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Aodhan McDunnough
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07-24-2006 11:12
From: CrystalShard Foo
Allow me to sum this thread up in a single statement:

"If I've just had sex with a female avatar who ended up being male in real life, does this means i'm gay?"


LOL ... absolutely not.

But you'd be gay if you had sex with a male avatar who ended up being female in real life.
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Eggy Lippmann
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07-24-2006 11:12
From: CrystalShard Foo
Allow me to sum this thread up in a single statement:

"If I've just had sex with a female avatar who ended up being male in real life, does this means i'm gay?"


* people should just be bisexual so it wouldnt matter :D
* people who use SL to pick up women suck :)
Alex Fitzsimmons
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07-24-2006 11:12
From: Siobhan Taylor
... and how many capital letters you use.


Yes, That Is An Excellent Point, Too. I Had Forgotten That One. OH WAIT, THIS IS EVEN BETTER! NOW EVERYONE WILL TAKE ME SERIOUSLY AT LAST!!! :D
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VolatileWhimsy Bu
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07-24-2006 11:14
From: CrystalShard Foo
Allow me to sum this thread up in a single statement:

"If I've just had sex with a female avatar who ended up being male in real life, does this means i'm gay?"


I have to agree with this, the peeing contests get old.. quickly...
you guys beat your chest way more than any other board i've seen.
Marla Truss
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07-24-2006 11:15
From: VolatileWhimsy Bu
And don't forget that social norms are not the same across the board. Each culture has unique ones onto themselves.


Definitely. I actually had a paragraph mentioning that, but I killed it off thinking I was diverging too much from my primary point.
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VolatileWhimsy Bu
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07-24-2006 11:15
From: PetGirl Bergman
When I meet a man or a woman in SL or IRL - I meet a man or a woman.. . IF a man want to be a woman its a woman or the opposite.. - if its a wolf I meet a wolf.. if I meet a rabbit I meet a rabbit..

Its not to me to decide what they ”are” its they how are.. let it be like that and life will be very easy.. and probably both nice, fun and very educating....

I talk to brain - with a brain.. .. not what they have between the legs or other...

/Tina - EXAKT trying to explain.. prob my English are not adequate to explain my feelings correctly.. sorry..


yup, i think you are completely correct, the others just want to make things more difficult so they can pretend their intelligence is above average..
VolatileWhimsy Bu
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07-24-2006 11:17
From: Marla Truss
Definitely. I actually had a paragraph mentioning that, but I killed it off thinking I was diverging too much from my primary point.


ahhh, well, unfortunately majority of people lack any education on other cultures so I would have kept it in.
Aodhan McDunnough
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07-24-2006 11:19
From: VolatileWhimsy Bu
ahhh, well, unfortunately majority of people lack any education on other cultures so I would have kept it in.


Noooo kidding.
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Siobhan Taylor
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07-24-2006 11:20
From: Eggy Lippmann

* people who use SL to pick up women suck :)

But how well do they suck? And do they lick too?
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Artemis Fate
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07-24-2006 11:24
Being O.T. Level 7 in the Church of Scientology, i'd say I have the higher moral and intellectual ground here.

Wanting to be another gender is actually caused by negative body thetans as described by our founder L. Ron Hubbard. This can be cured by starting our scientology program at a small fee of 25,000L$ payable to me.
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Fade Languish
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07-24-2006 11:24
From: VolatileWhimsy Bu
I have to agree with this, the peeing contests get old.. quickly...
you guys beat your chest way more than any other board i've seen.


It's cos we rez neutered.
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Andrianna Stanwell
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07-24-2006 11:43
From: Artemis Fate
Being O.T. Level 7 in the Church of Scientology, i'd say I have the higher moral and intellectual ground here.

Wanting to be another gender is actually caused by negative body thetans as described by our founder L. Ron Hubbard. This can be cured by starting our scientology program at a small fee of 25,000L$ payable to me.



LMAO I had to show my friend that one.. he wants to get involved in that "Church" lol
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VolatileWhimsy Bu
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07-24-2006 11:46
From: Fade Languish
It's cos we rez neutered.


lol im sure that does something to a guy.
Marla Truss
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07-24-2006 12:34
From: Artemis Fate
Being O.T. Level 7 in the Church of Scientology, i'd say I have the higher moral and intellectual ground here.

Wanting to be another gender is actually caused by negative body thetans as described by our founder L. Ron Hubbard. This can be cured by starting our scientology program at a small fee of 25,000L$ payable to me.


Oh god, I'm already in Scientology hell. My best friend moved to England a few months ago, so all her mail is forwarded to me. She once was in Scientology, and now I'm inundated with her Scientology junk mail.
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Ananda Sandgrain
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07-24-2006 12:49
This is an unfortunate distraction (Scientology should probably be added to the list of things that invoke Godwin's Law) but here is what Hubbard had to say on the subject back in 1960 (6 years before the publishing of Harry Benjamin's The Transsexual Phenomenon).

Your Case (taped lecture, 3 January 1960):

From: someone
It's transvestitism. Men and women swap their clothes, and you get men running around dressed as women and women running around dressed as men. Got that?

Now, here's what happens. A thetan [a term referring to a spiritual being, the person himself; taken from the Greek letter theta] decides that she's a good woman and makes a lousy man, and 50 percent of the bodies that thetan picks up, on the average, the rough average, are going to be male bodies. And yet this thetan knows she is a good woman. Now, she has the task, somewhere very early in life or even before birth, or something of the sort" of flipping this body, or trying to flip it, or fitting (if she can't) a male body into a female role. Got the idea? And earlier on the track, when there were less medical examinations, it was the easiest thing to do you ever heard of. People would go all through their whole life being a woman, while actually being a man -actually being a male body dressed and used as a woman.

