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Ian Nider
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06-05-2009 07:29
From: Tegg Bode
Not that I've noticed anyway, but they could use the same "it's only pixels, it's not real" argument.


I know. But it's not happening (that I see anyway). I think because people are involved in some kind of investment be it a business or just a dam fine collection of freebies, they ARE actually pretty civilized in world, everyone has something to loose by being ARed and banned, hence the large voice in this string at the banning being the offensive thing.
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06-05-2009 07:30
From: Scylla Rhiadra
Ian, is it just FUN to deliberately misrepresent or misunderstand me?

If you can't see a distinction between a depiction of consensual sex, and one that depicts violent sex, then I fear for you and your sex partners.

A animation depicting vanilla sex, and another depicting rape are, in all probability, BOTH consensual, in the sense that both partners have agreed to both. But the rape animation DEPICTS an act that is violent and nonconsensual.

Clear enough?


Pressing the what ever animation ball is consensual, get it yet?
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06-05-2009 07:32
From: Tegg Bode
So you don't think Child rape was broadly offensive to the community?


Define child rape. As LL is defining it, an adult portraying a 16 year old having sex with an adult is child rape, even though such fantasies are legal. If actually calling for sanity means defending child rape because of this, then you bet I don't think child rape is broadly offensive to the community. That does not mean, however, that I'm advocating somebody raping a one year old baby.
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06-05-2009 07:34
This thread has now deteriorated into the same old arguments about the same over discussed topics.
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06-05-2009 07:35
From: Scylla Rhiadra
Ian, is it just FUN to deliberately misrepresent or misunderstand me?

If you can't see a distinction between a depiction of consensual sex, and one that depicts violent sex, then I fear for you and your sex partners.

A animation depicting vanilla sex, and another depicting rape are, in all probability, BOTH consensual, in the sense that both partners have agreed to both. But the rape animation DEPICTS an act that is violent and nonconsensual.

Clear enough?

zomg!!! Ban Hamlet, Macbeth . . . the whole works of Shakespeare!

Pep (Full of depictions of nonconsensual violence)
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06-05-2009 07:38
From: Pserendipity Daniels
zomg!!! Ban Hamlet, Macbeth . . . the whole works of Shakespeare!

Pep (Full of depictions of nonconsensual violence)

Not to mention Lot giving his daughters to the townsfolks, Cain murdering his brother, John being beheaded, and some dude nailed live to a piece of wood and left to die...
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06-05-2009 07:39
From: Ian Nider
Pressing the what ever animation ball is consensual, get it yet?

Ok dear, let me walk you through this very slowly . . .

When pixels or paints, or crayons or what-have-you are arranged is certain mimetic ways, they are meant to be recognizable representations of things that occur in real life. They are not actually the SAME as those things, right? They are DEPICTIONS of them. So, were you to see a screen image of a squirrel, you would (probably?) KNOW that that is not an ACTUAL, RL squirrel, but rather a arrangement of pixels that REPRESENTED the real item.

This is called a DEPICTION or a REPRESENTATION.

Now, if an animation of a rape occurs on your screen, really really CLEVER people recognize that it is NOT an actual rape, but a DEPICTION of one.

What I was conceding, you see, is that a rape animation in SL IS probably consensual. And not "real" at all, but rather an artistic DEPICTION or REPRESENTATION of one. My objection to such a depiction has NOTHING to do with whether the action of clicking the animation ball was consensual or not . . . I have admitted that it probably IS. My objection, such as it is, is to the fact that it DEPICTS (NOT "really is";) a rape. Consent doesn't really enter into it one way or another.

This is all very complicated, I know . . .
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06-05-2009 07:41
From: Scylla Rhiadra
Ok dear, let me walk you through this very slowly . . .

When pixels or paints, or crayons or what-have-you are arranged is certain mimetic ways, they are meant to be recognizable representations of things that occur in real life. They are not actually the SAME as those things, right? They are DEPICTIONS of them. So, were you to see a screen image of a squirrel, you would (probably?) KNOW that that is not an ACTUAL, RL squirrel, but rather a arrangement of pixels that REPRESENTED the real item.

This is called a DEPICTION or a REPRESENTATION.

Now, if an animation of a rape occurs on your screen, really really CLEVER people recognize that it is NOT an actual rape, but a DEPICTION of one.

