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Why is the slutty look so popular

Oryx Tempel
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09-26-2007 15:36
From: Raymond Figtree
You need to hang out with me more often. I'm only around classy types.

*blush* Thanks Ray!

Only kidding.

Any way, to the OP, yes Brad and Angelina are American "ideals" but with television and movies showing lots of skin all over the world (with the notable exception of certain cultures) it's easy to assume that "beautiful" = "skimpy clothes." It's not right, but it's probably true.
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Rhaorth Antonelli
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09-26-2007 15:36
I do not consider the clothes I sell as slutty, not high classy either
kinda like the girl next door stuff, and some a little nicer

have a look, sig has the addy
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Cristalle Karami
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09-26-2007 15:36
Because we get to have idealized bodies and love to show them off. Whereas we probably wouldn't do it in real life, even if we HAD the bodies, because those clothes are freaking uncomfortable! Think of all the double sided tape we would need to keep boobs inside skimpy clothing...

That said, I am all about tasteful, but just about everyone has something a little dirty for the rebel inside.
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09-26-2007 15:37
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Scissors? LMAO ... great!



Mistress Knows Best used to sell them, I don't know if they still do or not since they merged into Sensations. Not that I have ever shopped at either place. :)
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Tiana Whitfield
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09-26-2007 15:38
Who decides what's classy or slutty?

Surely its a personal taste? Myself.. I could not just agree with one person what is slutty or classy... it has to be individual taste.
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09-26-2007 15:39
From: Chris Norse
Mistress Knows Best used to sell them, I don't know if they still do or not since they merged into Sensations. Not that I have ever shopped at either place. :)


I already posted the SLX link to them. :p
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I am bumping you to an 8.5 on the Official Trout Measuring Instrument of Sluttiness. You are an enigma - on the one hand a sweet, gentle, intelligent woman who we would like to wrap up in our arms and protect, and on the other, a temptress to whom we would like to do all sorts of unmentionable things.

Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
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09-26-2007 15:39
From: Shep Planer
No offense but why is the cheap skanky look so popular with the boys who are playing girls in second life?


Fixed. :D
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09-26-2007 15:40
From: Oryx Tempel
*blush* Thanks Ray!
You were definitely one of the women I was thinking of...classy in every sense of the word.

Ava, Brenda, Ashe1, Nimue...most of the forum cartel women are classy dames. Which, of course, makes them truly sexy.
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09-26-2007 15:41
From: Bradley Bracken
Only cause I got the duffel bag in RL, Baby! lol


/me covers her eyes and shakes her head....

Oh the humanity! LOL

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09-26-2007 15:41
From: Isablan Neva
Fixed. :D


LMAO. That's priceless.
Shep Planer
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09-26-2007 15:41
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For the same reason you're a muscle-bound Ken doll.


Somebody already made that point. But like you they didnt say what that reason is.
I dont think having muscles and looking slutty are the same thing. Having a nice bod is different to dressing like Linda Lovelace.
Dont get me wrong, Im not saying theres anything wrong with dressing that way and many men act like big sluts in SL too with their erect dicks exposed which is irritating most of the time. Im just curious as to why women wanna dress as mens porn star fantasies.
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09-26-2007 15:41
From: Raymond Figtree
You were definitely one of the women I was thinking of...classy in every sense of the word.

Ava, Brenda, Ashe1, Nimue...most of the forum cartel women are classy dames. Which, of course, makes them truly sexy.


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Rooke Ayres
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09-26-2007 15:42
From: Raymond Figtree
Society had created the image of the "ideal" man and woman. Then man looks like Brad Pitt after a workout and the woman looks like Angelina Jolie. Given unlimited possibilities, people emulate that ideal.
I'm not sure, but I don't think the OP was referring to the beautiful people like Bradjolina.

I think the OP was referring to the Hoochy Mama Floozies: too much of everything except clothing, and that's missing in most of the strategic spots.

One of the problems causing that, seems to be the clothing, accessories and skin designers. Go in *most* (but not all) women's stores on SL and most of what you see are Cheap Floozy skins, hair, shoes and clothing.

I don't make womens apparel or skins so I don't know why the designers make most of the clothing look that way.

