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Cristiano Midnight
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01-14-2006 20:15
From: Cocoanut Koala


then WHY DIDN'T YOU SAY SO. Then I could have pondered that and discussed.

It is absolutely not necessary for you to sequester your actual thoughts about the topic and state instead that "Nowhere in the announcement does it say anything about resident moderators being able to give warnings" not to mention saying "yet you have some how parlayed this into the ability to get people banned on a whim"

when you knew all along where I was getting it from, and just had another view and explanation of it. And I never said anything about "on a whim" so you just threw that in there to be even more provocative.


I had no idea where you were getting it from, so don't tell me what I did or did not know. I saw you making repeated statements, and did not know what you were basing that on, so I asked. You are the one who flipped out.

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You could have said how you interpreted this, and then discussed it with me, OR you could put it all in the worst way possible and suggest that I am deliberately manipulating things and devious or I'm stupid, one way or another.

So don't tell me not to get hostile when you don't even SAY your own ideas but instead just attack me for my interpretation of it.


Note that once you finally did say where you were getting that idea from, I gave you my thoughts on it. You continue with the devious, stupid, manipulative thing - that is your own bizarre take on things. No where did I say any of those words, or even imply them, so once again, attribute your own hangups to someone else. I don't know what your problem is honestly. I will tell you not to get hostile when it is absolutely unnecessary. You did the same thing to Aimee the other day - if you want to flip out, knock yourself out - but I will push right back against you acting that way.

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Next time, try discussing the actual ideas that I am trying to discuss instead of just suggesting that I am "parlaying" things out of nowhere when it is right there for any reasoning person to see and question.


I did discuss the idea you were putting forth, which was that this would lead to residents being able to suspend other residents and get them banned - AN IDEA YOU PUT FORTH REPEATEDLY. There was nothing at all about residents being able to give out TOS warnings anywhere in what was said - like it or not, you added that part, which is just putting out FUD about the resident moderator program.

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And now you decide throw in "conspiracy theories". Oh yeah? As if this set-up isn't totally rife with potential problems and everybody knows it? Oh, not only am I "parlaying" things, I'm also now imagining conspiracies. Very good, Cristiano.


Considering that the thing has not even been implemented it yet and you've damned it to a bunch of people just getting people banned that they don't want in SL, hell yes I would say you are full of conspiracy theories that have no basis in truth.

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I talked about this earlier tonight at Simball with some friends who are mods, and they don't like the sound of it either, and consider the consequences very harsh for violating board rules here in the first place, not to mention how problematic it becomes when you give players that power.


They are not giving players the power to grant people warnings. I am glad that you can talk to your friends from TSO, but that has zero bearing on SL or how LInden Lab operates - it is irrelevant.

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But - let's just not actually discuss that, Cristiano. Instead let's talk about people "parlaying" things and having "conspiracy theories." I guess I'll just have to have my discussions about how boards work - like I have ALWAYS had them for the past several years - with my friends who run the boards at TSO and SWG.

Somehow they see these potential problems as I do, and so I guess we are ALL just parlaying stuff and investing in conspiracy theories to even talk about it, so just everybody, remember Cristiano is right: It's all in my head.


There you go dropping credentials again. I don't care if your friends are the freaking CEO of Maxis or Sony Online Entertainment, none of that has any bearing on how Linden Lab is going to run their resident forum moderation. I imagine if you are presenting it to them as "Linden lab is going to let other players suspend/ban players from SL", then yeah they would see it as a problem - big shock.

If Linden Lab clearly states "we are going to allow forum moderators to give formal warnings", then you have something to freak out about and I would agree with it. Until then, you are damning a program that has not even been implemented yet with criticism that is not even valid. I don't have to be right for you to clearly be wrong.
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01-14-2006 20:28
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Aimee Weber
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01-14-2006 21:17
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01-14-2006 23:05
Cris, I wouldn't bother arguing the point. It's just going to go round and round, with the same unprovable, monster-in-the-closet, assumptive "watchdog" crapola.

