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Vryl Valkyrie
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06-30-2009 11:49
From: Caitlyn Clawtooth
So why were we welcome at EVERY second life birthday celebration but the only time there was a problem was after some people outside of SL decided to make a stink about child avatars?

You seem to be making the falacy that LL is a single entity. It is not, there are a wide range of individuals in it, each making their own decisions with their own biases. Yes, those decisions may or may not correspond with the official position of LL, but they stand until countermanded.

Also contrary to what many people seem to believe: the lindens are NOT deities.


My probelm is not with child avs but depictions of children in an adult zoned area. It simply does not belong, regardless if one is age verified or not.

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I never said that. This is a misquote, but you know that. :-)
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06-30-2009 11:58
From: Vryl Valkyrie
My probelm is not with child avs but depictions of children in an adult zoned area.
So... depictions of children is sexual situations is OK so long as it's not an adult rated sim?
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06-30-2009 12:04
From: Vryl Valkyrie
Zindra will be the only place for adults who wish to RP as adults. The last thing they want to see are adults who want to RP as children. Sure there will be non adult content in Zindra but the point is that it is still rated adult.

The same goes for Mature. I still think that children belong in PG even if they are adults. Of course that is not happening so no need to beat a dead horse.

I've nothing against child avies. We each have a child within us. We all like Harry Potter or Disney, etc.. and it's fun to act silly and goof off. Please there is no room for that in Adult zoned areas, in my personal opinion. I wish they would understand it and not wish to have it all whereas the adult content only has one section of the grid. It's all about mutual respect and tolerance. It seems to me the adult community is being discriminated against.


Ok... you didn't say this? It's fun to act silly and goof off, but in your opinion there is no room for it in Zindra. What am I missing?
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06-30-2009 13:18
From: Lias Leandros
These 'yellow journalists' did not tell Linden Lab to ban the child avatar from SL5B. That was a corporate decision. Now you can ask yourself what influenced that decision. Then you have some insight into what actions child avatars are engaging in - or people assume they are engaging in - to make them unwelcome in a annual event that represents Second Life. Or not.
From the communications I had and got word of with Linden Lab, it was NOT a corporate decision. It was the result of a select few higher-ups in the organizing committee that the majority of people disagreed with. Most of the time, the community would be referred to these select few people because nobody else understood the how and why such a decision was made.... INCLUDING Linden Lab staff. (=_=)

Unless you were directly involved with the arrangements to restrict and later allow the presentations, you basically know NOTHING at all. You do not speak for the lab. You don't not know the scope and scale of the decisions they make. All you have is uneducated assumptions, even up to this point. (=_=)

Most kid avatars know they can't get involved in sex depictions. And, won't, accordingly. If/when you see a kid avatar within the boundaries of a sexually themed parcel, be rest assured that the kid is driven by either someone who hasn't read the guidelines yet or is simply an idiot. But... If the kid is outside the boundaries of the parcel and not in visual proximity of sex depictions or paraphernalia, then it's no harm, no foul... PG/Mature/Adult or otherwise. This is how it worked on (Mature) land all this time... It's how it will work on (Adult) land now. It's already documented in the KB. (^_^)
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06-30-2009 13:19
From what I can see. If there are any (sexual)ageplayers left... They will be in closed groups. They will be on private, group-access-only sims. And, they will probably, if not surely, NEVER venture out to mainland at the risk of being discovered for what they do. If they do, I'm sure they have an adult or at least an unknown and disposable alt to take care of that role. (=_=)

So, really, you're barkin up the wrong tree. You're not preventing real harm from occurring to real children. You're not doing anything to prevent (sexual)ageplay. And, you're ignoring a corporate decision made by Linden Lab to satisfy your own, individual, rationalization of what "Adult" means. (=_=)
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Lias Leandros
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07-01-2009 02:02
From: Imnotgoing Sideways
From what I can see. If there are any (sexual)ageplayers left...
Imnot, please. As long as child avatars are allowed in Second Life there will be sexual ageplayers anywhere child avatars are.
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So, really, you're barkin up the wrong tree. You're not preventing real harm from occurring to real children. You're not doing anything to prevent (sexual)ageplay. And, you're ignoring a corporate decision made by Linden Lab to satisfy your own, individual, rationalization of what "Adult" means. (=_=)
Imnot, you ignored a decision by Linden Lab when LL banned child avatars from SL5B. Hypocritical statement.
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07-01-2009 02:11
From: Lias Leandros
Imnot, please. As long as child avatars are allowed in Second Life there will be sexual ageplayers anywhere child avatars are.
Imnot, you ignored a decision by Linden Lab when LL banned child avatars from SL5B. Hypocritical statement.


