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Pserendipity Daniels
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09-23-2008 13:25
Ok,. Yosef. You're off base on this one. Most women who have had a bit of life experience will go for the nice guy. Most of us get over being attracted to the bad boys by the age of 30. /me smiles Pep (Changed from being a "bad boy" to a "nice guy" after 30; best of both worlds!) _____________________
Hypocrite lecteur, — mon semblable, — mon frère!
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Rose Dove
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09-23-2008 13:26
You know what he dreams? As in Rose = Pep? /me shivers I feel dirty ... Ewwww! /me shudders at the thought of herself as a guy in RL. Sorry, Yosef, I can't imagine being a guy in any world. /me goes off humming "I Enjoy Being a Girl"... |
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Pserendipity Daniels
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09-23-2008 13:27
I feel dirty ... Your philosophy? Pep (Or a new sig?) _____________________
Hypocrite lecteur, — mon semblable, — mon frère!
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Yosef Okelly
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Join date: 26 Aug 2007
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09-23-2008 13:28
Yep. Men's view of the world is often simple: if it moves and it shouldn't, get the duct tape. If it doesn't move and it should, get the WD-40. I have never heard that, but I like it. _____________________
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Rose Dove
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09-23-2008 13:28
You know what he dreams? As in Rose = Pep? /me shivers I feel dirty ... Umm.... since I am Rose, I would know whether Rose is cybering Pep or not. Since I know that Rose is NOT cybering Pep, then if he claims otherwise, it is only occurring in his mind. |
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Yosef Okelly
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09-23-2008 13:30
Ok,. Yosef. You're off base on this one. Most women who have had a bit of life experience will go for the nice guy. Most of us get over being attracted to the bad boys by the age of 30. /me smiles _____________________
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Lindal Kidd
Dances With Noobs
Join date: 26 Jun 2007
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09-23-2008 13:34
If Rose is Cybering Pep, then what did she need this thread for? Because she is still looking for intelligent life on SL? _____________________
It's still My World and My Imagination! So there.
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Pserendipity Daniels
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09-23-2008 13:39
Because she is still looking for intelligent life on SL? In all the wrong places Pep (Single men? On SL? Why?) _____________________
Hypocrite lecteur, — mon semblable, — mon frère!
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Czari Zenovka
I've Had it With "PC"!
Join date: 3 May 2007
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09-23-2008 13:40
I have not met a happily married woman yet who did not try to play match-maker any chance she could  You've just met one.  _____________________
*Czari's Attic* ~ Relive the fun of exploring an attic for hidden treasures!
http://slurl.com/secondlife/Rakhiot/82/99/111 During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.- George Orwell |
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Rose Dove
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09-23-2008 13:42
Because she is still looking for intelligent life on SL? Arghhhh! Rose is NOT cybering Pep!! All right, Pep, 'fess up. Admit that neither is Rose cybering Pep, nor is Rose's alt cybering Pep's alt. Umm...maybe Pep is cybering his alt and has become confused? =P |
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Yosef Okelly
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Join date: 26 Aug 2007
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09-23-2008 13:50
Rose, I do consider you a friend. I hope I am not coming across as bitter or argumentative. I am actually having a good time with this thread. Thanks for atarting it.
But anyway ... Ok,. Yosef. You're off base on this one. Most women who have had a bit of life experience will go for the nice guy. Most of us get over being attracted to the bad boys by the age of 30. uh-huh If I stepped in world, how long would it take me to have a sex partner for the night? And how long would it take {insert-nice-guy-name-here}? I'm not bitter, nor jaded(well, maybe a little). I am and have always been a nice guy. I have just learned that women need more. Put it this way, which do you think a man would like more, a funny, intellegent and active woman or a funny, intellegent active woman with big boobs?. On the other side of the coin ... women want a nice guy. Stable, honest and compassionant. But there is no excitement there. Nothing to keep the spark alive. Wouldn't you rather have a stable, honest and compassionant man with a spontanious and wild streak? Just as you have learned that the bad boys may be exciting for a moment, I have learned that nice guys never get that moment. So .. I have adapted. I am a nice guy. But I have my moments  _____________________
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Czari Zenovka
I've Had it With "PC"!