This whole <new> theory of hers is based upon an assumption. An assumption made several months back (and reiterated dozens of times since). The assumption that it was ARs that got prokofy banned, and not his uwavering insistence upon repeatedly doing what LL was asking him not to do, with correspondance, WARNINGS and SUSPENSIONS. Of course, those types of folks who are used to getting their way in all aspects of their lives will immediately reject any personal culpability and will scream that the SUPENSIONS AND WARNINGS were the result of many, many ARs, which were of course INTENDED to get rid of Prokofy.

This is just another new, BIG theory, based on another, older BIG theory. Nevermind that one would have to have inside info from LL to PROVE (OMG! FIC?) these ridiculous claims.

It's a BIG, STUPID, IMMATURE theory and is highly insulting to Linden Lab, but that never stopped the professional whiners before.

I've said it before - I simply refuse to believe that these people REALLY believe that LL is corrupt and so easily swayed by forum user opinions (in this case a SUPPOSED plethora of ARs), or they'd take their ball and go home.

I guess it's all about gaining notoriety, whatever the cost. :rolleyes:
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01-14-2006 23:05
From: Cristiano Midnight
I had no idea where you were getting it from, so don't tell me what I did or did not know. I saw you making repeated statements, and did not know what you were basing that on, so I asked. You are the one who flipped out.

Note that once you finally did say where you were getting that idea from, I gave you my thoughts on it. You continue with the devious, stupid, manipulative thing - that is your own bizarre take on things. No where did I say any of those words, or even imply them, so once again, attribute your own hangups to someone else. I don't know what your problem is honestly. I will tell you not to get hostile when it is absolutely unnecessary. You did the same thing to Aimee the other day - if you want to flip out, knock yourself out - but I will push right back against you acting that way.

I did discuss the idea you were putting forth, which was that this would lead to residents being able to suspend other residents and get them banned - AN IDEA YOU PUT FORTH REPEATEDLY. There was nothing at all about residents being able to give out TOS warnings anywhere in what was said - like it or not, you added that part, which is just putting out FUD about the resident moderator program.

Considering that the thing has not even been implemented it yet and you've damned it to a bunch of people just getting people banned that they don't want in SL, hell yes I would say you are full of conspiracy theories that have no basis in truth.

They are not giving players the power to grant people warnings. I am glad that you can talk to your friends from TSO, but that has zero bearing on SL or how LInden Lab operates - it is irrelevant.

There you go dropping credentials again. I don't care if your friends are the freaking CEO of Maxis or Sony Online Entertainment, none of that has any bearing on how Linden Lab is going to run their resident forum moderation. I imagine if you are presenting it to them as "Linden lab is going to let other players suspend/ban players from SL", then yeah they would see it as a problem - big shock.

If Linden Lab clearly states "we are going to allow forum moderators to give formal warnings", then you have something to freak out about and I would agree with it. Until then, you are damning a program that has not even been implemented yet with criticism that is not even valid. I don't have to be right for you to clearly be wrong.

- At least for the near term, posts reported by the “Report this Post” button will still go to Linden Lab staff for review

That is the sentence. Now in your opinion, I have no reason to "freak out" about this or even mention the potential problems until if and when they say, "We are going to allow forum moderators to give formal warnings."

Well, what on earth do you think the sentence above implies? How can anyone miss it?

You threw the first punch, just like the time you gave my personality one star. Did I ever give your personality a one star? No one even ASKED you to do that. And now we have "somehow manage to parley," "conspiracy theorist," "bizarre," "have some kind of a problem" and all that stuff you have added, and you wonder why I get upset.

"Note that once you finally did say where you were getting that idea from, I gave you my thoughts on it."

Then you completely missed my entire first post, where I bolded those parts of the announcement. I already addressed that, made it quite clear where I was getting it from, and would have welcomed your belated thoughts on why you thought I was wrong. I didn't welcome being told I was imagining the whole thing.

Yes, talking with the others does have a bearing - if I discuss forum problems with friends who are mods on forums for years, then yes, that does have a bearing. This forums isn't so unusual that one can't discuss the problems with prior experience informing the discussion. Anyway, my point is, I can discuss things like this with those people - but with you, it's I have to be "bizarre" or something.

If you call me comedy gold, like Aimee did, damn straight I'm going to holler about it. Guess what: That isn't something I did to her. She called ME that. The same thing here: You are the one calling names and casting aspersions; I'm the one saying STOP. You are also the one who found it necessary to tell everyone on the forums that you gave my personality "one star." I should have hollered more about that then, instead of just being spectacularly hurt.