What I was conceding, you see, is that a rape animation in SL IS probably consensual. And not "real" at all, but rather an artistic DEPICTION or REPRESENTATION of one. My objection to such a depiction has NOTHING to do with whether the action of clicking the animation ball was consensual or not . . . I have admitted that it probably IS. My objection, such as it is, is to the fact that it DEPICTS (NOT "really is";) a rape. Consent doesn't really enter into it one way or another.

This is all very complicated, I know . . .

Only for you, it seems.

Pep (Depictions *aren't* the real thing; they don't matter.)
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06-05-2009 07:43
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Define child rape. As LL is defining it, an adult portraying a 16 year old having sex with an adult is child rape, even though such fantasies are legal. If actually calling for sanity means defending child rape because of this, then you bet I don't think child rape is broadly offensive to the community. That does not mean, however, that I'm advocating somebody raping a one year old baby.

lets not get into the grey area of teenage sex, it's just a grey area, there will always be one. Children in my opinion are pre-teenagers, the fact is there are plenty of people who do find 0-12yo avatars engaging in sexual acts as offensive even though they are only pixels and may have 2 consenting adults behind the avatars.
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06-05-2009 07:44
From: Oryx Tempel
Not to mention Lot giving his daughters to the townsfolks, Cain murdering his brother, John being beheaded, and some dude nailed live to a piece of wood and left to die...
LOL - this one really did make me chuckle. Reminded me of this skit showing of all sorts of religious hypocrisy:

http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/c0cf508ff8/prop-8-the-musical-starring-jack-black-john-c-reilly-and-many-more-from-fod-team-jack-black-craig-robinson-john-c-reilly-and-rashida-jones
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06-05-2009 07:46
From: Elanthius Flagstaff
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gory (i.e. extreme violence) or pornoraphic pictures


I did point out also that I don't find images like this offensive in themselves - only abusive use of such images, eg griefing with them in a Welcome Area or other inappropriate place.

Picking out this line only from my post makes me look like a prude, which I'm definitely not.
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06-05-2009 07:48
From: Pserendipity Daniels
zomg!!! Ban Hamlet, Macbeth . . . the whole works of Shakespeare!

Pep (Full of depictions of nonconsensual violence)

I own an SL bookstore that is just BRIMMING with texts FULL of the most heinous depictions of violence. And rest assured, I am not rushing to pull them off the shelves. I even enjoy READING them (*GASP*) . . . although always with both hands on the book.

There are a number of arguments that can be made to distinguish between artistic representations, and porn, but I'm not going to go into them here . . . What I WILL say distinguishes a literary account of a rape (or a theatrical or movie one, for that matter) from what happens in SL is the fact that the latter is interactive and participatory. Even an actor is not participating in a rape scene the way that someone using such an animation in SL is.

As someone came close to noting above, animations in SL are NOT just "cartoons" or screen images. They are behaviours, things one chooses to "do" here. Hence the importance of consent, no?
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06-05-2009 07:48
From: Lewis Luminos
I did point out also that I don't find images like this offensive in themselves - only abusive use of such images, eg griefing with them in a Welcome Area or other inappropriate place.

Picking out this line only from my post makes me look like a prude, which I'm definitely not.

That's immediately what I thought too.
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06-05-2009 07:49
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That gets into a very extreme bone of contention: Ageplay. For one thing ageplay involving extremely young children, 8 years old, 4 years old, 12 months old, etc., yeah, I'm very much against it. However, the current SL definition of ageplay as being any under 18 avatar, is way wrong. Here's why:

When you signed up to create an avatar in SL, you entered into a legally binding contract with Linden Lab. Assuming that you're old enough to enter into such a contract in the first place; if you're not, you're already a criminal. So let's deal with those left who are here legally. You are bound, by this contract, to obey THE LAWS OF THE UNITED STATES and those of whatever jurisdiction/country you actually live in. Now there are some places in the world, where it is illegal for you to engage in ageplay fantasies, such as having sex with an adult who's pretending to be 16 years old. If you live in one of those places, don't do it. You're breaking the law otherwise. That will mean the ageplay rules in SL do apply to some of us. That excludes another portion of the population, obviously.

