Can you realy trust your SL lover?

My SL lover is in RL my girlfriend so yes.. I trust in her words as I always did since these last 3,5 years.

I'll see your 5 years and raise to 9!

It was three and a half actually

You get happy?

Second only to women.. whom are the undisputed master of lies.

LOL, you are not scorned at all!

Ive never had a girl tell me the truth about anything. Ive never dated a girl but I have had the misfortune of seeing 5 or so for short periods of time.. instead of telling you they aren't interested they make up lies about what they are doing that are rediculous, then when pointed out they lie they make up more lies.

Even girls who I just know, as friends, lie to everyone. It might be worse if they were bad liars, but women are just great at it, its no wonder they all do it.

Whats even funnier is when they tell me how awesome their lies are to other people, so I can firsthand see how evil they are.

"I just told him i'm going here when i'm not, haha, dumbass"

Good common quote a lot of female friends say to me. ^^^

Men.. lie rarely, and they suck at it when they do, so it generally isn't as much of an issue, while still being recognized as lying by women on those small occasions simply because they suck so bad at lying that they get caught, and then women complain about the lies.



Women are truely evil, and the best (or worst, whichever term makes more sense) when it comes to lies... and they lie much, much much more frequently.. and its not just lies, but dishonesty in every way (women cheat more, etc).


hey, its the truth..

Um, yeah, maybe it's the women you choose to hang around with...

Cen sorry maybe you need to find the right lady with class for you that is if you are looking?

Oh Cen,

You have your opinion, but I have to disagree. And darling with feeling "women are evil"etc, I find it hard to believe that you are going to even allow yourself to find a woman who is not a liar.

Oh baby,
We are not all bad.

Muah™,
Jezabell

Probably... because now every time I start seeing someone its just become me waiting with expectations that they are going to do something horribly dishonest/start lying to me.

Lower expectations -> Lower results.

Yes, except for women, who are just as bad -- only in different ways.

Seriously -- I trust my SL lover. I trust her not to intentionally do something to hurt me. I trust her to bang anyone she wants whenever she feels like it, or even fall in love if her heart leads her that way. When I log in hers is the first name I look for, and she's the one I want to spend my time with most. If she were to move on and take up with someone else as her main squeeze, sure, it would hurt, but I'd be happy for her if she's happy. And I believe whatever she says about RL. She did keep a secret from me earlier in our relationship, but when the truth came out the reasons for it were understandable and it in no way reduced her credibility. We've been together 16 months now.

I trust implicitly but not foolishly. It took time and lots of different experiences to reach the level of trust we have now. Even then, I know it's always possible that I'm wrong; that my trust is misplaced -- but life is too short to constanly worry like that. If she were to ask me for my credit card number, well then i might rethink things a bit!

and the snowball effect will continue. Perhaps I will report back every few years until I decide to give up completely, forever. I'm 23, and a guy shouldn't have gotten to my age with this little progress. I am about equal to the progress of most 15 year olds or younger.

Man, you're freakin' me out, and I ain't lying.

Why'sat?

Probably because on a forum with a large, possibly predominant female userbase, the sentence "women are truly evil" might not sit too well with most if not all of them.

nah I feel bad for Cen he should find a great lady to dispel his myth.

Then you're in the same class as the rest of men your age.

Honestly, it's rather upsetting that you write off 54% of the human population because you've had 5 short-term affairs that didn't work. Keep in mind that a LOT of people in your age bracket are flighty, insecure, and quite frankly, not looking for major relationships. I know that I was just like that in my early twenties, and pretty much everyone I knew was, as well. I'm not saying that all people are like this, because they aren't. Early twenties is "OMG I can drink legally now!! OMG I'm on my own!!! OMG let's go have random sex and screw 'relationships'!!" It's not "Let's think soberly and rationally about what we want out of life in five, ten, and twenty years. Let's have fulfilling love matches with our soul mates." You want soul mate? Wait a few years. Until then, go have flings, and don't worry about honesty/dishonesty as long as you wear a condom.

Unfortunely I don't see a great lady putting up with a guy bad mouthing the female gender like that. I am 26, have a wonder SL partner who I love dearly, we share everything. If I had met a man who talked to me like that I would be kicking his poseballs to the curb mighty fast.

... thats all good advice for someone who wants to go randomly have sex, but what if I don't care for sex nor ever want to have it? That kind of assumes every young guy is going to be dumb, or be over eager to drink (by the way I don't really enjoy alchohol at all either)

As a mature male I find Cen's comments about women to be very disturbing. He may be 23 but he does sound like he is 15. Women are persons, I have never found a difference between female and male sexes when it comes to being a person, most are good and some are bad.

Lear Cale expressed it the best, I agree with everything he said, except I was the one who foolishly kept a secret and was lucky that my partner forgave me. I trust her completely, and can never be jealous of her cause I know she loves me. We are not only lovers, we are soulmates and while I hope to never lose her I would be happy for her if she found another. I would experience a great emptiness inside but her happiness is
what matters to me.

I've heard the Catholic church is looking for a few good men.

I did NOT say that every young guy is going to be dumb or over eager to drink. I said MOST young guys are basically hot-blooded walking hormones in their early twenties. MOST girls in their early twenties are also hot-blooded walking hormones. You're just going to have to accept it for a part of life. Things calm down in five or so years.

Look, my point was that it's rude and short sighted to say that all women are lying evil people. If you don't learn that now, you won't get many dates at all. The ones you DO get will be women that want to be doormats.

You just made me choke on my bagel.

I am really reaching lol.
Just my opinion. It seems to me that Cen is a sensitive guy who is just reacting to his experience. I don't like the bash any gender remarks personally, but I don't think he would be saying this to a girl he is interested just the opposite.