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Colette Meiji
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09-25-2007 12:45
From: Michael Bigwig
Bias and skewed. Let's agree to disagree, and move on. No hard feelings.


Id also point out I only personally attack someone who has personally attacked me, as in this thread.

Or others. Which is what happened in the first thread where we "Butted heads" I called you out becuase you stereotyped people, including posters in that thread.

If I personally attacked everyone I disagreed with there would be a lot more then you and Squeezeone claiming I am quick to use personal attacks.

I think your version of my posting habits is skewed by your inability to be impartial about them.
Bradley Bracken
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09-25-2007 12:46
I totally glaze over when people talk about online stalkers. Not that there's not a real threat but it is greatly exaggerated. People should be more concerned about their own family, friends and neighbors. Those are where the real threats are statistically.
Ashlynn Dawn
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Join date: 1 Feb 2004
Posts: 508
09-25-2007 12:46
From: Lexxi Gynoid
I started admitting to the state I'm from, and or just mentioning the time zone as I pretend that is what they are asking, what time zone I'm in and therefore what time we are both in (SL says it is 11:22 am, but it is really xxxx for me, and xxxx for them and therefore I'm about to fall asleep and they just woke up).



Thats one of the things I am so thankful for, I can just tell people that I am on SL time. I would go nuts in another time zone lol
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Turbo Streeter
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09-25-2007 12:48
From: someone
I can put this in Google Earth, and get a satellite image of your house.


Indeed... which is proving my point that giving out certain information is foolish, if not potentially dangerous. It's not your right to know where I am and where I am from. It's not anyone's right to see my home, my address and how much I've paid for it... it's not a right anyone has to know a damn thing about me... unless I so choose to make it so.
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Ashlynn Dawn
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09-25-2007 12:49
From: Bradley Bracken
I totally glaze over when people talk about online stalkers. Not that there's not a real threat but it is greatly exaggerated. People should be more concerned about their own family, friends and neighbors. Those are where the real threats are statistically.



I think its far less a hot topic than it was a few years ago. Both of our families thought we were crazy when my husband and I met. Like I said, it was a huge deal and scandal (more for his family cuz he married that 'white girl' lol it still cracks me up remembering that) but I think now a days its not even impressive if people ask where you met and you say online. I used to get such looks o.O Now there is a wide variety of E datenhookemup places where I figure the stalkers would rather hang out than in SL. You get more info there by far...
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Ashlynn Dawn
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09-25-2007 12:50
From: Michael Bigwig
Stalkers are good at what they do...it's sad but true. If they want to find us they can. Your example above is no different than Google Earth. If I know your name (I can search for an address via Google), I can put this in Google Earth, and get a satellite image of your house.


Google Earth is crap...still has an old old picture of my house when the pool looked like a swamp. :mad:
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Sunni Jewell
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09-25-2007 12:50
My state is on my profile here, but I don't think I mention it on my SL profile...not sure. It's no secret that I live in Pennsylvania.....but it's a big state. And no, I don't use voice. And no, I don't have anything to hide, as people have implied on other posts that if you don't use voice you must have "something to hide". (actually, my voice probably fits my pretty blonde avatar a lot more than it fits my RL self!) Like I said in another post, most of the time I just forget it's there. I'm not hiding anything...I just mostly play on SL with my RL husband anyway...and he's only sitting one room away from me if I want to talk to him in "voice"...lol.
Brenda Connolly
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09-25-2007 12:52
From: Bradley Bracken
Outrageous but true. I think that's why I have little patience with those upset about the age verification issue (I'm NOT trying to derail this thread). Here in the US virtually everything about anyone is available publicly. There is no real privacy. Maybe that's not true in other places, but you may also be surprised to find it is.

As for why don't I use voice? Simply...I just don't. I don't like talking on the phone that much. If a nearby friend starts to get chatty I ask them to come over or just end the conversation. I would use it more if I saw a reason to, but since most people (at least in my circles) don't use it at all, then I see no need whatsoever and hope it stays that way.

You are dead right on the personal info thing, we are all open books here.I'm not concerned with verifying in the sense of LL knowing who I am, they already do. I don't think the fact that I am in Second life is anyone's business, and I don't have faith that the information will be kept confidential. I agree with you on voice as well. I really don't want to talk anymore when I get home, plus I'd just feel really stupid talking to my computer all night long.
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Jessica Elytis
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09-25-2007 12:54
Mine is a semi-qwuip, just to add a bit of humor. I've from Pennsylvania, USA (On the North East portion of the USA for those not knowing where PA is ^.~)

Any more detailed loction, I'll not post over the internet, esspecially not on such a public media. If I need to explain the reasons why, go back to kindergarden and ask your old Teacher :D

Actually, while I'm not so concerned about "Stalkers" and the like (I am an ex-Law Enforcement officer), I just don't feel the information is needed by all. I guess my return question would be "Why ya wanna know?" ^.~

~Jessy
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Colette Meiji
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09-25-2007 12:55
From: Bradley Bracken
I totally glaze over when people talk about online stalkers. Not that there's not a real threat but it is greatly exaggerated. People should be more concerned about their own family, friends and neighbors. Those are where the real threats are statistically.



However when it comes to getting killed, once is all it takes.
Brenda Connolly
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09-25-2007 12:58
From: Bradley Bracken
I totally glaze over when people talk about online stalkers. Not that there's not a real threat but it is greatly exaggerated. People should be more concerned about their own family, friends and neighbors. Those are where the real threats are statistically.

My Family, friends or neighbors don't know I play SL either........ :p
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JessyAnne Theas
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09-25-2007 12:59
From: Victorria Paine
Wow thats outrageous!!!


Yeah, it's true. Tax assessments are public knowledge. As long as you know the website addy for the county tax assessor, you can get all of that info.

