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Cherry Czervik
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11-09-2007 03:42
From: Steve Mahfouz Sandy, in general people don't talk much about the real world. If they do, it's about more happy topics or maybe some garden variety conversation that isn't depressing or controversial. Notice I said "in general".
If you want to talk about anything with any depth, you may want to seek out the discussion groups with the Search Events function. You said it Steve. I am me. But me is Cherry, not "me" ... if you're hearing about the real me then you're in my inner sanctum of friends. 
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Cherry Czervik
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11-09-2007 03:57
From: Tegg Bode Not even if they have you chained up and are brandishing a whip?  Are you one of the people who keep happening to find my house or something? 
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Brian Beltway
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11-09-2007 04:01
From: Cherry Czervik You said it Steve. I am me. But me is Cherry, not "me" ... if you're hearing about the real me then you're in my inner sanctum of friends.  Mmmhmm...and that sort of sums up the earlier "is it a chat room or RP debate" for me. Its what ever you want it to be but often its both i think? We have people we know who just want it to be complete RP, which is great, and often an inner sanctum of friends who know much more about the real you and thats also great. If i'm in a RP sim i'm clearly not "me"...if i'm chatting to a couple of old and trusted friends..its 100% me...sharing and having a giggle. What a wonderful place  ..just needs a bit of give and take.
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bilbo99 Emu
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11-09-2007 04:28
From: Brian Beltway Yeah....religion and politics....steer well clear i'd say  Ha ha! reminds me of a little sign in my local RL pub "Bishops are kindly requested not to discuss Politics at the bar." And your later post too Brian, what you want of SL can change as quickly as the landscape around you. You might not even be looking for your next new friend. The unpredictability to me is one of its biggest pulls. It keeps me from hours of brain-sucking TV too!! added: glad the fight broke up ... memo to self: revise profiles next login
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Sandy Carver
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11-09-2007 04:36
From: Tegg Bode Lol search for Xcite or Sensations  Right ok ...... errr ..... I've got this ....er ..... friend who doesn't know where his appendage is. Can somebody tell me .. .er.. .... my friend how to find an appendage. He was in a shopping centre last night and stumbled across a box on the floor offering a Free Appendage. He picked it up obviously, not wanting to offend, but still can't attach. He obviously doesn't feel like a proper man without it. More like ...... a GI Joe. Many thanks my ..... er..... friend
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Brian Beltway
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11-09-2007 04:49
From: bilbo99 Emu Ha ha! reminds me of a little sign in my local RL pub "Bishops are kindly requested not to discuss Politics at the bar."
And your later post too Brian, what you want of SL can change as quickly as the landscape around you. You might not even be looking for your next new friend. The unpredictability to me is one of its biggest pulls. It keeps me from hours of brain-sucking TV too!! Just so  if you can stay open minded...its huge fun. I just get about and see who i bump into. I've never really had any problem with anyone. Out and out RP'rs or people who are clearly using it as a dating agency...and everything in between...its the diversity i love. I'm a big boy...if i don't like a particular situation i have a choice 
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Cherry Czervik
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11-09-2007 04:51
From: Brian Beltway Just so  if you can stay open minded...its huge fun. I just get about and see who i bump into. I've never really had any problem with anyone. Out and out RP'rs or people who are clearly using it as a dating agency...and everything in between...its the diversity i love. I'm a big boy...if i don't like a particular situation i have a choice  Bravo! If only certain other people had that 'live and let live' philosophy!
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Chas Connolly
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11-09-2007 04:54
From: Sandy Carver Right ok ...... errr ..... I've got this ....er ..... friend who doesn't know where his appendage is. Can somebody tell me .. .er.. .... my friend how to find an appendage.
He was in a shopping centre last night and stumbled across a box on the floor offering a Free Appendage. He picked it up obviously, not wanting to offend, but still can't attach. He obviously doesn't feel like a proper man without it. More like ...... a GI Joe.
Many thanks my ..... er..... friend Your ... erm .... friend ... might try rezzing the box on the ground and then he might try opening the box and transfering the ...erm ... contents to his inventory. Then when your ...er .. friend .. needs said 'contents' he might try right clicking on said contents in his inventory and then choosing 'wear'. But do tell your ...erm ... friend that he shoudn't try this at any public venues. This is one thing you should definitely try at home 
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Brian Beltway
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11-09-2007 04:59
From: Chas Connolly Your ... erm .... friend ... might try rezzing the box on the ground and then he might try opening the box and transfering the ...erm ... contents to his inventory. Then when your ...er .. friend .. needs said 'contents' he might try right clicking on said contents in his inventory and then choosing 'wear'. But do tell your ...erm ... friend that he shoudn't try this at any public venues. This is one thing you should definitely try at home  Oh....and rename the appendage Sand...i mean my friends appendage or something recognisable. It'll save your friend endless fumbling in inventory when speed is of the essence
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Sally Silvera
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11-09-2007 05:02
oh and ... erm..... one little bit of advice for ´your friend´ on the ... erm ..... appendage issue..... from what I´ve read in this forum .... it is apparently highly recommended that it ´matches´ /me giggles Your friend won´t need one to listen to music though 
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Marty Starbrook
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11-09-2007 05:07
I dunno Sally .... they do all sorts of things with scripting these days
/me stalks bilbo...... and then shouts to cherry "thanks for the other night .. you was FANTASTIC... didnt realise you could shout so much *wink*"
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Cherry Czervik
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11-09-2007 05:08
From: Marty Starbrook I dunno Sally .... they do all sorts of things with scripting these days
/me stalks bilbo...... and then shouts to cherry "thanks for the other night .. you was FANTASTIC... didnt realise you could shout so much *wink*" Keep taking the medication 
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Chas Connolly
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11-09-2007 05:11
From: Cherry Czervik Keep taking the medication  I didn't think you needed 'medication' in SL 
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Sally Silvera
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11-09-2007 05:11
From: Marty Starbrook I dunno Sally .... they do all sorts of things with scripting these days  I'm pretty certain I don't want to know 
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Cherry Czervik
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11-09-2007 05:19
From: Sally Silvera oh and ... erm..... one little bit of advice for ´your friend´ on the ... erm ..... appendage issue..... from what I´ve read in this forum .... it is apparently highly recommended that it ´matches´ /me giggles Your friend won´t need one to listen to music though  You should tell your friend that if his lady (or gentleman!) of choice is wearing a face lighter then even if it DOES match, their facelighter will stop it matching. *cough*
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Brian Beltway
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11-09-2007 05:22
From: Cherry Czervik Bravo! If only certain other people had that 'live and let live' philosophy! And you know what?...If i see someone in bondage ropes say..i'll ask them if i can cut a bit off as my belts broken. Or stumble into an escort place with dark glasses and a white stick and ask if its the library. I've had no aggravation...its always turns in to a fun conversation..it seems to me most people like a giggle..Role players or not 
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Marty Starbrook
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11-09-2007 05:28
From: Cherry Czervik Keep taking the medication  Charming ..... *lol*....
