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Disturbing level of hatred

Ingrid Ingersoll
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09-01-2006 12:47
From: Cristiano Midnight
Ingrid,

This is a serious issue - and is directly related to stuff that has happened in SL spilling over into RL death and rape threats.



I know. I was responding to the bit I quoted, not on the matter of real death threats.
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Io Zeno
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09-01-2006 12:56
From: moo Money
I've been bitten there, but you know what? I deserved it. I got called out for being a bitch in a thread, took my verbal punishment and all is well.


*shrug* Only my friends can call me a bitch. Maybe these are your friends, so you don't mind.

From what I read there, and especially the shit that winds up being dragged over here from that forum, I'm not interested.

And I am intimidated by no one, certainly not some shithead calling me names from behind their computer. But I'm not looking for it, either. Not with my temper.

"No moderation" sounds like fun, until something like this happens.
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Mulch Ennui
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09-01-2006 12:58
From: Io Zeno

"No moderation" sounds like fun, until something like this happens.


it has caused some of us pause

but the person certainly did not make whatever case they tried to make and its possible they left themselves open for federal criminal prosecution

one reaps what they sow
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Uma Bauhaus
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09-01-2006 12:59
Find out the IP addresses associated with the threats and post them. Find out which users correlate to this IP address and post them. No need to wait for the police to get this rolling.
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09-01-2006 13:03
From: Cristiano Midnight
Lewis,

This could have happened in any forum, including your beloved Stratics. The threads would have been removed, but there is nothing stopping them from being posted in the first place. Verifying an email address as legit is hardly any kind of verified registration. This isn't about Second Citizen, it's about the fucktards who posted such garbage.


Whilst I agree the problem is the individual, and no amount of cross-checking can catch these things before they happen, I can tell you for a fact that as soon as that thread was noticed by a member of Stratics staff, it would have been sent off to its appropriate hidden forum, and my guess is that a permaban would be issued because of the severity of the content.

It certainly wouldn't have been plastered across other forums to draw attention to the issue, neither would it have remained in place for others to chip in.

This is not the sort of issue that is "best left to other posters to sort out". It's a behind the scenes thing to deal with, with the technical team analysing the post to get IP addresses and suchlike.

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09-01-2006 13:04
From: Mulch Ennui
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we do have drama, but this was beyond anything i have seen before

but, the real posters there basically derailed thier attempts with pictures of yummy ethnic food and drink and the perp went away after an hour or so

despite what lewis said, we handle our own there pretty well... ...
I think you are missing the point and that you have your head in the sand here.

The point is that you *can't* handle your own, and you didn't really "handle this. Some people made some jokes and the guy went away for a bit. How is that "handling" it? You need some kind of moderation and rules. The whole idea of having a non-moderated rule-free forum is put to the lie by events like this. You have no plan and no structure and it doesn't make me feel like posting there to know that people will come to my aide with jokes???

Everyone has a line they won't cross (or should have), and this thing totally crossed the line. All that shit that the people lie you and the originators of the other forums were spewing about "total freedom" and "no moeration" is just that, a lot of shit. There is always a line, its just a matter of where you want to draw it.

In my opinion LL was too strict about where they drew their line but I guess you are now seeing that you will have to draw your own? Why not draw it a little more sanely and dis-allow some of the disgusting personal attacks you have allowed up to now?

Who knows? You might even get to be the official "second forum" if you do. ;)

I'm not talking "no personal attacks" but some of the stuff Second Citizen allows is just despicable to anyone but a card carrying "Something Awful" regular. I am all for getting rid of ridiculous bans on swearing and nudity or for people just growing up and getting a thicker skin, but there still has to be some kind of rules or it's just another cesspool.

Seemingly a dangerous one at that! :eek:
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Uma Bauhaus
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09-01-2006 13:11
From: Dianne Mechanique
Seemingly a dangerous one at that! :eek:
If I have to choose between freedom and security, I choose freedom. The forums over at forums.secondcitizen.com are an ecclectic uberjoy and want them to stay that way.
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09-01-2006 13:16
From: Cristiano Midnight
Anyone who has participated in SL related forums for any length of time has seen some pretty nasty interactions between people. It comes with the territory - I suppose it is SL's version of PVP action. However, this morning I saw something that reaches I think one of the lowest points I have seen, and as jaded as I am about forums, really disturbed me.

On a third party forum site, a user posted a clear death threat against MadamG Zagato, warning that if she shows up at the next SLCC she will be shot and asking if anyone wants to help take a stab at her. That alone would have been enough, but a different user (though who knows, they could be the same person) started a poll on the best method to use to rape MadamG, with poll options detailing various ways to rape her.

