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Phil Deakins
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03-09-2008 06:35
Only stupid people could come up with things like that. When you have nothing to argue with, insult. Stupid people, huh?

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Outnumbered, yes, but only by idiots like yourself.
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Czari Zenovka
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03-09-2008 06:38
From: Cherry Czervik
Why is it that I could be at home building, minding my own business, and have a guy appear from nowhere and want to get to "know" me? .... That's why women get that impression, they get it from everyday interactions LOL



From: Phil Deakins
Both men and women get it - it's not just women. But not everyone goes around thinking that the opposite sex as a whole wants to shag them, just because of those occurences. I meet plenty of SL women, and I get that from a few, but I don't assume that I'm therefore so desirable that SL women as a whole want to shag me. How vain would that be?


That's a point. My Partner gets hit on WAAAAY more often by women (often with me standing next to him!!) than I do by men. Of course we've already established I'm a hatrack. *grins*

A naked woman fell out of the sky one day, onto our property and pretty much on my Partner and says "Hi, Babe."

Another time we were in a haunted maze during Halloween and again a woman just pops down from the sky, saunters up to my Partner and says "Hello, Sexy." When he didn't respond, next thing you know, this chick traps us in the corner of the maze we were at with a giant prim and tp's out.


So, from my observation, this getting hit on goes both ways.
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Colette Meiji
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03-09-2008 06:51
From: Phil Deakins referring to his ex girlfriend in a public forum

Oh, and btw, you're a liar , and I mean that most sincerely. "No, it wasn't the RL to RL connection" is a lie, and you know it. I knew plenty about the RL you before we got to sex. I did find your av to be attractive, but intimacy was always between the RL people. The SL sex we had was between the RL you and the RL me - remember now? Or would like me to describe some of it to jog your memory?


Classy.
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03-09-2008 06:53
From: Phil Deakins
Only stupid people could come up with things like that. When you have nothing to argue with, insult. Stupid people, huh?

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Outnumbered, yes, but only by idiots like yourself.



:rolleyes:

I particularly like the -

"When you have nothing to argue with , insult" bit in a post that contains two calling people stupid and one calling someone an idiot.
Phil Deakins
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03-09-2008 06:58
I'm glad you like it, Colette. I like to be entertaining ;)
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Phil Deakins
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03-09-2008 07:05
From: Jade Angkarn
So I'm just very surprised by the statements that this certain person has made about how "sad" AV attraction is.
I almost missed that.

Jade. If you think that I said anything about how sad AV attraction is, back it up with a quote. If you won't so that, I'll assume that you lied - again. I did say that something is sad, but it wasn't that. You're just a shit stirrer, but that's not news to me.
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03-09-2008 07:22
From: Phil Deakins
I'm glad you like it, Colette. I like to be entertaining ;)


I am not sure you actually understand the definition of "stupid", nor "idiot".

You seem to use it for a myriad of perceived offenses to you, including many that have nothing to do with how intelligent the person you are referring to appears to be, nor appears to have posted.

For example those posting without having read and understood the thread would be posting out of ignorance, rather than stupidity.

Those posting based on a misunderstanding would be misguided or if it stemmed from some intellectual shortcoming, obtuse. If merely they refused to accept your further explainations, they are being obstinate.

I think from your perspective most of the posters disagreeing with you would be "misguided" and "obstinate" or "ignorant" rather than "Stupid" or "Idiots"

FOR EXAMPLE -

Me continuing to post in reference to you might be "Stupid" since I know it will only lead to more personal attacks by you.

But me seeing your earlier posts as clumsy wouldn't have been "stupid" , If I was wrong it would have been "imperceptive".
Colette Meiji
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03-09-2008 07:26
You might be better off just using (generic personal attack) as your qualifier, since thats all you seem to be using it for.

"You are (generic personal attack)"

Or

"See what I mean, (generic personal attack) people"
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03-09-2008 07:31
/me frowns at the continued sniping and attacks, and sidesteps back out of the thread...
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Phil Deakins
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03-09-2008 07:46
From: Colette Meiji
I am not sure you actually understand the definition of "stupid", nor "idiot".

You seem to use it for a myriad of perceived offenses to you, including many that have nothing to do with how intelligent the person you are referring to appears to be, nor appears to have posted.

For example those posting without having read and understood the thread would be posting out of ignorance, rather than stupidity.

Those posting based on a misunderstanding would be misguided or if it stemmed from some intellectual shortcoming, obtuse. If merely they refused to accept your further explainations, they are being obstinate.

