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Brenda Connolly
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Join date: 10 Jan 2007
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11-08-2007 11:56
umm ew? I'm with you Maggs _____________________
Don't you ever try to look behind my eyes. You don't want to know what they have seen.
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Chris Norse
Loud Arrogant Redneck
Join date: 1 Oct 2006
Posts: 5,735
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11-08-2007 12:00
If Your World and Your Imagination is just making SL like RL then why not spend the time making RL a better place? I get tired of being bitched at by people because "West USA" and "mid 20's" is not a good enough answer for them and this is happening a hell of a lot more lately. Until about a year ago no one ever got mad over me not telling my details. Feel free to look at my Profile under 1st life tab. That info is not satisfactory to many anymore. They get all pissy when I tell them that is as close as they are going to get. I tell them if they want more specific details about people then go sign up at adult friend finder. But hey, that costs money. Can't get a cheap date that way right?..... SL has really gone down hill from a RP point of view. To bad really. Not much creativity anymore. SL is a way for me to have the RL I had before I lost it to illness. As for the pissy people, that is what mute is for. Funny I see lots of creativity, maybe you are looking the wrong places. _____________________
I'm going to pick a fight
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Stella Stapleton
Stella's Mall
Join date: 13 Nov 2006
Posts: 23
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11-08-2007 12:01
As for the pissy people, that is what mute is for. Well said Chris! Sorry to hear that you were ill ![]() |
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Laura Lobo
Registered User
Join date: 8 Sep 2006
Posts: 79
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11-08-2007 12:05
SL is a way for me to have the RL I had before I lost it to illness. As for the pissy people, that is what mute is for. Funny I see lots of creativity, maybe you are looking the wrong places. I don't like muting 1/2 of SL. I see creativity as something "different" than the norm. I have been to over 300 new places in the last 3 days (yes exploring is a hobby of mine in SL as a ex-builder) and they are all filled with the same boring cookie cutter crap with slightly different textures and layout. Show me something new and exiting? |
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Chris Norse
Loud Arrogant Redneck
Join date: 1 Oct 2006
Posts: 5,735
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11-08-2007 12:14
I don't like muting 1/2 of SL. I see creativity as something "different" than the norm. I have been to over 300 new places in the last 3 days (yes exploring is a hobby of mine in SL as a ex-builder) and they are all filled with the same boring cookie cutter crap with slightly different textures and layout. Show me something new and exiting? What is boring and old to you, is new and exciting to someone else. You seem to be demanding that we play by your rules and put our efforts into entertaining you. Sorry, not my style. I get my entertainment in SL not from the buildings but from the people. But you are free to find your entertainment in any way you wish. _____________________
I'm going to pick a fight
William Wallace, Braveheart “Rules are mostly made to be broken and are too often for the lazy to hide behind” Douglas MacArthur FULL |
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Annabelle Babii
Unholier than thou
Join date: 2 Jun 2007
Posts: 1,797
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11-08-2007 12:17
I don't like muting 1/2 of SL. I see creativity as something "different" than the norm. I have been to over 300 new places in the last 3 days (yes exploring is a hobby of mine in SL as a ex-builder) and they are all filled with the same boring cookie cutter crap with slightly different textures and layout. Show me something new and exiting? Come to Monowai - see my home. |
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Chris Norse
Loud Arrogant Redneck
Join date: 1 Oct 2006
Posts: 5,735
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11-08-2007 12:18
Well said Chris! Sorry to hear that you were ill ![]() It is life Stella, for many of us with my condition and others like it SL is a Godsend. Here we can walk and dance without fear of falling or just do them period, something we can't do in RL. Here we can meet and talk to people again, not just sit in our livingrooms and let our brains die watching TV. For all it's faults, I love SL. _____________________
I'm going to pick a fight
William Wallace, Braveheart “Rules are mostly made to be broken and are too often for the lazy to hide behind” Douglas MacArthur FULL |
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Sally Silvera
live music maniac
Join date: 17 Feb 2007
Posts: 2,325
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11-08-2007 12:19
Until about a year ago no one ever got mad over me not telling my details. Feel free to look at my Profile under 1st life tab. That info is not satisfactory to many anymore. They get all pissy when I tell them that is as close as they are going to get. My 2c ... I don't have one of those RL or 1st life thingies, they sound too much like hard for too little fun and I hear people don't like hugs there either. Never causes me any bother. Whenever I'm asked where I live I answer truthfully that I live in a castle in the sky. I very rarely get asked about alternative locations, but when I am I usually politely and with plenty of smiles explain I don't have any ![]() As for my age, it's no big secret and I don't mind people I know asking. Never been asked by a complete stranger as far as I can recall. Even then, I'm not sure I'd mind. _____________________
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Avion Raymaker
Palacio del Emperador!