I don't even have words for how sickening I think this is. No matter how much you may dislike someone, wishing that level of violence on them is pathetic and beyond disturbing. What further blows my mind is people have participated in the threads, adding further insult to injury (and perhaps even guilt by association). These are not harmless posts - people have been stalked, raped and murdered by people who track them down from online.

I notified MadamG because I don't think she reads the particular forums in question. The forum operator has indicated he will cooperate with authorities, so hopefully criminal actions with be pursued against the people who created these posts. How in the hell does it even come to this?


Thank you, Cristiano. I appreciate your actions and I know all the civilised people do as well. *hugs* *hugggs* Thank you.
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09-01-2006 13:17
Cristiano, this is the second such thing I've heard about. A friend and long-time poster and SL member told me the other night that she had received death threats in game, and for a matter not unlike this one, in that it was a dispute over something that you could never imagine anyone taking it to that level.

Scary, indeed.

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Uma Bauhaus
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09-01-2006 13:17
I'm having a lot of trouble following this drama across so many darn forums but it looks like a personal fight between MadamG and Sensual Cassanova. Is this correct?

Where is the thread with the death threats? I need a link, please.
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09-01-2006 13:24
It would be something if Meghan Eldrich turned out to be "MadmaG"
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09-01-2006 13:25
From: Uma Bauhaus
If I have to choose between freedom and security, I choose freedom. The forums over at forums.secondcitizen.com are an ecclectic uberjoy and want them to stay that way.


So then you won't mind having your name and address posted there? I like SC as well, but I do think there needs to be a few fundamental lines that are not crossed.
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09-01-2006 13:26
From: Dianne Mechanique
I think you are missing the point and that you have your head in the sand here.


lets address then

From: Dianne Mechanique

The point is that you *can't* handle your own, and you didn't really "handle this. Some people made some jokes and the guy went away for a bit. How is that "handling" it?


no one in their right mind would think that this wasnt a hatchet job, and the SC posters didnt let them be taken seriously

whatever their intention was, it failed, thanks to the posters at SC... all they have done is allow themselves to be open to fedeal law

hiding the thread would have resulted in whispers about who did what... the posts are still there so people can see what is going on for themselves

From: Dianne Mechanique

You need some kind of moderation and rules.


you forgot to post "/opinion off"

From: Dianne Mechanique

The whole idea of having a non-moderated rule-free forum is put to the lie by events like this. You have no plan and no structure and it doesn't make me feel like posting there to know that people will come to my aide with jokes???


whether you trust the other posters to take the wind out of their sails is really irrelevant

no one bought it nor fanned the flames when this happened.

bullshit was called loud and clear

From: Dianne Mechanique

Everyone has a line they won't cross (or should have), and this thing totally crossed the line.


i agree, but this time they broke a real life law... thats what laws are in place for

the innerweb dont protect this type of speech

From: Dianne Mechanique

All that shit that the people lie you and the originators of the other forums were spewing about "total freedom" and "no moeration" is just that, a lot of shit. There is always a line, its just a matter of where you want to draw it.


as of now, US law is it

From: Dianne Mechanique

In my opinion LL was too strict about where they drew their line but I guess you are now seeing that you will have to draw your own? Why not draw it a little more sanely and dis-allow some of the disgusting personal attacks you have allowed up to now?


at least you labelled this as opinion

and to answer your question, because i think people like the freedom... FIC does accomodate his community, and always had before it was known who he was... he built a fun and freindly community there, and allowed disputes to be settled there, so he may be willing to accomodate a large volume of community requests, but i cant speak for him and like it the way it is

it is what it is and its very good at what it is

From: Dianne Mechanique

Who knows? You might even get to be the official "second forum" if you do. ;)


as much fun as that would be, it is simply not the place for everyone

not everyone likes liquorice, but people who like liquorice, really like liquorice, and SC is gormet liquorice... if you dont like liquorice, there are plenty of other treats out there

i do hope the people who like liquorice end up at SC though, but we have a strong and active community now that i love, so im fine either way

but the welcome mat is always open and thats what i have been doing, illustrating the welcome mat

From: Dianne Mechanique

I'm not talking "no personal attacks" but some of the stuff Second Citizen allows is just despicable to anyone but a card carrying "Something Awful" regular.


doesn't something awful have more members on thier forums than unique residents in SL?

just sayin'

and this does not imply any affiliation or endorsement of or by something awful

From: Dianne Mechanique

I am all for getting rid of ridiculous bans on swearing and nudity or for people just growing up and getting a thicker skin, but there still has to be some kind of rules or it's just another cesspool.

Seemingly a dangerous one at that! :eek:


i disagree, its not dangerous at all

like i said before, SC is what SC is, but like any good forum, there is plenty of room for chit chat, spectating, and confrontation
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09-01-2006 13:28
From: Cristiano Midnight
So then you won't mind having your name and address posted there?
I would mind that very much. Point taken.


