Would you take back your "ex?"

Speaking of which billy, what was your final bid on willow?

Should I raise my own bid? I am currently at $500 Lindens and there are no other bids.

Was that am official bid of $600 Lindens for Kat?

All depends really, on if they are an 'ex' or a 'why?'

I divorced my ex because she became bitter, vindictive, and just plain mean. It has only gotten worse since I left. It has gotten so bad that I've even had to take out restraining orders

There ain't no way I would take her back.

- Ace

P.S. Lesson learned... Don't go for any Canadian women just because they give good head.

Give me 1,000,000,000.00 and I will take the ho back for a week. After I am done she will be BEGGING to leave. Stuppied Bitch.......... Oh what I should not be so angree..........I am so fuck it. LOL

But... but... think of the beavers!

For the life of me I can't figure out why Y'all broke up! hehe

There's one I'd take back. Although I have a feeling my closest friends would kick my ass.
I'm just one of those annoying people who very rarely get attached to people, whether it's friends or lovers, but when I do watch out! No seriously. Watch out.
There's one from my far past that I've no interest in having a relationship with, but if we met up somewhere I'd definitely wanna f&%$ his brains out because I always regretted not having done so in High School.

-Sun

No! holy flying monkey banana's no!

O.o if I took him back I would have no legs left,

I like being a single mother ever since my last Ex in 2004, I broke up with him earlier that year because I refused to go partying with him and said I wanted to settle down with my family and daughter, and not move in with his collage buddies,

so after I put my daughter down for her nap, I went on the computer (to play SL ), then slomped into bed for a nap myself once my brother had gone out shopping, I didn't notice my ex had broken into the screen door untill I heard my daughter yelling and a knife in my leg,

heres the slightly happy ending part, my brother was in the driveway comeing in to unload grocries, as my ex was heading to the door and my brother pushed him down the stairs,

and I didn't have to get the rest of my leg cut off, very glad of that, heh

so the saying is true, Love hurts, like a flight of stairs hitting you blindsighted in the face, hehe,

(By the way does anyone have any good tips for getting a year old blood stain out of basement carpet? Club soda just doesn't cut it! )

Not sure it will work on old blood stains, but peroxide is fantastic on blood stains.
Just keep applying it until it goes away...

A vet told me that...Yep that's my story of how I know it works...<whistles innocently>


-Sun

Wellllll maybe not so fast.....just met a new guy who is incredible.

OMG! GET OFF MY MAN

Seriously, I met a guy that is AMAZING... THANK GOD FOR IDIOTS WHO RUN OFF!

Ok,I posted here days ago (and have now deleted it) about the "player" who it turns out was not a player because WE JUST GOT MARRIED IN SL! So, I take it back. It was an unfounded accusation that never should have been made. I apologize to all concerned. I'm very, very sorry if it caused damage to anyone. I have got to stop posting so thoughtlessly...

I'd never go back. I could be deathly ill and destitute and lying in a ditch somewhere and I still wouldn't go back to an "ex". Once I've made up my mind something is over... it is.

ummm dear...sorry. he is mine! I SAW HIM FIRST!!

seriously, let's double ..Oh, and if his name contains the word "BLAIR" anywhere, I will personally knock some sense into you!! (please do the same for me.)

I have but one thing to add to this thread:

Y'all quit fighting over me... there is enough Billy Love to go around!

No. Whether the fault was theirs, mine, ours or no ones, there's a reason things end and other things begin. I don't believe in walking backwards in life.

(Unless we're talking about Nostalgic candy, cuz I'd kill for some of that Gatorade 'Green Death' Gum right about now.)

Nostalgic Candy... lol

I remember those Orange pop-ups... Bland orange flavored ice cream kinda stuff you pushed up a tube

and remember Pixie Stix... pure sugar... it's a wonder anyone of my generation has any teeth left... lol

On the one hand I am very happy for Katy and for Willow and I wish them all the best in the world! But their recent posts raise an interesting issue:

How fast do you move on in SL? I mean it always seems to me that a lot of people are serial monagamists, and they want a relationship more than they want a person. Its always astounding to me how someone can destroy your world, and then a few days (minutes, hours, weeks) someone else comes and long and then bab, everything is perfect again.