But there are places where it is legal. Such as in the United States. In fact in the United States, whether you personally agree with it or not, it is legal to draw sex acts between adults and minors, provided no real minors were ever involved in such acts. The United States Supreme Court has upheld this at the federal level (if you need actual citations to publicly available documents backing this up I'll have to research it). So as long as the avatars in question are run by real adults behind the keyboards who are of legal age, and all participants in such an activity are in jurisdictions where it is legal, there's nothing at all wrong with ageplay as long as it doesn't go too far.

Nobody would ever condone an adult playing a baby too young to even talk, I'm sure, but what about the adult woman pretending to be a 16 year old nubile girl? Happens all the time in RL and that's legal, so it should be allowed in SL too since it is in fact legal according to the laws that all SL users are required to obey, barring local laws that override that for selected users. That brings things back around to the question of personal responsibility, which is really critical to the whole mess.

If you have a problem with something people are engaged in, or it's not legal where you live, LEAVE. That is an actual vaild adult response to situations you may find offensive. Should more people practice that there'd be a whole lot less uproar going on right now over changes being forced on everybody, and this WILL impact everybody, negatively, even people who stay in PG sims and live PG lives in SL.


The child av thing is blurry, some people are on here to just play at being kids, it's not sexual at all, but is still an adult concept.

I guess if an adult woman likes to rp a younger version of herself it's fine. Some people (adults) get off on being in nappies and bottle fed. All kind of innocent but adult in concept.

It's the child avs having sex or rape that is banned, but I get your point, something that isn't illegal in the real world, having the fantasy, has been made so in SL, and yeh in that sense it isn't good.
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06-05-2009 07:52
From: LittleMe Jewell

Woot! That was great! Thanks for the link. :)
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06-05-2009 07:53
From: Ian Nider
The child av thing is blurry, some people are on here to just play at being kids, it's not sexual at all, but is still an adult concept.

I guess if an adult woman likes to rp a younger version of herself it's fine. Some people (adults) get off on being in nappies and bottle fed. All kind of innocent but adult in concept.

It's the child avs having sex or rape that is banned, but I get your point, something that isn't illegal in the real world, having the fantasy, has been made so in SL, and yeh in that sense it isn't good.

I have no problem with an adult AV or in RL wearing diapers etc in a sexual way but when they do so with an obviously underage AV that's a completely different mindset in my view of someone that has some serious issues.
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06-05-2009 07:56
From: Scylla Rhiadra
Ok dear, let me walk you through this very slowly . . .

When pixels or paints, or crayons or what-have-you are arranged is certain mimetic ways, they are meant to be recognizable representations of things that occur in real life. They are not actually the SAME as those things, right? They are DEPICTIONS of them. So, were you to see a screen image of a squirrel, you would (probably?) KNOW that that is not an ACTUAL, RL squirrel, but rather a arrangement of pixels that REPRESENTED the real item.

This is called a DEPICTION or a REPRESENTATION.

Now, if an animation of a rape occurs on your screen, really really CLEVER people recognize that it is NOT an actual rape, but a DEPICTION of one.

What I was conceding, you see, is that a rape animation in SL IS probably consensual. And not "real" at all, but rather an artistic DEPICTION or REPRESENTATION of one. My objection to such a depiction has NOTHING to do with whether the action of clicking the animation ball was consensual or not . . . I have admitted that it probably IS. My objection, such as it is, is to the fact that it DEPICTS (NOT "really is";) a rape. Consent doesn't really enter into it one way or another.

This is all very complicated, I know . . .


I understand you, I just think your terrible neurotic who is nit picking and wants to force bans on you what interpret as wrong on behalf of everyone regardless of how they see it. I am sorry I can't see any value in your obsession.
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06-05-2009 07:59
From: Scylla Rhiadra
I own an SL bookstore that is just BRIMMING with texts FULL of the most heinous depictions of violence. And rest assured, I am not rushing to pull them off the shelves. I even enjoy READING them (*GASP*) . . . although always with both hands on the book.

There are a number of arguments that can be made to distinguish between artistic representations, and porn, but I'm not going to go into them here . . . What I WILL say distinguishes a literary account of a rape (or a theatrical or movie one, for that matter) from what happens in SL is the fact that the latter is interactive and participatory. Even an actor is not participating in a rape scene the way that someone using such an animation in SL is.

As someone came close to noting above, animations in SL are NOT just "cartoons" or screen images. They are behaviours, things one chooses to "do" here. Hence the importance of consent, no?

