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Morganna Reggiane
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03-25-2009 11:45
From: Nany Kayo
I am not convinced that the sex trade userbase is invoved in other business or education. The types of things the majority of people posting on this tread have in their profiles would prevent them from participating in reputable mainstream organizations.QUOTE]

I shop at Home Depot, Walmart and Loblaws just like everyone else in my community from teen welfare mothers to Bay Street bankers. I am a Cultural Anthropologist, have taught at university and been an active member in many professional associations and fora.

My daughters go to school right along side children of crack addicts, erotic dancers, teachers, white collar professionals and autoworkers. I was a active and vocal participant in the PTA at both of their schools, attended every Girl Guides meeting and banquet and was a designated "safe" home for my Neighborhood Watch.

I am a REAL WORLD Domme and have been for 30+ years. For the past 4 years I have hosted a monthly Munch at a local restuarant which has full disclosure about the nature of our meetings and the assurance that we will act appropriately in accordance with all bylaws pertaining to public decency and liquor control laws. These munches are not hidden in some back room and are open to anyone over the age of 19.

Exactly WHO do you think we are? We are your neighbors, your co-workers and your friends. We may even be a family member. What we do is legal between consenting adults and if some peeping tom used a telescope to look into my private home as defined by the boundries of the land the police would ARREST the "pervert"...SL would ARREST me under this ill defined policy.

I joined SL to get AWAY from such blatent bigotry, intolerance and ignorance. Due to this decision I will be removing the referrals links from my Munch website (3000 views per month) and Fetlife profile (20,000 active members) as it is no longer an open environment where adults can safely explore all aspects of their sexuality with assured anonymity.

Morganna Reggiane
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In peaceful protest and respectful disagreement
03-25-2009 11:55
In peaceful protest and respectful disagreement, I have sold off 3/4ths of a SIM with another 1/4th slated to sell on 4/4/2009. I have occupied that land with my friends since October 2007. Words alone cannot begin to describe the memories and the experiences that we've shared, here. It was more than just 1's and 0's. It was our home.

Save for a small clothing shop, this SIM was residential and not advertised as public. We did our best to have a clean build and keep the waterways clear for sailing. We tried to keep any naughty bits well above unassisted flight altitude. I am certain this SIM was not within that 2-4% and would not have to be force-relocated due to this policy change, but that's the sticky part, isn't it?

THIS policy change... What's next? If you affirm that mature regions with mature content flags within a game that is already 18+ is not enough to protect US from the stray kid and sensitive adult, then nothing you do ever WILL be enough.[1]

This message is not really for the Lindens. You're replacing one dissatisfied customer paying tier with one or more (hopefully) satisfied others. Congratulations.

I wish you all the best in your business endeavours.

[1] As a noob with credit card already on file, I often used the big map to teleport to regions where the most green dots existed. What will you tell the person that accidentally lands in pornoland? I'm assuming you'll put into place technical controls that prevents this from happening. Then I'm assuming you'll explain why you can't put those same technical controls in to protect MATURE land, now.
Wynochee LeShelle
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Join date: 3 Feb 2007
Posts: 658
This will be fun
03-25-2009 12:30
From: Blondin Linden
Forgive my ignorance, but why wouldn't link-take-drop work?


Hm...

have you ever tried to link a - maybe . 257 prim house + base + additional interior and decorations, incl. all coffeecups, ashtrays, cigarettes, the milk bottle, the trees around the house, the nearby full equiped gallery, the loft at the other side of the self-developed street, the moonshine house, the zero-energy-house, the garbo gallery, the factory, the street itself, the nearby office building, the nearby second gallery with hundreds of frames and art-pics and the architecture and prefabs shop you made, all advertisings and corporated signs and customer service items, the demo buildings, and the second private home, the sky box...some vehicles and the other 5000 prims of half a sim, including some very small and some mini prims and some invisible or transparent prims and some whatever prims, a perfect setup wich fitted to the more or less wavy landscape - then take all that stuff, while many of the prims are setted to one owner, many of the prims are setted to group, and some are setted to other group members and some are setted to people like the VirWox bank or some other services and to take that all as a bundle and to drop that somewhere into a different sim half with a different landscape...

Try it, have fun and report us occasionally about the progress... - in some months...or years...

hehehe ;-)

I am curious how smooth and fast it will work for you... and this was only a half sim...now think on the whole stuff on a 64000+sqm area or some more regions...

Add the fact, that the phone can ring while linking or the cat jumps on your keyboard or your cursor loses the connection or you missed to link something and the cam is in a not comfortable angle...or you have to sneeze suddenly - or you are unconcentrated, because tired of linking for hours, and so on ...

