Pimps!

Im sorry I missed where the lindens commissioned public D/s?

Nice attempt to right hand, left hand it.. But its not the case. Most are offended by the stupidity of the D/s community. I doubt anyone is offended by the stupidity of SL marriage, unless they start wearing leashes and making women look like nothing more then dogs.

Don't sit here and tell me its a lifestyle we should all have to tolerate. If you enter any of my land with that BS, I wouldn't even give you the politness of a warning before sending you skyhigh and trampoling high up on top of my land.

Like he said, a good SBDMRTSHER (or however many fetishes their into that add acronyms) would realize their lifestyle is not for the public eye.

Im sure youd vote for public spurring and spitting on of women in real life, Hitler, but here the toggling is the land owner's choice and can be enforced.

As for D/s. These are people usually with troubled childhoods or coopin issues, as are most fetishes. Weak people need even weaker people to make them feel safe. Molested children grow up with a very weird feel of sexuality. Sadly enough turning them on turns into a reinactment of very tramitizing situations they once were in. Or even abused children, they need that YOU SHUT YOUR MOUTH UNTIL IM DONE BEATING YOU, to feel real. Its very pathetic, but hey if therapy isn't working, do what works.
As for D/s in SL. Its the epitome of pathetic. Roleplaying is one thing, I tried Gor and ended up getting banned for my refusal to be every 17 year old boy who thought it was his right's slave. If I couldnt roleplay my free without being collared every 5 minutes, its an obvious fetish based RP. Not even true to the books they base it off of. Those girls who do become pets/slaves, do it for good. Doing it outside of the sim, engaging only in slave sex. Its ridiculas and makes me laugh, knowing that majority of these women are just guys getting off thinking they are doing their character. Not the evenmore pathetic guy standing behind them with their fingers wrapped around their neck.

Don't sit here and tell me its a lifestyle we should all have to tolerate. If you enter any of my land with that BS, I wouldn't even give you the politness of a warning before sending you skyhigh and trampoling high up on top of my land.

But then... what makes other stupid SL worthy? and the pimpin industry not? Pimpin ain't easy. Being a generic clothing maker, hair maker, shoes maker.... to me it's just as pathetic as a sex worker.

A real Master or Dominant need not make it obvious, those who can tell will tell.

What is with all the pimps in SL? LOL! And all the men being called "master"

I love the SL community here... Its so... True to life.

First we have noone hating on D/s, just pimping.

Traditionally pimps employed drug addicts, women getting banged for their next fix. The pimp cleans them up, takes majoirty of their money, gives them a place to stay, feeds their kids.. And in return these women start banging guys for a better reason then shooting liquid death into their forearms. Hussle and Flow also portrayed something that often happened, Pimp and Trick falling in love in such a loveless enviroment. The socialally played out 'Gimme ma money bitch, orz iza smack cha.' is absolute mud slinging.
Pimps in SL are the same thing as anything else in SL, roleplay. No girl is sitting in her chair crying after her pimp smacked her tits off and took her money. Its more of a 'IMs Jim. Hun this jerk is harrassing me again.' or a good way for girls hookin to not be constantly bothered by guys who think they just feel in love and want a SL commitment cause their hand just got em off with the girls words/actions. Personally when i do the excort thing my RL friend of 11 years is my 'pimp'. We roleplay it for comedy purposes mostly.

As for D/s. These are people usually with troubled childhoods or coopin issues, as are most fetishes. Weak people need even weaker people to make them feel safe. Molested children grow up with a very weird feel of sexuality. Sadly enough turning them on turns into a reinactment of very tramitizing situations they once were in. Or even abused children, they need that YOU SHUT YOUR MOUTH UNTIL IM DONE BEATING YOU, to feel real. Its very pathetic, but hey if therapy isn't working, do what works.
As for D/s in SL. Its the epitome of pathetic. Roleplaying is one thing, I tried Gor and ended up getting banned for my refusal to be every 17 year old boy who thought it was his right's slave. If I couldnt roleplay my free without being collared every 5 minutes, its an obvious fetish based RP. Not even true to the books they base it off of. Those girls who do become pets/slaves, do it for good. Doing it outside of the sim, engaging only in slave sex. Its ridiculas and makes me laugh, knowing that majority of these women are just guys getting off thinking they are doing their character. Not the evenmore pathetic guy standing behind them with their fingers wrapped around their neck.