"Push back" indeed. You should think about what you are saying in the first place! It's MY pushing back that you don't like.

I haven't "damned it to a bunch of people." I've stated my OPINION. I've pointed out the dangers I see. You apparently don't think I should be allowed to.

Conspiracy theories, my ass.

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01-14-2006 23:09
From: Cocoanut Koala
- At least for the near term, posts reported by the “Report this Post” button will still go to Linden Lab staff for review

That is the sentence. Now in your opinion, I have no reason to "freak out" about this or even mention the potential problems until if and when they say, "We are going to allow forum moderators to give formal warnings."

Well, what on earth do you think the sentence above implies? How can anyone miss it?

You threw the first punch, just like the time you gave my personality one star. Did I ever give your personality a one star? No one even ASKED you to do that. And now we have "somehow manage to parley," "conspiracy theorist," "bizarre," "have some kind of a problem" and all that stuff you have added, and you wonder why I get upset.

"Note that once you finally did say where you were getting that idea from, I gave you my thoughts on it."

Then you completely missed my entire first post, where I bolded those parts of the announcement. I already addressed that, made it quite clear where I was getting it from, and would have welcomed your belated thoughts on why you thought I was wrong. I didn't welcome being told I was imagining the whole thing.

Yes, talking with the others does have a bearing - if I discuss forum problems with friends who are mods on forums for years, then yes, that does have a bearing. This forums isn't so unusual that one can't discuss the problems with prior experience informing the discussion. Anyway, my point is, I can discuss things like this with those people - but with you, it's I have to be "bizarre" or something.

If you call me comedy gold, like Aimee did, damn straight I'm going to holler about it. Guess what: That isn't something I did to her. She called ME that. The same thing here: You are the one calling names and casting aspersions; I'm the one saying STOP. You are also the one who found it necessary to tell everyone on the forums that you gave my personality "one star." I should have hollered more about that then, instead of just being spectacularly hurt.

"Push back" indeed. You should think about what you are saying in the first place! It's MY pushing back that you don't like.

I haven't "damned it to a bunch of people." I've stated my OPINION. I've pointed out the dangers I see. You apparently don't think I should be allowed to.

Conspiracy theories, my ass.

coco

Not quite Comedy Gold, sorry, but I am a little less generous than Aimee.

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01-14-2006 23:11
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Cristiano Midnight
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01-14-2006 23:22
From: Cocoanut Koala


You threw the first punch, just like the time you gave my personality one star. Did I ever give your personality a one star? No one even ASKED you to do that.



I am not going to respond to the rest of your post, since we are going in a circle. I'm just going to respond to this point here. You wonder why people say you never let anything go? Voila.
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01-14-2006 23:23
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01-15-2006 03:19
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01-15-2006 04:05
It's not right to push ppl beyond what is considered in good taste. Untill that stops these forums don't stand a chance. It won't matter who is moderating them unless the rules are clearly defined.
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01-15-2006 04:06
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It's not right to push ppl beyond what is considered in good taste.


So why are the Bush signs still around?

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01-15-2006 06:35
Statement 1:
- At least for the near term, posts reported by the “Report this Post” button will still go to Linden Lab staff for review

Statement 2:
- Posts reported by the “Report this Post” button will still go to Linden Lab staff for review

Statement 1 does not equal statement 2. I would guess that the Community Team discussed what the forum moderators could and could not do. "At least for the near term" does suggest to me that this point was discussed, that it will not be undertaken at this time, and that it is a future possibility. Without the benefit of the meeting transcript this is pure speculation on my part, of course.

I further speculate that had someone other than Coco made the point it would not have received this reaction.
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01-15-2006 08:26
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I further speculate that had someone other than Coco made the point it would not have received this reaction.


Isn't this kind of a pointless remark? Along the lines of "If Gramma Dawson had said this, no one would have given her any trouble, but since it was Al Franken/Rush Limbaugh/Bill O'Reilly/<Insert Abrasive Personality Here>, he gets all sorts of grief!"

