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The dangers of casual sex

Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 14:55
From: Ann Launay
And this is what makes Yosef so dangerous...


Ah. Now I get it.

I have to admit, up to now, he seemed fairly harmless....
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Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 14:56
From: Yosef Okelly
Rose, where have you gone? Don't leave me here all alone. Do you know how long I have looked to find you? How many sims of wasted builds or borish flash I have gone through all searching to find the one rare beauty who understands that beauty is from the heart? This void it my soul has finally been filled. Please, do not leave me alone in dispair.

I have wondered looking for someone, anyone, who would could help me rest my spirit. Some one who might be just the barest bit compasionant. Some one I could learn to enjoy the things they hold dear. Someone who could be happy to see me, even if for a moment.

And then you came. Everything I hold sacred I have found in you. Everything I need is in your heart. Everything I dared dream could even be the rarest possibly chance of finding is wrapped around you. Hopes and desires to far above mear men to even chance a wild, hubris thought of seeing are found in your hands, there to be freely given. Please. Do not leave me. Not like this. Not after the glimpse of paradise I have seen in your eyes. Come with me. We will dance with swans and laugh with humminigbirds as our passion sings the love song of the stars.


Umm.....Romeo, Romeo, wherefor art thou Romeo?

Oops! Wrong scene? Sorry... =D
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09-24-2008 14:59
From: Rose Dove
Umm.....Romeo, Romeo, wherefor art thou Romeo?

Oops! Wrong scene? Sorry... =D

a rose by any other name would smell as sweet . . .

'Tis but thy name that is my enemy;
Thou art thyself, though not a Montague.
What's Montague? it is nor hand, nor foot,
Nor arm, nor face, nor any other part
Belonging to a man. O, be some other name!
What's in a name? that which we call a rose
By any other name would smell as sweet;
So Romeo would, were he not Romeo call'd,
Retain that dear perfection which he owes
Without that title. Romeo, doff thy name,
And for that name which is no part of thee
Take all myself.
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Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 15:01
From: Soji Slade
a rose by any other name would smell as sweet . . .

'Tis but thy name that is my enemy;
Thou art thyself, though not a Montague.
What's Montague? it is nor hand, nor foot,
Nor arm, nor face, nor any other part
Belonging to a man. O, be some other name!
What's in a name? that which we call a rose
By any other name would smell as sweet;
So Romeo would, were he not Romeo call'd,
Retain that dear perfection which he owes
Without that title. Romeo, doff thy name,
And for that name which is no part of thee
Take all myself.


ooooh! Swoons at all the lovely poetry.....after careully checking that there are no fuzzy handcuffs anywhere about...
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Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 15:02
From: Yosef Okelly
Rose, where have you gone? Don't leave me here all alone. Do you know how long I have looked to find you? How many sims of wasted builds or borish flash I have gone through all searching to find the one rare beauty who understands that beauty is from the heart? This void it my soul has finally been filled. Please, do not leave me alone in dispair.

I have wondered looking for someone, anyone, who would could help me rest my spirit. Some one who might be just the barest bit compasionant. Some one I could learn to enjoy the things they hold dear. Someone who could be happy to see me, even if for a moment.

And then you came. Everything I hold sacred I have found in you. Everything I need is in your heart. Everything I dared dream could even be the rarest possibly chance of finding is wrapped around you. Hopes and desires to far above mear men to even chance a wild, hubris thought of seeing are found in your hands, there to be freely given. Please. Do not leave me. Not like this. Not after the glimpse of paradise I have seen in your eyes. Come with me. We will dance with swans and laugh with humminigbirds as our passion sings the love song of the stars.



/me swoons at Yosef's feet also, just to be fair....
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Baloo Uriza
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09-24-2008 15:06
From: Alvaro Zapatero
I'm married in RL (20 years) and have never come close to cheating on my wife.

I've been in SL only about three months. My RL wife is my SL girlfriend, though we haven't officially become partners or bought land and a house yet. We have been intimate.

I've been hit on by a number of women lately. Last night ended up with me in her house doing a couples dance—nothing more. But I get the distinct feeling that this could go all the way in a heartbeat.

Since I am relatively new, could I get some opinions about casual sex in SL, the positives and the negatives?


Right question, but wrong group. What do we care what you do? The only opinion that matters on this is yours and your wife's. Whether or not some random schmoe cares what you do is a non-issue.
Alvaro Zapatero
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09-24-2008 17:05
You have a point. Do my morals come from myself or from strangers?

