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The dangers of casual sex

HoneyBear Lilliehook
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09-24-2008 13:07
From: Colette Meiji
No one can force you to participate. Its quite possible to tour the place and not be bothered by anyone.

Just don't strike up any conversations of those looking to Role Play with you.

All the stuff there is actually consensual .. its a Role Play simulation .. not a Rape video game.


Well, this may sound odd, but Honey really does have a reputation to protect. The alts....eh, whatever they do is fine. And one of them *might* want to participate ;)
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Love Hastings
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09-24-2008 13:20
From: Colette Meiji

All the stuff there is actually consensual .. its a Role Play simulation .. not a Rape video game.


Rape video game?
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Colette Meiji
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09-24-2008 13:25
From: Love Hastings
Rape video game?


I only used the term for comparative purposes.

In that the situations at Hard Alley are role-played rather than someone having no control over their own avatar.
Love Hastings
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09-24-2008 13:28
Ah, thanks Colette. I bet they exist though.

I think this thread may have wandered OT slightly. :)
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Ann Launay
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09-24-2008 13:30
From: Rose Dove
Oooh! Did Ann get caught with a bun in the oven? =D

The bun is out of the oven...



...and it's Desmond's. He seduced me with catnip from his garden and Playboy mansion fantasies. Of course, in Caledon, the Bunnies are Kittehs, but that's neither here nor there.

He's also being rather resistant about the kitten support, even though we all know he can afford it...it's shameful, really.
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I am bumping you to an 8.5 on the Official Trout Measuring Instrument of Sluttiness. You are an enigma - on the one hand a sweet, gentle, intelligent woman who we would like to wrap up in our arms and protect, and on the other, a temptress to whom we would like to do all sorts of unmentionable things.

Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
HoneyBear Lilliehook
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09-24-2008 13:30
From: Love Hastings
Ah, thanks Colette. I bet they exist though.

I think this thread may have wandered OT slightly. :)


lol Love, like there's a single thread that hasn't? ;)
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Colette Meiji
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09-24-2008 13:30
From: Love Hastings
Ah, thanks Colette. I bet they exist though.

I think this thread may have wandered OT slightly. :)


Yeah. I just didn't like the course the advertising of the place was going.

Needed a bit of dragging back to reality.
Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 13:31
From: HoneyBear Lilliehook
Honey will have to pass.

One of the alts may have to visit just to check it out, of course, and then get the hell out of Dodge before she gets caught!


Honey, what do you say we log in a couple of alts and go see what Hard Alley is all about? Ummm....assuming we can TP in, have a look-see, and TP out again.

Male strippers might be interesting, simply because I've never seen a stripper, male or female. Not since junior high when this classmate did a parody stripper routine for a class show of some sort. She stripped all the way down to her gym outfit. =D Unfortunately, I have this terrible problem with curiosity.

Being raped does nothing for me. Fortunately, this is SL, so relief is just a TP away. =D

Want to ask Hard for a tour?

Hard, Are you willing to give a tour knowing that I'm likely to TP out if someone slaps the fuzzy cuffs on me and starts theatening to lubricate sensitive parts of my anatomy?
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Zerock Parx
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09-24-2008 13:33
To the OP:
This is my own experience.
Maybe 2 weeks from joining SL my wife became fond friends with another av and wanted it to go further.
She didn't want to "leave me behind", (probably to make herself feel better) so she set me up into a "Special" and close friendship with one of her SL friends.

Well the av she was after didn't work out, so she became the 3rd wheel, and didn't really want to persue anything else.

She ended up hurt a few times because of it, so I ended the "Special" friendship. While her friend doesn't admit, and knew what was going all the time- I know she also got hurt. She's seldom on the grid anymore - and cites RL for the reason. (Which may be, I don't know).

That experience led to more misunderstandings and hurt.

Me? I've been so (Justifiably) beat up about it that I've almost lost all my social energy in SL. We both used to have so much fun flirting, making new friends etc. Today I log in because my wife wants me there, and to tend to our businesses. Her? She's much the same as me.

