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Hue Moe
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Join date: 28 Nov 2004
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11-20-2005 18:20
How Can you put this crap here Angela is one of my best freinds this is a very hard thing for her to go through so how about some support instead of insulting and laughing next time something like this happens ill laugh at you...Jerks
SarahLynn Loveless
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Join date: 18 Nov 2004
Posts: 43
Isn't it about a Bad Business ????
11-20-2005 18:26
I am a bit shocked few seems to care or can even understand that this is about a business failing to live up to their promise and not about just a prim baby. The creator is rude and will not respond.
I am sure this has happened to many in sl, whether it be clothing, houses, furniture, etc. There are many GREAT vendors who truly want to have a nice business but I tired of the ones that think it is funny and think nothing will ever happen if they make a habit of scamming.
Unfortunately, Angela and I have both tired numerous times to get answers and there is no way to give negative rates now that they are no longer available. So we thought ppl would like to know what has happened.
I know if a company i was buying from was in the habit of doing this, I would like to know.
I must be naive but i can't believe how often this actually occurs in sl :( sad i think
Enabran Templar
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Join date: 26 Aug 2004
Posts: 4,506
11-20-2005 18:29
From: Hue Moe
How Can you put this crap here Angela is one of my best freinds this is a very hard thing for her to go through so how about some support instead of insulting and laughing next time something like this happens ill laugh at you...Jerks


As has been mentioned before, I don't really see anyone laughing.
Cristiano Midnight
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Join date: 17 May 2003
Posts: 8,616
11-20-2005 18:53
I am amazed that this person is still in business in SL. As someone who has a product for the same market (a pregnancy AO), I meet a lot of people who are interested in babies in SL. Time and again, this same company comes up as being a scam. It is a shame that the TOS binds us from posting about this (unless of course you own enough land that LL looks the other way, apparently), because this particular company has scammed a lot of people out of a lot of money by not delivering on what was promised, no pun intended.

Sorry that this happened to you. Word of mouth is a powerful thing, but unfortunately, as SL grows larger and the TOS binds us from even being able to alert people to bad products or outright scams, this will continue to go on. As always, buyer beware. Before you are considering purchasing anything you consider to be expensive in SL, ask around about the company. Being an informed consumer is always a good thing.
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Belaya Statosky
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Join date: 3 Jun 2004
Posts: 552
11-20-2005 18:58
How I Mine For Babies????
Phoenix Psaltery
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Join date: 25 Feb 2005
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11-20-2005 19:01
From: Enabran Templar
As has been mentioned before, I don't really see anyone laughing.


(Sheepishly raising hand) I am.

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Gabriel Spinnaker
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Join date: 21 Jun 2004
Posts: 73
11-20-2005 19:06
From: Hue Moe
How Can you put this crap here Angela is one of my best freinds this is a very hard thing for her to go through so how about some support instead of insulting and laughing next time something like this happens ill laugh at you...Jerks
PRIM BABIES = SERIOUS BUSINESS!

If there's anything worthy of derision in SL, it's prim babies. I can think of few things more sad and pathetic.

And yes, I am a jerk! :D
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Noel Marlowe
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Join date: 18 Apr 2005
Posts: 275
11-20-2005 19:08
Caveat emptor. Should be the new motto for SL.

You take a risk when you buy anything over the internet. Unless you are buying from a well established company. SL is many times worse, because there is little resemblence of law enforcement here. You only have a merchant's good reputation as a guide and sometimes that's not enough. You could get in a dispute with a well known builder that something was not what you thought they promised, they say tough and you just end up so many $L poorer.

So - even with the silly remarks - we are helping you by keeping this thread alive. Otherwise, it would have dropped to page two by now. Originally, the complaint should have been aired from a business perspective. When the appeal to sympathy was made about the buying a baby in SL - which you have to admit is a little strange - you made yourself vulnerable.

Pregnancy Merchants? Baby Merchants? I wonder what we will call this new field? I wager they will have about the same honesty rate compared to the average sex trade merchant. Sex trade merchants can afford to stiff ;) the occassional customer every so often. Because they know they their cheated customer will never admit to trying to buy it on the forums. So, I am wagering he made the assumption.

You have my sympathy for being cheated of L$.

When I saw the title of this thread, I thought, "Wow, sim sex does have risks."
Lordfly Digeridoo
Prim Orchestrator
Join date: 21 Jul 2003
Posts: 3,628
11-20-2005 19:10
Argh.

Seriously. Babies.

Just... argh.

Roleplaying... babies.. with the... argh.

My brain hurts. A lot.

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Phoenix Psaltery
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11-20-2005 19:10
From: Gabriel Spinnaker
PRIM BABIES = SERIOUS BUSINESS!

If there's anything worthy of derision in SL, it's prim babies. I can think of few things more sad and pathetic.

And yes, I am a jerk! :D


These people who want to have babies in SL have managed to make SL a game. Shame on them.

:p

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Surreal Farber
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Join date: 5 Feb 2004
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11-20-2005 19:16
Well I admit my first thought was to tell my favorite animator that she was missing a market niche by not making a "delivery" table complete with squatting, grunting, puking, screaming, ... oh and rezzing a blood soaked placenta.....

She was not amused... but I've notice that women who have never given birth (and guys too) are often grossed out about the placenta part of a birthing conversation.

I will refrain from telling my best real-life placenta story here in the interests of good taste.

