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As You Like It - Men Becoming Women

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11-19-2008 15:43
Well, that's put me off sex for a while . . .

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11-19-2008 15:46
From: Eclectic Wingtips
ok.... the noteards i promised earlier. This is the current research on this stuff :)
Some interesting reading there for those interested.
Some cool stuff there, very interesting.
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11-19-2008 15:52
Do you think I should consider this when I perform fellatio?

Thanks for all the information above. I am really going to read it. I also think I will be a devil's advcate and try and be a man for a little while. What do you think? After all, I am not afraid of my feminine side. And I promise NOT to break any hearts. I'll just see what kind of reactions men give to another man.

It cant be that hard to be a man. I have read all of Chris Norse's threads and it looks a cinch.
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11-19-2008 15:59
From: Jig Chippewa
Do you think I should consider this when I perform fellatio?

Thanks for all the information above. I am really going to read it. I also think I will be a devil's advcate and try and be a man for a little while. What do you think? After all, I am not afraid of my feminine side. And I promise NOT to break any hearts. I'll just see what kind of reactions men give to another man.

It cant be that hard to be a man. I have read all of Chris Norse's threads and it looks a cinch.



I have debated doing the same. The reason I would like to try it to feel how it is for my partner everyday in RL.



By the way if anyone has any questions about the research let me know and ill tryto find you an answer. I am no expert on this issue but I knwo someone whois,, it is what they do in RL.
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11-19-2008 16:07
From: Eclectic Wingtips
I have debated doing the same. The reason I would like to try it to feel how it is for my partner everyday in RL.



By the way if anyone has any questions about the research let me know and ill tryto find you an answer. I am no expert on this issue but I knwo someone whois,, it is what they do in RL.


I just went on sl to look for a penis Eclectic and its amazing! I honestly didnt realize they have to make all these choices. Limp ones and big ones and ones that stretch. And they have colours. Its a bit liek buying a steak in real.
When I send my partner out for a fresh one its no wonder he takes ages. And they arent cheap. I a REALLY gonna try.
Why not use sl as a means to explore these things.
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11-19-2008 16:09
From: Jig Chippewa
Do you think I should consider this when I perform fellatio?

Thanks for all the information above. I am really going to read it. I also think I will be a devil's advcate and try and be a man for a little while. What do you think? After all, I am not afraid of my feminine side. And I promise NOT to break any hearts. I'll just see what kind of reactions men give to another man.

It cant be that hard to be a man. I have read all of Chris Norse's threads and it looks a cinch.
Hmm, better give you some secret mens busness wordez.
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11-19-2008 16:15
From: Jig Chippewa
I just went on sl to look for a penis Eclectic and its amazing! I honestly didnt realize they have to make all these choices. Limp ones and big ones and ones that stretch. And they have colours. Its a bit liek buying a steak in real.
When I send my partner out for a fresh one its no wonder he takes ages. And they arent cheap. I a REALLY gonna try.
Why not use sl as a means to explore these things.


HAHAHAHAA ok i dont think my male avie will have male bits. Im not sure im comfortable with that and i doubt my partner would be.. I think i might chat with her tonight about maybe taking my alt out (he is a male avie... i made him to model) and experiencing SL from a male point of view
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11-19-2008 16:16
Lmao. I always wanted to start a topic of this...
I have told many people in sl this and i will say it here. sl is the fantasy you really want in rl but cant have. As far as this topic goes anyway
Sad thing is 80% of the guys who do play as chick will never tell you. Every time i hear about a chick who was fount to be a guy i just want to die laughing....


Bad thing is it gives all the real females a lot of trouble cause they are hounded about whether they are a m or f in rl... And alot of people wont settle inless they hear a voice are something.

Just keep them chicks with #$%^'s very far away from me

And if you are 1 of them and your reading this. You are really messed up in the head

So come on all you gender benders lets hear how you are confused and bla bla bla....
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11-19-2008 16:18
From: Tegg Bode
Hmm, better give you some secret mens busness wordez.
Holley, 357 Chev, Beer, DiffLock, Hooters, Pron, Pickup, Bugatti Veyron, Beer, Tits, Rooting, Arse, Esky, Spunk Rat, 303, Beer, Tits, Arse, Coldie, Tinnie, Barra, Whiting, Slicks, Sheila, Honda, Beer, Tits, Rev Limiter, Tacho, Beer, Carby, Knockers, Quad Cam, Intercooled, Beer................


This truly is all Greek to me as Shakespeare put it. Seriously, I know Barra means "out" in Arabic but what does it mean to a man? I also know some of these are car words. Where are teh words about clothes, books, music, art and education?

