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Lexxi Gynoid
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Join date: 6 Aug 2007
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11-13-2007 08:54
From: Verity Hanner I mostly stick to "sweetie" because I actually had another girl object to my calling her hun once. /shrug hehe. to each their own. There as someone that was calling me something like sweetie or hun or something and I kept feeling like I was their older aunt or something (didn't help that I knew that I was 11 years older than them in real life). Sweetie . . you are just so sweet . . just want to lick all that lovely sweet pastry all over. Mmm donuts . . chocolate covered creme filled donuts .. so good . . wait? sweetie? oops sorry . . Sorry I always think of food for some reason when I see "sweetie", that or I'm 5.
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Lexxi Gynoid
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11-13-2007 08:55
From: Colette Meiji why would "Hon" be classier than "hun"? they are both shortened forms of the same word.  Hon makes me think of "The Hon. Richard Burton" or The Honorable . . . Hun reminds me of the Huns running around pillaging and the like.
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Isabeau Imako
P'tite Poulette
Join date: 13 Sep 2007
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11-13-2007 08:56
From: Xi Taurog Why do women feel they need to do anything other than say No (if that much) then Mute the person? As in real life, I don't feel the need to react to strangers who are harassing me. I'm certainly not going to be polite and hold a conversation with them. And going through all the effort to change AVs/teleport away/do bad things to the harasser only encourages them to do more of the same to other women, just to see their reactions. These guys are a type of griefer, folks. Do you give other types of griefers the attention they crave? I have to agree with Xi here. Why respond at all? Some are clumsy and annoying with their flirting (let's face it, no different then RL) but vast majority of men, thank God, do not go around asking you to f**k. Does it really happen to you EVERY time your inworld? And they won't go away when you tell them to? It must be my elven ears (attached to my coat rack) cause the 2 times I've been hit on, I've simply said "go away, I'm busy"and they left. Mind you, I do not have tripple H breasts and my Vajayjay isn't visible... 
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Kelly Kuiper
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11-13-2007 08:56
From: Lexxi Gynoid
Sweetie . . you are just so sweet . . just want to lick all that lovely sweet pastry all over. Mmm donuts . . chocolate covered creme filled donuts .. so good . . wait? sweetie? oops sorry . . Sorry I always think of food for some reason when I see "sweetie", that or I'm 5.
hehe. Yeah... Sweetie. Honey. Sugar. There is a kind of recurring theme thang going on. |
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Sandy Carver
I'm a bloke!
Join date: 7 Nov 2007
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11-13-2007 08:57
From: Brenda Connolly Other than the sacking of Europe, I have no qualms with Hun myself. LOL!!!! |
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Brenda Connolly
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11-13-2007 08:58
From: Kelly Kuiper hehe. Yeah... Sweetie. Honey. Sugar. There is a kind of recurring theme thang going on. None of them really bother me, in SL or RL. The only one I don't like is when casual acquaintences call me Babe.
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Kelly Kuiper
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11-13-2007 09:01
From: Brenda Connolly None of them really bother me, in SL or RL. The only one I don't like is when casual acquaintences call me Babe. Oh yeah I know what you mean. Like 'No. Babe's that pig that can talk. If you want me to oink, roll around in mud and wear a little curly tail, you're going to have to pay." |
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Maggie McArdle
FIOS hates puppies
Join date: 8 May 2006
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11-13-2007 09:04
From: Isabeau Imako I have to agree with Xi here. Why respond at all? Some are clumsy and annoying with their flirting (let's face it, no different then RL) but vast majority of men, thank God, do not go around asking you to f**k. Does it really happen to you EVERY time your inworld? And they won't go away when you tell them to? It must be my elven ears (attached to my coat rack) cause the 2 times I've been hit on, I've simply said "go away, I'm busy"and they left. Mind you, I do not have tripple H breasts and my Vajayjay isn't visible... sometimes a simple "no" does not work with some "men". i had one follow me all over the mall, after i very politely told him that approaching female avas like that is a fast way to get put on many ignore lists. his response? he orbited me. :/
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Okiphia Rayna
DemonEye Benefactor
Join date: 22 Sep 2007
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11-13-2007 09:06
From: Ricky Yates ... cope with being made a pass on every 30 seconds if you happen to be more attractive than a wardrobe stand? It always amazes me how male avs (especially those of the "no shirt and built like a prize fighter" faction) are drawn in like moths to a light and are seemingly unable to just leave a girl in peace. Sometimes I wander the world and check out interesting places in the form of a cute girl (because I enjoy seeing her in the scenery). The frequent passes and IMs are sometimes witty, but quite often blatant and annoying. BTW, normally it helps telling them that this girl has a beard and other un-girly appendages in RL to dampen the interest (but not always).  So I'm curious: What do you girls do if being constantly hit upon is getting on your nerve. Transform into an "Ugly Aunt Betha" shape? Use a male av? Just go DnD? Respond kindly but essentially tell them that their chances are about on par with the chances of the Titanic floating back up, Rose going to it and finding Leonardo Di'Caprio naked in the car waiting for her. (For those of you who don't understand... none) And last night I had a first... someone asked me if my slave was for sale because of her wonderful obedience.... offered me 10,000 L$ lol.... That one gets a bit warmer response than making a pass at *me* because I'm proud of my girls... but still the same chance =P EDIT:: And if they come to me with their dicks out, ever (I Don't go to places such as sex clubs and such... stores are closest and then I'm maybe slightly more lenient) then I tell them to put some clothes on, put them on ignore, and walk away.... Only time I ever had the 'following' problem was with a submissive who I had put on ignore.... even told him but he still followed me.... took him off for a second to see what he had to say, and he just kept saying "Miss Rayna?" That was odd... But I don't get approached all that often.. maybe its cause I've had my girls with me alot often, or the two swords I've kept on my side the past couple of days...
