Hi all,
I am looking for good places in secondlife to meet men, im very lonely and want companionship, so if anyone knows of a good place or would like to meet up in the game then im me.
I drink to forget life, I toke to forget i'm drunk
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Starling Cazalet
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02-27-2008 18:58
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Alicia Sautereau
if (!social) hide;
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02-27-2008 19:01
open map, type in "Ahern" and teleport
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Amalia Broome
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02-27-2008 19:05
Come to the library..always nice men there..
or Take in a church service..again nice men.. or go to Bit's and Bobs and ask some guy to help you decide on animations..quick way to meet someone.  |
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Isabeau Imako
P'tite Poulette
Join date: 13 Sep 2007
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02-27-2008 19:07
Sorry, I can't help you (I'm a girl, and not looking) but you've now got me humming this song... Good Luck
HEY THERE LONELY GIRL Eddie Holman Hey there lonely girl, lonely girl Let me make your broken heart like new Oh, my lonely girl, lonely girl Don't you know this lonely boy loves you Ever since he broke your heart you seem so lost Each time you pass my way How I long to take your hand And say don't cry, I'll kiss your tears away Hey there lonely girl, lonely girl Let me make your broken heart like new Oh my lonely girl, lonely girl don't you know this lonely boy loves you You think that only his two lips can kiss your lips And make your heart stand still But once you're in my arms you'll see No one can kiss your lips the way I will Hey there lonely girl, lonely girl Let me make your broken heart like new Oh, my lonely girl, lonely girl Don't you know this lonely girl loves you Oh my lonely girl, lonely girl Don't you know this lonely boy loves you |
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3Ring Binder
always smile
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02-27-2008 20:14
I drink to forget life, I toke to forget i'm drunk is that really part of your sales pitch?  _____________________
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Trout Recreant
Public Enemy No. 1
Join date: 24 Jul 2007
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02-27-2008 22:06
Ahem...
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Lana Tomba
Cheap,Fast or Good Pick 1
Join date: 5 Aug 2004
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02-27-2008 22:22
Starling I hate to break it to you..but alot of people are lonely in SL..it's a fishing expedition..theres no "real" place to go to shake that lonesome feeling..you have to find it within yourself.
I could suggest a nude beach or bar..but ultimately your lonlienss will still be with you. I don't really know what youre "into" but there are various tabs at the top right of your login screen such as classes and such..where you can meet people..or simply type in "sandbox" into your search engine and got to one of those..talk it up..be chatty..someone will respond with kindness..eventually. It's all about finding your way..what are your interests?..type that into the search engine too. I regularly IM total strangers and compliment them on this or that..and yes..the compliments are genuine...every now and then..I make a nice friend from it. Goodluck in SL!! You'll love it..stick around..make friends. Lana Tomba _____________________
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Bree Giffen
♥♣♦♠ Furrtune Hunter ♠♦♣♥
Join date: 22 Jun 2006
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02-27-2008 23:04
Jazz dance club. Ballroom dance club.
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Bradley Bracken
Goodbye, Farewell, Amen
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02-27-2008 23:12
I drink to forget life, I toke to forget i'm drunk Somehow, I think this might be a factor in your situation. |
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Broccoli Curry
I am my alt's alt's alt.
Join date: 13 Jun 2006
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02-28-2008 01:22
What are you *actually* looking for?
Random people to talk to? Friends to hang out with? Long term relationship? Sexual flings without strings? Depending which of the above, depends where to go. If you're just looking for (1) or (2), try the "events" calendar. You'll find live music events going on all the time (whatever you're in to, it'll be there somewhere) which are great places for people to talk to and make friendships. (3) or (4) ... not my thing, so I'll defer to others with more experience. But to echo what was said previously, it's very unlikely you are going to satisfy real life loneliness with online people who may or may not be what they say they actually are. If it's real life loneliness... your best bet is probably to log out of SL and go out and find where people gather. SL may help you to get on the surface and short term, but a /hug from an attachment is absolutely no substitute for a real one. _____________________
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Nika Talaj
now you see her ...
Join date: 2 Jan 2007
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02-28-2008 01:55
Starling, if you have any hobbies or interests in first life, you might try joining a group or five that pursue those same interests in second life ... just type the name of anything you like to do into the "Group" search and see what comes up. There are sailing groups and religious groups and photography groups and every kind of sex group and building groups and heck, even just SL exploring groups. I guarantee you that there are men in all these groups
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Tatiana Heckroth
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Join date: 13 Jun 2007
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02-28-2008 03:44
Go to the isle of wyrms!