You REALLY dont mean to say that men in sl talk to other men in sl like this? I know men have a kinda way all their own but this justifies serious study. I REALLY thought you were all kinda more sophisticated here and more in touch with your inner selves. I guess teh men who want that become women as I suggested in teh first place.

And men who are women must feel so much better and more in touch with themselves.
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11-19-2008 16:24
From: Aaryn Renfold
And alot of people wont settle inless they hear a voice are something.

Just keep them chicks with #$%^'s very far away from me

And if you are 1 of them and your reading this. You are really messed up in the head

So come on all you gender benders lets hear how you are confused and bla bla bla....



Aaryn..... try actually reading some of the stuff in this thread (not that i think yu will becuase you are ignorant and obviously enjoy being that way). Other than knowing that she should have been female my partner isnt messed up in the hed, hell I am more confusedand messed up than she is. She knows who she is, whcih is better than a lot of people in this world.


As for voice. Well that is amusing in itself. Voice modulators are easy to get, easy to use and good ones can disguise your voice easily. Or like my partner many have a feminine voice to begin with and dont even need a voice modulator. She DJed on air for 8 months before coming out as transgender. Not one person guessed about her before. And most asked when they found out if she used a voice modulator and were shocked when she didnt.

There is no true way to know who is behind a keybord except by trust. Even webcams have ways of being manipulated...
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11-19-2008 16:24
Speaking as group-entity who looks like a pack of otter-like aliens, my reaction to the idea of a guy playing a girl is "a lack of imagination". ^^
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11-19-2008 16:38
From: Aaryn Renfold
...Just keep them chicks with #$%^'s very far away from me...
Does a strap-on count? (^_^)y

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BAH... I DIDN'T SAY THAT!!! Someone infiltrated the password to my brain! Yeah... That's it... =^-^=
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11-19-2008 16:59
From: Argent Stonecutter
Speaking as group-entity who looks like a pack of otter-like aliens, my reaction to the idea of a guy playing a girl is "a lack of imagination". ^^

Now this single statement is definitely quotation worthy for someones signature!
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11-19-2008 17:29
Any man on SL who claims they haven't made themselves a female alt and had a blast doing it is lying through their teeth. Who could resist the temptation going around with your female alt and strutting your stuff, and no it doesn't make you gay! This is half the fun of SL getting yourself an alt and giving her some big tits, then going around and slutting out with her.

And I would definitely agree that women have become the dominant sex, which I don't mind one bit, I can put up with it as long as my needs are being fulfilled. I think society will swing back the other way someday once everyone sees what kind of world we get with women in control of everything! Not only that but as more men are being transformed into effeminate wimps at the hands of all the dominant females its increasing the value for those of us remaining who are real men.
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11-19-2008 18:14
From: Spanky Rossini
Any man on SL who claims they haven't made themselves a female alt and had a blast doing it is lying through their teeth. Who could resist the temptation going around with your female alt and strutting your stuff, and no it doesn't make you gay! This is half the fun of SL getting yourself an alt and giving her some big tits, then going around and slutting out with her.

And I would definitely agree that women have become the dominant sex, which I don't mind one bit, I can put up with it as long as my needs are being fulfilled. I think society will swing back the other way someday once everyone sees what kind of world we get with women in control of everything! Not only that but as more men are being transformed into effeminate wimps at the hands of all the dominant females its increasing the value for those of us remaining who are real men.


I'm a guy and I've never created a female alt. and I haven't the slightest desire to do so. I do understand how some people want to be somebody else just for the fun of it. But I think roleplaying being a female and hanging out with guys could be taking it a little too far.

It some ways it can spoil Second Life because it means we can't take anybody seriously. Everybody we meet just becomes an internet plaything to be toyed with and then thrown away when we're bored.

SL risks becoming very superficial and pointless.
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11-19-2008 18:25
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I'm a guy and I've never created a female alt. and I haven't the slightest desire to do so. I do understand how some people want to be somebody else just for the fun of it. But I think roleplaying being a female and hanging out with guys could be taking it a little too far.

It some ways it can spoil Second Life because it means we can't take anybody seriously. Everybody we meet just becomes an internet plaything to be toyed with and then thrown away when we're bored....
I wonder how many you've met so far and don't even know it. (^_^)

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...SL risks becoming very superficial and pointless.
"Risks"? (O_o)
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11-19-2008 18:28
From: 4318723350112047 String
I'm a guy and I've never created a female alt. and I haven't the slightest desire to do so. I do understand how some people want to be somebody else just for the fun of it. But I think roleplaying being a female and hanging out with guys could be taking it a little too far.