So what may seem like a wonderful arrangement at first might end up with something not inteded. My wife and I have a wonderful RL relationship, soul mates really- and perhaps a less solid foundation might have been shaken with the same experience.

-Zerock
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HoneyBear Lilliehook
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09-24-2008 13:33
Regardless of who goes, and does whatever, it would still be next week before I can get freed up...
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Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 13:34
From: Ann Launay
The bun is out of the oven...



...and it's Desmond's. He seduced me with catnip from his garden and Playboy mansion fantasies. Of course, in Caledon, the Bunnies are Kittehs, but that's neither here nor there.

He's also being rather resistant about the kitten support, even though we all know he can afford it...it's shameful, really.


Awwww. Isn't the little kitty CUUUUTE!! Looks just like it's mom. :-)
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Ann Launay
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09-24-2008 13:36
From: Rose Dove
Awwww. Isn't the little kitty CUUUUTE!! Looks just like it's mom. :-)

So do the other two. I'm destitute, with three hungry little mouths to feed!
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I am bumping you to an 8.5 on the Official Trout Measuring Instrument of Sluttiness. You are an enigma - on the one hand a sweet, gentle, intelligent woman who we would like to wrap up in our arms and protect, and on the other, a temptress to whom we would like to do all sorts of unmentionable things.

Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
Love Hastings
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09-24-2008 13:39
From: Ann Launay
So do the other two. I'm destitute, with three hungry little mouths to feed!


Damn that Desmond!!
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HoneyBear Lilliehook
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09-24-2008 13:42
And there you have it....the dangers of casual sex.

/me tosses Ann 100L...go buy some milk and feed the kiddos Ann.
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Lexxi Gynoid
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09-24-2008 13:44
From: Love Hastings
Ah, thanks Colette. I bet they exist though.

I think this thread may have wandered OT slightly. :)

Well, technically it could have stopped here: /327/08/283666/1.html#post2159123
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Lexxi Gynoid
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09-24-2008 13:45
From: Ann Launay
So do the other two. I'm destitute, with three hungry little mouths to feed!

I only have the five, myself.
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Love Hastings
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09-24-2008 13:47
From: Lexxi Gynoid
I only have the five, myself.


DESMOND!!!
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Ann Launay
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09-24-2008 13:47
From: Lexxi Gynoid
I only have the five, myself.

Are they Desmond's too?
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I am bumping you to an 8.5 on the Official Trout Measuring Instrument of Sluttiness. You are an enigma - on the one hand a sweet, gentle, intelligent woman who we would like to wrap up in our arms and protect, and on the other, a temptress to whom we would like to do all sorts of unmentionable things.

Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 13:48
From: Love Hastings
DESMOND!!!


that Desmond must be a busy guy....
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Maureen Boccaccio
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09-24-2008 13:50
From: Pserendipity Daniels
/me can't believe that ANYONE in SL for more than a month has not been to Hard Alley . . .

Pep (Plays hide and seek there)


Late to the game...what's Hard Alley?
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Ann Launay
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09-24-2008 13:50
From: Rose Dove
that Desmond must be a busy guy....

He's a man-tramp. :mad:
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I am bumping you to an 8.5 on the Official Trout Measuring Instrument of Sluttiness. You are an enigma - on the one hand a sweet, gentle, intelligent woman who we would like to wrap up in our arms and protect, and on the other, a temptress to whom we would like to do all sorts of unmentionable things.

Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
Love Hastings
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09-24-2008 13:51
From: Ann Launay
He's a man-tramp. :mad:


It's always the repressed nineteenth century types!
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Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 13:51
From: Maureen Boccaccio
Late to the game...what's Hard Alley?



/me ROFL

That's been MY question!
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Maureen Boccaccio
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09-24-2008 13:53
From: Ann Launay
He's a man-tramp. :mad:


From: Love Hastings
It's always the repressed nineteenth century types!


He prolly has a woman in every sim. :p
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Oryx Tempel
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09-24-2008 13:55
From: Tomas Fulham
I give casual sex two thumbs up.

I prefer it over semi-formal sex.
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