Im short and discriminated against

/me fires up the grill. Mmmmm grilled weasel.

I read that as an insult. Did I misunderstand?

And I don't see any smiley faces.

If people had not been so quick to come here hurling insults at her about something that was not even related to the topic of her thread, then she would not have felt the need to defend

she even stated she felt the need to defend

what does that tell you?

tells me it is pretty sad when someone feels the need to defend themselves in a public forum, over something that has nothing to do with the question they asked.

(notice no one else mentioned the profile until it was brought up out of the blue, I did not even think to look at it when I replied about height)
I did not look until after it was brought up, and I was not and am not offended by her profile

*shrug*

maybe the ones who are, should look into themselves ans ask themselves why it is so offensive to them, especially being it is the profile of a perfect stranger.

heck for all we know, it could have been directed at a single person


which reminds me of a quote I saw elsewhere that I felt was so perfect sometimes....

"thank you for talking about me and making me the center of your world"

in this case, she has become the center of some people's worlds.

no smiley faces, because I did not put one

was not an insult, but more of a "this is why I never respond to you" type comment

take it however you want, to take it as an insult implies you care

never knew you cared what I thought.

It's an insult. What happens after the insult is my choice. I choose not to care. But I will point it out as an insult, which you said you did not give.

I did NOT belittle or insult the OP in my original post. I don't have a copy of it. I removed it out of courtesy, due to the Private Nastygram. But she still came back in here, and was nasty to people who gave her very good advice.

You just watch yourself, Norse.

What kind of mustard goes on grilled weasel? Yellow, or Spicy Brown?

And I, being the one who wrote it, say it is not an insult... who would know, the writer or the reader?

*shrug*

I saw your post (the one you removed) as a belittling of the op, you say you did not mean it that way, so I take your word, as you are the one who wrote it.

oh well

(and now you are making references to something said in private???) at least that is what I am getting from the comment "private nastygram"

*screams*

I used to think those things were cute and cuddly, wow!!
I never knew they had teeth like that! Dang, never piss off a ferret I guess LOL

Yes...very similar to the ones you used to send me....if you need an example of what I am referring to.

Cute and cuddly vice-grips.

Works for me. (^_^)y

You know, I was trying to give the OP the benefit of the doubt, to the point of giving advice that she try an experiment and just "grow" for a while. I got no response to this. Fine, she's free to ignore my comment. I have no emotional attachment either way to this argument.

However, curiosity did get to me finally and I looked up her profile, since so many people made comments about it. I wanted to see for myself what the whole bruhaha was about.

Frankly, I have to side with those who say it possibly could be what is written there. If I were a possible employer and the OP came to me for a job, the first thing I would be doing is reading her profile to get a sense of who she is. I would be very put off by what is written there as it comes off very unfriendly. I would be concerned about how she would react to customers, based on the usage of language particuarly.

If I were a possible partner? I wouldn't want to bother knowing her, even though her avatar looks quite beautiful (and certainly NOT young either).

Mind you, she is complaining about people she meets inworld, this much is true. So, keeping this in mind, there is no difference between any of us going and looking up her profile and making a judgement call on what we see there. We all can put ourselves in the shoes of a possible employer, lover, friend and figure out easily what kind of person this is. More so, she very specifically states in her profile that she does NOT care what people think, so I'm at a loss why she posted this problem here to begin with.

People who are comfortable with themselves, who value themselves completely have no reason to worry about what others think of them or spell out rules and regulations for how others should deal with them. If you can't get a job, find a man, make friends, then you need to look within yourself, and stop blaming others.

Quoted for Truth.

"Short people got no reason to live"
Randy Newman

hmm I do not recall ever sending you a private msg in or out of world, so.. dream on

(of course you will have those that believe you, and I don't care, because I know the truth of the matter)

*shrug*

yep I agree completely

The fact that you cannot remember something of that nature....speaks volumes. I'm satisfied.

LOL well I guess it was not all that important after all... *shrug*
And the fact that I can not remember doesn't speak volumes, it only speaks to you, but you do not know me, or know what I have had to deal with in RL, and in that case, it is no wonder things do not remain in my memory at times. (but you don't care about that, you do not give a damn what others think, unless they agree with your point of view)

the fact that I can not remember it has no bearing whatsoever (if it even happened) on the fact that you feel the need to bring in something that was "private".

seems you also hinted at the fact regarding the OP as well, guess you do not know what private means... (shrug)

oh well, I am glad I do not remember it, because if I did say stuff that was nasty as the stuff you have said to me in the past, I do not want to remember it.

I seriously have no clue to what you are referring unless it has to do with the times you felt the need to publicly attack me, belittle me, and make me feel as though I was a worthless piece of crap on the bottom of your shoe, if it pertains to any of that, then hell yeah, I probably had a choice word or two to say, and I would take something like that private.

you act as though your track record is clean as a whistle and that you NEVER belittle anyone, or insult anyone, that you are perfect in every way....

I guess you relish in belittling people in public?

Anywho... back to the op, be who you are and if people do not like it, then tough, they don't have to.

(please note, the above comments are my opinion, and my views, based on the things I have observed, I am in no way saying that any one person is exactly how I described, but rather, that is how I see them)

I do not wish to participate any further in your drama, in spite of the insults that you are hurling at me. Your comments are out of line.

Elora has a post I agree with. I took out this part because I would compare this to RL:

A: I have applied for so many jobs, but they all turn me down.
B: Well, maybe you should dress more conservative when you apply for bank jobs?
A: What do you mean, it is my style and I don't change for anybody!
B: Nevermind.

I didn’t read her profile, but I always get a feeling that someone who put the blame on all others are not willing to hear any advice. Her first post states that.

meanwhile back at the original topic:
During my early days I came across the reverse situation, I was in a club as my kitten av about 3 feet 10 inch flat chest and some guy started stalking me and asking sexual favors.
I confronted him saying I was an obvius child av and did not appreciate the sexual attention he repleyed I looked mature to him, right at 3 10 and no boobs.

some people only see what they want to see.

As being witnessed in this thread by the weird defense...

and remember only what they want to. doesn't make the unremembered communication any less real, however.