Is there something wrong with me?

First off, I wasn't trying to be insulting. Trust me, had I wanted to be insulting there would of been a lot of material to work with.

I merely said, her statement makes her sound desperate for a man. Now, you can deny it all you want but you don't think for one second it doesn't? C'mon, now.

Had it been someone else, someone not of your little group, someone most of you don't kiss up to, most of you would of been all over her and you know it. It happens all the time but then that's not insulting, right?


I don't insult, there's no reason to. But I don't sugarcoat either. It is what it is.

Wow...I'm in a group?? Wonder when that happened!

Perhaps you were insulting without trying to be?

Hey ricardo, I dont get insulted, because I dont let it insult me, you can try your best, go ahead..lol..Yummy is a pretty tough cookie anyhoo..Im not of "their" group or anyone else's, Im a lone wolf, McCade

Don't be.

I wasn't trying to insult you, why should I? Besides that's not my style. I've never insulted anyone here. I just say what I think straight out.

Everyone knows or they should, once you post in a public forum you'll get different reactions and different comments. Kissing up and otherwise.

It's the smell of catnip.

No, that's not it. It's just some folks here think sugarcoating is the only way to go. They can't stand to hear straight-out honest opinions or comments. I believe they call it having thin skin or something like that...

I find all sorts of things attractive.

Bimbos can be fun. I like intelligence, but frankly, a good attitude matters more.

Sluts can be fun -- but if that's all they're about, it gets old pretty quickly.

Sophisticated elegance, yumm. Natural grace, ooooh. Girl-next-door charm, count me in.

Not classically beautiful but with that something-special difference? Love it.

Full-regalia ball-gown at formal dance club, looking like they're looking for that one special person who can be their everything? ahh, I tend to shy away, but can admire from a distance when done well. Color me fickle if you want, but if you ask the women I know, I bet they'll tell you otherwise. I'm just not looking to be anyone's everything!

Those who bear it, flaunt it? I look, I enjoy. My genes, hormones, whatever .. can't help it. If they're fun to talk to, it doesn't stop at looking.

Those who wear something more teasing than flaunting? Much more intriguing. Need I say more?

Bling? Not so much. Usually best when subtle. However, there are times when it's simply demanded. Hopefully not often.

Breasts? Most SL women set them too big. I suspect in many cases it's overcompensation (um ... probably like men's attachments ...) Again though, it depends on the whole look. But ladies, please remember that many of us *love* small breasted women! In any case, quality counts more than quality. It's what you does with it, not how much you gots!

About my date's body being exposed -- no problem. Depends. Wouldn't want to be with a hooker in a jazz club, or with a hoop dress at the beach. Just hanging at a typical club? Well, dress code is generally pretty open, I like the scenery, and it's just fine if my date is adding to it.

I confess I particularly enjoy the nipples peeking out look (in a suitable place). I blame it on my hormones.

That answer your question? JMHO, of course.

Being older than 6 months, dynamite looks and owning a sexy store can make some men feel like you are out of their league. I don't know why it happens as much as it does, but it does.

Another thing with SL is people tend to assume long time SL'rs are less approachable.

Ever notice how many online relationships Noobs go through? Its not all because they are just not adjusted to SL.

Funny, I was just wondering this the other day, early on in SL I was approached by guys and had a wonderful time. Now I can't remember the last guy who approached me.

I was thinking that maybe it was that our society of SL had changed? Maybe newer people weren't here to socialize and develop relationships with each other but for other reasons? So to get dates we should be making alts? Is that the virtual equivalent of dressing to entice in RL?

/me contemplates her bottle of Eau de Catnip sadly

So it's Mac's fault then?

So it's Mac's fault then?

Of course towing around Des' prim babies doesn't help either.

Of course towing around Des' prim babies doesn't help either.

haha sure..but im not ingame right now ..lol

I swear! This should be a handbook "what every guy wants in a woman"..its awsome..lol

Nah, you never bothered me, I kind of enjoy your cynical remarks..its a detour from the norm..rather refreshing