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Rose Dove
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09-23-2008 15:03


OMG! There really are such things?
Kyllie Wylie
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09-23-2008 15:07
yep, even seen a USB pussy too for guys ... all remote controlled by someone on the other end of the net .... no need for messy human contact anymore!
Jerboa Haystack
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09-23-2008 15:13
This is wrong on so many levels.

But, hook control of those suckers up to SL, and someone would make a fortune!
Scott Savira
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Join date: 10 Aug 2008
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09-23-2008 15:13
From: Yosef Okelly

Scott, to me there is a big difference between a jerk and an asshole. The jerk is that guy you see girls fall for and wonder why. Don't that see how phoney he is? He is alos confident and bold. Sees what he wants and works to get it.

But don't be an asshole. Don't hurt people just because you can. Be positive. Be honest and upfront with your intentions. Just be assertive with them and quit sitting back waiting for the girls to get tired of the jerks. You are hurting them if you do. Do not let some asshole break another heart if you can prevent it by simplly taking action. Nice guys are netoriously passive. Good girls get hurt because nice giuys leave them to the jerks.


I think we're totally on the same page, man. It may have sounded like I was in favor of acting like an asshole, not true for sure. I wouldn't ever condone hurting, lying, or cheating on someone while in an exclusive relationship. I also do like to do nice things for someone when I'm in a relationship. However, I don't buy girls things to make them like me. I don't cling to them. I don't shower them with compliments. I don't tell them I like them, I let them figure it out themselves by how I act and what I do. I put time into my own interests. I'm comfortable when I'm not with them, even though I enjoy their company. Plus I don't shy away from sex, I can get pretty freaky on voice. My lady seems to like that...

I just see it all to often where the guy is too nice or too needy.
FD Spark
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09-23-2008 15:16
I can see it special virtual world that requires special devices that routed through server that you can wear in real life, be charge even more then we are now for Islands..
No need for messy relationships, just need to be hooked into virtual world.
Yet I think the human element will find a way to create some type of mess even without the body fluid contact.
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Pserendipity Daniels
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09-23-2008 15:20
/me leaves by the back door to go see Scott and Yosef's women while they are having a pissing contest . . .

Pep (Talk little, do much, as explained on another thread -or was it this one?)
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Rose Dove
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09-23-2008 15:30
From: Pserendipity Daniels
/me leaves by the back door to go see Scott and Yosef's women while they are having a pissing contest . . .

Pep (Talk little, do much, as explained on another thread -or was it this one?)


Rose couldn't be cybering Pep. Pep's too busy chasing Scott and Yosef's women to cyber with Rose. =D
Oryx Tempel
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09-23-2008 15:30
Rose, I don't know if it's even around any more, but there used to be a jazz/formal dance place called Sphynx on the 2nd Avenue sim. It's an Egyptian themed sim. There are also lots of great blues places around.
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Rose Dove
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09-23-2008 15:31
From: Oryx Tempel
Rose, I don't know if it's even around any more, but there used to be a jazz/formal dance place called Sphynx on the 2nd Avenue sim. It's an Egyptian themed sim. There are also lots of great blues places around.



Thanks, Oryx. :-)
Brenda Connolly
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09-23-2008 15:35
From: Oryx Tempel
Rose, I don't know if it's even around any more, but there used to be a jazz/formal dance place called Sphynx on the 2nd Avenue sim. It's an Egyptian themed sim. There are also lots of great blues places around.

I used to love that place. If it is still around definitely check it out.
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Tristin Mikazuki
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09-23-2008 16:49
From: Rose Dove
/me giggles and sprays herself with cootie repellent.

Gosh, I had forgotten that boys have cooties!


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sable Valentine
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Nice guys at times do finish first, so do nice girls
09-23-2008 17:12
I couldnt wait to get home from work to really respond. Yes I believe nice guys and girls can finish first. I agree with previous posts from Scott and Yosef. Pep you are a hoot. Women (well me) want a man that is not a wuss that can be exciting as well as intelligent. My definition of exciting is someone that engages me in various topics and willing to open themselves to new experienes. I prefer this as a way of learning about him before jumping his pixels (bones). In my case it naturally progresses to that. Last few relationships I have had including my current one started out with just doing things, exploring new lands and builds. Additionally, I have found men (well the ones I have encountered) wanted the same thing. Yeah they could be banging whoever while we not out on a date. I don't worry about such things because I just don't. Because if I wanted to I could be doing the same thing. Like my rl self, if he wants to be with me it will shown simple as that. Although flowers after 3 days of meeting is not bad as I love flowers and hell I may send him some. I doubt it though a man could see that gesture as pre-stalking.