Join date: 18 Jun 2007
Posts: 980
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11-08-2007 12:20
If Your World and Your Imagination is just making SL like RL then why not spend the time making RL a better place? I spend all my time in SL using my creativity to make it what I would want RL to be if I had the money and power to do those things. All I can really do in RL is be nice to people. I don't have a half billion dollars to start erecting hotels in RL. But I think my imagination is a valid one for SL. SL has really gone down hill from a RP point of view. To bad really. Not much creativity anymore. Well I personally have very little interest in RP, unless the fact that my avatar is 10 lbs thinner than I am is RP. All of my creative energy goes into my buildings and hotel & resort business. I don't really see the connection between a lack of a person's involvement in RP and their supposed lack of creativity. I agree with Chris that there is room in there for everybody's vision. |
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Laura Lobo
Registered User
Join date: 8 Sep 2006
Posts: 79
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11-08-2007 12:25
What is boring and old to you, is new and exciting to someone else. Today maybe, but not for long. Maybe everyone just did everything I don't know. I used to be amazed by the creativity in building. Now it just seems a copy of the last guys build. You seem to be demanding that we play by your rules and put our efforts into entertaining you. You can play by any rules you want and I don't care UNTILL someone complains to me that I don't play by THEIR rules. That is what you are not hearing. I am getting a LOT more people complaining how I play SL. I don't complain to anyone in world how they do things. If I don't like it I ignore it and I expect the same treatment but don't get it anymore. That is my point. I do not demand anything from anyone. If I don't like something I move on but people seem to have a very hard time moving on from me. Sorry, not my style. I get my entertainment in SL not from the buildings but from the people. But you are free to find your entertainment in any way you wish. You can do that anywhere in any 3D platform. There, active worlds, IMVU, entropia universe, moove and so on. What seperates SL from them is the abilty to build things and express yourself a lot more diversly. If I wanted to just chat with people any of the above would work as with any text chat rooms. Why limit yourself to SL? |
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debbiej Aabye
Registered User
Join date: 22 Jun 2007
Posts: 41
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11-08-2007 12:26
my big no no's
1. don't offer frienship before even talking to me 2. don't send stuff to me if i don't know you or if i didn't ask for it 3. don't ask a bunch of question about my real life, if i want you to know i will tell you. 4. if you are going to be naked be naked. don't walk around with your male part hanging out you zipper. makes you look like you are trollong for kids. |
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Laura Lobo
Registered User
Join date: 8 Sep 2006
Posts: 79
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11-08-2007 12:28
I spend all my time in SL using my creativity to make it what I would want RL to be if I had the money and power to do those things. All I can really do in RL is be nice to people. I don't have a half billion dollars to start erecting hotels in RL. But I think my imagination is a valid one for SL. Well I personally have very little interest in RP, unless the fact that my avatar is 10 lbs thinner than I am is RP. All of my creative energy goes into my buildings and hotel & resort business. I don't really see the connection between a lack of a person's involvement in RP and their supposed lack of creativity. I agree with Chris that there is room in there for everybody's vision. Same response to Chris. You can play by any rules you want and I don't care UNTILL someone complains to me that I don't play by THEIR rules. That is what you are not hearing. I am getting a LOT more people complaining how I play SL. I don't complain to anyone in world how they do things. If I don't like it I ignore it and I expect the same treatment but don't get it anymore. That is my point. I do not demand anything from anyone. If I don't like something I move on but people seem to have a very hard time moving on from me. |
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Crunch Underwood
Mr. Grown up, Go away sir
Join date: 25 Sep 2007
Posts: 624
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11-08-2007 12:30
i'll be honest and say i'v only read the first post, probably posting this is for no reason as i'm sure you've already learned alot, one thing i have always tryed to do in SL tho is walk away from someone befor i teleport or go off world, just seems the polite thing to do not to go poof in front of someone unless it's an emergency
other than that just get out there and make friends, search for places and things you like and you'll soon find a new home in SL -Crunch |
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Avion Raymaker
Palacio del Emperador!
Join date: 18 Jun 2007
Posts: 980
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11-08-2007 12:33
Same response to Chris. I think I was misreading earlier what you meant by RP. I was picturing slave girls in the tower pose. I didn't realize you had a beef about uncreative builds. Come visit mine! |
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Tod69 Talamasca
The Human Tripod ;)
Join date: 20 Sep 2005
Posts: 4,107
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11-08-2007 12:34
my big no no's 3. don't ask a bunch of question about my real life, if i want you to know i will tell you. You always walk around the house at night wearing that outfit??? ![]() _____________________
really pissy & mean right now and NOT happy with Life.
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Avion Raymaker
Palacio del Emperador!
