Friends With Benefits

Assuming you don't see this as some sort of twisted perk, what do you get out of the arrangement? If you don't mind my asking, that is.

You guys are funny but since I live in UK gotta go to bed before I turn into a pumpkin. Tc have fun. And Kylie wish you would do my windows too, and clean the toilet ooh please come to Scotland won't set the haggis on you.

I love him.

If you love him it's not twisted. Works for me anyway. Yawn must go to sleep.

Kylie sure you can't come do my windows? and ermm the toilet?

LOL! I meant seeing cleaning toilets as a perk being twisted!

*Smiles*

Nite all its 23.30 here.

shudders not wanting to know what she is thinking. Please, please don't explain this one to me.

I do not start "two or three threads a day". I start one when I think I should. Please check my record of threads. I love attention but, but, I am most concerned that we do not turn this wonderful opportunity for a "secondlife" into an extension of a boring life and fail to see its full potential.

Listen, I know I should shut my "playboy mouth" but we can really do things here in terms of relationships and contact and love and creativity and art and all the things that everyone seems to be missing. This is a great place. This is like a golden opportunity to really shine. Cant you see that??

Arrgh! I get so mad at this complacency. Surely someone out there can see where I am coming from? This is such an artistic opportunity but we waste our tiem making hairstyles and p*ssing around worrying whether "Jig is who she says she is" Jig is who I say I am so suck it up and lets get all this rolling.

Lets change the way we see relationships for example. Let's build on what we know works for us and have expectations and "benefits".

No,but obviously you are *that* blind.

Good point Darcy.

Are you reading a different forum than the rest of us?

People have their own arbitrary standards. Jig's could be considered somewhat unusual, but this is Second Life after all.

Do yourself a favor and join a swingers group inside of SL and have these conversations there.

I might actually enjoy a lot of that same kind of play in SL, but this forum is not composed of primarily people with that perspective.

There's such a thing as time and place, and this is neither.

:: sniff :: you want me thrown out? :: puts on my child av and gives the pouty look with the puppy dog eyes:: (yeah I know you were being sarcastic )


I'm sure with enough money you could buy a reasonable facsimile, but lets be scientific about it and test the theory... everyone can send me money and I'll let you know if it makes me happy =)


I agree jig... a human avatar is SOOOOOoooooooo complacent... ready to switch it up? =)

You need a ferret avatar.

Me sarcastic, never... now get your ass out and become artistic by trying to screw every male on the grid. You are waisting your artistic talents girl.

I guess you are going to have to spell it out for me Jig... Just what is artistic about what you do in SL. If you think making hair isn't artistic why don't you take yours off and see how far it takes you.

No, I do not care who you are in RL. What I care about is the ludicrous stuff you try to spread as real in here.

a neutered one please.

Exactly. I'm no prude. I have a kinky side,I just don't think it is appropriate to talk about it on the forums. Not everyone wants to hear or even cares about the hot monkey sex I had last night.

Hey, wait a minute. I am straight, but I don't mind watching... from a distance anyway.

I think you are the one who is blind. I have my reasons for believing so, anyway.

I doubt we'll come to any agreement about Pep, so I'll just leave it at that. (Hopefully.)




She denied the thighs comment was the reason for what she said. You cannot know what she was thinking. Nobody can except her. She's not one to mince her words, so I tend to believe her. If you want to call her a liar, well, that's on you.

Well, I see the point you're trying to make - but this thread is like 25 pages long. Jig is very definitely not the only person who likes to talk about Jig's personal life on the forums.

but .... but... but.... I'm a lesbian! (no, really. a picky one at that!)

Love, I don't want to argue with you,especially about Pep of all people. I have always liked you and respected you. So please accept my apology for anything I said that may have been out of line to you. We don't agree on some points and that's fine, I shouldn't have become nasty towards you.


I still stand by everything I have said about Jig. But I am not going to sit here and fight with people I like over it. So I will do the forum a favor and put Jig back on ignore,where I should have left her.