And not to forget:your customers have suddenly no idea about where you moved so suddenly - all picks, landmarks, slurls are wrong suddenly, you need to change xstreet-entrys if you gave slurls in, you need to change picks, landmarks, even the service landmarks in every of hundreds salesboxes, the notecards, some things on your website, if you have one for your biz, and much more...

Not to forget to flag things and lots new and to set this lot PG, and this lot mature and that again adult...

See you then next year, with grey hair and 30 kilos weight loss, shaking hands and half-blind eyes, financialy near insolvence or bankrupt, measured in L$, hehehe ;-)

Maybe let us watch and observe your actions, it will be best entertainment.
Jill Winger
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The question is, "do they care?"
03-25-2009 12:52
From: Wynochee LeShelle
Hm...

have you ever tried to link a - maybe . 257 prim house + base + additional interior and decorations, incl. all coffeecups, ashtrays, cigarettes.....


And not to forget:your customers have suddenly no idea about where you moved so suddenly - all picks, landmarks, slurls are wrong suddenly, you need to change xstreet-entrys if you gave slurls in, you need to change picks, landmarks, even the service landmarks in every of hundreds salesboxes, the notecards, some things on your website, if you have one for your biz, and much more...

Not to forget to flag things and lots new and to set this lot PG, and this lot mature and that again adult...

See you then next year, with grey hair and 30 kilos weight loss, shaking hands and half-blind eyes, financialy near insolvence or bankrupt, measured in L$, hehehe ;-)

Maybe let us watch and observe your actions, it will be best entertainment.




Lets just see what they say about this
Nany Kayo
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03-25-2009 12:58
From: Blondin Linden
There are a lot of aspects that we still need help with such as how to define ADULT.


You can model your definition of Adult on what similar types of businesses are using.

You can make a list of definitions being used by entertainment, educational and corporate organizations whose customers you would like to see here, then modify those definitions into something that works for SL.
Shockwave Yareach
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03-25-2009 13:04
I thought this forum was finished? :)
Ciaran Laval
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03-25-2009 13:11
From: Nany Kayo
You can model your definition of Adult on what similar types of businesses are using.

You can make a list of definitions being used by entertainment, educational and corporate organizations whose customers you would like to see here, then modify those definitions into something that works for SL.


We already have that, PG and mature, it's about as sensible as it gets. Why LL are trying to reinvent the wheel is a mystery.
Nany Kayo
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03-25-2009 13:14
From: Lord Sullivan
Argumentum ad hominem is the logical fallacy of attempting to undermine a speaker's argument by attacking the speaker instead of addressing the argument.

Actual instances of argumentum ad hominem are relatively rare... :)


It appears very commonplace to me. I would say it is the most commonly used form of argument. It is the first thing a weak debater will reach for when they begin to realize they are losing.
Shockwave Yareach
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03-25-2009 13:16
URSULA - A brand new G-rated continent for a brand new generation of secondlifers and businesses in SL!

I still say it sounds excellent for news coverage.
Rene Erlanger
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Join date: 28 Sep 2006
Posts: 2,008
03-25-2009 13:16
From: Viciously Llewellyn

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On the suggestion side, has "The Lab" considered more than one level of adult, one that would only be allowed to verified users, and one that would not? Something like Single-X and Triple-X. I can't say I have every really been to a SL strip club, but do know some folks that one one ... nice people really, very reasonable folks. After reading some threads here, I asked them a few direct questions. They have fifteen dancers, and one is verified. Over the past few days they have been keeping count, and about 85% of their clients are not verified. Their thinking is that your new policy would pretty much crush all strip clubs.




This is what concerns me.....and the heart of the matter!
Katheryne Helendale
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03-25-2009 13:26
From: Argent Stonecutter
Don't be silly, I'm the MASTER of argumentum ad mentos.
I'm more the connoisseur of the argumentum ad hilarius. :p
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Nany Kayo
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03-25-2009 13:27
From: Windsweptgold Wopat
Which forms of Slavery are you talking about the old ones from the past or those that involve the D/s lifestyle ?

I also wonder why do the Native Americas need a representative in SL over the new changes,are they going to add to the adult island areas only for native americans, can you please enlighten this uneducated in the worlds way aussie? My limited knowledge says there would be many native americans who are involved in SLs clubs, Dungeons , Oh and i would guess , not that i have any personal knowledge , some are even involved in BDSM/ D/s in here and in RL.
But as i said I dont have any real idea as i have not met, to my knowledge, a native american so can only go on what someone likeyou says mm maybe with all your knowledge Nany you should apply to LL for a position after all i am sure they could use someone like you who seems to know everything about everyone of your culture,thought i am some what surprised that all the groups have the same needs but then again as i said what would i know :)



I would say overtly sexual behavior should be private and not public. The kind of slavery that I think should be kept out of public view is intended to be overtly sexual. The people who engage in it make it clear that they want observers to know it is a sex act. Many will wear signs over their heads in case you don't look at their profile or pay any attention to their clothing, sound effects, etc.

