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Damien1 Thorne
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06-25-2008 14:04
Having read what was quoted from it earlier, I don't agree that it should be changed. If that's how she really feels, it serves as a proper warning to anyone thinking of approaching her. Much better to weed that type out in advance than have them spring it on you out of the blue... Good point |
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Elora Lunasea
Mrs. Llama
Join date: 28 Aug 2007
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06-25-2008 14:06
I haven't read your profile yet, but judging from what people are saying here, it may need an overhaul.
Other than that, each person I've been involved with, I met by chance not by specifically looking for a realationship or date. The first, was a strange thing. Met him in an open chat for a group we both belonged to that was putting out a call to come to the club that night. We both showed up in the same place, and just connected there and spent the night together as it turned out. But, it blossomed into an amazing friendship with benefits. We, are still very close friends and he is the person I've known longest in SL. The other, well, many of you know who that is. We met on this Forum, flirting like mad for quite a while. Finally met inworld weeks later and it turned into something wonderful for quite some time. He is with someone else now but we remained close friends. I met another one at a club. A DJ. Spent some time with him. It didn't progress but we had fun together for a while. Now, I've met someone else on the Forum. We'll see how this one goes. But again, I wasn't looking for him. Nor him I. Things just fall into place when you least expect it. And that is the way it should be. You can not force a friendship - no matter what it type it is. It either works or not. But being in places where you are around like minded people will certainly give you an advantage that much is certain. So will having a postive, pleasant profile and outlook  _____________________
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Sweetly Blessed
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Join date: 17 Sep 2007
Posts: 51
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Thanks 3Ring Binder!
06-25-2008 14:08
Thanks for posting the full picture 3 Ring!
She definitely has anger issues!! She seems to have put herself on a very high pedestal!! She has created her OWN WORLD, yet complains about it, continually! She seems to have no intentions of changing herself or her ways! She is only wasting her time, and the time of anyone who tries and has tried to offer her sound advice, and has heeded none of it, obviously! She is obviously so deep in her world of Loneliness and Anger that she doesn't see the forest for the trees, nor does she care to. And, in this "ignorance", she remains in this stated "aloneness", so she has no one to blame but herself. Why waste time answering or trying to help her on this thread? She shows she isn't interested in anyone's honest help nor our sincere observations or words of wisdom. Her so called "loneliness" is of her own doing and she doesn't care to hear what she needs to do to change things so, she remains "her own best friend" lol. Apparently, she is only vying for our attention and I, for one am not giving her mine! And, she seems to have a split personality where having sex is concerned lol lol! What man, in here or in RL would even get a mile from all this and be even remotely interested. And, what woman would, also? LOL LOL |
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Trout Recreant
Public Enemy No. 1
Join date: 24 Jul 2007
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06-25-2008 14:10
Having read what was quoted from it earlier, I don't agree that it should be changed. If that's how she really feels, it serves as a proper warning to anyone thinking of approaching her. Much better to weed that type out in advance than have them spring it on you out of the blue... Well, true. Assuming she is as bad as her profile makes her out to be, then it serves as a good warning for people who would rather avoid her. I can't see anyone in his right mind wanting to strike up a conversation with someone whose personality is reflected by that profile. But let's keep in mind that she may have had a really rough go of things and that what that profile really reflects is how badly she's been hurt. A lot of people seem to be coming into SL thinking it's like a dating service or an alternative to Facebook and MySpace. They get a bit of a rude awakening sometimes. Also, if she's in her 20's, she may not have the life experiences that a lot of us do and she may not have as thick a skin. Sometimes those lessons are painful. Let's assume the best about her and let her prove us right or wrong. What she needs is a profile that reflects her personality and the positive aspects she has. There have to be some good qualities she can talk about, and if not, maybe she can just explain what SL means to her in a neutral way. _____________________
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sable Valentine
AU United
Join date: 30 Apr 2006
Posts: 1,275
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06-25-2008 14:12
Having read what was quoted from it earlier, I don't agree that it should be changed. If that's how she really feels, it serves as a proper warning to anyone thinking of approaching her. Much better to weed that type out in advance than have them spring it on you out of the blue... Talon, you do have a point. But at the same time OP is asking how to meet guys especially guys that has been in sl for awhile. I agree if that is how she feels, then be real about it but at the same time why is she constantly asking why I can't meet anyone. Her statements in her profile can be reserved for when she is actually talking to someone for the first time or after she has seen them a few times. The profile is the gateway to any individual. That is why it's there. Everyone reads to them to get a snapshot of the person they may want to just say to. I am about to leave work and can't wait to get home to see what it says. Reyfer, I hope you are online when I get home it would be a pleasure to meet you. |
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3Ring Binder
always smile
Join date: 8 Mar 2007
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06-25-2008 14:20
Well, true. Assuming she is as bad as her profile makes her out to be, then it serves as a good warning for people who would rather avoid her. I can't see anyone in his right mind wanting to strike up a conversation with someone whose personality is reflected by that profile. But let's keep in mind that she may have had a really rough go of things and that what that profile really reflects is how badly she's been hurt. A lot of people seem to be coming into SL thinking it's like a dating service or an alternative to Facebook and MySpace. They get a bit of a rude awakening sometimes. Also, if she's in her 20's, she may not have the life experiences that a lot of us do and she may not have as thick a skin. Sometimes those lessons are painful. Let's assume the best about her and let her prove us right or wrong. What she needs is a profile that reflects her personality and the positive aspects she has. There have to be some good qualities she can talk about, and if not, maybe she can just explain what SL means to her in a neutral way. go read any random post she's made in the last one year. angry, hostile, mean and really biting. i don't think this is just about men. |
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Sweetly Blessed
Registered User
Join date: 17 Sep 2007
Posts: 51
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Once again 3 Ring, very well put!!
