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Sex in SL lets see what the majority is

Jackson Rickenbacker
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06-02-2007 00:35
From: Tegg Bode
And what's wrong with novelties, why do we need to be in a relationship to have sex? What are you working for the church or something?



My opinion, dont like it? tough. Did I say there was something wrong with novelties? Did I say you needed to be in a relationship to have sex? seems what you read isnt exactly whats been wrote. I think that has to do with lower intellegence, but it just might be the constant strain on your eyes from wacking off. Heres an idea for you, go you your fridge, get a cucumber ( if you could afford it ) and shove it up your *^$. Now thats real life baby!
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06-02-2007 01:52
I will confess to having had sex a few times during my early days in SL, after being persuaded other avatars. I suppose it was curosity on my part and I was wondering how good the animations were!

But I haven't had sex 'on-line' for a long time now. My 'in-world' sex life, if I have one, probably occurs off-camera in an undisclosed place while the RL snooper-computer is off-line!!!

However I am a naturist in SL so when I'm naked on the beach I sometimes get offers of sex but people shouldn't assume that just because I've got nothing on I'm after sex!!!

I have no objection to sex being possible in SL, I wouldn't ban it although I'd rather not be reminded of it every time I turn a corner!

As well as sex, in RL we all need to eat yet there are very few places where we can sit down for a meal. I have found a handful of restaurants, though, with eat animations and I quite often go for a fill-up of pizza or whatever.

What would Second Life be like with ID disclosure and no sex? It would be full of male avatars who see the whole place as a combat / griefing zone and furry female ones sitting on toadstools!!!!
Kitty Barnett
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06-02-2007 03:50
From: SqueezeOne Pow
The creative crowd in SL generally frown on active SL sex...if anything it's a joke or prank played.
Since when is writing not creative? It may be descriptive erotic writing, but it's still something that requires imagination and creativity.

You may feel that it's a creative and expressive form you don't agree with, and you're certainly entitled to that opinion, but to just outright dismiss any creative element in cyber only shows a personal prejudice against it which you're trying to legitimize by hiding behind a "crowd".
Ciaran Laval
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06-02-2007 03:54
From: Jackson Rickenbacker
It does state AN opinion, but not my opinion on SEX IN SL and that is what the thread is about so let it go Chris


I read your poll to suggest that the majority of people do engage in SL sex. However as your poll is based on active forum users it's probably not representative of SL as a whole, but I'm looking at the same figures as you and getting a totally different impression.

That's the problem with polls that don't have simple yes or no answers.
Broccoli Curry
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06-02-2007 04:05
From: Ciaran Laval
I read your poll to suggest that the majority of people do engage in SL sex.


But it doesn't actually paint a proper picture. It's like asking people if they've ever worn a box on their head... they might have once 2 years ago but it doesn't mean they regularly do.

Currently the poll is:
SL Sex Addict 24 7.16%
Frequently have SL sex 119 35.52%
Rarely have SL sex 78 23.28%
Never have SL sex 114 34.03%

So... addicted or frequently have sex in SL: 42.68%
Rarely or never have sex in SL: 57.32%

Seems like the majority "do not have sex frequently or consider themselves addicted to sex in Second Life".

You could also say that 92.84% do not consider themselves addicted to sex in Second Life.

Statistics can be dangerous things.

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Ciaran Laval
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06-02-2007 04:38
From: Broccoli Curry


Seems like the majority "do not have sex frequently or consider themselves addicted to sex in Second Life".



It would also seem like the minority of people "Never have SL sex" .. This poll suggests that the majoirty of people on the forums have engaged in SL sex.

Yes there are lies, damned lies and statistics.
Tegg Bode
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06-02-2007 05:18
From: Ciaran Laval
It would also seem like the minority of people "Never have SL sex" .. This poll suggests that the majoirty of people on the forums have engaged in SL sex. Yes there are lies, damned lies and statistics.

Regardless, we are talking of removing something 65% of the population do use at some time. So should we piss off 40-65% of the population for the sake of 34% to have a sex free world?
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Ciaran Laval
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06-02-2007 05:21
From: Tegg Bode
Regardless, we are talking of removing something 65% of the population do use at some time. So should we piss off 40-65% of the population for the sake of 34% to have a sex free world?


Hey I'm not objecting to people having SL sex, I was just pointing out how the poll can be read.

The people who want a sex free world need to think carefully about what they wish for, there's a whole big economy issue linked in there.
Warloc Alcott
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06-02-2007 06:56
Hehehehe, RL sex is great, but it does not hold a candle to SL/Cyber sex, when SL/Cyber sex is planned and done right, by two people who are good at it.

Don't knock it, if you have tried it with someone who knows what they are doing.

And although this poll will not reflect it, because the forums are not use but by a small portion of registered SL'ers, remember this. 95% of SL players are here for the sex.
Warloc Alcott
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06-02-2007 07:09
@ Jackson Rickenbacker who said,

""As it sits right now the "majority" doesnt engage in SL sex. Therefore, I think its a good sign that is the true feelings of the "community""

But right before that, you said people are not speaking their true opinions, they are saying just the opposite of what they feel to throw a monkey wrench in the works. So by your figuring, how do you know the vote is going in the direction of "no sex""?

LOL!

Oh by the way, my life is great! Happily married, beautiful wife and loving it. But SL is MY de-stress tool, from work and RL. I come here to have fun and not be told what I can do and what I cannot do, when I can do something and when I can't do something. This is supposed to be my fantasy, limited only by my imagination. Remember the Ad promoting SL?
Colette Meiji
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06-02-2007 07:18
From: Broccoli Curry
But it doesn't actually paint a proper picture. It's like asking people if they've ever worn a box on their head... they might have once 2 years ago but it doesn't mean they regularly do.