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Royce Boa
RAGE: President
Join date: 1 Apr 2007
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11-13-2007 09:10
From: Ricky Yates ... cope with being made a pass on every 30 seconds if you happen to be more attractive than a wardrobe stand? It always amazes me how male avs (especially those of the "no shirt and built like a prize fighter" faction) are drawn in like moths to a light and are seemingly unable to just leave a girl in peace. Sometimes I wander the world and check out interesting places in the form of a cute girl (because I enjoy seeing her in the scenery). The frequent passes and IMs are sometimes witty, but quite often blatant and annoying. BTW, normally it helps telling them that this girl has a beard and other un-girly appendages in RL to dampen the interest (but not always). So I'm curious: What do you girls do if being constantly hit upon is getting on your nerve. Transform into an "Ugly Aunt Betha" shape? Use a male av? Just go DnD? Hey Ricky... : ) Well, I like the attention for the most part to be honest. Why else would I have made such a BEAUTIFUL av. lol Serious though, it's all in good fun. Heck, I'm hitting on anything that walks these days too. Flirting in SL is just so easy going, and I'm such a shy person in real life, that I enjoy the role play really. Sure, when I'm not in the mood I've pulled guns on guys, or ruthed out, or threatened to empty the contents of their bowels onto the floor in front of me, but only on certain days of the month, and all in good humor. |
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Elora Lunasea
Mrs. Llama
Join date: 28 Aug 2007
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11-13-2007 09:10
From: Sandy Carver (By the way, If I'm coming across too desperate somebody let me know. Cheers) Nope, just cheeky  I kind of want to meet you Sandy, just to say hello - no funny business. You're amusing me. I'll IM you next time I'm in-world.
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Hate Hastings
Two Track Mind
Join date: 17 Oct 2007
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11-13-2007 09:11
From: Okiphia Rayna
And last night I had a first... someone asked me if my slave was for sale because of her wonderful obedience....
That I don't get. Half the fun is making your own...
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Okiphia Rayna
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Join date: 22 Sep 2007
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11-13-2007 09:14
From: Hate Hastings That I don't get. Half the fun is making your own... In this case I didn't get that pleasure.. though my other girl is being trained by me ^^ She's simply a wonderful girl... absolutely lovely.. and hey, some guys are just plain lazy I guess....
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Lindal Kidd
Dances With Noobs
Join date: 26 Jun 2007
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11-13-2007 09:24
From: Colette Meiji why would "Hon" be classier than "hun"? they are both shortened forms of the same word. Well, see that's why I asked. I think it's probably just a picky, irrational reaction on my part.
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Okiphia Rayna
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11-13-2007 09:30
From: Lindal Kidd Well, see that's why I asked. I think it's probably just a picky, irrational reaction on my part. I agree with you on the 'hun' vs. 'hon' I think maybe it's because 'hon' is actually a shortened version while 'hun' is more of a slang derivation or something... since it isn't actually the same letters, ya know? I always use 'hon' however... And side note, though this will sound biased: I find that more often 'hon' is used by women while 'hun' is used by men, especially gay (I know this is making a very broad generality, however in my experience this is generally a true statement... the ratio that I've found is levered in this way.... though.. I don't encounter 'hun' much anymore...
