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pandastrong Fairplay
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07-29-2005 09:38
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pandastrong Fairplay
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07-29-2005 09:39
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~ Ulrika Zugzwang on the iconography of pandastrong in the media "That's no good. Someone is going to take your place as SL's cutest boy while you're offline." ~ Ingrid Ingersoll on the topic of LL refusing to pay pandastrong for being in their game. |
Margaret Mfume
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07-29-2005 09:55
Without accurate polling data the only way I can determine the will of the general public is from what I see. I quoted and addressed "...over reform that all but two people oppose....". My point is that what is seen here is a small sample. Jim Lumiere objected to being spoken for in another thread and I always hope for but did not expect a response much different from what he received. _____________________
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07-29-2005 10:12
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Cristiano Midnight
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07-29-2005 10:13
Abso-friggin-lutely. Which was my point. Sorry if I didn't make it clear. I guess I'll have to post it every which way from here to tomorrow to make myself understood. I was not sarcastic with you in any way - was the hostility really necessary? _____________________
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pandastrong Fairplay
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07-29-2005 10:13
I quoted and addressed "...over reform that all but two people oppose....". My point is that what is seen here is a small sample. Jim Lumiere objected to being spoken for in another thread and I always hope for but did not expect a response much different from what he received. I think it would be a good idea (for the sake of you and Jim), for everyone, when they make a statement regarding trends in opinions, to have a little logo included implying that their statements are indicative of the opinions that they have read in the respective thread. Kind of like an admission that they are not psychics, and that they would like to comment within the bounds of a linear conversation . I would suggest the following, but modified for forum usage: ![]() Again, this would be a special logo that everyone would include in their posts for the sake of you and Jim, so the next time someone types "everyone so far has ______", you will understand that they are only referring to participants in the conversation. I was not sarcastic with you in any way - was the hostility really necessary? I made up for it, Ano! ![]() _____________________
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~ Ulrika Zugzwang on the iconography of pandastrong in the media "That's no good. Someone is going to take your place as SL's cutest boy while you're offline." ~ Ingrid Ingersoll on the topic of LL refusing to pay pandastrong for being in their game. |
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07-29-2005 10:17
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~ Ulrika Zugzwang on the iconography of pandastrong in the media "That's no good. Someone is going to take your place as SL's cutest boy while you're offline." ~ Ingrid Ingersoll on the topic of LL refusing to pay pandastrong for being in their game. |
Jake Reitveld
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07-29-2005 10:23
"your mentally ill" - Kosher, if not exactly polite, if expressed as an opinion. No matter how "uncool" it is to say it. "fuck you" - Not generally OK. "your ignorant" - Absolutely, 100% fine. "your wrong" - Absolutely, 100% fine. So in your terms I could look at you and say"In my opinion you are menatally I'll. Furthermore you are ignorant and since you opinions are born out of your ignorace you are wrong" and this would not be considered a personal attack? I absolutely disagree, such statements are a direct persobnall attack and are not related to any opinion. the forums is aboslutely not a plce to experess such senitments. Period. _____________________
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Jake Reitveld
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07-29-2005 10:31
I'm sorry Cat, but Coco pushed first when she proposed to change the forums. Can you understand how this made people feel? Can you understand their concerns? If I proposed changing something important to you that would negatively impact on your game enjoyment (and yes the forums are part of the game) wouldn't you defend it? What if I said you must sell stuff and make a profit in Second Life to continue to play? Please note this is hypothetical. Wouldn't you try to fight this new policy? This is how I feel about Coco trying to change the forum policy. Can you please just try to see how people would be forced to speak out. If Coco's outburst is pushing back, then why can't the outbursts she refers to be perceived in the same manner. Quid Pro Quo! Do you see that it is entirely possible to debate whether the forums need reform without "pushing back at coco." Perhaps the question of whether the cahges imposed by the lindens are effective, or whether they should be undone is a valid question for debate. Saying that we are attacking coco because she "pushed" first is not really a justification. You might have simply stated that you feel the reforms insititude by the lindens did a fine job of correcting much of the uncivil behavior, and the reform is unneccessary. How ever the general tone taken in the forum seems to suggest otherwise to me. Thus I think that forum reform is still necessary, but I just wonder what form is should take and how changes can be implimented. If you disagree with me, fine be we are not here to win an argument we are here to make a case. Saying "Jake you dumbass moron, you are wrong, ignorant and mentally Ill" is not going to accomplish anything. Conversely suggesting that the forums need reforming is hardly a personal attack designed to upset the masses. _____________________
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Cristiano Midnight
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07-29-2005 10:37