you and your friends can gather together and do the same thing that happened with SL5B. pull out of and boycott Zindra. or make a real statement: leave SL.
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07-01-2009 03:09
From: Lias Leandros
Imnot, please. As long as child avatars are allowed in Second Life there will be sexual ageplayers anywhere child avatars are.


People who would engage in such would not be part of the kid's community. If anyone did, they would probably go behind closed doors and change AVs. So you would only be hurting the people that DO play kid avatars openly without engaging in sexual ageplay while allowing sexual ageplay to continue.

So why do you want sexual ageplay to continue so much?



From: Lias Leandros
Imnot, you ignored a decision by Linden Lab when LL banned child avatars from SL5B. Hypocritical statement.


How is forming another celebration (KIDS5B) at the same time as SL5B ignoring a LL decision? It is not like we did it in secret from LL. It was widely publicised, we bought sims from LL and moved them, had lindens there while we were constructing/running it from time to time. Absolutely nothing in their ruling forbade our having our own celebration so how was that ignoring what they said?
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07-01-2009 03:17
From: Caitlyn Clawtooth
People who would engage in such would not be part of the kid's community.
Yes they would.
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How is forming another celebration (KIDS5B) at the same time as SL5B ignoring a LL decision? It is not like we did it in secret from LL. It was widely publicised, we bought sims from LL and moved them, had lindens there while we were constructing/running it from time to time. Absolutely nothing in their ruling forbade our having our own celebration so how was that ignoring what they said?
The protesting people in Child avatars did to protest the decision of LL to ban the child avatar type from SL5B. That is ignoring LL's decision and rallying to overturn it. And groups do that all time when they hear something they do not want to hear from the powers-that-be.
Many of us do not think it is a wise decision to allow these child avatar people to access Adult Zindra for any reason. Child Avatar people have proven since 2007 that they are more trouble than they are worth. The only memorable events in SL surrounding child avatars are all negative and negatively impacted everyone in SL.
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07-01-2009 03:26
Lias you are letting your mask drop more and more...

Thankfully, the very few with a narrow mind like you don't rule SL (and not RL either). Of course, you will never realize that you are in such a very small minority, because even for that your mind isn't open enough. If it was, you would learn something from all the wind blowing in your face right here.
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07-01-2009 03:29
From: Lias Leandros

Many of us do not think it is etc. etc.


AGAIN with the "many of us", and yet this thread sat quietly, silently, for 13 hours whilst you actually kept quiet for once, working it's way to the nether pages where it belongs. it's become obvious that it's the only thing you've got going for you, and you'll hang on to it verociously to keep the attention you seem to need so badly. it doesn't appear that you've ever cast yourself in anything but a bad light.

From: Lias Leandros

The only memorable events in SL surrounding child avatars are all negative


if you really believe that then you need to get out and about in SL more.

From: Lias Leandros

and negatively impacted everyone in SL.


i must be the only one in over 50k NOT negatively impacted'

AMAZING...


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07-01-2009 03:34
From: Daniel Regenbogen
Lias you are letting your mask drop more and more...
Its documented incidents Daniel. You just want to ignore what I am saying and act like your feelings are hurt to garner sympathy (once again) from the community.
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Thankfully, the very few with a narrow mind like you don't rule SL (and not RL either).
Don't count on it.
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Of course, you will never realize that you are in such a very small minority, because even for that your mind isn't open enough. If it was, you would learn something from all the wind blowing in your face right here.
The small Minority includes the service provider who had enough of Child Avatars and banned them from SL5B. Please do not think that child avatars are a dead issue with those in Linden Lab that wanted that ban. Just keep going in the direction you all are going in and no one will need to insist upon your ban - you all are effectively making it a given.
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07-01-2009 03:47
From: Lias Leandros
Its documented incidents Daniel. You just want to ignore what I am saying and act like your feelings are hurt to garner sympathy (once again) from the community.