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Marianne McCann
Feted Inner Child
Join date: 23 Feb 2006
Posts: 7,145
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11-13-2007 09:31
From: Czari Zenovka Thanks, Mari...I swear by my Mysti tool too Have had my Mysti since about my 2nd week in SL, but still discovering all the cool things it does....like the play dead thing...had no idea!!! A couple weeks ago, I went through all the help files on it, an found a lotta useful stuff. I love the light in the implant, for example. Means I dun need to use one of those other face light things. An I love the mote feature, an the rezzing posing stand. Thing is worth way way more than what she charges. Mari
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Isabeau Imako
P'tite Poulette
Join date: 13 Sep 2007
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11-13-2007 09:34
From: Maggie McArdle sometimes a simple "no" does not work with some "men". i had one follow me all over the mall, after i very politely told him that approaching female avas like that is a fast way to get put on many ignore lists. his response? he orbited me. :/ Oh my! What a loser... You are right to put quotation marks on the word men. There's nothing manly about orbiting a girl because she turned you down. He asks, she replies. That's how it works. If his Ego can't take it, he shouldn't try.
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From: Macphisto Angelus Just remember what my dear Grammy always says: "F**k 'em!"
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Eveline Nixdorf
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11-13-2007 09:37
I usually stand silently, just gently gazing at the person who hits on me. Provokes the most astonshing and revealing reactions! Anything from "Sorry to bother you", to "I hope you rot, you offensive b**ch". How enlightening Then again, I don't usually speak to (overt) males n SL anyway... exceptions always made for nice people of any make, model or number  |
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Sandy Carver
I'm a bloke!
Join date: 7 Nov 2007
Posts: 295
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11-13-2007 09:39
From: Elora Lunasea Nope, just cheeky I kind of want to meet you Sandy, just to say hello - no funny business. You're amusing me. I'll IM you next time I'm in-world. How nice of you! I look forward to meeting you. (Whoo Hooo! Right ok ....... attach ...... NO ..... wear ..... attach to arm ...... NO ...... oh forget it) |
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Keeran Blackadder
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11-13-2007 09:49
Heh...well, if it makes any of you ladies feel better - gay men have this issue too. I've spent a good deal of time and money getting my AV to have the "look" that I wanted, and don't mind compliments at all. When they start getting forward - as many gay AV's (both newb and old) are want to do...I am pleasant, joke with them, thank them for the compliment and if it persists...slap that mute button on them. I must give off the "gay vibe" I don't have women hit on me. /me shrugs
Something I'll admit to doing though...that may spur this behavior: I am not a bashful person with the clothes I buy and wear. Some people may say that my cavorting about in a pair of shorts, sandals and no shirt (saying nothing of the other outfits I wear out dancing...Oh my!) that I'm asking for the possible unwanted advances - and I can't fault that presumption. But when you have a full body tattoo that looks stunning, and like the finished product of weeks of tweaking your form, finding the right skin, adding the perfect hair and accessories...by gosh...I'm going to enjoy looking at my AV. One of the pitfalls of taking the time and spending the resources to make a good looking AV is the very real possibility of vulgar and even lewd advances from people looking to bump prims.
In closing - ladies and gents - don't hide yourself and the work you've done to make your AV's stunning. Show off what you have, expect others to treat you with respect...and when they don't...mute em and move on.
Salute!
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Lindal Kidd
Dances With Noobs
Join date: 26 Jun 2007
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11-13-2007 10:00
From: Sandy Carver How nice of you! I look forward to meeting you.
(Whoo Hooo! Right ok ....... attach ...... NO ..... wear ..... attach to arm ...... NO ...... oh forget it) I can see that Sandy's been hanging out with Trout. You're going to fit right into this crowd, boyo.
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bilbo99 Emu
Garrett's No.1 fan
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11-13-2007 10:00
See? you've added another two pages in just the time I took to walk home! Grrr!!!
My last post for tonight .. and I suppose that means at least 12 pages of back-reading tomorrow!!!! ....
... hun or hon .. I called someone one of them a while back and they hit the roof. Sweetie usually gets an acceptable response but nobody mentioned 'dear' yet? I'm amazed how many I've met who hate that with venom LOL
'night all!!
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Brenda Connolly
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11-13-2007 10:01
From: bilbo99 Emu See? you've added another two pages in just the time I took to walk home! Grrr!!!
My last post for tonight .. and I suppose that means at least 12 pages of back-reading tomorrow!!!! ....
... hun or hon .. I called someone one of them a while back and they hit the roof. Sweetie usually gets an acceptable response but nobody mentioned 'dear' yet? I'm amazed how many I've met who hate that with venom LOL
'night all!! Good Night , dear.
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bilbo99 Emu
Garrett's No.1 fan
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11-13-2007 10:02
From: Lindal Kidd I can see that Sandy's been hanging out with Trout. You're going to fit right into this crowd, boyo. Ya know? .. I don't think *anyone's* ever been banned from Taff's Bar yet ... .. but I think Sandy could make history!
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bilbo99 Emu
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11-13-2007 10:03
From: Brenda Connolly Good Night , dear.  Thankyou .. Babe!!
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