06-25-2008 14:55
From my experiences in RL and SL, she is only vying for attention, as you have made very clear by posting all her posts! You put her in a proper perspective. It's all a bunch of psycho babble. She reminds me of people who beg for money in game, ie: PATHETIC!
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Tristin Mikazuki
Sarah Palin ROCKS!
Join date: 9 Oct 2006
Posts: 1,012
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06-25-2008 15:05
Hi, im just wondering if there is any places in sl where i can meet men, i go to different places and all i see are peole who just joined sl, where are all the people that are not new to sl. I want to be where they all are. So if anyone knows where i can go to meet people not new, please tell me. uumm profiles are supposed to be PG yours isnt even close lol prolly why guys avoid you lol O and ya can be AR'ed for your profile so ya might want to change it before someone reads this then ars you  _____________________
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Trout Recreant
Public Enemy No. 1
Join date: 24 Jul 2007
Posts: 4,873
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06-25-2008 15:10
go read any random post she's made in the last one year. angry, hostile, mean and really biting. i don't think this is just about men. Well. I'm trying here. I can't argue with you though. _____________________
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Brenda Connolly
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Join date: 10 Jan 2007
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06-25-2008 15:14
Brenda's rude comment of the Day: The OP is a Farging Whackbag. I wouldn't waste any more time on her.
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Tristin Mikazuki
Sarah Palin ROCKS!
Join date: 9 Oct 2006
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06-25-2008 15:15
Brenda's rude comment of the Day: The OP is a Farging Whackbag. I wouldn't waste any more time on her. GAWD I want that name for an AV ROFLMAO! _____________________
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Czari Zenovka
I've Had it With "PC"!
Join date: 3 May 2007
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06-25-2008 16:20
Oy, thanks 3Ring. I remember that (paraphrased) "I want men to all look good so I can f**k them" thread.
 Ok, now I recall what we're dealing with. Starling, you joined the forums in July 2007.. almost a year ago. in August of 2007 you were already experienced with the sex animations, so you must have been using them. /142/bc/202724/2.html#post1622020/142/bc/202724/2.html#post1622020 in September of 2007, you went asked for places/ways to meet new people: /327/45/213693/1.html#post1698707/327/45/213693/1.html#post1698707 then you asked again in October 2007 /327/2f/218104/1.html#post1725568/327/2f/218104/1.html#post1725568 are you a child avatar looking for a partnership and love and sex? http://forums.secondlife.com/newreply.php?do=newreply&p=1767562 you worked in a club, so surely you met some people to partner with and have sex with and love there /327/ef/234318/1.html#post1828648/327/ef/234318/1.html#post1828648 you certainly must know your way around a poseball /327/ef/234318/4.html#post1829118/327/ef/234318/4.html#post1829118 in February of 2008, i guess you forgot how to find guys to hook up with /327/51/243575/1.html#post1887306/327/51/243575/1.html#post1887306 but then we see the advice we gave must have worked, but pretty soon you were having SL sex again, hopefully not as a child avatar /327/44/251194/2.html#post1936502/327/44/251194/2.html#post1936502 and now, here you are again asking for the same advice. /327/98/267067/1.html#post2048771/327/98/267067/1.html#post2048771 your inworld message to people is: and and then you show us your supposed RL picture and your picks include child clubs, sex clubs, and RP clubs. AND finally.... after reading every single on of yor posts here in these forums /invalid_link.html i see that most of them are hostile and bitter and really kurt and rude. so, my question to you is.... what do you really want? because if it's love, your approach needs some work. you are your own worst enemy. maybe you can't make and keep friends because you are troubled and angry and mean. a little self reflection and evaluation might be of some help. i put a lot of time into this reply, obvisouly. i hope you will rethink your attitude and help yourself. no one is going to do it for you. or stay lonely. that seems to work for you too. i think you must like it. _____________________
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Czari Zenovka
I've Had it With "PC"!
