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The dangers of casual sex

Hard Rust
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09-24-2008 09:02
From: Rose Dove
Now I'm curious: what is Hard Alley? Or do I need to wait until after work and do a search on it?

/me reminds herself that curiosity killed the cat ...


Wait until after work. lol.
Kathy Morellet
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09-24-2008 09:03
From: Rose Dove
Now I'm curious: what is Hard Alley? Or do I need to wait until after work and do a search on it?

/me reminds herself that curiosity killed the cat ...


Yeah, I would for sure wait until after work on that one ;)
Colette Meiji
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09-24-2008 09:03
From: Rose Dove
Now I'm curious: what is Hard Alley? Or do I need to wait until after work and do a search on it?

/me reminds herself that curiosity killed the cat ...


Yeah Hard Alley is best not described

Easier for you just to go and look.


You might want to ...

bring pepper spray.

And a Taser.
CCTV Giant
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09-24-2008 09:05
From: Dilbert Dilweg
Live responsibly.


Dude, one of the most perfect responses I have ever seen. I stopped reading after that.
Hard Rust
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09-24-2008 09:05
From: Colette Meiji
Yeah Hard Alley is best not described

Easier for you just to go and look.


You might want to ...

bring pepper spray.

And a Taser.


or some fuzzy handcuffs...

and some lubricant...
Yosef Okelly
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09-24-2008 09:08
From: Rose Dove
Now I'm curious: what is Hard Alley? Or do I need to wait until after work and do a search on it?

/me reminds herself that curiosity killed the cat ...

It's a vile evil and dispicable place.

Care to go there with me tonight? ;)
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09-24-2008 09:08
Excellent posts by many. This thread is Resident Answers at it's best: a thought-provoking discussion, with intelligent and respectful posts by all.
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Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 09:10
From: Yosef Okelly
It's a vile evil and dispicable place.

Care to go there with me tonight? ;)



Sure. I'll bring the Tasers and Pepper spray. ;)
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HoneyBear Lilliehook
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09-24-2008 09:13
From: Yosef Okelly
I think I have mentioned this before, but my life mirrors your's.
Ditto all the way.



We should have coffee sometime, and swap notes :)
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Desmond Shang
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09-24-2008 09:14
From: Alvaro Zapatero
I'm married in RL (20 years) and have never come close to cheating on my wife.

I've been in SL only about three months. My RL wife is my SL girlfriend, though we haven't officially become partners or bought land and a house yet. We have been intimate.

I've been hit on by a number of women lately. Last night ended up with me in her house doing a couples dance—nothing more. But I get the distinct feeling that this could go all the way in a heartbeat.

Since I am relatively new, could I get some opinions about casual sex in SL, the positives and the negatives?


Negative worst case: loss of everything you hold dear.

Positive best case: steady RL sex in a Hugh-Heffner-like mansion, owned and operated by your five best 21- to 23- year old independently wealthy girlfriends, who are all drama free. Their favourite subject is you, and their secret lab downstairs constantly produces patents, inventions and secret financial moves on the global market that will keep you as young and hot as they are, forever. Justin Timberlake will come by to bow down to you, but you won't answer the door because Tawny and Kimiko don't like him, and are hard at work on the bio-rejuvenator between giving you massages and drinks. Rock on!

Most likely case: the girl in SL will get just as tired, bored and fed up with you as the RL one, but this time, it will take a mere three to six weeks. Then reveal she was a man, who was just experimenting. Deeply conflicted, you'll flee to the safety of your gender preference, stay off the grid for months, then come back as a furry and get into more wholesome stuff like building.

just sayin'
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Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 09:14
/me thinks Yosef does indeed have the beginnings of a harem here.....

=D
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HoneyBear Lilliehook
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09-24-2008 09:20
From: Desmond Shang
Positive best case: steady RL sex in a Hugh-Heffner-like mansion, owned and operated by your five best 21- to 23- year old independently wealthy girlfriends, who are all drama free. Their favourite subject is you, and their secret lab downstairs constantly produces patents, inventions and secret financial moves on the global market that will keep you as young and hot as they are, forever. Justin Timberlake will come by to bow down to you, but you won't answer the door because Tawny and Kimiko don't like him, and are hard at work on the bio-rejuvenator between giving you massages and drinks. Rock on!


lol Des...had this fantasy long? :)
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09-24-2008 09:22
From: Desmond Shang

Most likely case: the girl in SL will get just as tired, bored and fed up with you as the RL one, but this time, it will take a mere three to six weeks. Then reveal she was a man, who was just experimenting. Deeply conflicted, you'll flee to the safety of your gender preference, stay off the grid for months, then come back as a furry and get into more wholesome stuff like building.