I found some links to those horrible horrible threads.

http://forums.secondcitizen.com/showthread.php?t=2313
http://forums.secondcitizen.com/showthread.php?t=2304

From what I can tell it looks like XXX might be responsible for the death threats and the call to rape MadamG, based on the fact that they're having an argument over at SLUniverse. I say the folks on the two forums get together and compare IP addresses.
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09-01-2006 13:29
From: Uma Bauhaus
Find out the IP addresses associated with the threats and post them. Find out which users correlate to this IP address and post them. No need to wait for the police to get this rolling.


there is an option, i beleive, in vbulliten software to display an IP with every post publically

it is turned off, because some people fear IP addresses being known

perhaps turning it on would not be a bad idea, but the owner needs to decide that and i think the comfort level of the many community members is what is at stake

so make a poll at SC and see what people think about public IPs, if there is overwelming support, than maybe FIC will flick the switch... but your fellow community members may not like their IP made public
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09-01-2006 13:32
From: Mulch Ennui
so make a poll at SC and see what people think about public IPs, if there is overwelming support, than maybe FIC will flick the switch... but your fellow community members may not like their IP made public
One could always put the IP number through a one-way hash to disguise it. If it's desired, I can have the code written for you. It could be very useful if it's employed across several forum sites.

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09-01-2006 13:34
From: Uma Bauhaus
One could always put the IP number through a one-way hash to disguise it. If it's desired, I can have the code written for you. It could be very useful if it's employed across several forum sites.

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take it to FIC and the community

i cant do anything of the sort
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Uma Bauhaus
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09-01-2006 13:34
From: Mulch Ennui
take it to FIC and the community
Yeah. I don't like it either. :(
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09-01-2006 13:35
After scanning through the New Posts on Second Citizen and reading the post/thread in question I am so glad that I left there. Between the death threats and all of the blatant lies and slander about my husband - the Second Citizen forums and all of its dramamongers can go to Camden, NJ for all intents and purposes.
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09-01-2006 13:36
From: Jennyfur Peregrine
After scanning through the New Posts on Second Citizen and reading the post/thread in question I am so glad that I left there. Between the death threats and all of the blatant lies and slander about my husband - the Second Citizen forums and all of its dramamongers can go to Camden, NJ for all intents and purposes.


well jenny, you should see how the community is sticking up for your husband

this was one attack by trolls, can happen anywhere

look at the time frame each of those posts were made

and read to watch the community tell them to take a hike
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09-01-2006 13:38
From: Jennyfur Peregrine
After scanning through the New Posts on Second Citizen and reading the post/thread in question I am so glad that I left there. Between the death threats and all of the blatant lies and slander about my husband - the Second Citizen forums and all of its dramamongers can go to Camden, NJ for all intents and purposes.
I think you have your priorities backwards. This thread is about someone making illegal, threatening, and violent posts, not about your personal grievances against a forum community.
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09-01-2006 13:39
From: Uma Bauhaus
I would mind that very much. Point taken.


I found some links to those horrible horrible threads.

http://forums.secondcitizen.com/showthread.php?t=2313
http://forums.secondcitizen.com/showthread.php?t=2304

From what I can tell it looks like XXX might be responsible for the death threats and the call to rape MadamG, based on the fact that they're having an argument over at SLUniverse. I say the folks on the two forums get together and compare IP addresses.
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09-01-2006 13:45
From: Uma Bauhaus
I think you have your priorities backwards. This thread is about someone making illegal, threatening, and violent posts, not about your personal grievances against a forum community.


Not really, its all one big drama filled void desperately crying for help. I really have better things to do that focus on such stupid shit.

The threats of physical violence were way out of line. Sadly, its not going to stop until someone tracks the IP to the persons location, finds who the person is and slaps them with a lawsuit or has them arrested.

As for the person attacks on me and my husband, I can live without them. I am thinking about climbing that big ole mountain where if I can't see them I can't hear them therefore they do not exist. Methinks I will be much happier. Some people need to be ignored. I've fed the trolls and now they are full. Its really time for me to move on.
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09-01-2006 13:48
From: Mulch Ennui
well jenny, you should see how the community is sticking up for your husband

this was one attack by trolls, can happen anywhere

look at the time frame each of those posts were made

and read to watch the community tell them to take a hike


I've grown tired of defending myself and flipper against the weekly flood of usual dramamongering surrounding us. I have grown tired of wasting moments of my life on all of these vapid losers who have to alt up to say what they have to say because they are too big of pussies to say it with their name attached.
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09-01-2006 13:49
From: Jennyfur Peregrine

The threats of physical violence were way out of line. Sadly, its not going to stop until someone tracks the IP to the persons location, finds who the person is and slaps them with a lawsuit or has them arrested.


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