I think from your perspective most of the posters disagreeing with you would be "misguided" and "obstinate" or "ignorant" rather than "Stupid" or "Idiots"

FOR EXAMPLE -

Me continuing to post in reference to you might be "Stupid" since I know it will only lead to more personal attacks by you.

But me seeing your earlier posts as clumsy wouldn't have been "stupid" , If I was wrong it would have been "imperceptive".
lol. ok. "stupid" and "idiot" are words that are used for some things when they are not necessary accurate by strict definition, and I am like many people in that we use those words when they not necessarily technically accurate. However...

Anyone who insists that the author didn't mean what the author said he meant, when the author's orginal statement says precisely what the author said he meant, is being "stupid", and there was a lot of that in this thread - including in at least one of your later posts. So the word "stupid" is applicable to that. "idiot" may not be accurate by definition, but it's often used like that.

Now, I'm not going back to find every occurance of those words in my posts, so if you find fault with any, please quote them. There are very few, but I'm not going looking for them.

Most recently, I used both words to describe the not uncommon practise of wanting to say something, not having anything worthwhile to say, so posting an insult instead. That's a stupid thing to do. And there's been some of that in this thread. I'm the one who is repulsive to women, and who spreads shit on his body, remember. None of it could be described as adding anything to the debate - it was all just posting insults for the sake of having a go at someone. People who do it are behaving stupidly and idiotically - including me occasionally - and you. People who do it continually are both stupid and idiots - imo.
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Phil Deakins
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03-09-2008 07:49
From: Claire Silverspar
/me frowns at the continued sniping and attacks, and sidesteps back out of the thread...
:(
I don't blame you Claire. It's a pity that people won't let it die. When I went to bed last night, it had ended up on a cheery note - yes, a cheery note :) When I got up today, someone else had brought it back - even including a lie - and someone else had responded to it - and so it goes on.

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The person who brought it up again hadn't posted since early last December. But surprise surprise, 3 months later she happens upon a thread that is so long that nobody who hadn't read it from the start wouldn't want to read it, and from it's title appears not to have anything to do with me, and just happens to decide to read it, only to find that I'm in it - LOL!
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03-09-2008 08:13
From: Phil Deakins
lol. ok. "stupid" and "idiot" are words that are used for some things when they are not necessary accurate by strict definition, and I am like many people in that we use those words when they not necessarily technically accurate. However...


That is true, but throwing in monotonous with inaccurate is boring. If you are going to bother with a steady stream of personal attacks, inventiveness would serve you better.

From: Phil Deakins

Anyone who insists that the author didn't mean what the author said he meant, when the author's orginal statement says precisely what the author said he meant, is being "stupid", and there was a lot of that in this thread - including in at least one of your later posts. So the word "stupid" is applicable to that. "idiot" may not be accurate by definition, but it's often used like that.


Its quite possible the author didn't convey the message correctly, and that further explanations also failed to convey the original message.

Its also possible the author's tone makes people unlikely to believe them.

Its only "stupid" if the author's tone, syntax and structure were such that it would be unintelligent to read it in any other way that the author intended. I think you are giving your posts far too much credit.

From: Phil Deakins

Now, I'm not going back to find every occurance of those words in my posts, so if you find fault with any, please quote them. There are very few, but I'm not going looking for them.


Your use of the word stupid is by far the most commonly used personal attack in this thread.

Furthermore, it is the most commonly used personal attack used in any thread that is being actively commented on.

From: Phil Deakins

Most recently, I used both words to describe the not uncommon practise of wanting to say something, not having anything worthwhile to say, so posting an insult instead. That's a stupid thing to do.


Disruptive, unproductive, inconsiderate, unjustified, thoughtless - perhaps.

Not stupid.


From: Phil Deakins

I'm the one who is repulsive to women, and who spreads shit on his body, remember.


The feces comment was obviously a simple attempt to demonstrate by absurdity how your "Many but not most" could be taken as a generalization.

If some posters were repulsed by you, thats their decision, it hardly makes them stupid.

Considering how you couldn't even come up with a graceful way to discount your ex-girlfriends post without resorting to calling her a liar, "Stupid" would definitely be a stretch.

From: Phil Deakins

None of it could be described as adding anything to the debate - it was all just posting insults for the sake of having a go at someone. People who do it are behaving stupidly and idiotically - including me occasionally - and you. People who do it continually are both stupid and idiots.


