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Pserendipity Daniels
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10-05-2009 06:06
From: Eli Schlegal LOL.
She does, it isn't, it is, it has, and whatever. We can do this all day.
The funny part is... for the most part i have lost interest in this forum. if you would just stop with constant bashing of me my girl I probably wouldn't be posting. So STFU. Losing it, Eli?  Pep (Perhaps you should ask Rhonda for the name of her analyst?  )
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Zigadena Gabardini
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10-05-2009 06:11
Meet my love here,why limit yourself??I dont really understand you?
Do you decide before You feel what to feel??
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Rime Wirsing
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10-05-2009 06:18
Google this
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Jig Chippewa
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10-05-2009 06:33
From: Atticus Lethecus Have you had good sex with emotional involvement? Yes. Actually, it's the best sex. After that, the boy thinks they have a grip on you emotionally and even physically. The moment I get a text message from a bloke that says "Where are U?" I usually type, "None of your f**king bizness". I don't have time for that nonsense. What's happened to men? All of a sudden they are sloppy emotional beings who are crudely bad at showing this involvement. No, you are NOT sleeping in my bed. Use the guest house. Here's teh key. No I dont wanna go watch soccer/rugby/hockey with you. No I dont wanna go to that wretched club with you. No I dont wanna wear what you think I should do/say/wear/eat/drink No, I dont agree with you. No, my money is my money not your money unless I dish some out to you. No, we are NOT gonna live together/marry/hitch up No, we are not gonna go boozing/clubbing/vacationing/shopping together Yes, I actually think your mother/father is right - I'd be better off without you. Where's the man with style and intelligence that was supposed to be a metro male? Where's the man who has panache and is genuine?
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Pserendipity Daniels
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10-05-2009 06:57
From: Jig Chippewa What's happened to men? All of a sudden they are sloppy emotional beings who are crudely bad at showing this involvement. Not *all* of us! From: Jig Chippewa Where's the man with style and intelligence that was supposed to be a metro male? Where's the man who has panache and is genuine? I'm here Jig. Pep (But I'm not interested in "females" like you.)
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Rhonda Huntress
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10-05-2009 06:59
From: Drivin Sideways From: Originally Posted by Smith Peel
Not to be contrary, but I've had good sex without emotional involvement ...
I have not. "Good" is such a relative term. I think a lot depends on what you are willing to call "good sex." |
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Pserendipity Daniels
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10-05-2009 07:00
From: Rhonda Huntress "Good" is such a relative term. I think a lot depends on what you are willing to call "good sex." Well, that's advanced the discussion along significantly, hasn't it? Pep (Hasn't it? )
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Rhonda Huntress
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10-05-2009 07:02
/me blinks. Did he just come out of the closet?  |
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10-05-2009 07:03
From: Jig Chippewa Where's the man with style and intelligence that was supposed to be a metro male? Where's the man who has panache and is genuine? Aparently they are dating Pep now. Who knew? |
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Pserendipity Daniels
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10-05-2009 07:15
Sorry Rhonda, back to "Reading and Understanding 101" for you . . . Pep ( . . . along with all those other linebackers.  )
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Jig Chippewa
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10-05-2009 07:18
From: Pserendipity Daniels Not *all* of us!
I'm here Jig.
Pep (But I'm not interested in "females" like you.) No sure about taht last statement in parentheses. I think I am very female and very more "involved" in how women should be reacting to men these days. I also think I am not that unusual in the social strata or dynamic in which I mix. I am NOT "anti-man" - I am anti-Neanderthall man. Or more accurately, teh man who is unwilling to engage in intelligent conversation or show an emotional "plane to their existence". I really want to walk with a bloke in an art gallery and not seem liek I am the only one who knows what to say. I really do want a meal with a man who has something other than sex on his mind. I really do want to share but not be ""shared". Mothers of young men seem to have completely teh mistaken impression tah tit's okay for their boys to be thick, stupid and sullen even in MY profession because they are "boys". Most men laugh an sneer at intelligent females, Pep, because they are SCARED of them. We challenge their core-belief that they are the greatest gift to the human race. It seems such a cliche but its a fact.
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Chris Norse
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10-05-2009 07:31
From: Jig Chippewa
Where's the man supposed to be a metro male?
Jig, those "metro" men.........well...........they tend to like other men. And in another post you say you want a man without sex on the brain........Jig, sweetie, they don't exist. Every man wants to have sex with just about every woman he sees. Yes, we can keep it under control, but the desire is always there.