Join date: 3 May 2007
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06-25-2008 16:20
Don't yu just hate thaose guys? Always hitting on any skirt theat walks by ....  In a word - yes. _____________________
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Trout Recreant
Public Enemy No. 1
Join date: 24 Jul 2007
Posts: 4,873
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06-25-2008 16:22
GAWD I want that name for an AV ROFLMAO! I so agree. When they release "Whackbag" as a last name, I'm going to have a field day creating alts. _____________________
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Amy Stork
Way past use by date
Join date: 26 Feb 2006
Posts: 646
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06-25-2008 16:39
Too funny
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Zaphod Kotobide
zOMGWTFPME!
Join date: 19 Oct 2006
Posts: 2,087
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06-25-2008 16:46
Back in the days of the Feature Request forum, a LibSL person requested the creation of the last name "Roflcoptr".. the Lindens obliged. Perhaps you could try a JIRA entry.
I so agree. When they release "Whackbag" as a last name, I'm going to have a field day creating alts. _____________________
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FD Spark
Prim & Texture Doodler
Join date: 30 Oct 2006
Posts: 4,697
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06-25-2008 17:36
If OP is really sincere and lonely, in situation her/his real life certain things aren't possible due to illness, etc.
I get that. My first guy has been around since 2003 and yes sometimes its lonely here. I didn't have any friends until I create this account and even then there was long time I didn't have anyone. I still don't have significant other in world. Sometimes it is difficult but I have few friends who make the moments I want to socialize very special, and it doesn't involve a pose ball 99.999 percent of time. The thing is finding something you can do with yourself that interest you, maybe others will come around and join you or maybe not. _____________________
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Brann Georgia
Spits infinitives
Join date: 12 Dec 2007
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06-25-2008 17:44
But she is gorgeous. ...I would certainly talk to her, take her to dance, because she is beautiful... HELLO!!!! All you need to do in SL to look beautiful is to know where to shop. What does good looks have to do with anything in this thread? This apple's rotten on the inside - I hope she gets some help for that somewhere. This probably isn't the place. _____________________
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Ceka Cianci
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Join date: 31 Jul 2006
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06-25-2008 18:04
Star light star bright
the first star i see tonight. I wish i may i wish i might have the wish i wish tonight.. I wish to....... never be on 3Rings bad side and face the wrath of is legendary ownage powers. _____________________
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Schwanson Schlegel
SL's Tokin' Villain
Join date: 15 Nov 2003
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06-25-2008 18:50
I don't care how wacky she is, I'd hit it.
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Ann Launay
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Join date: 8 Aug 2006
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06-25-2008 18:54
This should really be a Friday thread...
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Brenda Connolly
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Join date: 10 Jan 2007
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06-25-2008 18:56
I don't care how wacky she is, I'd hit it. Be careful. Sounds like it hits back. _____________________
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Reyfer Kawanishi
Registered User
Join date: 2 Nov 2007
Posts: 51
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06-25-2008 19:00
HELLO!!!! All you need to do in SL to look beautiful is to know where to shop. What does good looks have to do with anything in this thread? This apple's rotten on the inside - I hope she gets some help for that somewhere. This probably isn't the place. Hello!!! I said that to make it clear that if she is alone is because of what comes up from her profile, and not because she is ugly or whatever. I know it is easy to shop, but it is not easy to know what looks good with what. Lots of women here have access to great skins and shapes and hair and outfits...how many really catch the guy's attention at parties? If she's alone as she says, it is because she wants to, really, because no guy will approach her for anything more than a one-night-stand as long as she has that profile up. _____________________
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Talon Brown
Slacker Punk
Join date: 17 May 2006
Posts: 352
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06-25-2008 20:07
I take exception to "most guys would only approach her for a one-night stand due to her profile." Most guys, well guys with any sense at all really, wouldn't even approach her for that as that way lies the potential for crazy drama that ends up with people being ARed and muted. (Not that I know from experience, I don't do one-night stands, but I know enough people that do.)
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Macphisto Angelus
JAFO
Join date: 21 Oct 2004
Posts: 5,831
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06-25-2008 20:57
Back in the days of the Feature Request forum, a LibSL person requested the creation of the last name "Roflcoptr".. the Lindens obliged. Perhaps you could try a JIRA entry. Oh wow... We had a field day on Second Citizen when that came out calling the Linden in charge of names the biggest dufus on the planet. Well, other variances were said too.. but this is a semi-PG forum. To the Linden in charge of names back then.. I request forgiveness and maybe a Bear if you have one. Signed, Mac Whackbag |