The debate ended a long time ago. It really ended when you succeeding in making it a discussion about you, and your statements.
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03-09-2008 08:20
From: Phil Deakins
I don't blame you Claire. It's a pity that people won't let it die. When I went to bed last night, it had ended up on a cheery note - yes, a cheery note :) When I got up today, someone else had brought it back - even including a lie - and someone else had responded to it - and so it goes on.

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The person who brought it up again hadn't posted since early last December. But surprise surprise, 3 months later she happens upon a thread that is so long that nobody who hadn't read it from the start wouldn't want to read it, and from it's title appears not to have anything to do with me, and just happens to decide to read it, only to find that I'm in it - LOL!


It wasn't her that brought the disagreement portion of this thread back up, it was you.

You responded to Ricardo's post with an explanation of how you were right and everyone was wrong again. Including calling everyone that disagreed or misunderstood you "stupid" again.
Phil Deakins
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03-09-2008 08:41
From: Colette Meiji
That is true, but throwing in monotonous with inaccurate is boring. If you are going to bother with a steady stream of personal attacks, inventiveness would serve you better.
Ok. I'll try to be more inventive in future :)

From: Colette Meiji
Its quite possible the author didn't convey the message correctly, and that further explanations also failed to convey the original message.
It's possible, but not in this thread. You know as well as i do that some people in this thread either chose to continue with their misunderstanding, for reasons best know to themselves, or they didn't actually read it from the start, and just joined in with what was popular. If any confusion stemmed from the orginal statement, the subsequent explanations of it were very clear.

From: Colette Meiji
Its also possible the author's tone makes people unlikely to believe them.
Also possible, but I don't think so in this thread. If it's there, please show me. Regardless of tone, I spelled it out very clearly a number of times, and still the stupidities continued.

From: Colette Meiji
Its only "stupid" if the author's tone, syntax and structure were such that it would be unintelligent to read it in any other way that the author intended. I think you are giving your posts far too much credit.
I disagree. The original statement may have been written in a way that could be misunderstood, even though I don't accept that, but the subsequent explanations were very clear. Some people simply chose to continue with their initial thoughts. I can imagine why, but I don't know why.

From: Colette Meiji
Your use of the word stupid is by far the most commonly used personal attack in this thread.
I used it very few times, and it's very long thread.

From: Colette Meiji
Disruptive, unproductive, inconsiderate, unjustified, thoughtless - perhaps.

Not stupid.
Alright. But I still say that those who continued with the error after it was explained very clearly, were being stupid - as well as a couple of those words you suggested. Other people could see it - how the phrase "many, perhaps most women" doesn't mean "women in general" or "most women" - but some coninued through thick and thin that it meant "most women". For any native english speaker, that's just plain stupid.

From: Colette Meiji
The feces comment was obviously a simple attempt to demonstrate by absurdity how your "Many but not most" could be taken as a generalization.
Sure, but it was personally insulting just the same. The demonstration didn't need to be anything like that.

From: Colette Meiji
Considering how you couldn't even come up with a graceful way to discount your ex-girlfriends post without resorting to calling her a liar, "Stupid" would definitely be a stretch.
Why shouldn't I call her a liar when she is? She came into the forum after a 3 month absense, specifically to have a go at me, and she posted a lie.

From: Colette Meiji
The debate ended a long time ago. It really ended when you succeeding in making it a discussion about you, and your statements.
Not so. Other people made it about me. The comment in that more recent post, about it taking more than a good looking av to get lucky with me, is exactly the attitude that I was talking about. I suspect that some women here recognised themselves in my statement, and didn't like me saying it.
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Phil Deakins
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03-09-2008 08:47
From: Colette Meiji
It wasn't her that brought the disagreement portion of this thread back up, it was you.

You responded to Ricardo's post with an explanation of how you were right and everyone was wrong again. Including calling everyone that disagreed or misunderstood you "stupid" again.
Ah. You're going back too far. That part had come and gone, and thread had become much more pleasant - to point of being actually cheery. Jade started it up again with a personal attack, based on a lie. She came into the forum and thread, specially to do it - or at least to be nosey, and then found that she could do it.
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03-09-2008 08:58
From: Colette Meiji
Including calling everyone that disagreed or misunderstood you "stupid" again.
That's not true. Go back and see. The people who I refered to as stupid in that post are those who think they know better as to what an author meant than the author himself. I've said the same thing in this little dialogue. Why twist it?
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03-09-2008 09:58
From: Phil Deakins
(a lot more garbage)


You still fail to see past the *YOU* in any of this.

