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Sarah Nerd
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10-29-2008 22:43
From: Vampiric Lemon this is the part where we put out fingers in our ears and start pinching each other and pulling each others hair. because some people making valid points makes us uncomfortable. Yea really easy to fight knit pick and throw the insults around when there's no worry of being held responsible for what we say huh?
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10-29-2008 22:44
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Chris Norse
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10-29-2008 22:44
From: Rhaorth Antonelli oh gosh no, this is where the thread gets completely derailed with sillyness in hopes the valid points get lost in the muddle
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anywho I am done, getting tired, not so bored anymore, actually got thinking and that hurts... so night all have a good one Isn't derailing this thread the best thing that could happen to it?
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Vampiric Lemon
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10-29-2008 22:44
From: Musetta Fieschi The restaurant analogy is apples and oranges. One is a monthly service paid for in advance. The other is an event paid for at the time of consumption.
Let's say I had an account with a catering company who provides a spread for weekly/daily meetings. And while in a conference with other customers their rep is telling me they will be raising my rates by 67 percent. I get pissed, stand up, and say F The Company.
Does that give them the right to, with no warning, not deliver the spread at the next function?
Can you say...lawsuit? thats not what LL is doing as far as i know. being suspended doesnt make you forfeit land or something. they didnt take it away, i.e. they didnt not deliver the spread. you'd think some of you thought a 3 day suspension was a death sentence and forfeiture of your entire second life.
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Sarah Nerd
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10-29-2008 22:45
From: Chris Norse Isn't derailing this thread the best thing that could happen to it? A thread that doesn't derail just isn't natural.
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3Ring Binder
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10-29-2008 22:45
From: Chris Norse The bride normally has a matching pair of overalls. Gotta have room for that baby belly. 
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Vampiric Lemon
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10-29-2008 22:45
From: Brenda Connolly No, we do it because people who get all pompous and take themselves too seriously make us laugh. i dont believe you and you once agreed with me in an IM exchange. you even said you had created a monster of sorts on these forums.
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Vampiric Lemon
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10-29-2008 22:46
From: Sarah Nerd Yea really easy to fight knit pick and throw the insults around when there's no worry of being held responsible for what we say huh? youre the shining beacon of accountability for bad behavior. you got me.
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3Ring Binder
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10-29-2008 22:47
From: Chris Norse Isn't derailing this thread the best thing that could happen to it? depends on who you are asking. 
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Sarah Nerd
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10-29-2008 22:47
So how is it again that your protecting someone by being a coward?
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Musetta Fieschi
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10-29-2008 22:49
From: Rhaorth Antonelli as long as it is paid for, then yes they must deliver
if it is not paid for then they have no reason to deliver
want to go with you analogy... ok so you pay the catering company... you pay them by the month, and they provide by the month suddenly they tell you that prices will raise (the raise is not immediate) so,.,, you now have a choice, pay the higher fee to keep this catering company or move on
if you go to their establishment and swear at them because of the raise hike while their customers are around, do they have the right to kick you out, damn right...
and if being kicked out means you can not pick out something for your spread, then you brought it on yourself
in sarah's case they did not take the sims away from her, did not take any of her land away, they just suspended her from entering their store (for 3 days which she got lifted) by definition a catering company delivers...just as LL does, it delivers a service. This service comes to me automatically as long as I'm paid up, unless it is willfully disrupted. The catering company has my order and I'm on their list as a customer with deliveries to be made at a certain time. If I go to their store and swear at them, that does not absolve them of responsibility to deliver. The contract between us is a separate thing from my behavior. If I go in to their establishment and say F your company, they may have a right to ask me to leave the premises. What they don't have the right to do is renege on deliver of a service for which I've already paid. Not without dissolving or altering our business arrangement and giving me a refund.
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Musetta Fieschi
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10-29-2008 22:51
From: Vampiric Lemon thats not what LL is doing as far as i know. being suspended doesnt make you forfeit land or something. they didnt take it away, i.e. they didnt not deliver the spread.
you'd think some of you thought a 3 day suspension was a death sentence and forfeiture of your entire second life. LL delivers Second Life...a caterer delivers food. That's exactly what they did.
