How have you been griefed?

I wonder how Scylla would react if I suggested that a woman had justifiably been raped because she "asked for it", as you have stated.

A "red mist retaliation" makes someone no better than an animal as far as I am concerned.

And as for driving someone off, that is speculation; do you convict on unsubstantiated hearsay evidence? That was an excuse drummed up after the fact by a hysterical "female" whose vanity was perturbed by valid minor criticisms of images that she had displayed to attract comment.

Pep (I couldn't care less about your sympathy; your opinion forming in these matters has been so flawed that I would prefer not to be touched by it in any way.)

PS Sulking involves hiding away and refusing to communicate; there is no chance of that.

LOL!!!!

Oh, do you think I can borrow that???

I stated no such thing. I stated that *you* asked for it. It's past your bedtime.

I'm not aware of anyone here who gives a damn what you think of things. I certainly don't. It's almost 11 p.m. - you should have been fast asleep a couple of hours ago.

I simply go by what multiple people said in that thread. They all seemed to be in agreement, and that'll do for me.

You're sulking when you keep posting what someone said to you, because it hurt you ("Look at what {name} said to me ". Stop sulking and grow up.

Well, I think you know how I would react.

I think you also know that I was appalled about what was said about you. Why am I being dragged into this?


Pep, I'll ask again. What does gender have to do with this? Can you really DEMONSTRATE that this conflict has been brought about by women, qua women? Or is this just a lazy way of lumping a collection of people you dislike into an easily targeted group, like "blacks," or "muslims," or "homosexuals"?

Are you trying to alienate every woman in this forum with these absurd and insupportable slanders directed against the entire sex? And why the quotation marks? If you are implying that these "women" aren't really women in RL, doesn't that rather undercut your thesis about the over-emotionalism of the sex?

Gender is a red herring here. This is just discriminatory and sexist; I frankly expect better of someone whom I know is capable of more rational thought than this exhibits.

Wow . . . Um, I think you may win the thread. The cake thing alone . . . !

That's kind of a dumb question. Of course he is. Don't take it personally, he's no respecter of subgroups.

Well, probably not, although the Survival Kit is available through a number of venues not directly associated with the SLLUFN as well. It's not directed at "feminists" per se; in fact, I frequently recommend it to male newbies.

I'm not sure whether ignoring the rules of an RP constitutes a form of griefing or not? I guess it would depend on the specifics of the person's behaviour. For example, in a BDSM scenario, I think I would classify someone who ignored a safe word or clear signal from a partner as a case of griefing.

I know, I know.
But there has been much argument here while I've been in a longlylonglyboringly meeting. Which only got better when we went to an art gallery. In real.

PEOPLE STOP ARGUING WITH EACH OTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I dunno what's happened today around teh planet but there is much disfraction and dazzlement here today. Pep is being Pep. Desmond is being Desmond. Prolly Scylla is being her normal self. Phil is being Phil.

STOP IT!!!!! I hate arguing like this. It's not fun and slappychundering. This sounds angry.

STOP IT.
Please.

A PhD in English lit, Pep. Yes, there will be a thesis . . . possibly on Milton. It has nothing to do with this thread, if that is what you are implying?

"comunicate"? Getting sloppy, Pep.

??????????

He's been sulking most of the day - it's bound to affect him in ways like that

Are any slappychundering parties planned for the near future? I could fancy one right now.

It came into my head like a bouquet of garni.

Now I must bathe coz I'm gonna have a slap up meal with a friend and we're having lobster and a desert.

Oh, Ris . . . that's horrible! I'm so sorry!

Yes, I'd definitely classify this as stalking and harassment, rather than your common-or-garden griefing. I'm glad that you were able to get away!

Milton who?
I'm buying the latest Lady Gaga and DeadMau5. Also KasKade.

Lol - I just read it again and realize you said PhD NOT DVD! Lol!!!

This is actually a pretty useful list, Deira . . . thanks!

But I really really need to know more about the last one . . .

Treasure's right. You are pretty adorable sometimes, Jig.

Thanks - and that was my glasses fault. I go lost in a supermarket teh other day because of them.

And malt does more than Milton can. To justify God's ways to man.

LOL

Oh Argent, this is stupid stuff . . .

I was trying to figure that one out, too. The best I could come up with was a scenario in which Deira dissuaded a harasser from continuing the harassment by threatening to show that snapshot around. (Which is an unkind speculation to make about Deira, and probably far from the truth.)

He's already done that, Scylla....many times over, and in a number of different ways. Any woman with a head on her shoulders, that is.

Falls right into place here, in the griefing thread.....if you count hurting people as griefing. I guarantee you that any woman that you hand those safety kits to, will most likely not run into anything more threatening.

Someone was bouncing everyone in a certain sandbox, so that the place was turned into a trampoline. Solution: Rez a chair and sit in it.

Another time I was making a house, and someone came in and sat down (after buzzing me like a dive bombing bird, then they refused to leave or reply.) Solution: Put the roof on, remove the door opening, and leave.