My feelings are not hurt - someone like you would never be able to accomplish this. Actually, I feel sorry for you. You must live a very sad life. The people here speaking out against you don't do that because they feel sorry for the kid avatar community - there is not even a need for that. They speak out because they can't stand your imaginary facts and your making up of non existing scenarios and your claim of speaking for an imaginary group of people you call "we" and even LL themselfs. Your "documented incidents" only prove one thing: that even LL makes mistakes (as in the ban against the kid avatars displays at SL5B) and sometimes reverts them - and that you simply are not able to grasp important differences like between communities and individuals. Even though if *we* would do the same twisted thinking you do, we would demand all adult avatars to be banned from SL because L... L... promoted criminal acts and violations of the TOS "to get rid of the little bastards". Still waiting for a clarification about that from you, btw...

From: Lias Leandros
Don't count on it.
The small Minority includes the service provider who had enough of Child Avatars and banned them from SL5B. Please do not think that child avatars are a dead issue with those in Linden Lab that wanted that ban. Just keep going in the direction you all are going in and no one will need to insist upon your ban - you all are effectively making it a given.


You really suffer from an inability to see the reality. The reality is, that *all the time*, in *every single announcement* LL made it *totally* clear, that kid avatars are an accepted and welcome group of residents (as long as they play by the rules - but that is true for *all* residents). The one exception was the later reversed ban on kid avatars as exhibitors at SL5B - since then LL made it double clear that being a kid avatar in SL is totally okay. You don't want to accept that, so you dream up new hysteric scenarios all the time.
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07-01-2009 03:55
From: Daniel Regenbogen
Your "documented incidents" only prove one thing: that even LL makes mistakes (as in the ban against the kid avatars displays at SL5B) and sometimes reverts them -
I agree - LL makes mistakes and reverts them. That is why we discuss this mistake LL made by leaving a gap in the TOS for the child avatar community to exploit and create issues for the Adult Community.
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and that you simply are not able to grasp important differences like between communities and individuals.
Does this mean that a child avatar is a member of a community until they break the TOS and then they are individuals that have nothing to do with the child avatar community? How convenient.
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07-01-2009 04:00
Lias, again I ask since you ignored it before. Are you a second wave feminist? It would explain your argumentative style a LOT if so.
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07-01-2009 04:01
From: Lias Leandros
I agree - LL makes mistakes and reverts them. That is why we discuss this mistake LL made by leaving a gap in the TOS for the child avatar community to exploit and create issues for the Adult Community.


No mistake there. Just the continuing policy that was there all the time. LL saw your lobbying and still decided to stay on track with a very clear announcement.

From: Lias Leandros
Does this mean that a child avatar is a member of a community until they break the TOS and then they are individuals that have nothing to do with the child avatar community? How convenient.


It means that if one individual messes up, you don't blame the community for something they had no involvement with. Like ... nobody blames the adult avatar community for their member L... L... promoting criminal acts and TOS violations. Get the picture? No? Okay, some other examples...

Osama Bin Laden is a part of the muslim community - do we blame the muslim community for him becoming a murderer?

George W. Bush is a christian - do we blame the christian community for him becoming a criminal?

Do we blame the black community if a black man becomes a criminal? Or the white community if a white man becomes a criminal? Blame and punish all the women if a woman commits a crime?