It some ways it can spoil Second Life because it means we can't take anybody seriously. Everybody we meet just becomes an internet plaything to be toyed with and then thrown away when we're bored.

SL risks becoming very superficial and pointless.

I dunno. But as RL gets more serious, unsure and unstable, superficial and pointless for a while is a nice change. Not everyone wants their SL to be serious.

The fact that someone's avatar appearance may differ from their RL appearance is of no consequence to me. I don't think any less of them as a person, or treat them differently if we were meeting in the real world.
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11-19-2008 18:42
From: 4318723350112047 String
I'm a guy and I've never created a female alt. and I haven't the slightest desire to do so. I do understand how some people want to be somebody else just for the fun of it. But I think roleplaying being a female and hanging out with guys could be taking it a little too far.

It some ways it can spoil Second Life because it means we can't take anybody seriously. Everybody we meet just becomes an internet plaything to be toyed with and then thrown away when we're bored.

SL risks becoming very superficial and pointless.



Well I can see where you're coming from but I'm of the opinion that SL sex by its very nature is rather superficial and pointless. Thats what makes it so much fun you can get away with things you wouldn't normally do or even want to do in real life. I am the same as a lot of other guys if I were going to delude myself into thinking that there was the possibility of having some kind of meaningful sexual relationship on SL I would require that this person be a real life female, and thats where voice would be a useful tool for weeding out the impostors. But I think its better if people keep things in perspective and not lose touch with the fact that SL is all pretty much fake when you get down to it. Yes you can have real life friendships, make real money and all of that but its still sort of just a make believe fantasy world. I know there are people who have hooked up on here and gotten married or had otherwise meaningful relationships but I don't think SL is generally the kind of place to go if you want to hook up with women. I think this is where actually going out and meeting real people is the better choice, or if necessary there are plenty of online dating sites out there too.
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11-19-2008 18:43
*sighs* threads like this are so full of FAIL :(
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11-19-2008 18:47
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*sighs* threads like this are so full of FAIL :(
You gotta love them for how superficial and pointless they are. =^-^=
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11-19-2008 18:53
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Well I can see where you're coming from but I'm of the opinion that SL sex by its very nature is rather superficial and pointless. Thats what makes it so much fun you can get away with things you wouldn't normally do or even want to do in real life. I am the same as a lot of other guys if I were going to delude myself into thinking that there was the possibility of having some kind of meaningful sexual relationship on SL I would require that this person be a real life female, and thats where voice would be a useful tool for weeding out the impostors. But I think its better if people keep things in perspective and not lose touch with the fact that SL is all pretty much fake when you get down to it. Yes you can have real life friendships, make real money and all of that but its still sort of just a make believe fantasy world. I know there are people who have hooked up on here and gotten married or had otherwise meaningful relationships but I don't think SL is generally the kind of place to go if you want to hook up with women. I think this is where actually going out and meeting real people is the better choice, or if necessary there are plenty of online dating sites out there too.


Agreed. I know some do it, but personally SL is the LAST place I would be looking for any sort of "relationship"
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11-19-2008 18:56
From: Brenda Connolly
I dunno. But as RL gets more serious, unsure and unstable, superficial and pointless for a while is a nice change. Not everyone wants their SL to be serious.


Being yourself doesn't mean being serious, Brenda! :)

I can put a silly avatar on and have fun with it. But I'm always me and the people I'm having fun with know that I'm not really a donkey or whatever.
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11-19-2008 18:57
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"Risks"? (O_o)


I thought exactly the same after I hit that Submit button. :)
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11-19-2008 19:02
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Agreed. I know some do it, but personally SL is the LAST place I would be looking for any sort of "relationship"


But that's exactly why you're in Second Life. You're here because of the people.So isn't it kind of odd to say that we shouldn't be coming into Second Life to meet people?

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11-19-2008 19:04
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Being yourself doesn't mean being serious, Brenda! :)

I can put a silly avatar on and have fun with it. But I'm always me and the people I'm having fun with know that I'm not really a donkey or whatever.


Agreed. But it is the YOU that they are reacting to. Does it matter if the avatar is a different gender, or height, or weight , or skin color, or nationality or religion as what is presented. It doesn't to me. Of course if you are going to move into any sort of serious personal relationship, you are entitled to know whatever you wish, but even then, this is SL, you can't be 100% sure you are being given the truth.
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