There is no Native American representative on SL policy changes. I am the director of a Native American nonprofit in SL who has been asked to express my opinions on a variety of issues affecting Natives based on my own experiences.
Da5id Weatherwax
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03-25-2009 13:33
From: Vorren Voltaire
Another really great suggestion that would be an excellent starting point.


Just a first cut at how it could be managed.. If LL were paying me to do it next thing would be meetings with the sysadmins, developers and DBAs for a finer grained look at the technical details of each phase followed by resource estimates and a formal Statement of Work... That would give a timeline that LL could be comfortable about sticking to and THEN poor Blondin could get out from under the kind of pressure we're putting on here by actually being able to give us real substantive info that we could really use to start making our own transition plans.
Nany Kayo
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03-25-2009 13:34
From: Lindal Kidd
Yes there are. But Nany, you are going on your own preconceived notions. You say "many, many" but you don't know HOW many, either in SL or in RL. You have to do your research before you can draw conclusions like "taking the sex out of SL wouldn't hurt the economy". I will expand on this more in my next post.

This is LL's problem, too. They say their "research" indicates that 2-4% of SL's content is Adult, by whatever definition they're using. But they don't say how they did this research, and most of us here think that their figure grossly underestimates the amount of adult content.

They say that "many" people have complained about encountering adult content unexpectedly, and that this is the driving force behind wanting to provide a more "predictable" SL experience. They do not say HOW many. Was it a lot, compared to the number of replies in, for example, these adult content discussion threads?

This is so nuts. LL is proposing to implement a major policy change based on the complaints of some unknown, but IMO a small minority of people and affecting the lives and income and experience of some unknown but IMO very large number of people.

And all of this won't do one thing to improve the "predictability" of the SL experience, because when someone comes "unexpectedly" across adult or violent content, it's not usually because they turned a corner and ran into a sex club. It's because some other resident ran naked across their path, or some griefer attacked them. In short, in SL the unexpected happens when the sex and violence comes to you, not when you go to it.



Quite honestly, I don't think any policy change would take the sex industry out of SL. People involved in sex trade are not known to be a sensitive or subtle bunch. I woudn't worry that their feelings are going to be so hurt they stop selling sex anywhere and everywhere they can get away with it.
Rayne Keynes
*I* Am Adult Content
Join date: 19 Apr 2006
Posts: 53
03-25-2009 13:40
From: Nany Kayo

There is no Native American representative on SL policy changes.


Congratulations, your back, and muted!

The only reason reason to do any of this is as a precursor to merging the main and the teen grids. LL has to make it safe "for the children" before they merge them or it would a legal and PR disaster.

As for moving stuff, it would be easy for LL to simply move the regions en masse and relocate all Mature's together and all PG's together. They don't want to because they wouldn't be able to make any money by selling you new land, and then reselling the now open land that you used to occupy.

I have talked to the estate owner where I live and work, due to the content of our estate being 90% "Adult" she would flag her estate as adult. As a result fully half of my employees and probably close to 75% of my patrons would no longer be able to get into her region, let alone my business.

Thank you LL, very much, for taking my 3 1/2 years of work and flushing it down the virtual toilet.

My liquidation has already begun. I have cashed out $150 this morning with more to follow from the sale of my land and L$ transferred back to me from my Alt account. having an extra $600 to play with this month in the real world will be nice.
Ian Undercroft
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Posts: 86
03-25-2009 13:40
It's clear from what Blondin said this afternoon that the principle of what is to happen is set in stone and will not be changed.

Obviously until the proposal is actually imposed and seen in action it is difficult to know how it will be received by the majority of SL residents.

Some might think that there is an element of cherry picking on the part of educators, etc, in the sense of them saying: "We like your build save for the sex poseballs". It seems that way to me. No matter how it's described it's censorship and very concerning.

There is a way to peacefully protest but it would require united action to an extent that I'm not sure is feasible. Residents who object in principle (whether their land be PG, M or AO) could set access to group only - the group in question being one that has as its ideals everything opposed to what the proposal stands for. You would have to accept those ideals as the price of membership. It could be marketed as the only way of truly enjoying all sl has to offer.
Nany Kayo
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03-25-2009 13:44
From: Lindal Kidd
I know many escorts and dancers who also run highly successful SL businesses, ones not directly releated to sex.


Those businesses wouldn't be affected. Nor would alt avatars that are not used for public sex.

From: someone
But even there, you are way over on the "squeaky clean prude" side of the spectrum.