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Brenda Connolly
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10-29-2008 22:52
From: Vampiric Lemon i dont believe you and you once agreed with me in an IM exchange.
you even said you had created a monster of sorts on these forums. Even a broken watch is right twice a day......Hmmmm I don't recall the conversation, but I'm not doubting it happened. Oh well, it's 2AM here and I should be off to bed, so I can get up and not go to work in the morning. Thanks for playing contestants, we have some nice parting gifts. Chris will tell you what you've won.
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Vampiric Lemon
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10-29-2008 22:59
From: Musetta Fieschi by definition a catering company delivers...just as LL does, it delivers a service. This service comes to me automatically as long as I'm paid up, unless it is willfully disrupted.
The catering company has my order and I'm on their list as a customer with deliveries to be made at a certain time. If I go to their store and swear at them, that does not absolve them of responsibility to deliver.
The contract between us is a separate thing from my behavior. If I go in to their establishment and say F your company, they may have a right to ask me to leave the premises. What they don't have the right to do is renege on deliver of a service for which I've already paid. Not without dissolving or altering our business arrangement and giving me a refund. Again, where is sarah losing service? they didnt repo her sims. its like going to jail for a couple of days more than anything else. hell i got suspended once for going off on a GM way back in the early UO days. i didn't even use profanity. when my suspension was up, my house and horse and all my stuff was still there for me. LL doesn't like land renters/sellers. they are competition. its no surprise to me whatsoever that they raised the price, and i was surprised they were ever as cheap as they are.
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Brenda Connolly
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10-29-2008 23:00
From: 3Ring Binder depends on who you are asking.  And please. Somebody take away ThreeR's Googlez.
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10-29-2008 23:03
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Musetta Fieschi
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10-29-2008 23:08
From: Vampiric Lemon Again, where is sarah losing service?
they didnt repo her sims.
its like going to jail for a couple of days more than anything else.
hell i got suspended once for going off on a GM way back in the early UO days. i didn't even use profanity.
when my suspension was up, my house and horse and all my stuff was still there for me.
LL doesn't like land renters/sellers. they are competition. its no surprise to me whatsoever that they raised the price, and i was surprised they were ever as cheap as they are. *sigh* Like I said Vamp, you and I are never going to agree. But now you're changing the character of my statement. Or else misunderstanding it. If the catering company chooses to skip delivery one day in recompense for my bad behavior, that would be unacceptable. I'm not talking about stopping service or 'taking my stuff' I'm talking about skipping service. Depriving a person of access to a service for which they've paid, even if for a short time, should not be done in such a knee-jerk and cavalier manner. Honestly, it's probably a techie-thing. Understanding how to keep customers purring is a different skill set from creating/maintaining the service. LL is still a pretty young company, I imagine their CS support will improve as they get in more people well-trained, experienced and talented in that area.
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Sarah Nerd
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10-29-2008 23:10
From: Vampiric Lemon Again, where is sarah losing service?
they didnt repo her sims.
its like going to jail for a couple of days more than anything else.
hell i got suspended once for going off on a GM way back in the early UO days. i didn't even use profanity.
when my suspension was up, my house and horse and all my stuff was still there for me.
LL doesn't like land renters/sellers. they are competition. its no surprise to me whatsoever that they raised the price, and i was surprised they were ever as cheap as they are. I have 14 or 15 different tier days. I have to move L around in groups cash out, sell mainland plots, move group allowance around to different groups, ect ect ect to make sure I have $$ in my account to pay Linden Labs. I need to be in world to do that. I also have a lot of work to do day to day in world so that I can continue to pay them well. The past few days I was also working on a presentation I'm helping give on Friday in order to show why a major university should remain and invest more into Second Life. A 3 day suspension would have had a large impact on me, and cost LL a nice chunk of change. Maybe if all I had to worry about was my house and prim pet, then it would have been no big deal.
