Second Life then it is to understand what it is.

After youve done your research and are still into it -

For BDSM try looking around some clubs, BDSM stores, etc - dont get involved in much other than observing for a little while so you understand whats going on.

Once you know youd like to do it start strinking up conversations with people - im sure they would be glad to help you, especially if you have made an effort to learn what they are about on a basic level.

Your new aquaintences will be able to help you meet Dom/Dommes who might be interested in you. Make sure you know what a collector is before this, and avoid them unless you like the idea.

Gor its a bit easier, if also more impersonal - tour Gor islands till you find the one you like, make sure you wear your titler and a freewomans dress and veil.

Once you decide the Gorean slave thing is for you, go to your favorite island, either strip or change to Earth (urth) Woman clothes ... youll be collared in no time.

You are probably right. In fact, perhaps the training IS the essence of being a slave. Maybe I will look for such. Any other information anyone has would be appreciated.

im no expert ....

It depends if you want to do the ol' BDSM or Gor,

Gor RP is very exact in that "Kajiri" goes through extensive training. Certainly its dependent on you. I suppose if you want to be a slave you could very much say that doing something you dont want to do is really getting into the slave thing whole heartedly.

its certainly a commitment and not for the faint hearted.

Good luck in your search.

I have a friend who is in the house of Loamei, or look for safira's fantasie in world

Have fun

Marty

Thank you Brenda and Colete for your good suggestions. I am refining my focus now. What I am looking for is the state of being without my own will, being controlled in both mind and body. I am not so interested in the intricate details of some of the established fantasy-roleplay systems. But if that is what is necessary, perhaps that is what I will do.

Kuna, in order to reach a state of mind that will let you freely give away that level of control you will need training. Societly teaches us that we are in control of our own actions, you'll have to overcome what is natural to you.

If you read again your original post you were asking to be an slave and at the same time placing a condition (trying to control the situation) That is a no no.

Regards and good luck on your search!

...So, in essence, you want all the perks of being a "slave" without, you know, actually being a slave?

Please, do clear things up, I'm curious.

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I was about to post something about how "if you want to be controlled mind and body I think they're always looking for more landbot accounts", but I didn't

But I would think a certain amount of role-play is going to be necessary in these cases, given that without it there isn't a great deal that an "owner" would ever need to command you to do for them in SL, apart from possibly earning/giving them money or building things.

The SL BDSM Guide can now be found at http://kinkguide.mlg3.net/tiki-index.php . You'll need to register to read it, or you can buy a copy in world.

I was not interested in being collared until I read this article today, now I am thinking about it. The basic message is find someone you feel very good about (or even love, if you want to go that far in SL) and submit to them. Read it - it's interesting.

http://www.theregister.co.uk/2007/01/23/the_accidental_mistress/


Vienne Demina

Slavery is illegal in most western nations, you might want to look into China they were in the news regarding this lately.

But why would you want to do this? Is your life so miserable that you want to give up the freedom you have an individual and submit to some other person's twisted authority?

And back to SL, the type of slavery that exists in SL is mostly emotional vampirism.

Excellent points Don and Coyote! I have much to learn. Obviously, I will need to submit to some training. There is no getting around it. It IS part of the essence of what I seek.

Bonjour Chere.
If you are looking to become a true slave, then don't waste time with the Role players. They are amusing in thier own way, But in actually learning to serve, you will Not find what you need there.
Being a slave is a commitment, and it Does require Training. What form that training takes does depend upon your Master or Mistress.
I'm a Domme of many Years experience in RL, and on line. I've trained several Girls Including one who had been with me for Over four years. I am not Currently taking any New girls, But if you have questions, I am more than able to answer in Far greater detail than is practicle here, Contact me In World. I also have many friends, and Connections In SL, and i may be able to assist you in Finding a Master, or Mistress who is a Good Fit.
I look forward to Talking to you in world.

Angel.

I think the correct term for what you are looking for is "Abdicating Responsibility" which is pretty much what SL slave RolePlay seems to be about IMO.

I have been unfortunate enough to see RL slavery first hand. It is brutal, dehumanizing and very damaging to the body and mind. Of course in RL none of these people entered into it by choice.

Since slavery in SL is quite apart from RL slavery it is of course tightly bound up in whatever SL fantasy the slavery revolves around. As others have pointed out it is likely you will have to follow those RP rules in order to participate.

Have you tried joining the Marines......?

Probably, then Gor is not the place for you, being heavily structured from what I can see.
Visit some of the BDSM areas, some are quite well done. Join a group or two and make a few friends. You will probably find a Master/Mistress that will be able to provide what you are looking for. Also, if a mistress is your desire, don't hesitate to visit some of the lesbian themed placs.

You can't choose to become a slave.

Nobody can.

And even slavery is a shadow of what you seek: "the state of being without my own will, being controlled in both mind and body."

Having made your own way in the world as an adult woman, the possibility of surrendering your mind and will completely to another is forever lost, even though you might have a sense that you rediscovered it for a time.

It was likely lost long before adulthood in the secret halls of childhood, where we discovered mortality, joy, consequences, death, spirituality, and love.

There is no return to innocence, as much as we may lament it and wish for it.

But if ever you find your way, please write of your travels. Multitudes would follow.

Wow !

When my computer attains enlightenment, I shall enslave it .. and keep it under threat of being unplugged.

Wrom, for some people being a slave is the ultimate demonstration of trust and care. There is much more to M/s or D/s relatioships that just "submiting to oher person's twisted authority".

And back to SL, BDSM, Gor and D/s are very strong in-world.

Return is possible. Such things have been written about, by many people through the centuries, but very few choose to follow. It is the nature of humans to ignore the best answers and the paths of those who have travelled to it.

And I suppose this can be done in SL with a teenage Gorean dom?

There is no way you can fully experience a D/s relationship within the confines of a game. It's all role-play.

Kuna, it really depends what kind of slave you want to be and really what you want to get out of it.
There are some sub schools but I would recommend a trainer for one-on-one training as he or she will listen to you more carefully and make up a training which would suit you better.
If you need names, note cards or a chat, contact me in SL. The offer is opened to others too.

the older i get the more i realise older ppl have usually been right.