So you are fine with real life, photorealistic depictions of nonconsensual violence, but not jerky cartoon animations?

Pep (Getting to the nub of it now I think.)
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06-05-2009 08:00
Ageplay is not intrinsically sexual. It's merely depicting yourself with an appearance and behaviour inconsistent with your real age. (^_^)

Sexual Ageplay is not intrinsically rape. Rape roleplay is. Am I the ~ONLY~ one here who played "doctor" as a kid? (O.o)
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06-05-2009 08:01
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Am I the ~ONLY~ one here who played "doctor" as a kid? (O.o)

Wot? No nurses?

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06-05-2009 08:05
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Am I the ~ONLY~ one here who played "doctor" as a kid? (O.o)

I used to play 'doctors & doctors'.
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06-05-2009 08:10
From: RockAndRoll Michigan
When you signed up to create an avatar in SL, you entered into a legally binding contract with Linden Lab. Assuming that you're old enough to enter into such a contract in the first place; if you're not, you're already a criminal.
Breaching a contract is not a crime in most countries, including the USA. Signing a contract under false pretenses often is not either - circumstances depending. Being a minor pretending to be an adult when signing a contract is rarely a crime.

These things may make you liable to civil penalties; getting sued, but rarely to criminal penalties. There's a difference between being a scumbag and being a thug. Law is traditionally designed to fine the privileged classes and remove liberty from the underclasses. Unethical conduct involving business / money / honesty takes a lot more to jump into the realm of criminal.

Minors who sign contracts have a carte-blanche right to ignore anything in the contract that binds them, though the adult is still bound - assuming the two knew who each other were.

A vast majority of the law can be broken without doing anything criminal. You are only a criminal when you violate penal law.

From: RockAndRoll Michigan
So let's deal with those left who are here legally. You are bound, by this contract, to obey THE LAWS OF THE UNITED STATES and those of whatever jurisdiction/country you actually live in.
Not if you are a minor. See above. Minors can void their contracts at will. This is why almost every contract you will ever see requires adults signing them on both ends - why you have to get your parents' permission...

This is true in any Common Law country (anywhere in the world that is or was ever under the control of the British Empire or one of its former colonies, thus it includes some of Japanese law as well as they were formerly under a former British Colony, namely the USA. Likewise for Korea and 'sometimes' Hong Kong). It may or may not be in Civil Law countries - though I think those under either the Napoleanic or Sharia systems would agree (All European and most Islamic, as well as former colonies).


From: RockAndRoll Michigan
Now there are some places in the world, where it is illegal for you to engage in ageplay fantasies, such as having sex with an adult who's pretending to be 16 years old.
That's different than merely pretending to be a child. My suggestion; if you want to do ageplay, NEVER zone out of a PG region, EVER, on that account; even if temporarily on an adult body. Don't even do it with a second connected account.

Also; ANYONE who engages in Adult content, AVOID Japanese regions like the black-death. Age of consent for girls in Japan is 14, for men it is 18 or 21... that means what is legal for Japanese and Japanese porn can easily be a life-altering felony for anyone else in world, simply by walking past it and having it on your monitor for all of 1.2 seconds...
- Consider that if voice actresses used in Hentai are young enough, even encountering Hentai might be a problem for you...

From: RockAndRoll Michigan
But there are places where it is legal. Such as in the United States. In fact in the United States, whether you personally agree with it or not, it is legal to draw sex acts between adults and minors,
As you noted later, this is not at all the same thing as doing that same act when one of the parties involved is an actual minor - even just 'sexting' with a minor can be criminal. Curiously enough, if some current cases have their way; the minor will also be criminally liable - some girls are on child right now for child porn for sending boys in their school pictures of themselves. My hope is they will be convicted - it will put risk on both ends, and it will be that less likely for somebody to encounter this material by accident or deception from the other side.

From: RockAndRoll Michigan
If you have a problem with something people are engaged in, or it's not legal where you live, LEAVE. That is an actual vaild adult response to situations you may find offensive.
Not necessarily. With ageplay of a sexual nature where one of the parties is an actual minor -in your jurisdiction-, by the time you are aware of it near you, you are already a felon. No chance to leave.

That's why I want a bright line with NO teen SL merge, and age-verification that is backed by actual verifiable info. And which holds Japanese accounts to international norms.
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06-05-2009 08:15
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