I dunno, I think we all are perceived according to the amount of credible discussion we bank. And when we're continually banking alarmist, hysterical rhetoric instead of realistic discussion on everyday matters, we end up causing a very itchy, must-be-scratched rash on the perceptions of others.
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Aimee Weber
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01-15-2006 08:35
From: Cocoanut Koala
If you call me comedy gold, like Aimee did, damn straight I'm going to holler about it. Guess what: That isn't something I did to her. She called ME that. The same thing here: You are the one calling names and casting aspersions; I'm the one saying STOP. You are also the one who found it necessary to tell everyone on the forums that you gave my personality "one star." I should have hollered more about that then, instead of just being spectacularly hurt.


Well to be more accurate, the "comedy gold" comment was in response to YOUR comments" :

"Here you are, ferrying stuff over again." (which you yourself described as a "Joke-dig";)

and

"I'm joking. Do I need to spell out my point for you?"

So you fire off a "joke-dig", then hit me with a condescending offer to "spell it out for me." When I finally acknowledge your "joke" claim by calling it "Comedy Gold" you paint it as an unprovoked attack. The twisting of your tale is dizzying, and you left out the part where you claimed I was acting "Superior."

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Posts like yours can do an effective job obfuscating the true origins of a forum brawl from an overworked Jeska who quickly scans the posts. Fortunately, with user moderators in place, there will be MANY more eyes invesitgating these posts. They will be reading every one of them and they will be intimately familiar with who-started-what.

That fact is going to be a nightmare from some, and a merciful relief for others.
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01-15-2006 08:39
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Margaret Mfume
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01-15-2006 09:06
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Isn't this kind of a pointless remark? Along the lines of "If Gramma Dawson had said this, no one would have given her any trouble, but since it was Al Franken/Rush Limbaugh/Bill O'Reilly/<Insert Abrasive Personality Here>, he gets all sorts of grief!"

I dunno, I think we all are perceived according to the amount of credible discussion we bank. And when we're continually banking alarmist, hysterical rhetoric instead of realistic discussion on everyday matters, we end up causing a very itchy, must-be-scratched rash on the perceptions of others.

Kind of like poison ivy? Reaction varies from one individual to another. To those who are sensitive, it is unbelievably hard not to scratch. I know from experience and that is why I take a wide berth when I see it. Being aware of my own sensitivity to it, making contact with it is unfathomable.
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01-15-2006 09:23
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Kind of like poison ivy? Reaction varies from one individual to another. To those who are sensitive, it is unbelievably hard not to scratch. I know from experience and that is why I take a wide berth when I see it. Being aware of my own sensitivity to it, making contact with it is unfathomable.


That captures it very well, I think. Not all of us share your self control, however. :)
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01-15-2006 09:28
From: Margaret Mfume

I further speculate that had someone other than Coco made the point it would not have received this reaction.


What reaction are you talking about, exactly? Could you quote some of those reactions?

Cocoa posted several times about residents having the ability to ban other residents from the game. No one even commented on her remarks until Cristiano asked her where she was getting that from, and she took that as an attack and flipped out.

So, you think if someone else had posted multiple times that residents were going to have the power to remove other residents from the game, no one would have asked them where they got that information?

I think it's a pretty reasonable question to ask someone, and this is just another opportunity to waggle the finger and tsk-tsk someone for daring to question someone viewed as the underdog.
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01-15-2006 09:49
From: Jonquille Noir
this is just another opportunity to waggle the finger and tsk-tsk someone for daring to question someone viewed as the underdog.



I think you've summed it up nicely. I admire her consistency, though i wonder if even she is getting tired of the routine.
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01-15-2006 10:00
From: Margaret Mfume

I further speculate that had someone other than Coco made the point it would not have received this reaction.


You are wrong to speculate that. She was the only person who was repeatedly making statements about moderators being able to get people suspended/banned, so I asked how she took a statement that said nothing about that anywhere, and made it into something else. It was about the idea, not about Cocoanut, though her overreaction was vintage her - I can't change that.
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01-15-2006 10:05
From: Enabran Templar
Isn't this kind of a pointless remark? Along the lines of "If Gramma Dawson had said this, no one would have given her any trouble, but since it was Al Franken/Rush Limbaugh/Bill O'Reilly/<Insert Abrasive Personality Here>, he gets all sorts of grief!"

