Why is the slutty look so popular
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Trout Recreant
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09-27-2007 12:18
From: Lexxi Gynoid
Wait, was it just a skin-tight t-shirt? I'd have to see. Skin-tight, no bra, very obviously aroused . . . with the words "Make me Purr" written across the front . . .
That would do it... I don't necessarily think tight is slutty in RL. RL, just like SL is all about context - where the clothes are being worn (no jokes about up the butt after a tp, please - I meant in what sort of place, ie a grocery store vs a night club) and how the wearer is behaving. There's a difference between a tight t-shirt and a skirt and a painted on latex cat suit - both are tight, but one is slutty in almost every context.
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Lexxi Gynoid
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09-27-2007 12:21
From: Joaz Janus I didnt find any of the pics slutty.
Slutty is how you act, not how you dress.
If, you act Slutty............... So What !.......is that a bad thing. ?
I guess it depends on the circumstances, outfits that would not cause a stir in Rio de Janeiro, might fare differently in Downtown Jeddah.
I like the boots in the 2nd pic, they would look lovely under my Burqa, which is a racy and provocative shade of blue. Ah well. I don't know the definition of slutty, or how to use it, I guess. I have "slutty looking" clothes in my inventory. I'll try to think up a new name for that folder. And yes, I find blue to be quite provocative, much more so than the much overused red. I mean, you don't want to look like a staid, conservative cardinal in the Catholic church.
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Colette Meiji
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09-27-2007 12:21
From: Trout Recreant That would do it...
I don't necessarily think tight is slutty in RL. RL, just like SL is all about context - where the clothes are being worn (no jokes about up the butt after a tp, please - I meant in what sort of place, ie a grocery store vs a night club) and how the wearer is behaving. There's a difference between a tight t-shirt and a skirt and a painted on latex cat suit - both are tight, but one is slutty in almost every context. Im not sure that the distinction is all that important, after all - Ive never actually seen someone wear rubber clothing in real life. |
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Lexxi Gynoid
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09-27-2007 12:22
From: Colette Meiji Im not sure that the distinction is all that important, after all -
Ive never actually seen someone wear rubber clothing in real life. I have . . I mean . . .oops
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Ann Launay
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09-27-2007 12:24
From: Lexxi Gynoid Oh, I only meant look. That was the part I was hoping she was kidding about...that a person's manner of dress is indicative of their morals. I mean, it might be in some cases, but I try not to make those assumptions.
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Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
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Ann Launay
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09-27-2007 12:26
From: Joaz Janus
I like the boots in the 2nd pic, they would look lovely under my Burqa, which is a racy and provocative shade of blue.
Dark Eden. 
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Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
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09-27-2007 12:28
From: Lexxi Gynoid I do not think any of the clothing choices in your picture is slutty. Thank you! I've noticed that there is a market for "normal clothes" and I'm trying to make that my "niche".
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09-27-2007 12:28
From: Colette Meiji Im not sure that the distinction is all that important, after all -
Ive never actually seen someone wear rubber clothing in real life. I was trying to give two ends of the spectrum. I guess I could have gone from a form fitting business suit to one of those adult Catholic school girl outfits that leave nothing to the imagination and are custom made to work men into a lather. Both are attractive and sexy when worn right, and both can be slutty in context, but the latter is slutty in most every context I can imagine, and the former isn't. That's the distinction I was going for.
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09-27-2007 12:30
From: Joaz Janus I didnt find any of the pics slutty.
Slutty is how you act, not how you dress.
If, you act Slutty............... So What !.......is that a bad thing. ?
It's only bad if you do it badly... d. |
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Lexxi Gynoid
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09-27-2007 12:30
From: Trout Recreant I was trying to give two ends of the spectrum. I guess I could have gone from a form fitting business suit to one of those adult Catholic school girl outfits that leave nothing to the imagination and are custom made to work men into a lather. Both are attractive and sexy when worn right, and both can be slutty in context, but the latter is slutty in most every context I can imagine, and the former isn't. That's the distinction I was going for. So, did you think my pictures were slutty?
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fluff Payne
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09-27-2007 12:32
From: Shep Planer No offense but why is the cheap skanky look so popular with the girls in second life? In one day, 17 pages has been devoted to this question. If only people exerted this amount of energy into other things....  Shep - it's easy - it's popular because that is the sort of clothing that woman are most buying - you know supply and demand. If rubber nun suits were the fad, then most of us chicks would be wearing that! For the record, I like the "cheap skanky" look, but I prefer to call it provacative and slutty because it's more fun!  |
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09-27-2007 12:33
From: fluff Payne If rubber nun suits were the fad, then most of us chicks would be wearing that!
I don't know about rubber, but I saw one that was the habit plus a corseted bustier thing.