If a man exudes self confidence without being arrognant that is a turn on for me. If he is patient and let things take its natural course, we would have a great time. I'm not the type that looks to be partnered, that is seriously the furtherest from my mind during the time i was single because it is so many hot men out there. The one's that showed no potential just turned into Sable's boytoy. You have to understand the bad boy mentality to play their game and effectively make it yours.. Don't hate the player, hate the game.

Now, I'm retiring from the game and loving every minute of it.

Oh BTW Rose, yes concerts can be laggy but so can be rl concerts and bars/clubs. Look at it as waiting to get into the parking lot at th concert or entrane to the bar/club. Finding a parking space , table in the bar/club's case. Going to concession standing for a drink. In the bar/club waiting for the waitress or bartender.

RL has lag too we just don't see it that way.
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Alicia Sautereau
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09-23-2008 18:02
/wonders who from all posters uses an opposite sex avi and never said a word about it :p

/hides in the middle of no where
Blot Brickworks
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09-23-2008 21:22
You could try a bonfire party in a UK sim. On the 5th of November.He will be the one on top of the fire.
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Nichole Vanbeeck
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09-23-2008 21:25
From: Alicia Sautereau
/wonders who from all posters uses an opposite sex avi and never said a word about it :p

/hides in the middle of no where



hmm I just thought of something. Wonders if more men play the opposite sex or if women do? my guess is man
Nichole Vanbeeck
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09-23-2008 21:26
oops *men
Alicia Sautereau
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09-23-2008 22:03
my guess aswell

that brings us to the following question:
who`s more err...nicely formulated, less of character judgement

males falling for female men avi`s?
womens falling for male female avi`s?


so far my answer on that would be a total tie
being your self and even 1 of my best friends didn`t have a clue till i told her to just ask the damn question :p
Nichole Vanbeeck
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09-24-2008 05:50
From: Alicia Sautereau
my guess aswell

that brings us to the following question:
who`s more err...nicely formulated, less of character judgement

males falling for female men avi`s?
womens falling for male female avi`s?


so far my answer on that would be a total tie
being your self and even 1 of my best friends didn`t have a clue till i told her to just ask the damn question :p



mmmm I have to think about that one.
Jerboa Haystack
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09-24-2008 06:00
I don't follow, Alicia. What's the question?
FD Spark
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09-24-2008 06:02
For some people here, real or birth gender is not a issue, there is no big drama behind it for them. Not everyone's requirement for a relationship or poseball hop or focus is what's the other person's birth gender of the person is i.e be they some combination or just single gender i.e Male or Female or other imagined gender here and something else in real life is, be it first life or Second life, the person matters more, then the gender expression or roles.
If that is a issue here for you, maybe you shouldn't be rushing into online romances especially here.
And. hope your voice date or escort isn't a really good actor, actress or had their voice alter to their desired gender that may or may not match their birth gender be it through technology, hormones or surgically altered to sound the way they do.
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09-24-2008 06:27
From: Alicia Sautereau
/wonders who from all posters uses an opposite sex avi and never said a word about it :p

/hides in the middle of no where
Keep the mystery alive. =^-^=
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Hard Rust
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09-24-2008 06:28
You can meet some really nice men in Hard Alley. :D
Nichole Vanbeeck
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09-24-2008 06:34
From: Hard Rust
You can meet some really nice men in Hard Alley. :D



You said hard. hehe
Alicia Sautereau
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09-24-2008 06:50
From: Imnotgoing Sideways
Keep the mystery alive. =^-^=

and that`s where this entire topic is irrelevant as the opposite gender could be standing right infront of you :)
Jerboa Haystack
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09-24-2008 06:51
From: Alicia Sautereau
and that`s where this entire topic is irrelevant as the opposite gender could be standing right infront of you :)


I suppose there's a 60/40 chance.
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