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Limonella Sorbet
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09-10-2009 06:39
From: Inbred Texan
That s gonna be a train wreck if that happens. People don't seem to like to hear the truth of the matter. There are people in both sets of forums that seem to want to dominate topics. Insulting, belittling, doing what they can to make people feel bad or possibly not post. I personally don't care either way. But I think it takes one more person out of the mix who may have something important to say, or another view on a subject.


No one can stop anyone from posting, aside from a Mod. If the person is just opinionated and it bothers someone the problem is theirs.

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I think however its unhealthy as a community to allow it. I'm frankly surprised after starting to post here in the SL forums that more people don't speak up and call people on their conduct. Seems as in most forums, there are cliques. The train wreck that will come about between personalities will hopefully bring some bannings with them. I for one would like to see people be able to express their opinions on topics without being jumped on by people who just lurk in the forums to attack someone. That is the nature of forums it seems though.


It isn't anyone else's job to "call people on their conduct" unless they are a Moderator. Or a Linden (same thing.) Especially someone who's been in a community, such as SL or a forum, for a day or two.

Most people can take care of themselves. It's this mistaken feeling others have that they must grandstand and run to the rescue that MAKES cliques. Just leave people alone, if you want a peaceable kingdom.
Lindal Kidd
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09-10-2009 06:56
From: Argent Stonecutter
Oh, hey, Lord S. Did you see this?

you may advertise or promote your own products and services for Second Life, your stores within Second Life, and your Xstreet SL marketplace listings, provided that you do not advertise or promote any sale, purchase, or trade outside a Linden Lab property (such as Second Life or the Xstreet SL marketplace), and YOU DO NOT LINK TO WEBSITES THAT INCLUDE OFFERS TO TRADE, SELL, OR PURCHASE OUTSIDE A LINDEN LAB PROPERTY.


Good gods. Does that mean that websites set up by large SL merchants and land barons can't be linked? That broadsides Anshe Chung, Caledon, the Land Ninjas, the FairChangs, and probably thousands of others!

Well, SL residents still need a way to find those outside links. I am going to put a notecard giver on my land, with a big sign saying something like, "Want to REALLY find out what's happening in SL? Click Here!" It will give out a notecard full of URLs to external forums, external merchant websites...any and everything to do with SL that isn't actually on a Linden-owned web page.

Send your URLs to: [email]lindalkidd@verizon.net[/email], along with a ONE LINE description of what your web page is all about.

No charge. (NOTE: The Management Reserves the Right to Change Its Mind About That)
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09-10-2009 07:35
That's a lot of work, Lindal.

Wouldn't it be easier to let an alternative forum do that?

Many hands, you know...

I'm tentatively betting on slapt.me, and wondering whether the XStreetSL refugees have gone there.

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09-10-2009 07:59
From: Seven Okelli
That's a lot of work, Lindal.

Wouldn't it be easier to let an alternative forum do that?

Many hands, you know...

I'm tentatively betting on slapt.me, and wondering whether the XStreetSL refugees have gone there.

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We have a growing community of merchants ;)
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09-10-2009 08:01
From: Lindal Kidd
Good gods. Does that mean that websites set up by large SL merchants and land barons can't be linked? That broadsides Anshe Chung, Caledon, the Land Ninjas, the FairChangs, and probably thousands of others!

Well, SL residents still need a way to find those outside links. I am going to put a notecard giver on my land, with a big sign saying something like, "Want to REALLY find out what's happening in SL? Click Here!" It will give out a notecard full of URLs to external forums, external merchant websites...any and everything to do with SL that isn't actually on a Linden-owned web page.

Send your URLs to: [email]lindalkidd@verizon.net[/email], along with a ONE LINE description of what your web page is all about.

No charge. (NOTE: The Management Reserves the Right to Change Its Mind About That)


Email sent ;) also have a look here if you have space on your land that is :)

http://www.slapt.me/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=30&t=43
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Talarus Luan
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09-10-2009 09:02
From: Argent Stonecutter


Yeah, but where is Facepalm Ferret? <.<
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09-10-2009 09:12
From: Talarus Luan
Yeah, but where is Facepalm Ferret? <.<
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Inbred Texan
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09-10-2009 09:12
From: Limonella Sorbet
No one can stop anyone from posting, aside from a Mod. If the person is just opinionated and it bothers someone the problem is theirs.



It isn't anyone else's job to "call people on their conduct" unless they are a Moderator. Or a Linden (same thing.) Especially someone who's been in a community, such as SL or a forum, for a day or two.

Most people can take care of themselves. It's this mistaken feeling others have that they must grandstand and run to the rescue that MAKES cliques. Just leave people alone, if you want a peaceable kingdom.