So before you all start lynching certain SL RPers, look at who is actually more off the deep end.

It's not kink. It's a lifestyle, period. That's exactly like asking a married couple to "switch off the marriage" for you.

It's not kink. It's a lifestyle, period. That's exactly like asking a married couple to "switch off the marriage" for you.

Ads another item to his "to do" list for if he ever wins the lottery and buys SL...

-- find every av with a first name of "master" and change their last name to "Bates".

Nope, sorry. There is nothing at all wrong with someone asking people to lay off the D/s play if they're at your place, or asking them to leave if they won't/can't.

Married couples manage to refrain from having sex on people's living room carpets or playing kissy-face when they visit,m and the more considerate will even leave their kids at home when asked.

In the same way, I have no trouble with leaving off the leash, adressing by name, and having my sub stand by me or sit in a chair rather than kneeling next to me when we're visiting someone who might be uncomfortable with more overt D/s play.

Nope, sorry. There is nothing at all wrong with someone asking people to lay off the D/s play if they're at your place, or asking them to leave if they won't/can't.

We all have our own lifestyles, and plenty of places to live them to the fullest. That doesn't mean that we have to force them on others in their own homes if they object.

It's one thing to say, "Don't have sex in my living room." That's perfectly understandable. It's another thing to say, "It makes me uncomfortable when you refer to her as your wife or 'honey.' Also, seeing you sit near each other and/or hold hands offends my sensibilities. I'd appreciate it if you hid all indications that you're married, or even might be, as marriage is deeply offensive to me."

Well, their house, their rules. You don't have to like them, but while there, you should abide by them. If that's too much to take, you are within your rights to leave and never come back. What's the problem?

Most are offended by the stupidity of the D/s community. I doubt anyone is offended by the stupidity of SL marriage, unless they start wearing leashes and making women look like nothing more then dogs.
Don't sit here and tell me its a lifestyle we should all have to tolerate. If you enter any of my land with that BS, I wouldn't even give you the politness of a warning before sending you skyhigh and trampoling high up on top of my land.

They came to your house with their sexual fantasies? Cute. (No, not really.)

Their lifestyle play on SL is being pointed out as I type this is a BDSM play (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM). Both of them are likely getting aroused with her public humiliation and therefore are putting you in the position of being involved in their sex life.

I suggest you ask them to tone it down or leave. IMO a good BDSM player will respect the host's wishes, even if those wishes are for them to switch off the kink.

"close your eyes and breath hard into the mic"

"your master loves you, you master will look after you"

personally I think most of em are taking the piss.. with muscles set over sized and tiny little heads.. and stupid barbie avatars following them around that are probably men.. that look shite even by RL standards.. so eh.. either retarded or taking the piss.. or in some cases I know just pervs that use the "im a RL master thats why I do it in SL" thing to get girls to do stuff for them.





not making that up btw!

Ok, is it just me or did this make no sense what so ever???

It's one thing to say, "Don't have sex in my living room." That's perfectly understandable. It's another thing to say, "It makes me uncomfortable when you refer to her as your wife or 'honey.' Also, seeing you sit near each other and/or hold hands offends my sensibilities. I'd appreciate it if you hid all indications that you're married, or even might be, as marriage is deeply offensive to me."

Of course, a person could say this in his or her own home. The likeliest response from most married couples would be to leave and never come back.

We don't really treat it as "play" -- it's more just expressing whom we feel we are rather than a roleplaying game. In the same way that the above married couple would leave (or never show up in the first place) when faced with such a silly request, so would we (Mistress and myself) likely do, and for much the same reason.