Friendly talking dragons are there  Or go to uh... Hard Alley. |
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Jezabell Barbosa
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Join date: 11 Mar 2007
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02-28-2008 03:47
I drink to forget life, I toke to forget i'm drunk That is so HAWT. _____________________
”Persons who find themselves disenchanted with the whole system of situational obligations in society may seek out those places where reverie is likely to be tolerated.” - Erving Goffman
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Ricardo Harris
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02-28-2008 04:00
Go to the right places and it shouldn't take you long to hook up. The better you look the better the suitors.
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Kallisti Burns
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Join date: 8 Dec 2006
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02-28-2008 04:19
Go to the right places and it shouldn't take you long to hook up. The better you look the better the suitors. If by better you mean "shallower", sure... |
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ConductorX Nieuport
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Join date: 29 Nov 2007
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02-28-2008 04:53
You need to send your photos to Trout and get a rating...
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Incoherendt Randt
Skank
Join date: 13 Dec 2007
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02-28-2008 05:05
Places to meet men? Like, any spot that has people who aren't camping? SL is crawling with man! But owww that profile, it's a stern lecture for the kind who don't read them and an electric fence for the kind who do! All in one bite sized chunk!
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Oryx Tempel
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02-28-2008 05:17
Is this the same Starling who wanted to find a decent man a few months ago?
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Isabeau Imako
P'tite Poulette
Join date: 13 Sep 2007
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02-28-2008 05:18
Places to meet men? Like, any spot that has people who aren't camping? SL is crawling with man! But owww that profile, it's a stern lecture for the kind who don't read them and an electric fence for the kind who do! All in one bite sized chunk! Skank!  |
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Brenda Connolly
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Join date: 10 Jan 2007
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02-28-2008 05:18
What are you *actually* looking for? Random people to talk to? Friends to hang out with? Long term relationship? Sexual flings without strings? Depending which of the above, depends where to go. If you're just looking for (1) or (2), try the "events" calendar. You'll find live music events going on all the time (whatever you're in to, it'll be there somewhere) which are great places for people to talk to and make friendships. (3) or (4) ... not my thing, so I'll defer to others with more experience. But to echo what was said previously, it's very unlikely you are going to satisfy real life loneliness with online people who may or may not be what they say they actually are. If it's real life loneliness... your best bet is probably to log out of SL and go out and find where people gather. SL may help you to get on the surface and short term, but a /hug from an attachment is absolutely no substitute for a real one. How about a random friend, to hang out and have casual sex flings with on a long term basis? _____________________
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Bradley Palmer
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02-28-2008 05:28
Im not looking for any friendship/involvement atm but if I were ...... reading your profile would have me running for the hills Starling.
I personally dont find that sort of 'Im very nice but I will kill you if you.....' schitzoid attitude particularly attractive in anyone. I wonder if this is why you dont meet anyone to make friends with. |
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spadesrun Hotshot
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02-28-2008 05:41
You need to send your photos to Trout and get a rating... "CX" Hey Trout, should I send you my photo? I even get mt weet t-shirt out fo ryou ... / bats eye lashes Hmm, ok who rates guys and before you go into a frenzy, thats rate, not rape I think thats covered in another forum ... Spadesrun_____________________
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ConductorX Nieuport
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02-28-2008 05:52
Hey Trout, should I send you my photo? I even get mt weet t-shirt out fo ryou ... / bats eye lashes Hmm, ok who rates guys and before you go into a frenzy, thats rate, not rape I think thats covered in another forum ... SpadesrunI don't want to speak for her but I think Brann has a firm grip on ranking men. It could be the Brann Scale. _____________________
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CoffeeCool Rubble
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Non lonely
02-28-2008 06:34
Take my hand...then relax, so many places to hang and discover...let's go
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spadesrun Hotshot
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Join date: 22 Jan 2008
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02-28-2008 06:50
OK, in seriousness to the OP, Your not going to find a solution for lonliness in SL. What your going to do is find a solution for boredom. You may even find someone you like and hang out with. It will grow to a strong personal relationship. You will be convinced that its the happiness you cant find in RL. You will love the person and build your RL and SL life around this person.
Eventaully this balloon pops. People arent happy with one person in SL. there is too much to do. Eventually you and they will start to change somewhere along the road. The other wont want to let go. It will become bitter and ugly and both of you will lose common friends, divide up common hang outs, someone will get the land and someone just gets screwed. (And when this time comes call Trout Recreant to make sure you get everything thats coming to you ) Sorry, I am at work Hi Boss!!Anyway. The fact of the matter is no matter how much you think you fall for someone in SL, your bed is still one person short of a couple when you sleep at night. This is SECOND life. If your lonely, that is a first life issue. If your bored, then welcome to second life. Make friends here, have those special relationships, but remember: when it's time to let go it hurts so much more than the lonliness did in the first place. My advice. Dont try and solve the lonliness, keep busy. Find someone in RL to fix lonliness or see a head shrink for some meds. If you want company, Ill be glad to spend time gettign to know you, just look me up We can fight the boredom together _____________________
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