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Cherry Czervik
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11-09-2007 05:40
From: Chas Connolly I didn't think you needed 'medication' in SL  Shush! Don't tell Marty that or he won't keep taking his medication.
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bilbo99 Emu
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11-09-2007 05:42
From: Cherry Czervik Keep taking the medication  I'd say take *less* medication .. the poor boy's hallucinating ..... isn't he ........ ISN'T HE?!? .. and the deal is Marty .. I stalk *you* .. remember? 
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Cherry Czervik
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11-09-2007 05:42
From: Brian Beltway And you know what?...If i see someone in bondage ropes say..i'll ask them if i can cut a bit off as my belts broken. Or stumble into an escort place with dark glasses and a white stick and ask if its the library. I've had no aggravation...its always turns in to a fun conversation..it seems to me most people like a giggle..Role players or not  Me and my friend Viv went out in hypno goggles and white canes once, to xcite, looking for the church .. it was very very funny, very few people got what we were doing (and we only spoke to each other unless spoken to). I still have the notecard. Someone decided they were going to try to collar me via IM (poor chap was very deluded).
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Cherry Czervik
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11-09-2007 05:44
From: bilbo99 Emu I'd say take *less* medication .. the poor boy's hallucinating ..... isn't he ........ ISN'T HE?!? .. and the deal is Marty .. I stalk *you* .. remember?  Yes I am worried about him to be honest Bilbo. Anyway, I don't shout. I bray like a donkey cos I have picked up the local Warwickshire Hooray Henry accent a bit. (shudder)
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Brian Beltway
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11-09-2007 05:53
From: Cherry Czervik Me and my friend Viv went out in hypno goggles and white canes once, to xcite, looking for the church .. it was very very funny, very few people got what we were doing (and we only spoke to each other unless spoken to). I still have the notecard. Someone decided they were going to try to collar me via IM (poor chap was very deluded). Hehehe  Yeah!!...its sort of gently provoking a reaction in a funny way. And the way people react just shows..i think....that the vast majority of people in SL know how to have a laugh at themselves. If you only read the forums you'd maybe get the wrong impression?...they can get pretty venomous at times 
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Cherry Czervik
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11-09-2007 06:02
From: Brian Beltway Hehehe  Yeah!!...its sort of gently provoking a reaction in a funny way. And the way people react just shows..i think....that the vast majority of people in SL know how to have a laugh at themselves. If you only read the forums you'd maybe get the wrong impression?...they can get pretty venomous at times  It can and that always makes me very very sad when I see it happening. I have been told on various occasions that people would like to post here but are scared of being pounced on for their opinions. Such a shame - especially as the people who are terribly terribly negative here are the most visible ones amongst the people having a bit of a giggle. Perhaps they should try something called Second Life! LOL
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Sandy Carver
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11-09-2007 06:09
From: Chas Connolly Your ... erm .... friend ... might try rezzing the box on the ground and then he might try opening the box and transfering the ...erm ... contents to his inventory. Then when your ...er .. friend .. needs said 'contents' he might try right clicking on said contents in his inventory and then choosing 'wear'. But do tell your ...erm ... friend that he shoudn't try this at any public venues. This is one thing you should definitely try at home  Ahhhhh I get it! So it's something that you wear! Like a hat! That makes more sense now. Suddenly the world is crystal clear! Now I can't WAIT to get home! And ring my friend and tell him. Another stupid question (I hope you don't mind me using this thread - it's hardly a social no-no) I typed the name of a band that I like into search and it came up with a club which I joined. Now I walk round with 'Counting Crows fan' above my head all the time. Whilst I'm not embarrassed to be a Counting Crows fan, I feel a bit odd announcing it to the world continuously. Is there a way to change it to something that you want like. "New Guy - Please Forgive Him" or something?
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Brian Beltway
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11-09-2007 06:10
From: Sandy Carver Ahhhhh I get it! So it's something that you wear! Like a hat! That makes more sense now. Suddenly the world is crystal clear! Now I can't WAIT to get home! And ring my friend and tell him.
Another stupid question (I hope you don't mind me using this thread - it's hardly a social no-no) I typed the name of a band that I like into search and it came up with a club which I joined. Now I walk round with 'Counting Crows fan' above my head all the time. Whilst I'm not embarrassed to be a Counting Crows fan, I feel a bit odd announcing it to the world continuously. Is there a way to change it to something that you want like. "New Guy - Please Forgive Him" or something? Sandy of course means he has a friend who likes Counting crows 
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