Maybe someone that has a store that sells that stuff could shed some light on that.
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09-26-2007 15:43
From: Shep Planer
Somebody already made that point. But like you they didnt say what that reason is.
I dont think having muscles and looking slutty are the same thing. Having a nice bod is different to dressing like Linda Lovelace.
Dont get me wrong, Im not saying theres anything wrong with dressing that way and many men act like big sluts in SL too with their erect dicks exposed which is irritating most of the time. Im just curious as to why women wanna dress as mens porn star fantasies.


Because for what ever reason, they can't or won't in RL. It is the forbidden fruit.
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09-26-2007 15:44
Two words, Barbie and Ken.

Both unrealistic of course.

My av is quite modest, no stripper boobs, booty and 10 feet tall. I wear mostly jeans or normal outfits. But I think it's the company it attracts. When I first came here in 05, I was amazed at all the "strippers". Between the oversized booty, and oddly shaped waist compared to tatties, they all looked like bad boob jobs by an overzealous plastic surgeon!

Many girls come here and think they want a man. So they dress a certain way to ensure getting hit on. That's my majority opinion. There are exceptions, some chicks want to feel "virtually" sexy, but most of the girls that dress like that on a normal day, usually are looking for attention. (Which is absolutely fine, I just don't go about it that way, I get attention by my humor, not my pixel butt.)

A side theory, I think a lot of girls are guys in this game... have no idea on real proportions, but they'd rather stare at a fantasy than a dude's butt.

For guys, I have NO idea what's up with that. Maybe they think all chicks want to date Ahnold. :D Maybe they just don't care. The best guy avs I've ever seen are natural looking, not ready to scream out "We want to PUMP *clap* you up!"
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09-26-2007 15:44
From: Rooke Ayres
I'm not sure, but I don't think the OP was referring to the beautiful people like Bradjolina.

I think the OP was referring to the Hoochy Mama Floozies: too much of everything except clothing, and that's missing in most of the strategic spots.

One of the problems causing that, seems to be the clothing, accessories and skin designers. Go in *most* (but not all) women's stores on SL and most of what you see are Cheap Floozy skins, hair, shoes and clothing.

I don't make womens apparel or skins so I don't know why the designers make most of the clothing look that way.

Maybe someone that has a store that sells that stuff could shed some light on that.



There is a demand for it? Profit? Market forces determining where to put your production resources?
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09-26-2007 15:45
From: Shep Planer
Somebody already made that point. But like you they didnt say what that reason is.
I dont think having muscles and looking slutty are the same thing. Having a nice bod is different to dressing like Linda Lovelace.
Dont get me wrong, Im not saying theres anything wrong with dressing that way and many men act like big sluts in SL too with their erect dicks exposed which is irritating most of the time. Im just curious as to why women wanna dress as mens porn star fantasies.




In YOUR opinion..

Everyone on this thread has ranted and raved on who is classy, what is classy who is not, what is not...People have basked in the glory of NOT being considered slutty..e.t.c..

Its a personal thing... We are not all attracted to the same type in RL and thank goodness that works for pixels to!

So one mans Sluttiness is another's treasure....



Now where did I put my ripped stockings...
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09-26-2007 15:46
From: Chris Norse
Because for what ever reason, they can't or won't in RL. It is the forbidden fruit.


Youd think that more women would be more individual rather than dressing like mens sex slaves. But then for all we know they may not even be real women but men acting out there own desires or chicks with dicks lol
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09-26-2007 15:47
From: Shep Planer
No offense but why is the cheap skanky look so popular with the girls in second life?


Define cheap skanky?


@ Isablan : :D

@ anyone who wants to hear : there are just soooo many shops around that do absolutely gorgeous outfits that IMHO are classy and beautiful and, yes, sexy, without the 'skanky' look, someone should start a list ;)

@ Oryx : shameless plug ...... see above

@ Chris : clique clique clique ;)
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09-26-2007 15:50
From: Rooke Ayres
I'm not sure, but I don't think the OP was referring to the beautiful people like Bradjolina.

I think the OP was referring to the Hoochy Mama Floozies: too much of everything except clothing, and that's missing in most of the strategic spots.