However, due to my lack of understanding the subtle points and etiquette of SL, it just seems prudent to at least hear what others had to say.

If a great majority had said, "Hey, it's just pixels! Don't worry! Go out and have some fun!" I may have made a different decision.

But most of the posts point out that despite the artificiality of the environment, the emotions that it evokes are very powerful indeed. So I will heed their warnings and not jeopardize both a RL and SL relationship that is truly important just to satisfy my lust for the unknown.

Luckily for me there is still innuendo, double entendres, salacious wordplay and shameless flirting that I can engage in. And who knows, maybe even a genuine conversation here and there.

Let the good times roll!
Colette Meiji
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09-24-2008 17:08
Ahh cool!


Good luck!



Ohh and I almost forgot!
Colette Meiji
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09-24-2008 17:09
Yes, its cheating.
Brenda Connolly
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09-24-2008 17:15
From: someone
If a great majority had said, "Hey, it's just pixels! Don't worry! Go out and have some fun!" I may have made a different decision.
Your decision should be based on what you feel is best for you and all other parties involved, not what may be said here.
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LittleMe Jewell
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09-24-2008 17:21
From: Ann Launay
And this is what makes Yosef so dangerous...
Well, and this:
From: Yosef Okelly
I like to floss after I eat.
but it is also why we love him so.
:)









From: Colette Meiji
Yes, its cheating.
Are you really sure about that? I mean, what if................
:rolleyes:
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Colette Meiji
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09-24-2008 17:23
From: LittleMe Jewell

Are you really sure about that? I mean, what if................
:rolleyes:


I am sure. What bothers me is it took 11 pages before I remembered to post it.

I am losing my touch.
Hard Rust
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09-24-2008 17:29
From: Colette Meiji
Yes, its cheating.


Of course its cheating. That's what makes it fun.
Brenda Connolly
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09-24-2008 17:30
From: Hard Rust
Of course its cheating. That's what makes it fun.


You said you lie about everything, didn't you? Does that mean you really aren't the Sleaze King of SL?
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Hard Rust
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09-24-2008 17:32
From: Brenda Connolly
You said you lie about everything, didn't you? Does that mean you really aren't the Sleaze King of SL?


Its not a self-imposed title. I believe everyone agrees that I am sleazy.

/flex
Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 17:35
From: Hard Rust
Its not a self-imposed title. I believe everyone agrees that I am sleazy.

/flex


/me believes Hard is sleazy. ^_^

/me also searched on Hard Alley. Umm......never mind that tour........
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Brenda Connolly
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09-24-2008 17:35
From: Hard Rust
Its not a self-imposed title. I believe everyone agrees that I am sleazy.

/flex

I missed the announcement. Was it on The Blog?
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Colette Meiji
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09-24-2008 17:35
From: Hard Rust
Its not a self-imposed title. I believe everyone agrees that I am sleazy.

/flex


Since I have seen Hard Alley,

I will vouch for Hard's sleaziness.
Oryx Tempel
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09-24-2008 17:36
From: Nika Talaj
Well then ... Turn out the lights down there, have your friends trot out their scummiest alts and throw a forum Halloween party there! Introduce us all to the joys of dark RP in open chat ... and beware of the nekos, remember cats can see in the dark!
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Yeah that! (again)
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09-24-2008 17:37
From: Rose Dove
/me believes Hard is sleazy. ^_^

/me also searched on Hard Alley. Umm......never mind that tour........

Please don't. We still haven't cleaned up the mess since you went "exploring" the last time.
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Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 17:37
From: Colette Meiji
Since I have seen Hard Alley,

I will vouch for Hard's sleaziness.


I haven't seen Hard Alley itself, but from the description that shows up when you search it, I am quite prepared to believe in Hard's sleaziness.
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Oryx Tempel
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09-24-2008 17:38
From: Colette Meiji
Yes, its cheating.

:D

This is why I love Colette. Never one to mince words. :p
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Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 17:38
From: Brenda Connolly
Please don't. We still haven't cleaned up the mess since you went "exploring" the last time.


/me giggles

Clean up, forum aisle 3 !!
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LittleMe Jewell
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09-24-2008 17:41
From: Colette Meiji
I am sure. What bothers me is it took 11 pages before I remembered to post it.

I am losing my touch.
I can make you feel better -- it is only page 5 for me.
:D
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09-24-2008 17:41
From: Hard Rust
Of course its cheating. That's what makes it fun.
I thought what made it fun was the......... um, nvm
;)
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