I dunno, I think we all are perceived according to the amount of credible discussion we bank. And when we're continually banking alarmist, hysterical rhetoric instead of realistic discussion on everyday matters, we end up causing a very itchy, must-be-scratched rash on the perceptions of others.

You know what, when I bring up OTHER stuff that sounds wrong and I want to discuss, and I give my opinion on what it means - which I do ALL THE TIME - and it is something to do with something techical, like key numbers, or ban lines, or anything at all technical, or maybe just doesn't matter much to people - which I do all the time, and I give my opinions on that, then nobody and I mean NOBODY jumps down my throat. Everyone considers what I have said and what others have said and pretty much the thing gets figured out.

And all the time you have heard me say, "correct me if I'm wrong," and if someone does correct me, and I see what it is I'm missing, if anything, then I say, "oh, ok," or, "I think I see now," and you KNOW you have heard me say that all the time. You KNOW that. Or people say, "oh yes, that could happen," and in any case, nobody gets their knickers in a twist.

But if I do the exact same thing on some topic on which someone is sensitive about, or maybe feels guilty about, or perhaps really really doesn't want to hear any criticism of, or I hit some sort of sensitive nerve of theirs, or any number of other things, all of a sudden it can't be discussed, it shouldn't be discussed, and it has to be something wrong with me for even bringing it up.

I've noticed that. Now you tell me: Have you noticed that? If this had been a purely technical thing that was under discussion, I would not be getting this grief, whether or not others thought I was wrong.

But since I've logically pointed out the ramifications of something you DON'T want pointed out, it becomes "alarmist, hysterical rhetoric" instead of "realistic discussion."

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That fact is going to be a nightmare from some, and a merciful relief for others.

If it stops people from constantly going on the personal attack when they don't like what the other person has said, then yes, it would be a relief. But I'm not holding my breath.

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01-15-2006 10:11
What grief? Cristiano asked you a question, and you pulled a Witch Hazel with your bobby-pins flying everywhere. You were the one who flipped out and cried attack, no one else.
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What reaction are you talking about, exactly? Could you quote some of those reactions?

Cocoa posted several times about residents having the ability to ban other residents from the game. No one even commented on her remarks until Cristiano asked her where she was getting that from, and she took that as an attack and flipped out.

So, you think if someone else had posted multiple times that residents were going to have the power to remove other residents from the game, no one would have asked them where they got that information?

I think it's a pretty reasonable question to ask someone, and this is just another opportunity to waggle the finger and tsk-tsk someone for daring to question someone viewed as the underdog.

I put it in bold where I was getting it from. Can Cristiano not read? Can YOU not read, Jonquille? Did you skip that post, too? You don't see it either? Or has somebody deleted that whole post and I didn't notice? Or are we living in parallel universes or the Twilight Zone or something?

And Cristiano didn't just say, "where did you get that from?" He accused me of "somehow parlaying" that information out of thin air, as if I were being manipulative and paranoid.

How could anyone ask where I got that information, when it is right there in that sentence? Now that Cristiano has given a different interpretation - after first suggesting that I have made it up because I am bizarre - I can see his different interpretation. Which interpretation is more likely, however, we haven't even discussed, and will never get around to discussing now, obviously. But we could have, had it been my mod friends and me having the same conversation, because they aren't always busy making personal aspersions.

When someone like another poster I never heard of devotes a few paragraphs to how horrible she thinks I am, which happened the other day (something that would not be allowed on reasonable message boards), I'm not bothered much, since I don't know her from Adam. But Cristiano, I DO know. And it is very upsetting to hear from him like I have been in the past month or so. Kind of like happened with another person in this thread. Rest assured, though, I will stop expecting anything different and I will get used to it, and pretty soon I won't care what he says about me, either. Exactly like what happened with another person in this thread.

In fact - rejoice. I think I'm already there.

coco

P.S. "Vintage" me, Cristiano, is thinking we were ever friends. That bit about the one-star should have clued me in, but I was still astonished and thinking maybe you were just having an off-day or something. However this marks the end of me giving you any benefit of the doubt. You will be wresting no more emotion out of me, ever.
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