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Elspeth Withnail
Completely Trustworthy
Join date: 24 Jan 2005
Posts: 317
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03-26-2006 21:37
It's so clear to me that this is really a way for you to project your issues onto other people. Next thing you know, you'll be telling us that it's better to be molested than to be spanked by a parent. Oh God don't even go there, Kiari. That one died, let it decay in peace. |
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Starax Statosky
Unregistered User
Join date: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 1,099
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03-26-2006 21:37
 Isn't this enough already!? |
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Csven Concord
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Join date: 19 Mar 2005
Posts: 1,015
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03-26-2006 21:37
I prefer the 2000AD version, Nolan. Image Link
Tomas de Torquemada is the reincarnation of some of the most evil men who ever lived! As the head of the Termight Empire and its army, the Terminators, Torquemada leads a Holy Crusade to cleanse the galaxy of all things alien and "deviant." A travel wire accident was only a minor setback when he was reduced to spirit form. But not even death could stop the ultimate fascist, discovering he could return by possessing a rotting corpse. It's a tough job passing judgement, but I'll volunteer. Call me selfless. |
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Lorelei Patel
was here
Join date: 22 Feb 2004
Posts: 1,940
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03-26-2006 21:37
I didn't say I was into role play, I said I am truly submissive by nature in RL and it comes out in my SL character because it is a reality to me and I don't really know how to behave otherwise. Remember that for later. I don't do any structured "role play" and I don't think there is any problem with role play as long as it doesn't include the wholesale objectification of children as sexual objects. Why stop there? what about role play that includes objectification of women as sexual objects? That certainly goes on here. Is one OK and one not? Is it so hard for people to wrap their head around the fact that just like in real life, we have to keep our eyes out for issues that might be harmful to our community? OK, but who gets to decide what is harmful? You? Because you have a psychology degree? My degree is in psychology and I can assure you from everything I know that pretending to be a child in SL who is interacting with other adults pretending to be children is not going to cure any childhood psychological issues or give someone back a lost childhood. This is where you with your psychology degree really lose me. You mention that you have truely submissive tendencies. Do you really image that has nothing to do with a poor self-worth? I speak here as one person with her own submissive tendencies which I recognize are not entirely healthful. If community mental health is really your concern, maybe you should start with your own? I am sorry for what happened to you as a child, and I do understand your discomfort with this topic. I share it. But maye, your discomfort and mine really should not matter where two consenting adults are concerned. _____________________
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Kim Anubis
The Magician
Join date: 3 Jun 2004
Posts: 921
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03-26-2006 21:38
Okay just for you, Torley! On topic: I have a kid av. I wore it to go Trick-or-Treating inworld last Halloween, and it was a blast.
But really, I wanted to post this: http://www.julala.com/_Trek_Wars-663 _____________________
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prak Curie
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Join date: 4 Jun 2004
Posts: 346
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03-26-2006 21:38
I said I have a degree in psychology. Have you been to school yet to learn what the difference is? A psychologist works in the field, a person who has a degree in something, studied it, read a lot and earned a college degree. In my case it was a B.A. That isn't enough to be a psychologist but since my concentration was on human sexuality, I probably have more reading on the subject than anyone else who has been attacking me thus far? I am God. How dare you question my wisdom. _____________________
-prak
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Zepp Zaftig
Unregistered Abuser
Join date: 20 Mar 2005
Posts: 470
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03-26-2006 21:39
I'll do my best in bringing the thread back on topic.
The topic was cowbells, wasn't it? _____________________
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Ananda Sandgrain
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Join date: 16 May 2003
Posts: 1,951
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03-26-2006 21:41
It does take a psych of one kind or another to diagnose thought crime, doesn't it? The problem with trying to identify and lock up every "potential" pedophile, rapist or other pre-crime flavor of the week is that after a while there is no one left free on the streets. It's a sad fact of life on Earth but everyone at one point or another has had an evil thought.