So in your terms I could look at you and say"In my opinion you are menatally I'll. Furthermore you are ignorant and since you opinions are born out of your ignorace you are wrong" and this would not be considered a personal attack? I absolutely disagree, such statements are a direct persobnall attack and are not related to any opinion. the forums is aboslutely not a plce to experess such senitments. Period. You actually include "your(sic) wrong" in as a personal attack? Yes, if you combine all of them you can make it into a definite personal attack, and the first three do cross the line. However, the last one was so ridiculous to even include on the list - and shows the crux of what they are actually opposed to. Look at the forums honestly. Do you remember ever seeing someone say to someone else FUCK YOU? In two years, I have never seen this. I have seen FUCK YOUR OPINIONS, FUCKING MORON, and other variations of the word fuck uttered by one person. To tell someone what they are saying is ignorant is not a personal attack - telling them they are stupid is. People often speak out of ignorance in these forums - they go off half cocked without understanding the full details of something - hence, ignorance. If we are going to deal with real personal attacks, then stop with all the ridiculous smoke screens. Any list that includes "you're wrong" on it, or a list like the one Cocoanut came up with of Enabran's comments, shows that there is a severe lack of understanding as to what actually constitutes a "personal attack". _____________________
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Margaret Mfume
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07-29-2005 10:40
I was not sarcastic with you in any way - was the hostility really necessary? Cris, suggesting that my statement would hold true for any mindset implies that I was speaking on behalf of a particular mindset. That is in opposition to my point in posting. It seemed I needed to be more emphatic in making that point but I am sincerely not hostile to you. I don't need to agree with you on all things to maintain my respect for you as a steadfast and consistent proponent of free speech. I apologize if you took offense as none was intended. It really was an attempt to refute any implication that I was of, or trying to speaking on behalf of, one particular mindset. _____________________
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pandastrong Fairplay
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07-29-2005 10:42
You actually include "your(sic) wrong" in as a personal attack? It clearly states in the TOS that "you're wrong" is only considered a personal attack when the properly designated emoticon is attached at the end: "you're wrong ![]() Maybe you guys should read the TOS a little more carefully. Here is the link _____________________
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Margaret Mfume
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07-29-2005 10:43
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Cristiano Midnight
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07-29-2005 10:44
It clearly states in the TOS that "you're wrong" is only considered a personal attack when the properly designated emoticon is attached at the end: "you're wrong ![]() Maybe you guys should read the TOS a little more carefully. Here is the link You're ignorant ![]() _____________________
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Jake Reitveld
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07-29-2005 10:45
In truth, Cristiano, I do not thing "your wrong is a personal attack" I just added it in for completeness. I concede your point in that regard. I have seen the others used a few times: "Fuck you" maybe twice, but the others quite a number of times.
I also tend to agree the Enbaran's statements were not intented as personal attacks. My point was really to hightlight that somone proposed that "You are ingorant and mentally ill" is not a personal attack. To that extent I am guilty of forum hyperbole. Eh. So what, it amuses me. _____________________
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Reitsuki Kojima
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07-29-2005 10:46
So in your terms I could look at you and say"In my opinion you are menatally I'll. Furthermore you are ignorant and since you opinions are born out of your ignorace you are wrong" and this would not be considered a personal attack? I absolutely disagree, such statements are a direct persobnall attack and are not related to any opinion. the forums is aboslutely not a plce to experess such senitments. Period. You're free to disagree. That's whats so great about these forums ![]() Note that I did say Mentaly Ill was borderline, but I prefer to err on the side of not restricting people. _____________________
I am myself indifferent honest; but yet I could accuse me of such things that it were better my mother had not borne me: I am very proud, revengeful, ambitious, with more offenses at my beck than I have thoughts to put them in, imagination to give them shape, or time to act them in. What should such fellows as I do crawling between earth and heaven? We are arrant knaves, all; believe none of us.
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pandastrong Fairplay
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07-29-2005 10:46
You're ignorant ![]() Uh uh, your ignoreant! _____________________
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~ Ulrika Zugzwang on the iconography of pandastrong in the media "That's no good. Someone is going to take your place as SL's cutest boy while you're offline." ~ Ingrid Ingersoll on the topic of LL refusing to pay pandastrong for being in their game. |
Cristiano Midnight
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07-29-2005 10:50
You're free to disagree. That's whats so great about these forums ![]() Note that I did say Mentaly Ill was borderline, but I prefer to err on the side of not restricting people. I agree with you here. If someone told me they thought I was mentally ill, so what? The only way for someone to marginalize you is for you to let them. People place way too much value on what someone else says. I would much rather err on the side of letting people speak their minds - it often just makes them look bad anyway. To me, preventing someone the freedom to say "you're mentally ill" is a worse thing than someone saying it. _____________________
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pandastrong Fairplay
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07-29-2005 10:51
I just looked at page 1 again. This thread was AMAZING until page 2.