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10-05-2009 07:33
From: Jig Chippewa No sure about taht last statement in parentheses. I think I am very female and very more "involved" in how women should be reacting to men these days. I also think I am not that unusual in the social strata or dynamic in which I mix.
I am NOT "anti-man" - I am anti-Neanderthall man. Or more accurately, teh man who is unwilling to engage in intelligent conversation or show an emotional "plane to their existence". I really want to walk with a bloke in an art gallery and not seem liek I am the only one who knows what to say. I really do want a meal with a man who has something other than sex on his mind. I really do want to share but not be ""shared". Mothers of young men seem to have completely teh mistaken impression tah tit's okay for their boys to be thick, stupid and sullen even in MY profession because they are "boys". Most men laugh an sneer at intelligent females, Pep, because they are SCARED of them. We challenge their core-belief that they are the greatest gift to the human race. It seems such a cliche but its a fact. Make sure you send me an invitation to your rl wedding . . . Pep (I'd like to meet Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy. )
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10-05-2009 07:36
From: Chris Norse Jig, those "metro" men.........well...........they tend to like other men. Sorry Chris, over this side of the water we are careful to differentiate between a "metro man" and a "metrosexual". Pep (  ) PS I understand Rhonda going all hyperemotional about such things, but thought better of you.
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Jig Chippewa
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10-05-2009 07:37
From: Chris Norse Jig, those "metro" men.........well...........they tend to like other men.
And in another post you say you want a man without sex on the brain........Jig, sweetie, they don't exist. Every man wants to have sex with just about every woman he sees. Yes, we can keep it under control, but the desire is always there. You ar eright of course. I must go now coz I'm "on" and needed. But I'll continue when I have time even if thread is down at bottom of page. Dont think I'm letting women off easily either. I havent started to critique our modern day behaviours and dynamics.
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10-05-2009 07:37
Like I have asked before, "Anything on that side of the water matters?"
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10-05-2009 07:41
From: Chris Norse Like I have asked before, "Anything on that side of the water matters?" For once, I agree with you. Pep (But don't worry, eventually you'll catch up.)
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10-05-2009 08:01
From: Jig Chippewa I say a few sexy lines on one of my stud groups and whoosh! I'm tped to someone's skybox. Smith knows a lot about those groups. Ask him. Yeah I founded a couple of those groups  Despite that, I'm not nearly as big of a man-slut as my reputation warrants |
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Nika Talaj
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10-05-2009 08:02
This thread has an actual topic, which is: "how to manage one's own responses to sexual/emotional entanglements in SL". I apologize for contributing to the derails, but just wanted to drop a thought into Pep's mind, no need for response. From: Pserendipity Daniels encourage me to illuminate the inaccuracies of their views for the benefit of others, rather than allow, for example, the impressionable to assume that someone with 10,000 "me too" posts has something valid or interesting to say. Why not simply trust others to use their own judgment as to what is valid or interesting? No one appointed you forum nanny. Though some like you personally, I haven't seen any encouragement from even your friends for you to continue your quixotic quest to control discourse here. |
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10-05-2009 08:03
From: Rhonda Huntress "Good" is such a relative term. I think a lot depends on what you are willing to call "good sex." I think it's pretty simple. The kind where you're like "Oh God, yeah!!!" versus the kind where you're like "Oh God... Meh..." or "Oh God... WTF!!?" |
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10-05-2009 08:07
I think part of the attraction in SL sex is that people can live their fantasies without being judged.
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Rhonda Huntress
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10-05-2009 08:23
From: Smith Peel I think it's pretty simple. The kind where you're like "Oh God, yeah!!!" versus the kind where you're like "Oh God... Meh..." or "Oh God... WTF!!?" /me nods. OK |
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Scylla Rhiadra
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10-05-2009 08:33
From: Smith Peel I think it's pretty simple. The kind where you're like "Oh God, yeah!!!" versus the kind where you're like "Oh God... Meh..." or "Oh God... WTF!!?" Is "Oh God, yeah!!!" sex really possible in SL? I mean, ultimately, it's still really just you and . . . um . . . whatever equipment you might normally use solo.
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10-05-2009 08:35
From: Avguste Aeon I think part of the attraction in SL sex is that people can live their fantasies without being judged. Not anymore it seems.
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10-05-2009 08:36
From: Smith Peel I think it's pretty simple. The kind where you're like "Oh God, yeah!!!" versus the kind where you're like "Oh God... Meh..." or "Oh God... WTF!!?" Ever wondered what aetheists say? Pep (or other religions, come to that. )
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