ok, your av vs. your gender

I'm a female, play a female, at least MOST of the time, when I'm not a dragon.

I've seen "you'r" (possessive, not "you are" by two different people today. I really hope the grid opens again soon, people are losing their minds.

i used to be close minded,these days i support cross genders and non straight people..i guess it relies on maturity

Female who plays a female .... but I have been a furry before. A Female Fox ..lol

Don't turn this into a flame thread. You're name is not properly spelled either so hush.

I was reffering to cross gender in online worlds where you can't see the real person. In the real world I don't have a problem with people that do. In the real world you can see who you'r dealing with in the online worlds you can't.

So I ment nothing personial to anyone who does in the real world.

Thank goodness for voice chat. I like men and that is what I choose to be with in SL as well as RL But if I liked girls...maybe having a male AV would be good..but then again I wouldnt want that done to me! Like I said, voice chat

I wish there was "You're an X and play both a female and a male" or "You're an X and play an asexual character" either of which would be more true for me.
I play-
A female human
A female toon skunk
An asexual were-mink
An asexual squid
A male wolf-gryphon

and I'm really a girl

Im very open minded. you don't know me so don't say how I am or how im not.

Also ready my reply to sophia

You shouldn't judge people by their name, if you did, I guess I would be a biblical garden? Maybe the Kitsune likes foxes or maybe Kitsune Udon? Who knows. Really folks, i don't think it is all that important unless you're trying to develope a Sl-originated releationship outside SL.

And I know plenty of furries who are not herm at all, so to say it is a furry things is like saying lung cancer is a smoking thing. It truely amazes me that in a fictional, user created environment, people carry their prejudices and judgement into it and cast it upon others. If you do not like a certain portion of the population, so be it, but at least respect them. The Pagan Romans persecuted Christians and now it's the oposite. You never know.

"your a male, and play a male"

Should be "You're a male, and play a male" etc..

Right. People should be what you expect, no exceptions. That's not closed at all.

Well there are those who are suffering Transsexualism.. so wether they be M2F for F2M, I suppose they like all of use choose I MIND Gender.. not what our body looks like in real life.

This is a Mind game, so it is the mind, not body we talk to..

I suppose it would get weird when people meet in person .. Live on earth so to say.

I have seen in these types of environments.. girls acting as guys as they don't want to get chatted up every 5 minutes..

So does it really matter what people chose?..

my 2cents

Well, *I* think genderqueer is the total hotness anyways < But I'm strange like that

I've got to remember Im talking to a bunch of geeks and nerds. RL to you means a online world, sorry I'll try to remember that.

The planet called Earth where people live the real world, the really real world, where you eat and sleep. Im very open minded in that world.

Yes, this is a terrible sort of deception. It's rotten that there are those out there who engage in it.

I may wear avatars of varying genders at random times, but at no time do I practice to deceive that I am anything other than female. Never once have I pretended to be male, even when wearing a male avatar. Never once has anyone mistaken me for a male, even when I'm in a male avatar...and if they did, I'd be the first to tell them the second I notice it's happening.

Then again, I switch genders so often that I don't think anyone has time to be certain if I'm one or the other. Unless they read my profile, of course, which states the facts quite clearly. :3 Oh, and my name itself is pretty distinctly female, too.

Wow, in addition to being phobic about other people's online gender, you are dismissive and insulting too. How nice.

I'm very glad you engage in ad hominem arguments and I'm sure all the ladies in your sewing circle think you're a real kneeslapper when you bust those little gems of logic out.

Yeah, we're a bunch of geeks and nerds...guess that makes you one by association.

Defining people and their beliefs is really the greatest thing on the planet, ain't it? I mean, the fact that I'm going to hell / not going to paradise according to the two biggest religions on the planet seems to be driving 99% of the violence in the world.

So am I, but I don't believe in hell anyway, so wtf do I care?
Be happy in this life, don't worry about what happens after

I think she's just a kid, Eryn. Looks at her spelling and "nyeh nyeh nyeh!!" attitude.

Actually... if I were to venture a further guess just based on attitude and displayed intelligence, I would say male and 14.

You're probably right. Teens tend to be over-concerned about other online folk's "real" gender...and if the she really IS a he, that would be too darn ironic.

asl?

A 'He' looking for an eDate.

A/S/L/COP-OR-NOT?

I generally don't ask anyone about their real life gender. I figure it's none of my damn business and gods help them if they ask mine.

In fact, I usually don't ask other people about their first lives unless they volunteer the info.