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~ Ulrika Zugzwang on the iconography of pandastrong in the media "That's no good. Someone is going to take your place as SL's cutest boy while you're offline." ~ Ingrid Ingersoll on the topic of LL refusing to pay pandastrong for being in their game. |
Aimee Weber
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07-29-2005 10:56
I just looked at page 1 again. This thread was AMAZING until page 2. All I could see on page 1 were diagrams. ![]() The 4 quadrant corners of the Earth sphere rotate as a quad spiraling helix - thus creating 4 simultaneous days per each rotation and 4 simultaneous years per 1 orbit around Sun. Greenwich day is of stupidity. -Gene Ray _____________________
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Jake Reitveld
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07-29-2005 11:29
I agree with you here. If someone told me they thought I was mentally ill, so what? The only way for someone to marginalize you is for you to let them. People place way too much value on what someone else says. I would much rather err on the side of letting people speak their minds - it often just makes them look bad anyway. To me, preventing someone the freedom to say "you're mentally ill" is a worse thing than someone saying it. Odd I feel the same way about the names FIC and Tekki-wikkiati. I haf offered that opinion before and been assured that FIC and Tekki Wikiati are very divisive terms that constitute personal attacks as they marginalized members of a particular group. _____________________
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April Firefly
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07-29-2005 11:32
I'm sorry Cat, but Coco pushed first when she proposed to change the forums. Can you understand how this made people feel? Can you understand their concerns? If I proposed changing something important to you that would negatively impact on your game enjoyment (and yes the forums are part of the game) wouldn't you defend it? What if I said you must sell stuff and make a profit in Second Life to continue to play? Please note this is hypothetical. Wouldn't you try to fight this new policy? This is how I feel about Coco trying to change the forum policy. Can you please just try to see how people would be forced to speak out. If Coco's outburst is pushing back, then why can't the outbursts she refers to be perceived in the same manner. Quid Pro Quo! Do you see that it is entirely possible to debate whether the forums need reform without "pushing back at coco." Perhaps the question of whether the cahges imposed by the lindens are effective, or whether they should be undone is a valid question for debate. Saying that we are attacking coco because she "pushed" first is not really a justification. You might have simply stated that you feel the reforms insititude by the lindens did a fine job of correcting much of the uncivil behavior, and the reform is unneccessary. How ever the general tone taken in the forum seems to suggest otherwise to me. Thus I think that forum reform is still necessary, but I just wonder what form is should take and how changes can be implimented. If you disagree with me, fine be we are not here to win an argument we are here to make a case. Saying "Jake you dumbass moron, you are wrong, ignorant and mentally Ill" is not going to accomplish anything. Conversely suggesting that the forums need reforming is hardly a personal attack designed to upset the masses. Oh I hardedly agree no needs to push. It's just that when some people have outbursts, some want to excuse it as being pushed. If that's the case, then all outbursts should be excused or none. No one should have the right to make an outburst because of "emininent pushing". In other words, one outbusts can not be justified, while others are condemned. Two wrongs do not make a right. __________________________ "To announce that there must be no criticism of the president, or that we are to stand by the president right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public." --Theodore Roosevelt _____________________
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Cristiano Midnight
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07-29-2005 11:47
Odd I feel the same way about the names FIC and Tekki-wikkiati. I haf offered that opinion before and been assured that FIC and Tekki Wikiati are very divisive terms that constitute personal attacks as they marginalized members of a particular group. I have never said someone should prevented from using the terms, just to not be surprised if someone is insulted by them. They were used at times as an attempt to marginalize the efforts of people - it doesn't mean it was succesful at doing so. I didn't say that calling someone mentally ill would not offend them. I simply find the efforts to control speech to the point of making the forums sanitized from any dissent to be far more offensive than someone hauling off and calling someone nuts (or hauling off and calling someone FIC or anything else). _____________________
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Chip Midnight
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07-29-2005 12:09
Odd I feel the same way about the names FIC and Tekki-wikkiati. I haf offered that opinion before and been assured that FIC and Tekki Wikiati are very divisive terms that constitute personal attacks as they marginalized members of a particular group. If you recall, no one who found those terms offensive launched a campaign to change the forum rules to prevent them from being uttered. They just made it clear what they thought of the inventor of those terms and his agenda. While the terms were clearly meant to be derisive, it was the agenda that spawned them that was truly offensive. _____________________
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Jauani Wu
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07-29-2005 12:27
answering his own questions again ? Blah Blah Blah zerofun Blah Blah Blah yeah but apparently his answer was wrong beyond anyones wildest imaginations. _____________________
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