Best Place to Meet a Guy in SL

Yo-yo's not so bad, especially if you cover him in chocolate.

Umm....no...that's OK, Pep, but thanks for offering.
^_^

Damn, Lindal's following me around today.

Pep (Atchoo!)

/me imagines Yo-yo covered with chocolate and whipped cream.

Mmmmmmmmmmm.............

^_^

ooohhhh....the mental image....I'll be back later.

You and James Bond....

[QUOTE I cuoldn't agree more. That's why I have a firm rule of no more married men. I wouldn't date a married man in RL, why would I date one in SL? SL experiences happen to the same person as RL experiences. I've heard of a number of marriages damaged or broken because of SL dating.[/QUOTE]

I couldn't agree with you more. I have been there and done that. Only in SL that is. Bottom line: A married man or woman (in my case a man) is just lacking something in his/her marriage. So they come to sl because here they find someone who gives then attention and is hearing all the right thing them making up what they are not getting in their RL. So when all is honky dory in their RL marriage again they start treating you different.

He's indiscriminate

Pep (Bond doesn't care if they are illiterate)

the quote i was quoting was from Malina Chuwen

Absolutely true. There was that one guy I hung out with constantly for a week, then he vanished. Then he told me he had this committed relationship, and she had returned from a trip, but she was leaving again next Tuesday, could we hang out again then?
Answer: NO!!!!

It seems he had "forgotten" to tell me about his RL commmitted relationship. Oh, and he said to not e-mail him anymore, because she had access to his e-mail and got VERY cranky about seeing messages from another woman. But he wanted to hang out the next time she went on a trip.

Then there are the men who warn me that they can't use voice and might have to unexpectedly log out if their wife wanders by.

Oh! How could I forget the guy I met in SL, then later in RL who swore he'd love me forever the first day he was here, then vanished the next morning? Interestingly enough, when I tried to call, there was a woman's voice on his answering machine....hmmmmm

When a person has to go to this extent to hide his SL activities, I can't feel good about being a part of them, not to mention that being at someone's beck and call when the important person in their life isn't available isn't my idea of a quality relationship.

/me takes a deep breath

OK. End of rant.

I agree. It's not worth being in a relationship that isn't above-board.

damnit that quote thing. Quote was from Rose Dove

Well...everyone is in SL looking for something that's missing from their RL. Whether that is a relationship, or even a creative outlet.

Don't condemn all of male-kind because some jerks lie and sneak around.

You know there are those nice, shy guys out there. Flying around from sim to sim, hanging in the background, looking for a good way to jump into the conversation.

The trick is finding those people who are looking for the same thing you are.

Well most definitely if someone's RL relationship status bothers you - do not cyber-date them!

And anyone who lies about their status to you is scummy.

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At the same time anyone who isn't offering more than an online fling ... Shouldn't expect RL loyalty from the person they are cyber-dating.

/me hugs to both of you

And what Collette said. People who lie about their situation aren't worth the time of day.

If you can't stand the heat stay out of the kitchen.

Pep (You are missing out on a lot of fun)

Awh thanks for the Hug and squeezes back. Whispers quitely in your ear " its nicHole" laughs so hard.

I can't say I wont ever fall in love, but when I do it will be in RL not SL. Im not bitter about it because it just makes us stronger and learn what not to do next time. How true is this its in my profile but i will put it here so you can read it and so can everyone else.

There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future...

"The past is behind, learn from it. The future is ahead, prepare for it. The present is here, live it." =)

FROM ME: with each experience that I go through with each lesson that I learn, it just makes me stronger and become the better person. I am proud of who I am!
- Nichole R.

I agree with you as well, Jerboa. We are all looking for something: friendship, love, creative outlet, adventure, an alternative to TV....the reasons for being in SL are probably unique to each of us.

And you are right, you can't let a few bad apples spoil the whole bag. Many people in SL are among the kindest, most intelligent, funniest, best people I've ever met. ^_^

Dammit that cliche thing

Pep (And it's catching)

/me hugs Jerboa back

Absolutely!

"... the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love,
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment,
it is as perennial as the grass. "
-Max Ehrmann

It ain't just men who lie . . .

Pep (Is it just women who have been let down, or do men not talk about it?)

Nope - plenty of women lie as well.

Of course this thread is about meeting Men ..

I agree its not just men and I am sure there are good men and woman out there its just rare to find eachother. It us woman who talk about more.