Let it go. This matter obviously disturbs you, you would be better off to not subject yourself to such fantasy images if they restimulate you so much. I'm sure all of us would be better off not to do it, but once you start eliminating such exposure simply on the basis that it might upset someone, you are soon left with no freedom of thought at all. _____________________
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Starax Statosky
Unregistered User
Join date: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 1,099
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03-26-2006 21:43
Okay just for you, Torley! On topic: I have a kid av. I wore it to go Trick-or-Treating inworld last Halloween, and it was a blast. But really, I wanted to post this: http://www.julala.com/_Trek_Wars-663 Thanks for that Kim! Kirk even pulled a rock out and hit Picard in the head with it!. So I'm not the only one who has longed to see that happen.  |
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bella Ophelia
Registered User
Join date: 22 Mar 2006
Posts: 152
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03-26-2006 21:43
Remember that for later. Why stop there? what about role play that includes objectification of women as sexual objects? That certainly goes on here. Is one OK and one not? I'm a woman and I love to be objectified by both men and woman... OK, but who gets to decide what is harmful? You? Because you have a psychology degree? Typically a community agrees whether it is okay or not to use children for sexual gratification. Maybe in your community it is different. If so, I'll be happy to be the only one who decides this is wrong. This is where you with your psychology degree really lose me. You mention that you have truely submissive tendencies. Do you really image that has nothing to do with a poor self-worth? I speak here as one person with her own submissive tendencies which I recognize are not entirely healthful. If community mental health is really your concern, maybe you should start with your own? I am sorry for what happened to you as a child, and I do understand your discomfort with this topic. I share it. But maye, your discomfort and mine really should not matter where two consenting adults are concerned. Or maybe you should take a stand and defend children who are not yet victimized... |
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bella Ophelia
Registered User
Join date: 22 Mar 2006
Posts: 152
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03-26-2006 21:46
It does take a psych of one kind or another to diagnose thought crime, doesn't it? The problem with trying to identify and lock up every "potential" pedophile, rapist or other pre-crime flavor of the week is that after a while there is no one left free on the streets. It's a sad fact of life on Earth but everyone at one point or another has had an evil thought. Let it go. This matter obviously disturbs you, you would be better off to not subject yourself to such fantasy images if they restimulate you so much. I'm sure all of us would be better off not to do it, but once you start eliminating such exposure simply on the basis that it might upset someone, you are soon left with no freedom of thought at all. I'm asking that the Lindens simply add a rule against using images of children as sexual objects. Where am I suggesting locking anyone up? I don't care if I'm upset, I care that some man is raping a child on SL and then later in his daughter's bedroom. |
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Nolan Nash
Frischer Frosch
Join date: 15 May 2003
Posts: 7,141
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03-26-2006 21:47
Okay just for you, Torley! On topic: I have a kid av. I wore it to go Trick-or-Treating inworld last Halloween, and it was a blast. But really, I wanted to post this: http://www.julala.com/_Trek_Wars-663 That's beautiful! I recreated it just like Starax suggested -- the coup de grace being Kirk beaning Jen-Luc in the noggin with a rock! *swoons* _____________________
“Time's fun when you're having flies.” ~Kermit
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Kendra Bancroft
Rhine Maiden
Join date: 17 Jun 2004
Posts: 5,813
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03-26-2006 21:48
I'm a woman and I love to be objectified by both men and woman... Some psychologists feel that the objectification of women leads to rape. Maybe we should ban all women AVs who don't wear burkas? _____________________
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Kim Anubis
The Magician
Join date: 3 Jun 2004
Posts: 921
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03-26-2006 21:48
It's not possible to rape anyone in SL. (See, that was on topic.)
And I think Picard sucks. Now, there's a dude who needs more cowbell. _____________________
http://www.TheMagicians.us
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Susie Boffin
Certified Nutcase
Join date: 15 Sep 2004
Posts: 2,151
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03-26-2006 21:48
It's so clear to me that this is really a way for you to project your issues onto other people. Next thing you know, you'll be telling us that it's better to be molested than to be spanked by a parent. I never said it was better to be molested than to be spanked. Please go review my original post. I said both can be equally damaging but one is legal and the other one isn't. _____________________
"If you see a man approaching you with the obvious intent of doing you good, you should run for your life." - Henry David Thoreau
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Kendra Bancroft
Rhine Maiden
Join date: 17 Jun 2004
Posts: 5,813
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03-26-2006 21:49
I'm asking that the Lindens simply add a rule against using images of children as sexual objects. Where am I suggesting locking anyone up? I don't care if I'm upset, I care that some man is raping a child on SL and then later in his daughter's bedroom. Again --why stop there? Why not worry that some man is raping a woman on SL and then later going put to the park and raping a jogger? _____________________
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Csven Concord
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Join date: 19 Mar 2005
Posts: 1,015
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03-26-2006 21:50
It's a sad fact of life on Earth but everyone at one point or another has had an evil thought. Which is why we need the Inquisition!!! |
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Starax Statosky
Unregistered User
Join date: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 1,099
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03-26-2006 21:50