Join date: 3 May 2007
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09-23-2008 13:53
Oh! How could I forget the guy I met in SL, then later in RL who swore he'd love me forever the first day he was here, then vanished the next morning? Interestingly enough, when I tried to call, there was a woman's voice on his answering machine....hmmmmm I think we may have dated the same man...lol. At least our RL dating experiences sound similar. Case in point: A guy I initially met online (IRC - you know...back when dinosaurs roamed the earth) who just happened to live in my city. We met and dated RL on and off for about 6 years. He had this irritating habit of just disappearing after months of dating, then showing up again and cycling through that. Yeah I know, I know...by that time we were basically just really good friends. But here's the kicker...the last time I spoke with him, he told me he was married but, "You're the only woman I've ever loved." Ummmm....I told him he had a rather curious way of expressing that love to me. _____________________
*Czari's Attic* ~ Relive the fun of exploring an attic for hidden treasures!
http://slurl.com/secondlife/Rakhiot/82/99/111 During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.- George Orwell |
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Pserendipity Daniels
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09-23-2008 13:57
Arghhhh! Rose is NOT cybering Pep!! All right, Pep, 'fess up. Admit that neither is Rose cybering Pep, nor is Rose's alt cybering Pep's alt. Umm...maybe Pep is cybering his alt and has become confused? =P I already agreed with Yosef above. "ALL men lie!" Pep (Of course Pep nor his alts are not cybering Rose nor her alts) _____________________
Hypocrite lecteur, — mon semblable, — mon frère!
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Jerboa Haystack
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Join date: 23 Sep 2008
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09-23-2008 14:02
If I stepped in world, how long would it take me to have a sex partner for the night? And how long would it take {insert-nice-guy-name-here}? I'm not bitter, nor jaded(well, maybe a little). I am and have always been a nice guy. I have just learned that women need more. Put it this way, which do you think a man would like more, a funny, intellegent and active woman or a funny, intellegent active woman with big boobs?. On the other side of the coin ... women want a nice guy. Stable, honest and compassionant. But there is no excitement there. Nothing to keep the spark alive. Wouldn't you rather have a stable, honest and compassionant man with a spontanious and wild streak? Just as you have learned that the bad boys may be exciting for a moment, I have learned that nice guys never get that moment. So .. I have adapted. I am a nice guy. But I have my moments Errm...you log in with the purpose of finding a sex partner? Personally, I would like a funny, intelligent, active woman who wasn't hopping on the first poseball she saw after meeting a guy. YMMV, but I find it much more fulfilling to go rock climbing, or swimming through some underwater build that I've never seen before with someone, than bumping pixels. But then again, I'm just one of those nice guys. |
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Scott Savira
Not Scott Saliva
Join date: 10 Aug 2008
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09-23-2008 14:06
sad but true. Be jerk. Jerks get all the girls. Nice guys get to be emotional tampons and dumped for the next bad boy that comes along. I didn't make the rules. I just understand them. I would like to be a nice guy some time. Nowhere in my post did I support being a jerk at all. That won't get you anywhere either. What I'm saying is you shouldn't be a shy, reticent girly wuss that looks to the girl for direction and chases her approval. Woman like men, and they like guys who can make decisions for themselves and lead. Being clingy, shy, overly attention seeking, or any of that is a turn-off for most woman.... and don't buy her flowers and tell her you are in love 3 days after you meet her. |
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Rose Dove
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09-23-2008 14:07
Rose, I do consider you a friend. I hope I am not coming across as bitter or argumentative. /me hugs Yosef I do hope I am your friend. One can never have enough friends, especially enough nice friends like Yosef. :- uh-huh If I stepped in world, how long would it take me to have a sex partner for the night? And how long would it take {insert-nice-guy-name-here}? Umm...I really don't know. Have you timed this? =D Put it this way, which do you think a man would like more, a funny, intellegent and active woman or a funny, intellegent active woman with big boobs?. On the other side of the coin ... women want a nice guy. Stable, honest and compassionant. But there is no excitement there. Nothing to keep the spark alive. Wouldn't you rather have a stable, honest and compassionant man with a spontanious and wild streak? Just as you have learned that the bad boys may be exciting for a moment, I have learned that nice guys never get that moment. So .. I have adapted. I am a nice guy. But I have my moments "stable, honest, and compassionate" are high on the list of traits that I like in a man. "spontanious and wild streak" are not on the list of traits that I value in a man. Depending on the man, a spontanious and wild streak would not necessarily be a negative trait. We are all different. I"m sure some women would value the spontaneous and wild. Personally, I can find many interesting things to do that don't require being wild. |