Not really. I just don't have that much trouble achieving orgasm. I don't need anyone to observe me having sex in public or go to any trouble with role play. I certainly don't need to use SL for sex. My perspective may be different in that regard. But I don't think any prude would have as many orgasms on a regular basis as I do.
Storyof Oh
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Join date: 14 Apr 2007
Posts: 139
catching up...
03-25-2009 13:46
Anyone know the post number this thread was originally closed at?

Am i seriously reading that a Linden isn't familiar with the problems of linking and moving items?

* linking phantom and non phantom so you fall through everything...

*linking an object you didnt realise had got unlinked and left a lot behind

*Forever losing fire flames

* 'pieces too far apart' cannot be linked....but you only find this out at the end of trying to link and you dont know which part didn't link until you try again....

*Linking in sections and forgetting to rename the part...hunting for a hot tub then find it appears when rezzing a fern.....

*discovering some Linden plants and one sculptie items cannot be linked....

don't get me going on the problems of unlinking.......................

Plus anyone else found land sales have dropped through the floor now?
Nany Kayo
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03-25-2009 13:48
From: Qie Niangao
Unfortunately, this seems correct. The Lindens have taken the discussion in-world, to SLDEV and the various landed gentry of bought-and-paid-for FICdom. They won't lock this thread until the final revised policy statement is blogged, then they may open another thread and respond for a day or so. But I don't think we'll see any more Linden replies on this one.


I didn't think so either. Nice to see Blondin came by, even if she didn't say much.
Jennifer Boyle
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Adult Activities in Non-Publc Areas of N0n-Adult Sims
03-25-2009 13:49
Forgive me if this has been answered, but I just can't read 150 pages of posts.

Does LL intend to restrict activities that are not visible from public lands or adjacent private parcels? For example, would a strip club that confined adult activities to indoor areas behind opaque walls, and had only PG signage outside be permitted in non-adult areas?
Jill Winger
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Join date: 8 Feb 2006
Posts: 71
Yikes! I just saw this and I hope it was answered later
03-25-2009 13:51
From: Blondin Linden
I want to say Thanks for the other posts about this as well. I am the furthest thing from an expert so I wasn't aware of the difficulties with Link-Take-Drop.

What kind of in-world technical support did you have in mind?


Well, how about MOVING our stuff? Considering at least *I* will have to coordinate the efforts of over 30+ people. And what about that some builds won't fit the land anymore?
Argent Stonecutter
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03-25-2009 13:54
From: Jennifer Boyle

Does LL intend to restrict activities that are not visible from public lands or adjacent private parcels? For example, would a strip club that confined adult activities to indoor areas behind opaque walls, and had only PG signage outside be permitted in non-adult areas?
Yes, they do. They have explicitly stated that a "strip club" is a public place. No matter what.
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Alisha Matova
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03-25-2009 13:54
Blondin and other Lindens reading,

Do you now see the problem with announcing ground breaking policy changes without having a plan?

Ive read a few comments of people just packing up and cashing out. This is not even because of your new changes, its because of your lack of a plan or lack of answers to the tough questions.

Surely these tough questions we're asking would have come up while brainstorming this. Or, You could have at least predict some of the pitfalls and had reasonable answers lined up...

If not, maybe you need to hire me.. =)

(gracefully avoids the actual topic at hand, as you have my opinion/ideas already)
Meade Paravane
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Join date: 21 Nov 2006
Posts: 4,845
03-25-2009 14:01
From: Alisha Matova
Do you now see the problem with announcing ground breaking policy changes without having a plan?

This is hardly the first time that they've dropped a bomb like this on their users and they've always survived before. Aside from leaving SL, we really don't have any choice in these things.

There's no motivation for them to change so why should they?
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Ian Undercroft
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03-25-2009 14:03
From: Rayne Keynes
Congratulations, your back, and muted!

The only reason reason to do any of this is as a precursor to merging the main and the teen grids. LL has to make it safe "for the children" before they merge them or it would a legal and PR disaster.

As for moving stuff, it would be easy for LL to simply move the regions en masse and relocate all Mature's together and all PG's together. They don't want to because they wouldn't be able to make any money by selling you new land, and then reselling the now open land that you used to occupy.

I have talked to the estate owner where I live and work, due to the content of our estate being 90% "Adult" she would flag her estate as adult. As a result fully half of my employees and probably close to 75% of my patrons would no longer be able to get into her region, let alone my business.

Thank you LL, very much, for taking my 3 1/2 years of work and flushing it down the virtual toilet.

My liquidation has already begun. I have cashed out $150 this morning with more to follow from the sale of my land and L$ transferred back to me from my Alt account. having an extra $600 to play with this month in the real world will be nice.


The fact that people on private estates not engaged in adult businesses are adversely affected by these proposals in the manner described above, and yet are offered no recompense by LL, is the greatest scandal to emerge from the proposals.
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