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DogSpot Boxer
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09-24-2005 15:19
From: Jauani Wu
i figured out what is really happening here! i'm so proud of dogspot! :) link


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Cocoanut Koala
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09-24-2005 15:42
From: Chip Midnight
You mean like you calling forum regulars ignorant, hateful, immoral, and shallow? :rolleyes:

You know, there is something amiss with the logic in this.

Person A throws a tomato at someone - person B.

Person C says, "Hey, stop throwing that tomato."

Person D says, "You're just as wrong for critizing the tomato thrower. Shut up."

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Cocoanut Koala
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09-24-2005 15:44
From: Enabran Templar
This is actually a position that has been put forth in the past, with qualification: You need to be on a certain victim list in order to have your own personal attacks qualify as acceptable. Speak to Cocoanut for details on being included on that list.

See my post above.

I suppose I came on here with the intent - to list just ONE example - of being dismissed contemptuously as an alt for the first two months.

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Cocoanut Koala
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09-24-2005 15:47
From: Chip Midnight
The forums are (to quote Douglas Adams) "mostly harmless." Nothing more and nothing less. Put them in the proper context, accept that humans are imperfect, don't take things personally even when they're personal, and join in... or set yourself off to the side and refuse to play until someone fixes human nature (aka when hell freezes over).

What you are saying is what we see on the forums - the way the forums are - is the inevitable result of "human nature."

That no force, no policies, no rules, no enforcement, no cooperation, no effort - nothing - can ever change these forums from what they are right now.

That this is the way it is because this is the way it must be because people are the way they are.

I don't believe that.

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Nolan Nash
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09-24-2005 15:49
From: Cocoanut Koala
What you are saying is what we see on the forums - the way the forums are - is the inevitable result of "human nature."

That no force, no policies, no rules, no enforcement, no cooperation, no effort - nothing - can ever change these forums from what they are right now.

That this is the way it is because this is the way it must be because people are the way they are.

I don't believe that.

coco

I think a lot of your problems stemmed for the fact that you let your loyalty and refusal to publically admonish (like you love to do to others) one "tomato thrower" make it appear as if you employ double-standards.
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Cocoanut Koala
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09-24-2005 15:49
From: Cory Edo
Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Don't take it personally. I'm a dick to everyone*. In fact, if you're going to rail against anyone on here, rail against me. I'll fully admit it.

You know, I'm not opposed to people being dicks. As far as I'm concerned, everybody can be a dick all they want on their own time in their own places.

I just don't think this is the place for it. Because it is the only official forums, one might presume that certain boundaries would be in place to prevent the thousands of people who would like a polite discussion, not a contest of wits between a bunch of dicks.

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Kendra Bancroft
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09-24-2005 15:50
Fascinating.
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Cocoanut Koala
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09-24-2005 16:00
From: Dianne Mechanique
I guess when I am talking but right and wrong I really mean "wrong according to the balance of opinion on the forum."

As I said, I am most often not smart enough to take this advice myself (although I do sometimes), but if you look at the thread, and you are debating three or four forum regulars, and they all think you are wrong, and most of the ancillary posters also think you are wrong, whether *you* think you are wrong or not, the best course of action is to stop debating. That was my main point.

Everyone in Neualtenburg is probably breaking up right now as I am famous in that forum for *not* stopping my arguments, and *continuing* to argue even though most dont agree with me, but I *do* try (to stop). :)

The exception would be if you have some really cogent new facts or something that blows the rest of them all out of the water, but it's also good to keep in mind that possesion of those kind of facts is a pretty rare thing. Instead of posting the latest argument that comes "off the top of your head," if one stops and really thinks about it, usually one sees that one is *not* in possesion of any "debate-ending" material at all.

Believe it or not, I do this all the time since mostly my opinions dont seem to match up with *anyone* on any of the big issues. I am wrong over and over of course, but I find if I stick to these kind of rules, I am wrong a lot less than I would have been otherwise, and I dont end up in that horrible position where you are stuck defending some rash statement you made to dozens of people simultaneously even though you aren't sure you even want to believe in it anymore yourself.
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I have cogent new facts, all right. This whole thing came up again because of the treatment of DogSpot and of Jack and his lady.

Why - on earth - would I ever stop saying to stop treating posters with riducule and derision? How could I ever start to believe that was in any way right?

Particularly when the TOS backs me up?

I can never see a really dire instance of this and not speak up.

I don't know what you are arguing about in Neuraltenberg, but if you are arguing for the Neuraltenberg citizens to stop griefing the guests (not that they are, or ever would - but it is what I am doing here), then I suggest you don't EVER stop arguing for that.

And why would I care if three or four regulars think I am wrong? I don't change my principles based on what three or four, or thirty or forty regulars think.

Basically, I think the whole argument comes down to two camps:

(1) We reserve the right to be as nasty as we wanna be. Grow a thick skin, or get out.