Join date: 18 Jun 2007
Posts: 980
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11-08-2007 12:35
one thing i have always tryed to do in SL tho is walk away from someone befor i teleport or go off world, just seems the polite thing to do not to go poof in front of someone unless it's an emergency Hey, what's good enough for Captain James T. Kirk is good enough for me. |
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Chas Connolly
Registered User
Join date: 24 Jan 2007
Posts: 1,433
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11-08-2007 12:37
/me pops his head out from Coventry : Your world, your imagination is just that. Make of it what you will, and don't let anyone else impose their world or their imagination on you. Give out RL information if you like, but don't demand that others do. RP if you like, but don't demand that others do.
There's room for - almost - everyone here. |
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Laura Lobo
Registered User
Join date: 8 Sep 2006
Posts: 79
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11-08-2007 12:44
I think I was misreading earlier what you meant by RP. I was picturing slave girls in the tower pose. I didn't realize you had a beef about uncreative builds. Come visit mine! Oh no, that is not what I do at all. I am just a regular girl a little on the freaky side (my role played character). What I meant about RP was people making their avatar however they want. A guy playing a girl or someone playing vampire or necko for example. I was at your place a couple days ago. I like the log effect for the outline. The wall textures are a little boring but work to keep primes down. I like how you placed the elevator and the layout getting into the rooms. The beach has a decent layout also. The "hole in the wall" rock adds to it well. Not bad. |
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Colette Meiji
Registered User
Join date: 25 Mar 2005
Posts: 15,556
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11-08-2007 12:46
Those who don't see how the Real Life Online attitude encroaches will get it when <web cam on a prim> and <search profiles by verified city of origin> get here.
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Jezabell Barbosa
Muah™
Join date: 11 Mar 2007
Posts: 896
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11-08-2007 12:48
and be nice to one another unless in a combat RP sim.
Cant we all just get along? /me sings "I'd like to buy the world a home and furnish it with love, Grow apple trees and honey bees, and snow white turtle doves. I'd like to teach the world to sing in perfect harmony, I'd like to buy the world a Coke and keep it company. It's the real thing, Coke is what the world wants today." _____________________
”Persons who find themselves disenchanted with the whole system of situational obligations in society may seek out those places where reverie is likely to be tolerated.” - Erving Goffman
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Derbor Torok
Lost soul
Join date: 21 Jun 2007
Posts: 1,016
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11-08-2007 12:56
THisngs are getting way too serious...
Here are a few of my hints to lead a polite sl: - Don’t ask forum members if pixel bumping with your neighbor's bot is considered cheating. - Don’t try to free the Gorean slaves. - Don't ask Gorean Masters if they are going for their PhD - Don't steal Brenda's panties and try to sell them in SLX - Don't accuse Ray of giving you crabs - Don't flaunt your Trout rating even if you dress like a recent divorcee after 10 years of a sexless marriage. - Don't try to shave furries or hamsters.. even if they ask - Don't wear a T-Shirt that says 'I collared your Mom!" (I actually saw one.. ) - Don't use a stick to poke at angry naked women chained to rocks. (Still looking for this one..) - If you ask for sex always say 'please' - especially if you don't know the other person. - Clean public pose-balls after using them. Just a start... I am sure I forgot some things. .d |
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Brenda Connolly
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Join date: 10 Jan 2007
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11-08-2007 12:57
and be nice to one another unless in a combat RP sim. Cant we all just get along? /me sings "I'd like to buy the world a home and furnish it with love, Grow apple trees and honey bees, and snow white turtle doves. I'd like to teach the world to sing in perfect harmony, I'd like to buy the world a Coke and keep it company. It's the real thing, Coke is what the world wants today." "Billy, don't be a hero, don't be fool with your life...."..never mind. _____________________
Don't you ever try to look behind my eyes. You don't want to know what they have seen.
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Brian Beltway
Registered User
Join date: 30 Jul 2006
Posts: 54
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11-08-2007 13:01
YEAH!!....let common sense prevail
![]() I've got friends and i know nothing about their RL I've got friends and i know everything about their RL. I value them all ![]() |
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Trout Recreant
Public Enemy No. 1
Join date: 24 Jul 2007
Posts: 4,873
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11-08-2007 13:02
- Don't flaunt your Trout rating even if you dress like a recent divorcee after 10 years of a sexless marriage. I can't possibly disagree more with this one than I do. Flaunt away! I consider it word of mouth advertising. _____________________
A Trout Rating (tm) is something to cherish. To flaunt and be proud of. It is something all women should aspire to obtain! |
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Lexxi Gynoid
#'s 86000, 97800
Join date: 6 Aug 2007
Posts: 3,732
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11-08-2007 13:03
I can't possibly disagree more with this one than I do. Flaunt away! I consider it word of mouth advertising. The word on your mouth is that is is advertising, but what? _____________________
Her Royal Highness Buttercup Meow the XXI
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