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Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
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Maggie McArdle
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09-27-2007 12:37
From: Shep Planer Well I suppose its all subjective but personally I dont find the slutty look fabulous. define "slutty"? i mean i have an ok ava body, but i don't consider what i wear "slutty". so if You would please clarify?
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Lexxi Gynoid
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09-27-2007 12:38
From: Ann Launay I don't know about rubber, but I saw one that was the habit plus a corseted bustier thing. I saw a rubber nun suit in SL. I ran screaming in the opposite direction.
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Finora Kuncoro
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09-27-2007 12:46
From: Joaz Janus I like the boots in the 2nd pic, they would look lovely under my Burqa, which is a racy and provocative shade of blue. The slutty/not slutty clothes in the pictures are all my own designs. The boots are from Dark Eden, and are IMO some of the yummiest boots in SL.
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Darien Caldwell
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09-27-2007 13:00
From: Shep Planer No offense but why is the cheap skanky look so popular with the girls in second life? I guess you don't get out of the house much. The 'cheap skanky' look is the 'de facto' in RL. Of course some just call it fashionable. |
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Imogen Saltair
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09-27-2007 13:03
From: Trout Recreant That's messed up. I couldn't get even remotely intimate with any woman who reminded me of my mom.
The bottom line to this whole conversation is that a lot of SL is fantasy. Women are sexual beings, just like men, and if they choose to express that in SL or find it empowering to do so, then good for them. Sex is part of life - part of being human, and it is safe to express that part of oneself in SL, because there aren't the same concerns about real life abuse or rape. Even non-consensual RP is consensual. Why can't we just leave people be and let them do whatever makes them happy without trying to figure out whether it makes them good or bad people? Hi Trout. I agree with all you say in the post above.. but i think you are missing one thing in your first paragraph... From: Trout Recreant That's messed up. I couldn't get even remotely intimate with any woman who reminded me of my mom. its not that the "ideal woman" *reminds* some guys of Mom.. its about the sort of woman she was, and how she dressed and acted is part of that for some guys. Modesty perhaps, conservatism... the things some guys think of as the ideal for a wife and mother are personified by their own mother. Mothers set an example to their kids of how its OK to behave and to present themselves. Some people rebel, but some people hold that up as the ideal. Some guys love the idea of a slutty dresser just because its NOT like mom... It goes both ways. Please note that i say "some guys" and "some people". love imogen |
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09-27-2007 13:05
From: Maggie McArdle define "slutty"?
i mean i have an ok ava body, but i don't consider what i wear "slutty". so if You would please clarify? *see through material *mini-mini skirt *thong showing *tramp stamp *Peggy Bundy / Kelly Bundy *animal print *too much leather, not enough fabric Those are a few.
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JessyAnne Theas
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09-27-2007 13:07
From: Michael Bigwig *see through material *mini-mini skirt *thong showing *tramp stamp *Peggy Bundy / Kelly Bundy *animal print *too much leather, not enough fabric Those are a few. Okay.. then my torn jeans and tank tops are okay. /whew |
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09-27-2007 13:08
From: JessyAnne Theas Okay.. then my torn jeans and tank tops are okay. /whew Torn jeans and tank top is trendy and chic...don't you watch America's Next Top Model?
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09-27-2007 13:10
From: Michael Bigwig Torn jeans and tank top is trendy and chic...don't you watch America's Next Top Model? pfffffffffft no. (they frighten me and give me a bad body image) |
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Maggie McArdle
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09-27-2007 13:13
From: Michael Bigwig *see through material *mini-mini skirt *thong showing *tramp stamp *Peggy Bundy / Kelly Bundy *animal print *too much leather, not enough fabric Those are a few. crap...thats like 1/4 my wardrobe  ..oh well....goes to mischeif and gets those thong barin jeans ....the goes buy those really sexy thongs that look good peekin out from the jeans.
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There's, uh, probably a lot of things you didn't know about lindens. Another, another interesting, uh, lindenism, uh, there are only three jobs available to a linden. The first is making shoes at night while, you know, while the old cobbler sleeps.You can bake cookies in a tree. But the third job, some call it, uh, "the show" or "the big dance," it's the profession that every linden aspires to.
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JessyAnne Theas
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09-27-2007 13:15
I have such a hard time finding jeans that actually COVER my a$$ here.
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09-27-2007 13:15
From: Lexxi Gynoid I saw a rubber nun suit in SL. I ran screaming in the opposite direction. Yes, but what if it had been worn by a female avatar? |
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JessyAnne Theas
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09-27-2007 13:16
From: Sling Trebuchet Yes, but what if it had been worn by a female avatar? Aren't nuns typically uh... female? |