At least I don't expect skins with post-pregnancy stretchmarks and 15 lbs of stubborn baby fat to become popular anytime soon. :D
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Lo Jacobs
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Join date: 28 May 2004
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11-20-2005 19:17
From: Cristiano Midnight
Word of mouth is a powerful thing, but unfortunately, as SL grows larger and the TOS binds us from even being able to alert people to bad products or outright scams, this will continue to go on. As always, buyer beware. Before you are considering purchasing anything you consider to be expensive in SL, ask around about the company. Being an informed consumer is always a good thing.


So, I'm interested: would a Better Business Bureau be against the ToS?

I am seriously interested in helping start one.
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Zapoteth Zaius
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11-20-2005 19:18
From: Phoenix Psaltery
(Sheepishly raising hand) I am.

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Don't worry, I am too..

I mean, its bad you got scammed.. It shouldn't have happened.. But you move on and deal with it.. Live and learn, don't pay until you recieve the product..

But getting upset over a scripted prim baby? (which is what I assume this is)

Maybe I just can't imagine it.. But if I ever get truly upset over prims, I'll eat my prim hat.. MY POOR HAT!!
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Lordfly Digeridoo
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Join date: 21 Jul 2003
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11-20-2005 19:24
From: Surreal Farber
Well I admit my first thought was to tell my favorite animator that she was missing a market niche by not making a "delivery" table complete with squatting, grunting, puking, screaming, ... oh and rezzing a blood soaked placenta.....

She was not amused... but I've notice that women who have never given birth (and guys too) are often grossed out about the placenta part of a birthing conversation.

I will refrain from telling my best real-life placenta story here in the interests of good taste.

At least I don't expect skins with post-pregnancy stretchmarks and 15 lbs of stubborn baby fat to become popular anytime soon. :D


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Zapoteth Zaius
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11-20-2005 19:27
LF, that is just wrooooong! lol
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11-20-2005 19:32
comming soon... the VaSLectomy
Artemis Fate
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Join date: 24 Oct 2003
Posts: 746
11-20-2005 19:34
Okay. My opinions on the nature of babies in SL aside, I think i'd heard of this before.

It seems this place, Natural choice was it?, has been doing this to a lot of virtual parents (in 2 senses of the word), or atleast that i've heard of this happening via forum posts more than a few times. I'm assuming that since there was a time period put inbetween the payment and the recieving of the product, that you paid first for them to start production on this thing, and that they'd hand it to you when they were done, no? Unfortunately, SL is still a rather untamed land in that sense, and much like a deal between thieves, you should really keep in mind to pay when you get "the stuff".

But it's a bit late for that so the only causes of action I can think of know are this:

1.) Abuse Report the maker and the store, LL doesn't like to get involved in financial matters between residents usually but atleast let them know if you haven't already, and maybe you can get it solved with some "divine intervention" or atleast have this place known about.

2.) Do what you're doing now: get the word out. If there's anything that business owners and scammers don't like, it's bad publicity. Tell prospective parents, friends, forums, what happened. There's not a lot of wide spread media in SL like a Television, so the best that can be done for this in a communicative sense is word of mouth.

3.) Pester the hell out of the guy. Maybe he really is just a lazy guy and didn't plan on extorting you. If that's true then some gentle (or not so gentle) prodding will keep him going. And if he did plan on extorting you, maybe it'll annoy him into action.

Besides that I can't think of much to do aside from not taking the whole thing so seriously. It's a miniscule amount of money for a clump of prims in the vague resemblance of a baby, certainly no 9 months of gestation and pickles and ice cream were involved, so what might be suggested is just to cut your losses and move on to a more reliable maker who doesn't require you to pay up front.
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Eamonn Soothsayer
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Join date: 25 Oct 2005
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11-20-2005 19:50
two comments on this...

1. in RL isn't the selling/buying of babies un-lawful?

2. These things happen...it's a GAME ...err right?

one solution

Think of it as an SL mis-carriage.
Marcos Fonzarelli
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11-20-2005 20:21
These babies... are they in boxes?
Eboni Khan
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11-20-2005 20:32
From: Eamonn Soothsayer

Think of it as an SL mis-carriage.



One of the worst things ever posted in these forums. Jackass.
Artemis Fate
I'm a big stupid-face.
Join date: 24 Oct 2003
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11-20-2005 20:32
From: Marcos Fonzarelli
These babies... are they in boxes?


You get 20 babies in a garbage can. Or is it 1 baby in 20 garbage cans? I forget.

From: Eboni Khan
One of the worst things ever posted in these forums. Jackass.


*looks up at her post* I think you spoke too soon.
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qDot Bunnyhug
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Join date: 19 Jul 2005
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11-20-2005 20:39
What's black and blue and missing some weird parts that show up as kind of transparent?

A Dead Half-Rezzed Prim Baby.


I R TEH W1N
Eamonn Soothsayer
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Join date: 25 Oct 2005
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11-20-2005 21:12
From: Eboni Khan
One of the worst things ever posted in these forums. Jackass.


truely sorry. I didn't say that to be mean. It just makes sence that if people role play marriage and then role play haveing a baby in a game that, if for whatever reason there is no baby, they should role play it somehow.
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11-20-2005 21:37
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Artemis Fate
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11-20-2005 22:20
From: Koyuki Michabo
Koyuki Michabo Industries is here to solve all of your bulk baby needs!

Due to our automated production methods we can fill any demand for babies no matter how huge. We keep a large number of babies in stock at all times so you'll never be waiting, and our production methods make baby creating cheaper. That's a saving we pass straight on to you, the customer!

Order your baby (or indeed box(es) of babies) today!

Special discounts for bulk orders!

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You....have........FAR too much time on your hands. lol
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