What ARE Subs/Slaves/Pets exactly?
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Sylvester Dragonash
Just call me Sly =p
Join date: 26 Jan 2008
Posts: 103
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06-18-2008 15:47
From: Dementia Obviate I nearly always start out with my leash on in public, when we are together. But i have never... ever... been treated like crap by my Master in public or private. I think you will find that there is a huge difference between true Masters and slaves and those that play at it. I've been told that many so-called Masters, or slaves for that matter, in SL really don't even have a clue as to what its truly about. I would have to agree...(with what LITTLE experience I have with Masters/Mistress'). Of all the ppl on SL I've run into...those involved with this type of SL-lifestyle have been some of the most nicest ppl I've met. Very open and honest and friendly. It was a SHOCKER to me!! Now, I've only met a few...I am by no means a spokesperson for this lifestyle nor do I participate in it (although I have took some interest/curiosity in it). But I would have to say, those I have chatted with were outstanding ppl. (I won't comment on what they do in the bedroom - that's their business)  ~Sly |
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Marcel Flatley
Sampireun Design
Join date: 29 Jul 2007
Posts: 2,032
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06-19-2008 08:48
From: Ann Launay Yes, but *they've* generally decided to be bald, not had it done to them.
If the woman in question wasn't upset about it, then it was obviously within the boundaries of whatever agreement she'd come to with her husband, but I would never let a man dictate my hair style to me, even if we weren't talking about shaving it off.
Which is not to say that I might not change it to please him, but that would still need to be my choice. That is why you do not live in a TPE relationship, else such a decision would be not in your hands. Former friends of mine had such a strong TPE and she did shave her head as token of her submission. Not my style, I need something to grab there |
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Amaranthim Talon
Voyager, Seeker, Curious
Join date: 14 Nov 2006
Posts: 12,032
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06-19-2008 08:57
All this Deviant talk reminded me of Jethro Tull- Hunting Girl http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YmNmZuGXD18
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Brann Georgia
Spits infinitives
Join date: 12 Dec 2007
Posts: 1,441
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06-19-2008 09:05
From: Marcel Flatley ... she did shave her head as token of her submission. Some nuns do that, too. Things that make you go hmmmmm.... .
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Ann Launay
Neko-licious™
Join date: 8 Aug 2006
Posts: 7,893
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06-19-2008 09:14
From: Marcel Flatley That is why you do not live in a TPE relationship, else such a decision would be not in your hands. Ha, yeah, I identify as submissive, but not THAT submissive...even if I found someone I wanted to explore that side of myself with more thoroughly, there are some things that would always remain out of bounds.
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Kyllie Wylie
J-Rocker
Join date: 7 Mar 2008
Posts: 489
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06-19-2008 09:54
From: Ann Launay Ha, yeah, I identify as submissive, but not THAT submissive...even if I found someone I wanted to explore that side of myself with more thoroughly, there are some things that would always remain out of bounds. As it should be, each couple sets the bounds and its a huge range that gets dumped into the heading of bdsm, the Vast majoity of people who consider themselves to be into bdsm are into a little dress up maybe some restraint / bondage and roleplaying a scene or two... and maybe do a scene once or twice a week if that. Also consider that couples who Switch are very common as well, one night its "Viking Raid"...the next "SS Camp Girl"..... The hardcore or "lifestylers" account for less then 2 or 3% |
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Chellonia Regent
Shape shifter
Join date: 8 Nov 2006
Posts: 135
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06-19-2008 10:11
What are they? DEVIANTS!
But that's just leakage from another thread. Ignore me.
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Allegria Kanto
Trailing clouds of glory
Join date: 28 Nov 2007
Posts: 1,004
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06-19-2008 10:12
From: Chellonia Regent What are they? DEVIANTS!
But that's just leakage from another thread. Ignore me. and let you die?
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Marcel Flatley
Sampireun Design
Join date: 29 Jul 2007
Posts: 2,032
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06-19-2008 11:47
From: Ann Launay Ha, yeah, I identify as submissive, but not THAT submissive...even if I found someone I wanted to explore that side of myself with more thoroughly, there are some things that would always remain out of bounds. Well Ann, I think no woman is without any boundaries. It is up to the Dominant in the TPE to make sure that he is carefull with those. That does not mean he has to respect every boundary, but if he wants to cross them it has to be done with much care. Shifting, not breaking through. The Dominant partner of that couple knew the shaving of her head was within her own boundaries, but I am sure there were other ones he was more careful with. What is quite funny is that this a topic we discuss quite frequently in my RL, since its not that long ago, that we picked up the D/s where we left it a few years ago. |
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Brann Georgia
Spits infinitives
Join date: 12 Dec 2007
Posts: 1,441
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06-19-2008 12:27
From: Marcel Flatley
What is quite funny is that this a topic we discuss quite frequently in my RL, since its not that long ago, that we picked up the D/s where we left it a few years ago.
And here! You're like a newborn Christian. It's endearing, really. 
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Ann Launay
Neko-licious™
Join date: 8 Aug 2006
Posts: 7,893
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06-19-2008 12:31
From: Marcel Flatley Well Ann, I think no woman is without any boundaries. It is up to the Dominant in the TPE to make sure that he is carefull with those. That does not mean he has to respect every boundary, but if he wants to cross them it has to be done with much care. Shifting, not breaking through. I'm thinking the 'T' in that acronym would not work for me...some degree of power exchange, sure, and maybe even quite a lot with the right man, but not total. From: someone The Dominant partner of that couple knew the shaving of her head was within her own boundaries I did actually say something like this in post #150...my point was, it wouldn't be within mine.
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~Now Trout Re-Re-Re-Certified!~ From: someone I am bumping you to an 8.5 on the Official Trout Measuring Instrument of Sluttiness. You are an enigma - on the one hand a sweet, gentle, intelligent woman who we would like to wrap up in our arms and protect, and on the other, a temptress to whom we would like to do all sorts of unmentionable things.
Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
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