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Rose Dove
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09-23-2008 14:09
I think we may have dated the same man...lol. At least our RL dating experiences sound similar. Case in point: A guy I initially met online (IRC - you know...back when dinosaurs roamed the earth) who just happened to live in my city. We met and dated RL on and off for about 6 years. He had this irritating habit of just disappearing after months of dating, then showing up again and cycling through that. Yeah I know, I know...by that time we were basically just really good friends. But here's the kicker...the last time I spoke with him, he told me he was married but, "You're the only woman I've ever loved." Ummmm....I told him he had a rather curious way of expressing that love to me. Ouch! I suspect that was a painful sort of thing to go through. There are some real rats out there. |
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Rose Dove
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09-23-2008 14:10
I already agreed with Yosef above. "ALL men lie!" Pep (Of course Pep nor his alts are not cybering Rose nor her alts) /me grins Thank you, Pep. See? Men can be decent sorts of creatures. ^_^ |
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LittleMe Jewell
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09-23-2008 14:11
... I don't think even Yosef could induce me to give married men another try. _____________________
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Rose Dove
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09-23-2008 14:13
Errm...you log in with the purpose of finding a sex partner? Personally, I would like a funny, intelligent, active woman who wasn't hopping on the first poseball she saw after meeting a guy. YMMV, but I find it much more fulfilling to go rock climbing, or swimming through some underwater build that I've never seen before with someone, than bumping pixels. But then again, I'm just one of those nice guys. /me cheers for nice guys I totally agree - there are so many fun things to do in SL besides bumping pixels. Of course, anyone can find someone to bump pixels fairly quickly. Escort services are legal and pervasive in SL. |
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Pserendipity Daniels
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09-23-2008 14:13
/me grins Thank you, Pep. See? Men can be decent sorts of creatures. ^_^ /me smiles Pep (Rose apparently didn't see through the ambiguity . . .) _____________________
Hypocrite lecteur, — mon semblable, — mon frère!
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Czari Zenovka
I've Had it With "PC"!
Join date: 3 May 2007
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09-23-2008 14:14
Again .. maybe it's just where I go but I seldom am in a place where the men out number or even equal the women. YMMV. I was one of the few women in a scripting class I took awhile back. Not one offered by the SL schools, but one that a mutual friend made known to a group we were in. Now the interesting thing is there were most likely more women than men in the group...but more men showed up for the scripting class. I also note more men in the combat sims. I don't mean this to sound like stereotyping, but I started thinking about if I'd been someplace on SL where the men outnumbered the women and those were the first two that came to mind. ~ ~ ~ On another note...has anyone mentioned The Latte Cafe at Mill Pond yet? There were quite a few men there as well and the general population seemed a bit more "mature" and intelligent-discussion oriented. _____________________
*Czari's Attic* ~ Relive the fun of exploring an attic for hidden treasures!
http://slurl.com/secondlife/Rakhiot/82/99/111 During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.- George Orwell |
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Pserendipity Daniels
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09-23-2008 14:15
Escort services are legal and pervasive in SL. Ewwww! No! Never! Pep (And would be surprised if Yosef ever has either) _____________________
Hypocrite lecteur, — mon semblable, — mon frère!
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Rose Dove
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09-23-2008 14:15
Nowhere in my post did I support being a jerk at all. That won't get you anywhere either. What I'm saying is you shouldn't be a shy, reticent girly wuss that looks to the girl for direction and chases her approval. Woman like men, and they like guys who can make decisions for themselves and lead. Being clingy, shy, overly attention seeking, or any of that is a turn-off for most woman.... and don't buy her flowers and tell her you are in love 3 days after you meet her. /me likes flowers a lot! But we're all different. I agree with claiming you're in love 3 days after you meet. That's a bit creepy. |
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Rose Dove
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09-23-2008 14:17
/me smiles Pep (Rose apparently didn't see through the ambiguity . . .) /me ROFL and really does like Pep ^_^ |