Everybody looks at me very stunned and says, "Where's this been?"
Yeah, who you kidding? All right, this fellow decides that being a man fits his basic purposes and his basic personality, and so forth, yet 50 percent of the time he picks up female bodies. What's he going to do with them? Just collapse at that point and everything he likes to do and so forth, and be a female for just a lifetime?"


As I understand it, a spiritual being does not have an inherent gender, but picks up habits and preferences in various lifetimes, and then "whoops!" gets a body this time around that doesn't match what they like to be. Pretty straightforward.

Here's another statement from 1957:

Child Scientology (taped lecture July, 1957):

From: someone
You worry about homosexuality ...1 don't know how there could be anything else, the way you get scrambled on sexes on the track [time track = the cumulative mental record of existence from lifetime to lifetime] It is quite remarkable that the sexes stay straight! I mean, I think that's the remarkable thing.
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Lorelei Patel
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07-24-2006 13:04
From: Ananda Sandgrain
As I understand it, a spiritual being does not have an inherent gender, but picks up habits and preferences in various lifetimes, and then "whoops!" gets a body this time around that doesn't match what they like to be. Pretty straightforward.


Er... Ananda, I like you. But what in the heck was straightfoward about all that?
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Ananda Sandgrain
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07-24-2006 13:10
From: Lorelei Patel
Er... Ananda, I like you. But what in the heck was straightfoward about all that?


Hehe, maybe not. I forget that most people don't think of immortal spiritual beingness as a "given". :cool:

When I ran across this, it was a big relief. It was like, "Ohhh, that's what this shit all my life is about!" I suppose it's kinda esoteric if it has never been an issue with you.
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Marla Truss
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07-24-2006 17:22
All is emptiness.
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Darkfoxx Bunyip
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07-25-2006 00:11
From: Briana Dawson
Only person being stupid here is you.

You are arguing with me for the sake of arguing. I said that "Kitsune" in SL generally refers to a furry. I never said it did not mean anything else. And SO WHAT that it has other meanings. Regardless of what you say "KITSUNE" in SL USUALLY -NOT ALWAYS- refers to a furry. Only stupidity I see is your inability to admit a simple truism. Deal with it.

And yea, I am older than you, newb toad.

Briana Dawson


Okay kids, calm down. Who cares if Kitsune as a name in SL refers to a furry usually, or not?

This little private discussion between the two of you started out with a comment of one of you (I fogot who) that being a Herm is a furry thing. Well, if you would read back a little, I at least saw one person mentioning they have a herm human AV, in a list that otherwise contained ony one furry AV. I think it's pretty safe to assume she isn't your typical furry (eg, furroy *outside* of SL) but only has the AV for cuteness sake.
In other words, there *are* non furry herms. (not to mention the fact that in RL, there are herms in existance, and I want to put 100.000 L$ on it that none of the4m are anthropomorphic animals IRL...)

On the other side, yes, the fandom knows a LOT of furry art derpicting Herms. Guess what? So does the Anime fandom... just have a gander at the 4chan website and the pictures you will find there. So we can also say that herms are an anime, as well as a furry thing, as well as a RL, non-anime, non furry thing.

Other then that, you are not helping in the discussion here, so please stop boring/annoying the heck out of everyone esle and continue you little private war in game in IM's... okay?
Lone Jacobs
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07-25-2006 07:24
From: Artemis Fate
Being O.T. Level 7 in the Church of Scientology, i'd say I have the higher moral and intellectual ground here.

Wanting to be another gender is actually caused by negative body thetans as described by our founder L. Ron Hubbard. This can be cured by starting our scientology program at a small fee of 25,000L$ payable to me.



ZOMG! I must be in that "church" ! LOL :p

*runs to get 25K* :D

j/k
Marla Truss
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07-25-2006 07:28
From: Lone Jacobs
ZOMG! I must be in that "church" ! LOL :p

*runs to get 25K* :D

j/k


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windozer Vargas
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07-25-2006 07:38
sl isnt really the place to find out if you should have been born female or male IRL,you are going to be stuck being a female ISL and you wont feel okey with yourself in real life,you simply found something you should have not and got stuck...and beaware that can drive you crazy
Briana Dawson
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07-25-2006 07:42
From: Darkfoxx Bunyip


Other then that, you are not helping in the discussion here, so please stop boring/annoying the heck out of everyone esle and continue you little private war in game in IM's... okay?


Whatever, go stuff yourself. No one asked you to read and reply...Your little post doesn't seem to be helping the discussion either.

Thanks for playing. :rolleyes:

Briana Dawson
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Hubbard Thetan
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07-25-2006 07:54
From: Artemis Fate
Being O.T. Level 7 in the Church of Scientology, i'd say I have the higher moral and intellectual ground here.

Wanting to be another gender is actually caused by negative body thetans as described by our founder L. Ron Hubbard. This can be cured by starting our scientology program at a small fee of 25,000L$ payable to me.



Why how very Up Ethics of you! I -do- hope you are enjoying your Beingness as an Operating Thetan!

Remember your weekly rundowns and Audits,

Sincerely,

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Michi Lumin
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07-25-2006 08:01
From: CrystalShard Foo
Allow me to sum this thread up in a single statement:

"If I've just had sex with a female avatar who ended up being male in real life, does this means i'm gay?"


And truer words have never been spoken.

Someone, somewhere, is deathly afraid that they may have had a 'homo moment'.

Stop the gender swapping, or put flags on the profile, to prevent the possibility that you may "hit your head and go gay".

It's a slippery slope, don't you know.

Beer is also a "gateway drug".
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