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Vampiric Lemon
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10-29-2008 23:18
i doubt we ever get to see what happens to regular people who swear at LL. im sure they do a time out.
but since you have a land biz i guess you think youre more important. and as we see, you got some sort of FIC treatment, after the fact, so i really dont see what all the complaining is about.
you agreed to the same rules as the rest of us and swearing at LL is definitely not allowed and punishable. people have said less than you and been punished harder.
dont you think that possibly a better path would be to NOT cuss at them?
did you REALLY think before all this happened, that if you said "fuck you LL"and got caught, that they would do nothing?
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Alisha Matova
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10-29-2008 23:18
Hey leave My cat out of this!
Seriously, this is all over a word? We are all adults, we know this word. Unfair suspension! A warning was needed at best.
I am sorry you went through this Sarah. In Your shoes I am sure I would have shown even less restraint.
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Vampiric Lemon
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10-29-2008 23:22
From: Musetta Fieschi *sigh* Like I said Vamp, you and I are never going to agree. But now you're changing the character of my statement. Or else misunderstanding it.
If the catering company chooses to skip delivery one day in recompense for my bad behavior, that would be unacceptable. I'm not talking about stopping service or 'taking my stuff' I'm talking about skipping service. Depriving a person of access to a service for which they've paid, even if for a short time, should not be done in such a knee-jerk and cavalier manner.
Honestly, it's probably a techie-thing. Understanding how to keep customers purring is a different skill set from creating/maintaining the service. LL is still a pretty young company, I imagine their CS support will improve as they get in more people well-trained, experienced and talented in that area. youre right, we wont agree. this catering analogy is a different type of agreement than that we all have with LL. we agree to terms, and you can bet your rear that if the catering contract had a provision for verbal abuse, the caterer would be well within their right to suspend service for a period of time as detailed in the contract. if what you think is so wrong was really so wrong, the courts would be choked with people suing over this sort of thing. anyway, its bedtime. enjoy the pity party/outrage outreach. over something that didn't even end up really happening.
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Sarah Nerd
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10-29-2008 23:23
From: Vampiric Lemon i doubt we ever get to see what happens to regular people who swear at LL. im sure they do a time out.
but since you have a land biz i guess you think youre more important. and as we see, you got some sort of FIC treatment, after the fact, so i really dont see what all the complaining is about.
you agreed to the same rules as the rest of us and swearing at LL is definitely not allowed and punishable. people have said less than you and been punished harder.
dont you think that possibly a better path would be to NOT cuss at them?
did you REALLY think before all this happened, that if you said "fuck you LL"and got caught, that they would do nothing? Total crap. People do far worse than say fuck in SL all the time and nothing ever happens. I have a 3 year good track record and get tossed with no warning over a word that several people were saying. Again could you address my other questions? How is it again that your protecting anyone other than yourself by being a coward?
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Vampiric Lemon
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10-29-2008 23:28
From: Sarah Nerd Total crap. People do far worse than say fuck in SL all the time and nothing ever happens. I have a 3 year good track record and get tossed with no warning over a word that several people were saying.
Again could you address my other questions? How is it again that your protecting anyone other than yourself by being a coward? thanks for the bedtime story.
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Sarah Nerd
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10-29-2008 23:32
From: Vampiric Lemon thanks for the bedtime story. Again, how is it that your protecting anyone other than your self by being a coward?
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Musetta Fieschi
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10-29-2008 23:34
From: Vampiric Lemon youre right, we wont agree.
this catering analogy is a different type of agreement than that we all have with LL. we agree to terms, and you can bet your rear that if the catering contract had a provision for verbal abuse, the caterer would be well within their right to suspend service for a period of time as detailed in the contract.
if what you think is so wrong was really so wrong, the courts would be choked with people suing over this sort of thing.
anyway, its bedtime.
enjoy the pity party/outrage outreach.
over something that didn't even end up really happening. Hello..they are....duh.
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