Evidently you feel maligned and thus refuse to see things from any angle other than your own.

Your ego even has extended to calling your ex a liar right here in front of everyone. If you can be that way about someone you must have once cared about, I can hardly assume anything other than you will stoop to any level to win your point.

So, I give up. You win Phil.

You aren't the least bit sexist, your language is never clumsy. Your posts are always 100% clear and leave no room for misinterpretation. You are a master of language, business, and technology. The sun rises and sets on your magnificence.

Your Ex is just jealous that you are so awesome, thats why she came back after three months just to take a little stab at you. It had nothing to do with anything else. Oh yeah, she is still hot for you too, I am sure.

In fact all of us who disagreed with you in any way are really just stupid and can't see the marvelous workings of your brilliant mind.

I feel better just knowing you graced me with the time it took you to personally attack me in this thread. What can I ever do to repay you? Maybe a Linden Dollar tribute?
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03-09-2008 10:03
Hmmm. I think we now have proof that the resmod who visited us yesterday, Millie T., was just dropping in for that specific issue (perhaps at the behest of a friend?), and has no interest in saving us from ourselves, lol.

/me says a prayer for all those involved in this train wreck and goes back to her Sunday.
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Phil Deakins
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03-09-2008 10:32
You wouldn't need to give up if you stuck to talking sensibly, Colette. A small example is when you posted that I called everyone that disagreed or misunderstood me "stupid", when in fact I'd posted something quite different, as you well know, and is there for all to see. I've no idea why you do it, but you do.

And if you refrain from talking about *me*, then I'd have no cause to reply with things about *me*. It's easy ;)

From: someone
You aren't the least bit sexist, your language is never clumsy. Your posts are always 100% clear and leave no room for misinterpretation.
You are almost correct. I am genuinely no more sexist than anyone else in this thread. My posts are reasonably clear to most native english speakers, and even when something could be misunderstood, my clarifications leave no room for doubt. I'm so glad that you're finally seeing it. It took time, but you're getting there :)

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Your Ex is just jealous that you are so awesome, thats why she came back after three months just to take a little stab at you. It had nothing to do with anything else. Oh yeah, she is still hot for you too, I am sure.
You're not funny, Colette. She came in out of the blue with her own agenda, and why you think that a person has to sit back and take it when someone lies about about them publicly is beyond me. You are free to sit back and take it when it happens to you but, somehow, I just don't think you would.

I'm glad you've given up, Collette. Perhaps my part in this thread can now rest in peace. You know it makes sense ;)
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03-09-2008 10:44
From: Phil Deakins
Only stupid people could come up with things like that. When you have nothing to argue with, insult. Stupid people, huh?


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03-09-2008 10:47
From: Colette Meiji
I am not sure you actually understand the definition of "stupid", nor "idiot".


Or "many" or "most". :D
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03-09-2008 12:04
I am not going to read this whole thread to find out why it is a battle for the last word between some dude incapable of taking criticism and a lady who seems quick to criticize, But I actually have a simple answer to the question in the title of this thread.

Men pay for sex in Second Life for the same reason we pay for sex in Real Life. Because sex is never free.
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03-09-2008 12:29
/me goes back to his lexicon and re-checks the definition of "Pedantic".

Yep. We're there. :P
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03-09-2008 13:20
From: Phil Deakins
(more garbage)


You win Phil.

You aren't the least bit sexist, your language is never clumsy. Your posts are always 100% clear and leave no room for misinterpretation. You are a master of language, business, and technology. The sun rises and sets on your magnificence. The rain is afraid to come and spoil your day.

Your Ex is just jealous that you are so awesome, thats why she came back after three months just to take a little stab at you. It had nothing to do with anything else. Oh yeah, she is still hot for you too, I am sure. She worships the ground you walk on, lets ask her.

In fact all of us who disagreed with you in any way are really just stupid and can't see the marvelous workings of your brilliant mind. Many if not Most of us wish we could be your trafficbot zombies.

I feel better just knowing you graced me with the time it took you to personally attack me in this thread. What can I ever do to repay you? Maybe commission a Phil D statue in the Ahern Welcome area.
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03-09-2008 13:24
From: Claire Silverspar
/me frowns at the continued sniping and attacks, and sidesteps back out of the thread...
:(


Noooo don't go Claire!! errmmm you really should catch up on those 20 pages....very entertaining!
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