I don't think it matters if someones been in a forum for 1 day or 5 years. If people are rude then it can effect the community and how a forum runs. Its pretty basic and simple really. I think the mentality that because someone has been here longer means their input is more valid isn't necessarily true.

My main concern is that due to the behavior of others it stops others from posting in a community. SL is a very large place and these forums are the "second life" forums. This isn't a private off shoot site, this is the actual Second Life forums. I think everyone should have the ability to voice their opinion without having some of the immature distractions and pettiness that continued to plague both forums.

I agree with what your saying about most being able to take care of themselves. On the other hand you have people that have opinions who don't spell well, or can't perhaps express themselves in a way that everyone can perhaps understand. You can even get some people that are on different levels of understanding in SL. Or even have people with extreme polar views. Not to mention peoples mental stability differences. Those are also a large group of people in SL and it seems that as a community people should respect each other a little more. Not everyone has the ability to defend themselves from pointless attacks from others. Nor should they continue to have to.

I think it is the place of the community to call people on their behavior if its rude or out of line. There is a set of rules that LL has put in place that should be followed in these forums. I see them not being followed quite often and the threads just left running. There doesn't seem to be much moderation at all. To the opposite actually. Seems they've left people to kinda run things themselves.
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09-10-2009 09:28
From: Inbred Texan
That s gonna be a train wreck if that happens. People don't seem to like to hear the truth of the matter. There are people in both sets of forums that seem to want to dominate topics. Insulting, belittling, doing what they can to make people feel bad or possibly not post. I personally don't care either way. But I think it takes one more person out of the mix who may have something important to say, or another view on a subject.

I think however its unhealthy as a community to allow it. I'm frankly surprised after starting to post here in the SL forums that more people don't speak up and call people on their conduct. Seems as in most forums, there are cliques. The train wreck that will come about between personalities will hopefully bring some bannings with them. I for one would like to see people be able to express their opinions on topics without being jumped on by people who just lurk in the forums to attack someone. That is the nature of forums it seems though.


The problem with calling out bad conduct, is that you become part of the bad conduct, and part of the trainwreck yourself, in the process.

I do believe that people who want to express contrary opinions have definitely been taken out of the mix....simply by not barging in to post, or by becoming weary of the process involved in seeing their opinion through during the trainwreck.

I read a post on another forum recently about a fellow who said that he has become a meaner person by trying to post in the forum.....and I understand that. Just not worth becoming that way, in order to express your opinions. Once you've crossed that line....very difficult to cross back over.
Inbred Texan
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09-10-2009 09:35
From: Mickey Vandeverre
The problem with calling out bad conduct, is that you become part of the bad conduct, and part of the trainwreck yourself, in the process.

I do believe that people who want to express contrary opinions have definitely been taken out of the mix....simply by not barging in to post, or by becoming weary of the process involved in seeing their opinion through during the trainwreck.

I read a post on another forum recently about a fellow who said that he has become a meaner person by trying to post in the forum.....and I understand that. Just not worth becoming that way, in order to express your opinions. Once you've crossed that line....very difficult to cross back over.


Hehe yeah I've seen that happen to people on other forums. It does leave an impression thats for sure. I find myself just continuing to post whether people are mean to me or not. I get more of a chuckle out of it myself. I just like to see as many variations of opinions as I can I guess than what I see sometimes.
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09-10-2009 12:38
From: Argent Stonecutter
For about the first time ever, I have to admit myself defeated.


arms too short :(
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09-10-2009 12:57
From: Mickey Vandeverre
I read a post on another forum recently about a fellow who said that he has become a meaner person by trying to post in the forum...



That's not surprising. Read any lightly-moderated forum or message board and you can see people being rewarded for posting vicious insults, unsupported claims, and taunts, with smileys, 'hugs', etc. Apparently the prize being sought by apprentice thugs is membership in what they see as some sort of dominant clique.

It's human nature, sadly. Or at least, the nature of humans who don't happen to have much of a center.

(What's different about forums is that you can see the growth of thuggery in particular individuals, preserved right there on the page.)
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Lindal Kidd
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09-10-2009 13:06
From: Lord Sullivan
We have a growing community of merchants ;)


An excellent idea, Lord. I intend to have an XStreetSL and Lindex ATM on the property, and I would be delighted to have a slapt.me terminal as well.