(2) No, read the TOS. Follow the TOS. Discuss topics, but treat others and their opinions with respect.

I'm gonna stick with (2) no matter how many names I get called for it, or how many neurotic disorders I'm accused of having.

Not only is it a matter of simple adult civility, it is also better for SL not to drive people away.

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Aimee Weber
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09-24-2005 16:02
From: Cocoanut Koala
You know, I'm not opposed to people being dicks. As far as I'm concerned, everybody can be a dick all they want on their own time in their own places.

I just don't think this is the place for it. Because it is the only official forums, one might presume that certain boundaries would be in place to prevent the thousands of people who would like a polite discussion, not a contest of wits between a bunch of dicks.


Man, I could have used your help a few months ago, boy HOWDY!


oh and...

Damn you Kendra and your green blooded logic!
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Kendra Bancroft
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09-24-2005 16:03
I'm far more likely to be driven away by sanctimony than anything else.
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Kendra Bancroft
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09-24-2005 16:07
From: Aimee Weber
Man, I could have used your help a few months ago, boy HOWDY!


oh and...

Damn you Kendra and your green blooded logic!



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Your emotions will be your undoing.
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09-24-2005 16:08
hay guys did teh hegmonney end alllredy lol?
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Chip Midnight
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Join date: 1 May 2003
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09-24-2005 16:17
From: Cocoanut Koala
What you are saying is what we see on the forums - the way the forums are - is the inevitable result of "human nature."

That no force, no policies, no rules, no enforcement, no cooperation, no effort - nothing - can ever change these forums from what they are right now.


Well, you could get rid of all the people but that would sorta defeat the purpose of having forums in the first place :)
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Nolan Nash
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09-24-2005 16:17
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Tang Lightcloud
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09-24-2005 16:18
Looks like another job for Galaxy Janitor.
Kendra Bancroft
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09-24-2005 16:30
Question:

If Noobs have money trees, do the FIC have hedge money?
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Cienna Samiam
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09-24-2005 18:35
From: JackBurton Faulkland
That doesnt make sense in regards to what you posted. At least you tried to be rational.


If it doesn't make sense, then you're not thinking. If one says "X is an attention whore" that is very directly a personal attack. If one, however, says "Attention Whores do Y", then only by self-identification (i.e., someone jumping up to yell that they think you just called them one, thus self-identifying) is one actually known to BE an attention whore.

I can't believe I actually have to explain this to anyone. Pitiful.
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Cristiano Midnight
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09-24-2005 18:37
From: Kendra Bancroft
Question:

If Noobs have money trees, do the FIC have hedge money?


I believe it is a hedge fund.
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DogSpot Boxer
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09-24-2005 19:02
From: Cienna Samiam
If it doesn't make sense, then you're not thinking. If one says "X is an attention whore" that is very directly a personal attack. If one, however, says "Attention Whores do Y", then only by self-identification (i.e., someone jumping up to yell that they think you just called them one, thus self-identifying) is one actually known to BE an attention whore.

I can't believe I actually have to explain this to anyone. Pitiful.


Yes, that's true. And I've seen a lot of self-identification going on in all corners this weekend.

BTW, you really don't have to be so snarky all the time.

Oh, I forgot, I've been "dismissed".

Yeah, it sure is fun being ignored. :D
Cristiano Midnight
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09-24-2005 19:09
From: DogSpot Boxer
Yes, that's true. And I've seen a lot of self-identification going on in all corners this weekend.

BTW, you really don't have to be so snarky all the time.

Oh, I forgot, I've been "dismissed".

Yeah, it sure is fun being ignored. :D


She is always snarky, it is part of her charm.
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Susie Boffin
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09-24-2005 19:27
From: DogSpot Boxer
Yes, that's true. And I've seen a lot of self-identification going on in all corners this weekend.

BTW, you really don't have to be so snarky all the time.

Oh, I forgot, I've been "dismissed".

Yeah, it sure is fun being ignored. :D


You have seen a lot of self defication going on? Yeah a lot of them have no control but us sturdy souls try to ignore their personal habits. :D
DogSpot Boxer
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09-24-2005 19:38
From: Cristiano Midnight
She is always snarky, it is part of her charm.


Perhaps.
Enabran Templar
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09-24-2005 19:42
Okay, back from Target, just bought a new pizza pan.

So is the hegemony ended yet?
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Cienna Samiam
Bah.
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09-24-2005 19:44
From: Cristiano Midnight
She is always snarky, it is part of her charm.


Not always, just when someone is doing their damnedest to ruin my genuine belief in the underlying intelligence of mankind.

p.s.: I hate typos. =/
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DogSpot Boxer
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09-24-2005 19:55
From: Cienna Samiam
Not always, just when someone is doing their damnedest to ruin my genuine believe in the underlying intelligence of mankind.


In other words, most of the time.
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