Still don't get the picture? Ugh... You are more dense than I thought.
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07-01-2009 04:12
From: Caitlyn Clawtooth
Lias, again I ask since you ignored it before. Are you a second wave feminist? It would explain your argumentative style a LOT if so.
I have no idea what that political tag means.
I am just a person that has seen these child avatar people 'hide' behind the avatar and cause havoc on this platform for a few years not. LL saw the writing on the wall last year and began distancing themselves from these people. Now some child avatars and their ilk are posting in these forums that they can build and reside 32 meters away from Adult Content in Zindra. Several people have posted in this thread against child avatars entering Zindra - you all have thoroughly ignored them or laughed at everyone's concerns. To you all the past never happened and if ti did it is no reflection on you and the future painted by some will never happen and if it does its a elaborate trap.
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07-01-2009 04:19
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It means that if one individual messes up, you don't blame the community for something they had no involvement with.
Yes, that is convenient.
So when someone in a child avatar breaks the TOS then it has absolutely no reflection on the child avatar 'community'.
You may not want to to reflect badly on you all. But of course it does. And when you post in these forums and insist that only non-community member child avatar people break the TOS you come across as an apologist with blinders on.
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07-01-2009 04:24
From: Lias Leandros
Several people have posted in this thread against child avatars entering Zindra


Strange, I have only seen you post as being against it lately. Which probably means they did not feel so strongly about it that they would stick around.
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07-01-2009 04:29
From: Lias Leandros
So when someone in a child avatar breaks the TOS then it has absolutely no reflection on the child avatar 'community'.


Yes or no question:

When an individual in ANY community breaks the TOS should it have repercussions on the entire community they happened to be in? Bear in mind that the community involved publicly stated beforehand it did not support the action.

Yes or no.
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07-01-2009 04:39
From: Caitlyn Clawtooth
Strange, I have only seen you post as being against it lately. Which probably means they did not feel so strongly about it that they would stick around.
Stick around for what? To read the same insults and denials from more child avatar people? I hold out hope that one of you can admit the child avatar community has had a somewhat tumultuous last two years, that the SL5B child avatar ban was more than a knee-jerk reaction from a few Lindens and that the depiction of eight year old children alone next to, in the lobby of or hovering over adult content is not appropriate.
The 'your wrong, everyone hates you and your attacking us for no reason' response throughout this thread just shows a complete blanket denial of any culpability from the child avatar community. It is quite shocking to actual see ALL of you stick to the same lame story and show everyone how completely oblivious you are to other viewpoints.
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07-01-2009 04:41
From: Caitlyn Clawtooth
Yes or no question:

When an individual in ANY community breaks the TOS should it have repercussions on the entire community they happened to be in? Bear in mind that the community involved publicly stated beforehand it did not support the action.

Yes or no.
Of course the child avatar community needs to do some self evaluation, acknowledge the fears of some of the SL community concerning child avatars and adult content and then work with the community and Linden Lab to put a plan in place to keep everyone co-existing. As opposed to what the child avatar community have been posting in these Zindra threads since last week.
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07-01-2009 05:07
From: Lias Leandros
Of course the child avatar community needs to do some self evaluation, acknowledge the fears of some of the SL community concerning child avatars and adult content and then work with the community and Linden Lab to put a plan in place to keep everyone co-existing. As opposed to what the child avatar community have been posting in these Zindra threads since last week.


And of course you are that deeply involved in the kid avatar community that you know there was no reaction, no evaluation, no nothing after these incidents? Lias, Lias, Lias... you *really* have no idea what you are talking about.

The peaceful co-existence is not endangered by kid avatars - it is endangered by a small minority of wanna-be moralists and simple minded hysterics. By pepple like L... L... who promotes criminal acts and violations of the TOS. Any clarification from you, Lias? No? How surprising...
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07-01-2009 05:17
From: Lias Leandros
It is quite shocking to actual see ALL of you stick to the same lame story and show everyone how completely oblivious you are to other viewpoints.


You do realize that when all (your word) say something that does not agree with you most sane people may wonder if they themselves are the one with the wrong viewpoint.
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07-01-2009 05:26
From: Lias Leandros
Of course the child avatar community needs to do some self evaluation, acknowledge the fears of some of the SL community concerning child avatars and adult content and then work with the community and Linden Lab to put a plan in place to keep everyone co-existing.
You mean like they actually do?

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As opposed to what the child avatar community have been posting in these Zindra threads since last week.
Um, it's not just the child avatar community pointing out that your arguments have no basis in reality.
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