Currently the poll is:
SL Sex Addict 24 7.16%
Frequently have SL sex 119 35.52%
Rarely have SL sex 78 23.28%
Never have SL sex 114 34.03%

So... addicted or frequently have sex in SL: 42.68%
Rarely or never have sex in SL: 57.32%

Seems like the majority "do not have sex frequently or consider themselves addicted to sex in Second Life".

You could also say that 92.84% do not consider themselves addicted to sex in Second Life.

Statistics can be dangerous things.

Broccoli



Especially when editorialized. There were no definitions of any of the terms. In addition importance of sex in SL was not asked, merely undefined frequencey.

I personally consider myself to be "rarely" having sex in SL if its less than 3 times a week. which when Im busy IRL or SL business does happen.

Someone else may classify that as being a SL sex addict.
Alderic LeShelle
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06-02-2007 08:29
If pixel-humping gets banned, I wouldn't miss it. What's the point in it anyways, except maybe getting some L$ out of selling sexgen beds and seedy attachments?
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06-02-2007 09:27
From: Alderic LeShelle
If pixel-humping gets banned, I wouldn't miss it. What's the point in it anyways, except maybe getting some L$ out of selling sexgen beds and seedy attachments?

Well apparently a larger percentage of the population use it than not.
Should we get rid of other things that minoritys don't use too like building, scripting etc?
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06-02-2007 09:30
From: Alderic LeShelle
If pixel-humping gets banned, I wouldn't miss it. What's the point in it anyways, except maybe getting some L$ out of selling sexgen beds and seedy attachments?


I prefer the seedless attachments; a little more expensive, but go down a lot smoother.
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06-02-2007 09:50
From: Alderic LeShelle
If pixel-humping gets banned, I wouldn't miss it. What's the point in it anyways, except maybe getting some L$ out of selling sexgen beds and seedy attachments?

And those people spend those Lindens on other more "Worthy" products sometimes. It's called trickle down.

OMG I can't believe I am referencing Ronald Reagan :eek:
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06-02-2007 09:51
From: CobaltBlue Mill
I prefer the seedless attachments; a little more expensive, but go down a lot smoother.

I heard of people that like to do it with Fruits and Vegetables. Disquisting!
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06-02-2007 10:00
From: Brenda Connolly
I heard of people that like to do it with Fruits and Vegetables. Disquisting!


I'm waiting for an xcite cucumber with HUD
Broccoli Curry
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06-02-2007 10:04
From: Alderic LeShelle
If pixel-humping gets banned, I wouldn't miss it.


Even if it does get banned... it'll still go on, like everything else prohibited in every other game on the internet.

The World of Warcraft ToS bans the sale of gold for rl cash ... but there are plenty of sites that offer it. Granted, Blizzard are taking legal action against "Peons for Hire" at the moment, but there's plenty of good money to be made in it, and people will continue to take the risk.

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Nina Stepford
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06-02-2007 10:13
are you smoking crack?
seriously flawed logic mate. just because i do not get off on sl sex that is not indicative in any way of my opinion of sl sex overall.
i am not dating a black man, so what is my opinion of people that date black men? answer that question please.

From: Jackson Rickenbacker
You see the problem with the forums are that there are plenty who rather than voice their real opinion, just throw a monkey wrench in things... why? Because they are unhappy about something in thier life so they dont want to see success on any level if its not directly instigated by themselves..

This is a classic example of "I'm going to do something wrong, because I feel your wrong"

I purposely asked for what peoples actions where since that is most relevant to what people really think as opposed to what thier opinion is, as opinions tend to be more leveled than a persons true actions.

As it sits right now the "majority" doesnt engage in SL sex. Therefore, I think its a good sign that is the true feelings of the "community"
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06-02-2007 10:17
From: Brenda Connolly
I heard of people that like to do it with Fruits and Vegetables. Disquisting!


Apparently you have never seen the proper use of strawberries. ;)
Chris Norse
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06-02-2007 10:20
From: Nina Stepford
are you smoking crack?
seriously flawed logic mate. just because i do not get off on sl sex that is not indicative in any way of my opinion of sl sex overall.
i am not dating a black man, so what is my opinion of people that date black men? answer that question please.


Nina, please don't poke Jackson again. He finally settled down. :) As for logic, it would seem that Jackson and logic are bitter enemies. ;)
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06-02-2007 10:21
From: Chris Norse
Apparently you have never seen the proper use of strawberries. ;)

I'm allergic to strawberries. :(

BTW..I didn't vote. My sex habits, either RL or SL are no one's business save for my partner and myself. Or just myself, depending on the situation.
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06-02-2007 10:23
From: Brenda Connolly
I'm allergic to strawberries. :(


Even in SL? ;)
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06-02-2007 10:25
From: Chris Norse
Even in SL? ;)

Hmmmmm...got me on that one. ;)
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Jackson Rickenbacker
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06-02-2007 11:30
From: Nina Stepford
are you smoking crack?
seriously flawed logic mate. just because i do not get off on sl sex that is not indicative in any way of my opinion of sl sex overall.
i am not dating a black man, so what is my opinion of people that date black men? answer that question please.


Sometimes the truth underneathe your politically correct protective barrier, gets revealed in odd ways, you can say what you want to try and make people think your something your not, but your actions prove who you are.

Alot of people here think they are so smart, but cant even read the true meaing of things without exact clarification... to me thats not very smart. so continue to post your brilliant and insightful misunderstandings , it only proves more who you are by your actions
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