We're still setting things up, but I'll be sending in the paperwork within the week.
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09-10-2009 13:27
From: Inbred Texan
That s gonna be a train wreck if that happens.
Not a matter of "if", hon... but "when".
From: Inbred Texan
I think however its unhealthy as a community to allow it. I'm frankly surprised after starting to post here in the SL forums that more people don't speak up and call people on their conduct.
You really should take some time to read up on some of the larger historical threads here. We *have* called them on it. Repeatedly, loudly! We even drew Blue Linden himself in here and engaged him in dialog over it. It all got us nowhere. LL will do whatever it wants to do, customer feedback be damned.
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09-10-2009 13:31
From: Rihanna Laasonen
Blondin did say yesterday that next Wednesday he and Taka Linden would be having a special office hour on "what communication tools would best enhance SL". 10 am SLT, location TBD and posted in Blondin's profile.

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09-10-2009 14:10
When you get to the top of a thread, there's a link on the left for "Print Preview".

The resulting page has no sidebar and might suit some people better for reading.
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09-10-2009 14:55
From: Brenda Connolly
And again, LL ignored us as we asked them several times for some moderation. I know people will bristle at the mention of his name, but things were kept to a low boil when Strie was here modeerating. They dumped him and gave us the usual garbage about wanting to hear our thoughts and suggestions, put out the call for new ResMods then we heard nothing. Instead they gave us Kat, a Communications Manager who couldn't communicate who brought along the quaint topic of "disemvoweling " posts.

They finally sacked her, and gave us another bullsgit story about a "New Forum" with outside moderators. Again, it was talk to the hand time. In that interim all we had was Millie, really couldn't do an effective job by herself. Nope, a forum is not in line with the corporate culture at LL anymore. It would have to be so severely moderated that it would not be worth visiting. And I don't think LL could even do that right if they wanted to.

And LL had more then one opportunity to hire Strife as a Linden which would have been a win/win situation for them and us. Instead, after two years of honoring him as a most valuable asset, they decided to tell him not to let the door hit him in the ass when he got tired of begging for help here.
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09-10-2009 14:58
From: Rihanna Laasonen
Blondin did say yesterday that next Wednesday he and Taka Linden would be having a special office hour on "what communication tools would best enhance SL". 10 am SLT, location TBD and posted in Blondin's profile.

I'm tempted to go and say "working forums", but I doubt it would have any effect.

That would be nice except for the fact that LL has been asking for feedback on the forum off and on for going on 3 years now. This does not bode well as every suggestion so far has been completely ignored. Now I see no comments at all from Blue who was the last to ask for feedback and instead it looks like Blondin is in charge.
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Talarus Luan
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09-10-2009 15:04
From: Jesse Barnett
That would be nice except for the fact that LL has been asking for feedback on the forum off and on for going on 3 years now. This does not bode well as every suggestion so far has been completely ignored. Now I see no comments at all from Blue who was the last to ask for feedback and instead it looks like Blondin is in charge.


Well, that's it, then. If Blondin is in charge, the "official" forums as we know them are coming to an end. I don't think they can survive the level of grossly incompetent handling represented by the same person who was the front man for the Zindra debacle.

I guess it is time to look for a new home. Any forums looking for a old, grizzled Dragon? <.<
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09-10-2009 15:09
From: Jesse Barnett
That would be nice except for the fact that LL has been asking for feedback on the forum off and on for going on 3 years now. This does not bode well as every suggestion so far has been completely ignored. Now I see no comments at all from Blue who was the last to ask for feedback and instead it looks like Blondin is in charge.

Agreed. We've heard enough empty words from LL on this matter. I thought maybe Blue held out some hope on that last go round...I spent a good bit of time talking to him myself, but it was for naught. I did get a bear from him, though. :cool:
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09-10-2009 15:29
From: Talarus Luan
Well, that's it, then. If Blondin is in charge, the "official" forums as we know them are coming to an end. I don't think they can survive the level of grossly incompetent handling represented by the same person who was the front man for the Zindra debacle.

I guess it is time to look for a new home. Any forums looking for a old, grizzled Dragon? <.<


Come have a look at the www.slapt.me forums small but growing daily ;) and we love Dragons :)
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09-10-2009 15:31
Skins or color change on website. Teal-on-white is painful to read.

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Vote for this instead:
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09-10-2009 16:09
From: Tristin Mikazuki
But you still sell stuff on SLX?
Yes and your point is?
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09-10-2009 17:02
From: Beezle Warburton
Skins or color change on website. Teal-on-white is painful to read.
https://jira.secondlife.com/browse/WEB-1301

Dup of mine: http://jira.secondlife.com/browse/WEB-1299
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09-10-2009 17:30
From: Kidd Krasner


Someone closed and linked already, thanks though.

Have I mentioned that JIRA's search is tricky at best :p
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