One of the problems causing that, seems to be the clothing, accessories and skin designers. Go in *most* (but not all) women's stores on SL and most of what you see are Cheap Floozy skins, hair, shoes and clothing.

I don't make womens apparel or skins so I don't know why the designers make most of the clothing look that way.

Maybe someone that has a store that sells that stuff could shed some light on that.

I was actually surprised at how many ladies come to my shop and say "thank goodness you have modest clothing!" I don't have any problem finding cute, fully covering stuff. I DO have some slutty stuff, but I wear it every now and then just to do something different, not ALL the time.
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09-26-2007 15:54
From: Raymond Figtree
You were definitely one of the women I was thinking of...classy in every sense of the word.

Ava, Brenda, Ashe1, Nimue...most of the forum cartel women are classy dames. Which, of course, makes them truly sexy.


That's a fact. Hang out at the hangout and you will see people who have done beautiful work on their shapes and who dress their avatars attractively without being slutty at all. Except me. I dress like I just rolled out of bed with a hangover. Probably because I actually did just roll out of bed with a hangover. I also haven't noticed any giant musclebound guys. Ray, Mal, Sobriquet, me - all pretty normal proportions, but still idealized a little. I don't know about Bradley, but my avatar looks WAY better than I do in RL. He's thinner and has the hair that I've always wanted but which would get me fired almost instantly.

A lot of it depends on where you hang out. Dance clubs, anyplace with sexual content, etc., of course you see a lot of that, but in other types of places, it's not as common. That's a generalization, of course. You are always going to get someone showing up in a leather thong and pasties, or some idiot with his primness hanging out, even if you're in a church.

The bottom line is that there is a place for everything. Except gambling. (kidding) Some people, especially the new ones go a little "Girls Gone Wild" when they get the freedom we have in SL, but most eventually tone it down. If they don't, who cares? They don't hurt anything, and if it makes them happy, then good on them.
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09-26-2007 15:55
From: Shep Planer
No offense but why is the cheap skanky look so popular with the girls in second life?

Same reason it`s popular in RL. SL allows any not-so-attractive person in RL, to be attractive here. They can have the body, they`re going to flaunt it.

I big reason why some girls in RL *don`t* dress provokingly is because their body type/skin does not allow for it.

Personally I admire girls who *could* dress like that in RL, but choose not to. I don`t have a need in seeing someones body so exposed unless it`s my wife.
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09-26-2007 16:00
From: Jesseaitui Petion
Same reason it`s popular in RL. SL allows any not-so-attractive person in RL, to be attractive here. They can have the body, they`re going to flaunt it.

I big reason why some girls in RL *don`t* dress provokingly is because their body type/skin does not allow for it.



For me Slutty does not equal attractive. I think its sad that women feel they need to wear nothing but a bit of cloth barely covering their vaginas and breasts to attract men. Isnt it allowing men to control them?
I think the word you were looking for is "provocatively".
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09-26-2007 16:01
From: Rooke Ayres
I'm not sure, but I don't think the OP was referring to the beautiful people like Bradjolina.

I think the OP was referring to the Hoochy Mama Floozies: too much of everything except clothing, and that's missing in most of the strategic spots.

One of the problems causing that, seems to be the clothing, accessories and skin designers. Go in *most* (but not all) women's stores on SL and most of what you see are Cheap Floozy skins, hair, shoes and clothing.

I don't make womens apparel or skins so I don't know why the designers make most of the clothing look that way.

Maybe someone that has a store that sells that stuff could shed some light on that.
Hoochy Mama Floozies is one of the most underrated Russ Meyer films.
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09-26-2007 16:03
From: Shep Planer
For me Slutty does not equal attractive. I think its sad that women feel they need to wear nothing but a bit of cloth barely covering their vaginas and breasts to attract men.

Lots of men are shallow pigs, sadly, that *is* how females have to attract them.

Of course, this isn`t true for everyone. But when a man is on a sex hunt, which seems to be quite often, that`s how she will lure him in.

I never understood why females give into that so easily. The response is always "to feel wanted." But how can you feel wanted when the person is only using you, taking pieces of you - It doesn`t add up.



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Isnt it allowing men to control them?


Yeah, I would say that its putting themselves under men`s feet.
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