Sounds appealing. Why doesn't *everyone* do this?
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Desmond Shang
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09-24-2008 09:27
From: HoneyBear Lilliehook
lol Des...had this fantasy long? :)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M4iTyHItFwg
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HoneyBear Lilliehook
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09-24-2008 09:40
From: Rose Dove
/me thinks Yosef does indeed have the beginnings of a harem here.....

=D


Hey, I just invited him for coffee/conversation. Anyone wanting to be part of his harem doesn't need to worry about me ;)
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09-24-2008 09:42
From: Rose Dove
Sure. I'll bring the Tasers and Pepper spray. ;)


Every date in Hard Alley starts with a taser and pepper spray. You won't stand out a bit.
Amaranthim Talon
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09-24-2008 09:43
From: Rose Dove
/me thinks Yosef does indeed have the beginnings of a harem here.....

=D

Hehe- stick around ;) Yosef is legendary.
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Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 09:44
From: HoneyBear Lilliehook
Hey, I just invited him for coffee/conversation. Anyone wanting to be part of his harem doesn't need to worry about me ;)


/me isn't the harem sort, but does enjoy rattling people's cages, occasionally. all in the interests of good fun, of course...

So....I'll bring the taser and Pepper Spray. Honeybear, you bring the fuzzy handcuffs....
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Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 09:46
From: Amaranthim Talon
Hehe- stick around ;) Yosef is legendary.


Oh ho! So the infamous Yosef has more than the beginnings of a harem, does he? =D
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Nichole Vanbeeck
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09-24-2008 09:50
From: Desmond Shang
Negative worst case: loss of everything you hold dear.

Positive best case: steady RL sex in a Hugh-Heffner-like mansion, owned and operated by your five best 21- to 23- year old independently wealthy girlfriends, who are all drama free.


ahhhh Desmond just to update ya Hugh Heffners girlfiriend "Holly" is 27yrs old. Don't you watch the " Girls next door". Also, I wouldn't say those girls are drama free. They seem to be VERY DRAMA like.
Rose Dove
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09-24-2008 09:53
/me thinks we should organize a forum field trip to investigate Hard Alley... =D
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Nichole Vanbeeck
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09-24-2008 09:53
Waits to get home so she can reply to this one (rubs hands together) :D
MoxZ Mokeev
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09-24-2008 09:57
From: Desmond Shang


Most likely case: the girl in SL will get just as tired, bored and fed up with you as the RL one, but this time, it will take a mere three to six weeks. Then reveal she was a man, who was just experimenting. Deeply conflicted, you'll flee to the safety of your gender preference, stay off the grid for months, then come back as a furry and get into more wholesome stuff like building.

just sayin'



LMAO Desmond is today's winner of the internets!
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Desmond Shang
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09-24-2008 10:24
From: Nichole Vanbeeck
ahhhh Desmond just to update ya Hugh Heffners girlfiriend "Holly" is 27yrs old. Don't you watch the " Girls next door". Also, I wouldn't say those girls are drama free. They seem to be VERY DRAMA like.


This just shows you how clued in I am about such things :)

Nothing is ever quite as it seems. I've mentioned before - it's not the pretty female avatars on the grid turning out to be men that freak me out - it's the casual male 40-something guys I hang out with that suddenly turn out to be pretty young gals that cause me stress.

Imagine. Hangin' out, not saying much, doing guy things for months... telling blonde jokes - then finding out that Frank or Steve isn't quite the ol' chum you always thought he was. In fact 'he' is a co-ed that in real life, has the entire economics class class distracted. WHY!? you ask, only to find out that she was amused, testing her actress skills and found you a bit entertaining.

Regardless, you just can't shake months and months of your ol' pal's casual, detached male cameraderie, and to think of him in 'real life' as female is just beyond your ken (no pun intended).

It's kinda like if Trout turned out to be a young celebrity starlet.
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Nichole Vanbeeck
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09-24-2008 10:37
Well the one good thing about casual sex in SL is you don't have to worry about any STD's although you can catch a Virus ( a computer one that is) :D ROFL
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