Now I am romantic and beleive that it is possbile to know immediately if someone is for you. But sometimes it seems to me people are emotional tarzans, swinging from vine to vine, more concerened about aving the vine than waht sort of vine it is. Its hard to feel sorry for them when they swing on a snake.

In my world relationships take time to form, and less time, but time, to let go of. I hate being a rebound relationship, because universally I get hurt when a person's new found enthusiam winds down and they are forced to deal with me as a person and not a crutch. Call me old fashioned, but I still beleive in "getting to know the person"

lol!

My new man isn't exactly a whirlwind romance, we have known each other a loooooooong time, well over 10mths, and we are just currently hanging out and generally being goofs, its just we both feel a spark there, whether that spark turns into a flame is anybodys guess

I just wanna haf fun! cos thats what girls wanna do!

I got majorly burned a few weeks ago, and i'm still not over that, but i figure, why the hell let it drag me down, and crumble, i've been there, done that, now is time for FUN!

Join the partner loop! FREE SEX AND PRETZELS... ok well maybe just the pretzels.

This is what I call the True Love of the Month Club.

hehe the elite memebers are "true love of the week"

It’s cute that you make light of it, but not all people transition as slowly as you describe for yourself. The internal process is not that simple or frivolous. Because you don’t see the internal phasing from one to the next does not mean it occurs within “days” and then “bab, everything is perfect again.”



Ahh Jake, which is it? Emotional tarzans…serial monogamists…sounds a bit contradictory for I have never associated fickleness with a yearning for monogamy. You say it is possible to know immediately yet are astounded to see it happen quickly? Seems you are covering all bases and assuming a lot.



I would never replace a "real life" relationship with a virtual one, but I am a strong advocate for enjoying the pleasures and possibilities of virtual love. There are many ways to know, enjoy, share and love other people.

As in any relationship we discover and get to know one another in stages. We can meet people , connect and then discover after the initial high that they are all wrong. Or, we can know immediately they are wrong. This really is not different than a traditional relationship, is it?

The time it takes to know someone, to get into them totally, whether you encounter one another in RL or SL, can vary. I did meet someone else in SL whose company I am enjoying immensely, so for now I say, ain't love grand,

I was reading this thread trying to find solace and a back bone to move on. All it's done is make me feel more sad. I wish I had the zany personality to blow off emotions and attachments as quickly as it appears to happen in all the mediums I frequent, whether it's second life, everquest 2 or real life. Jake brought up an interesting question...How fast does one move on? I've seen people slip relationships on and off as if it was a piece of clothing, while myself I've been parted in SL from my "partner" since January. I still have him as my partner now... I cry when I look at all of our snap shots together, at least I do now that were no more not even in real life, before I just felt sad an nostalgic. He and I spent a solid 6 mos talking to each other every single day, our hopes, our dreams our wants and our needs. Talking for hours, we also played another rpg while we talked, but he and I were together closer mind and soul every day and thats more than I can say for any other relationship I've ever had.

We were planning a life together and it sounds so silly, but we had not yet met in person, though we spoke on the phone, voice ip, cam to cam ( ) exchanged pictures on a regular basis. All that was left was to actually meet..and like a fool I went to him and yep 3 days later it's all over and for not... He wants to be friends if possible but either way he didn't feel the spark. I can only guess fantasy was more powerful than myself. He says he struggles with walking away from me for the lack of a spark, but what does that mean?

Would I take him back? When I talk to him it is everything I can do not to beg him back, and even then I find myself grovelling. Sad? yes I am, Pathetic? Yes I am, Would I take him back? Yes I would as I stated before I'm not a faucet, I can't turn the love off just because I'm not loved...if only it was so simple.