Again --why stop there? Why not worry that some man is raping a woman on SL and then later going put to the park and raping a jogger? he'd not catch her! |
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Allana Dion
Registered User
Join date: 12 Jul 2005
Posts: 1,230
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03-26-2006 21:51
Yes, "kill the messenger," it's tried and true. begin innaccurate assumptions as way of qualifying earlier PC statement. Let's see... I've only said it several times before but all I suggested was an official police by the Lindens that child avatars not be used as sexual objects or for sexual means. But what you said demonizes me better so go ahead and promote that that is what I suggested. Yes, well, I've been in SL for 2 weeks and walked up on it because I wanted to dance and meet people. But I'm sure you are somehow living a more valid life so your experience should be considered and mine ignored. Beautifully put. If you don't want to see crime, hide. 99% are normal, only 1% are going to rape your child tomorrow, don't worry... worry after your child is raped and his/her life is changed forever. 99% okay... let's see... that is 1 person in 100... how many people do I think a child meets in the course of being a child... okay, well, maybe if they cross their fingers they won't come upon one of these unusual specimens. Whew! Ok with responding to this one I'm officially done because I'm getting a headache and you're not getting the point. I wasn't trying to demonize you, I misunderstood your goal, shoot me. You're too busy seeing yourself as the victim here being attacked by everyone else to really hear what anyone is saying... maybe in a few days when you've calmed down you might reread some of it and gain some perspective. Quote: "Yes, well, I've been in SL for 2 weeks and walked up on it because I wanted to dance and meet people. But I'm sure you are somehow living a more valid life so your experience should be considered and mine ignored." No not a more valid life of course not! But a longer one in SL, with more experiences here that have nothing to do with sex and dance clubs.... so when you read this again in a few days with a clearer head.... let me state again my advice... Explore. Look around, go to places you WOULDN'T go to for sex and you'll see that not all of SL is about that and not everyone here is doing it. Yes there is the 1% out there who might be dangerous... absolutely. They exist in all worlds everywhere. But I say again... you can't censor the innocent to prevent the possibility some might be guilty. And you can't censor anyone based only on YOUR opinion of right and wrong. Quote: "worry after your child is raped and his/her life is changed forever. 99% okay... let's see... that is 1 person in 100... how many people do I think a child meets in the course of being a child... okay, well, maybe if they cross their fingers they won't come upon one of these unusual specimens" NO I dont worry after, I prevent. I keep my child out of potentially harmful environments like oh say virtual worlds. This is why children aren't allowed here. Again I'll say it..... there are NO child victims in the activities you are so opposed to... lets focus on the real life abusers. |
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Nolan Nash
Frischer Frosch
Join date: 15 May 2003
Posts: 7,141
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03-26-2006 21:51
I'm asking that the Lindens simply add a rule against using images of children as sexual objects. Where am I suggesting locking anyone up? I don't care if I'm upset, I care that some man is raping a child on SL and then later in his daughter's bedroom. So ask them in the proper channel. Email them, call their 800 number, ask in the Answers Forum, start a proposition on the voting page. Insulting people by insinuating they are pedos or men playing women because they happen to think your ideas are off-base is not the proper channel. It's downright RUDE. And I don't care if you aren't a psychologist. You're acting as if you are one by throwing around unverifiable credentials and analyzing people who disagree with you. _____________________
“Time's fun when you're having flies.” ~Kermit
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bella Ophelia
Registered User
Join date: 22 Mar 2006
Posts: 152
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03-26-2006 21:51
Some psychologists feel that the objectification of women leads to rape. Maybe we should ban all women AVs who don't wear burkas? Maybe... but I don't agree and I haven't heard anyone suggest this except you. I am suggesting we ban the use of child avatars as sexual objects... use your own post to ban all women AVs who don't wear burkas. ...the stupidity dumbfounds me. |
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Elspeth Withnail
Completely Trustworthy
Join date: 24 Jan 2005
Posts: 317
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03-26-2006 21:51
I never said it was better to be molested than to be spanked. Please go review my original post. I said both can be equally damaging but one is legal and the other one isn't. Ohmigod they're rising from the dead! COWBELL! STAT! Erm... uh... ontopic... uh... oh, right, Kirk would totally kick Picard's butt. |
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Kendra Bancroft
Rhine Maiden
Join date: 17 Jun 2004
Posts: 5,813
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03-26-2006 21:52
It's not possible to rape anyone in SL. (See, that was on topic.) And I think Picard sucks. Now, there's a dude who needs more cowbell. Correct on rape being impossible in SL. Incorrect on Picard. Obviously you never saw him battle a Nausican. _____________________
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bella Ophelia
Registered User
Join date: 22 Mar 2006
Posts: 152
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03-26-2006 21:53
Again --why stop there? Why not worry that some man is raping a woman on SL and then later going put to the park and raping a jogger? Every person can't take up every cause... I have mine, you choose yours. |
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Kendra Bancroft
Rhine Maiden
Join date: 17 Jun 2004
Posts: 5,813
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03-26-2006 21:53
Maybe... but I don't agree and I haven't heard anyone suggest this except you. I am suggesting we ban the use of child avatars as sexual objects... use your own post to ban all women AVs who don't wear burkas. ...the stupidity dumbfounds me. I'm just using your logic. Also I fail to see why the personal attack at me. I've not attacked you. _____________________
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