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Why do men pay for sl sex when there're so many orgy rooms?

LIlly Karlsbar
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03-04-2008 17:01
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Lana Tomba
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03-04-2008 17:05
Theres an added sexual spice added to the mix if they know they're getting something they "paid" for. It's part of the "kink".

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Yosef Okelly
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03-04-2008 17:12
Quality

Probably to make sure thet are not with another guy too
Alicia Sautereau
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03-04-2008 19:02
better ask "why would they pay a puck for some pixels when they have a wife in the next room" lolz
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03-04-2008 19:07
Why would you pay for a 900L Skin if there are free ones?


Why "Resident Answers" forum exists?


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Nimue Jewell
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03-04-2008 19:13
From: Alicia Sautereau
better ask "why would they pay a puck for some pixels when they have a wife in the next room" lolz


lol. That one is easy. Most wives won't fulfill their husband's deepest fantasy on demand for $6US.
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Isabeau Imako
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03-04-2008 19:20
From: LIlly Karlsbar
Why do men pay for sl sex when there're so many orgy rooms?


Why do some women charge when there are so many ways to make $?
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Colette Meiji
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03-04-2008 19:23
From: Isabeau Imako
Why do some women charge when there are so many ways to make $?


Can turn that question around ..

Why have anonymous cyber-sex with strangers for free when you can get a couple bucks for it?
Alicia Sautereau
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03-04-2008 19:26
From: Colette Meiji
Can turn that question around ..

Why have anonymous cyber-sex with strangers for free when you can get a couple bucks for it?

spin around another way, why have pixel rubbing when you have the real deal for free
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03-04-2008 19:26
... I had a Linden for everytime I smacked pixels! ;)
Colette Meiji
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03-04-2008 19:29
From: Alicia Sautereau
spin around another way, why have pixel rubbing when you have the real deal for free


Not everyone gets everything they want in the RL sex department.

If they did - there wouldn't be any SL sex.

And there probably would be a lot less Porn on the internet.

And less Romance novels :p
Alicia Sautereau
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03-04-2008 19:45
From: Colette Meiji
Not everyone gets everything they want in the RL sex department.

If they did - there wouldn't be any SL sex.

And there probably would be a lot less Porn on the internet.

And less Romance novels :p

i`ll settle with less drama :p
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03-04-2008 19:53
From: Colette Meiji
Can turn that question around ..

Why have anonymous cyber-sex with strangers for free when you can get a couple bucks for it?


Exactly :p

Why do people do anything?
Because it's fun and they want to - probably why most of us do what we do in SL.
I hardly understand why it is I do the things that I do, not gonna start trying to understand everyone else here.

Take the money and run.
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Gabriele Graves
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03-04-2008 20:02
To answer the OP, I would not imagine the orgy rooms are full of people who put forth paragraphs romantic and/or erotically charged narrative. Also I would imagine there is a high risk that your partner will be more concerned about what gets them excited rather than what gets you excited.
However if you are paying for a such service you would expect a certain degree of quality and would also expect the partner to fullfil your wishes rather than theirs.
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Colette Meiji
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03-04-2008 20:09
From: Gabriele Graves
To answer the OP, I would not imagine the orgy rooms are full of people who put forth paragraphs romantic and/or erotically charged narrative.


It becomes a practical impossibility anyway.

You can do a rhythmic charged narrative with two people

You can do a more rushed charged narrative with three but the cadence starts to get rough.

Once you are up to 4 people all together it gets to the point where each person has to limit how much they type in order for people to follow along, the less vocal contribute less often.

By the time you are up to 5 people .. its just text chaos.

A true orgy? I cant even imagine how confused it would be.

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Um ... well .. a friend told me thats what happens .. yeah thats it. :p
Gabriele Graves
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03-04-2008 21:01
I think you might be right Colette, so the axiom here is like with most things in life: You get what you pay for.
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Ricardo Harris
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03-04-2008 21:02
Why do men? And you don't believe women do too? Typical stereotype.
Novis Dyrssen
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03-04-2008 22:08
I think some men rather pay so they can can complain when the "service" was bad. :p
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Missy Malaprop
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03-04-2008 22:19
gone to many orgy rooms?

even a girl can have a hard time finding a quality guy to do anything with... usually 90% of the guys running around are complete newbies, with their manhood a different color than their skin and they cant say more than "wanna %#^&?" then say stuff like "look I'm doing you lol"


some people pay for a nice experience... its pretty rare to get in SL.
Yosef Okelly
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03-05-2008 02:33
From: Colette Meiji
It becomes a practical impossibility anyway.

You can do a rhythmic charged narrative with two people

You can do a more rushed charged narrative with three but the cadence starts to get rough.

Once you are up to 4 people all together it gets to the point where each person has to limit how much they type in order for people to follow along, the less vocal contribute less often.

By the time you are up to 5 people .. its just text chaos.

A true orgy? I cant even imagine how confused it would be.

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Um ... well .. a friend told me thats what happens .. yeah thats it. :p

Wow. I ... umm, never would have known.

Orgy rule #1: Do not get upset when who you are stroking is not who you thought you were stroking.
Orgy rule #2: Do not freak out when who is stroking you is not who you thought was stroking you.

Not sure how that translate to SL tho.
Novis Dyrssen
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03-05-2008 03:24
From: Yosef Okelly
Not sure how that translate to SL tho.


OI! GERROFF ME POSEBALL!!!

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03-05-2008 03:27
From: Alicia Sautereau
spin around another way, why have pixel rubbing when you have the real deal for free

I can have the real deal for free? Anytime? Cool, hows that work? I know it didn't work when married and when you're single it doesn't work that easy either :P
I suppose I could pop over and see if the neighbours wife is free? :)
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03-05-2008 05:14
From: Ricardo Harris
Why do men? And you don't believe women do too? Typical stereotype.
My sentiments entirely.

The OP's question is offensive, because it appears to assume something about men that isn't true. Men do NOT pay for sex, either in SL or in RL. SOME men and women do, but that's all.

SL is a lot different to RL. In RL, many or most men will have sex with most females who are willing - that's natural. SL is different though. A female in SL needs to look very desirable to have casual sex with. Most females are not that desirable, and have no chance of having casual sex except with newish people, or with unattractive people. SL females don't have the sex power that RL females have. In fact, they have none.

If some people (male and female) use escorts because of quality, as has been suggested, then they haven't yet learned what intimacy is like in SL, because there can't be the level of quality with an escort that there is with with real intimacy. But I don't think that quality has anything to do with it. I think that they are so unattractive that they can't find willing partners very easily.
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03-05-2008 05:23
From: LIlly Karlsbar
is picking up willing women THAT hard?


YES IT IS. No my CAPS lock was not accidentally on.

The only women that have ever shown me any interest were looking for cash to buy some skins. The rest of the females I have talked to are already involved with someone else or not interested in a relationship.

With this huge chip on my shoulder I probably won't get anywhere anyway.

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03-05-2008 05:46
From: Phil Deakins
A female in SL needs to look very desirable to have casual sex with.


Ya know, and you (guys) wonder why we tend to generalize about men, make dismissive comments, or paint them all with the same brush.
Just when the male contingent raises its voice to be heard, along comes a comment like this.

But while on the subject of looks: ever take a close look at the average male in SL? (and I'm not talking newbies). Most stretch their upper bodies into ape-like shapes, slap on that free skin that you seem to see in very club you go to (unless that guy is everywhere), put on some girlish hair and strut their stuff like their last name was Clooney.
Let's not throw stones, dear.

B.
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