From: Bradley Bracken
I totally glaze over when people talk about online stalkers. Not that there's not a real threat but it is greatly exaggerated. People should be more concerned about their own family, friends and neighbors. Those are where the real threats are statistically.



Personally... I can see your point of view. And I agree... partly. But also understand, that it is split between the sexes. You are a guy... girls seem to have it a bit tougher when it comes to people stalking
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Brenda Connolly
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09-25-2007 12:59
From: Colette Meiji
However when it comes to getting killed, once is all it takes.

Maybe twice, 3 times tops.
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Brenda Connolly
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09-25-2007 13:00
From: JessyAnne Theas
Yeah, it's true. Tax assessments are public knowledge. As long as you know the website addy for the county tax assessor, you can get all of that info.

www.zillow.com Search for your house
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Victorria Paine
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Join date: 13 Jul 2007
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09-25-2007 13:01
From: JessyAnne Theas
Yeah, it's true. Tax assessments are public knowledge. As long as you know the website addy for the county tax assessor, you can get all of that info.


That I know, but that's a tad different than the County providing a photo of my house on the internet.
Bradley Bracken
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09-25-2007 13:03
From: Colette Meiji
However when it coems to getting killed, once is all it takes.


Not really a valid argument. The same could be said for those that eat uncooked cookie dough.

I have no problem with those that don't want to disclose information, but I think it's unfortunate how scared we've all become. Statistically we are living in the safest time in history. Murder rates are at an all time low compared to other era's. The only reason it seems more scary is because of the media. A hundred years ago if a murder or kidnapping occured 3,000 miles away you wouldn't have heard about it. Now you not only will hear about it, but if it's sensational enough you'll hear about it over and over and over again. It will even be given its own theme music on the nightly news.

I'm not saying to give out anything and everything but no one should have a fear of giving out their country, their state, even their city in most cases (unless it's a small town perhaps). There are many reasons why a person may choose not to give out this information, but I don't think fear should be one of them.
Kascha Matova
Bus Bench Supermodel
Join date: 30 Mar 2007
Posts: 342
09-25-2007 13:04
From: Michael Bigwig

A handful of employers now are searching for people's MS accounts to decide on hiring...that's pretty important if you ask me.


Sounds like a handful of companies looking for conformists with sheep mentality if you asked me.

I know! You didn't! :D
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Colette Meiji
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09-25-2007 13:04
Lets take it from the other side

Why do people need to know where you are located at?

I understand the regional things Austrailia or Euro vs US, etc.

But other than that what difference does it make whether someone lives in the "Midwest" or "Lansing, MI"

Why is the detail important?



I have stated a few times on here that I live in Ohio. I dont see any reason it has to be on my in world profile or on my Forums one.
JessyAnne Theas
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09-25-2007 13:04
From: Victorria Paine
That I know, but that's a tad different than the County providing a photo of my house on the internet.


No, seriously. Find your county, the tax assessments page will have your full name, address, square footage, (replacement cost info, such as frame, masonry, number of baths, heat type, etc) along with how much you purchased yoru home for and the rest. They make everything that goes INTO the tax assessment available.

Im not saying I agree with it. Im just saying that in the work I do, Ive used it before.
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Victorria Paine
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09-25-2007 13:07
From: JessyAnne Theas
No, seriously. Find your county, the tax assessments page will have your full name, address, square footage, (replacement cost info, such as frame, masonry, number of baths, heat type, etc) along with how much you purchased yoru home for and the rest. They make everything that goes INTO the tax assessment available.

Im not saying I agree with it. Im just saying that in the work I do, Ive used it before.


As I said, I know that info is available in the public records. That's different than providing a picture database of my house, though. My County, at least, does not provide photographic information.
Michael Bigwig
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Join date: 5 Dec 2005
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09-25-2007 13:11
From: Colette Meiji
Lets take it from the other side

Why do people need to know where you are located at?

I understand the regional things Austrailia or Euro vs US, etc.

But other than that what difference does it make whether someone lives in the "Midwest" or "Lansing, MI"

Why is the detail important?



I have stated a few times on here that I live in Ohio. I dont see any reason it has to be on my in world profile or on my Forums one.


It's not important per say Colette...but like it's been said several times, knowing a region can help get a better understanding of viewpoint, and also provides a foundation for localisms.

To the average eye, it may mean nothing...but to someone well versed or traveled...it helps.
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Kascha Matova
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09-25-2007 13:12
From: Michael Bigwig
Completely understood. However, you can make an assessment and better choose a word choice if you know someone’s colloquialisms or if you are familiar with a region...


How do you rebutt the answers that come from an informal poll intended for nothing more than research? Doesn't that consist of just tallying answers, and not parsing them for validity?
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09-25-2007 13:13
From: Kascha Matova
Sounds like a handful of companies looking for conformists with sheep mentality if you asked me.

I know! You didn't! :D


Not true. Think of it this way...you want to hire either Joe or Jeniffer. You are a pretty resourceful individual, savvy in the ways of the world...so you check if they have a Myspace account.

Jeniffer's account is funny, witty, and insightful. Joe's has a dozen pictures of him chugging beer and flipping the bird. You can see where this comes in handy--don't blame technology...blame the person that is oblivious to it's potential.
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Victorria Paine
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Join date: 13 Jul 2007
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09-25-2007 13:13
From: Kascha Matova
How do you rebutt the answers that come from an informal poll intended for nothing more than research? Doesn't that consist of just tallying answers, and not parsing them for validity?


It's his style.
Brenda Connolly
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09-25-2007 13:14
From: Kascha Matova
Sounds like a handful of companies looking for conformists with sheep mentality if you asked me.

I know! You didn't! :D


Does that mean a person with a MySpace account would be in a better position to be hired?
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