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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
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06-02-2005 11:49
*Feels all warm and fuzzy inside now* I feel the same way. *runs my fingers through your hair* You are such a special person and a special friend. I am sorry that you are hurting. Everything will be ok.  well I am certainly smiling now hun, you won't BELEIVE how much I noticed you weren't here! *sniffles**tackles and hugs* _____________________
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Billy Grace
Land Market Facilitator
Join date: 8 Mar 2004
Posts: 2,307
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06-02-2005 11:55
well I am certainly smiling now hun, you won't BELEIVE how much I noticed you weren't here! *sniffles**tackles and hugs* *falls on my back as I get tackled... laughing and giggling* Awww... I am sorry hon. I don't think I made it public that I was going on vacation and I should have. It is nice to come back and be missed though. *smiles* _____________________
I find it rather easy to portray a businessman. Being bland, rather cruel and incompetent comes naturally to me.
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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06-02-2005 11:56
*falls on my back as I get tackled... laughing and giggling* Awww... I am sorry hon. I don't think I made it public that I was going on vacation and I should have. It is nice to come back and be missed though. *smiles* but YAY welcome back! _____________________
*I'm not ready for the world outside...I keep pretending, but I just can't hide...* <3 Giddeon's <3 |
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Billy Grace
Land Market Facilitator
Join date: 8 Mar 2004
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06-02-2005 11:56
As for the issue of the speed of online dating I believe that the reason for this is simple. Here are some of my thoughts:
1. Dating in SL is for the most part written - I have spent hours on a first encounter talking to someone in SL and it is all about communication. IRL you may go out on 10 dates and never cover the detailed and often personal information that is shared in a long in-world conversation. 2. The intimacy is taken to a new level - I don’t know why but as for myself I tend to be much more willing to share intimate details about my life online than in RL. This willingness to share more of myself and others to me often leads to a much deeper feeling of closeness to that person. 3. None of the usual first-meeting hang-ups - Such as her nose is too long, his eye twitches, her but is too big, his double chin is unattractive. The initial attraction in SL is to the brain of the other person. The initial attraction in RL is physical most of the time. Without the physical things getting in the way, we fall in love with the person’s brain first and the rest is of little importance. As for the fast breakups I would just say that there is RL time and SL time. I would say that 2 day2 in SL spent together is almost equivalent to a month in RL. Maybe even more. So… doing the math, 3 weeks would be like dating someone for about a year. Sounds about right to me when you consider what is shared between the partners and the level of intensity. Anyhoo, this is my 2 cents for what it’s worth. _____________________
I find it rather easy to portray a businessman. Being bland, rather cruel and incompetent comes naturally to me.
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Billy Grace
Land Market Facilitator
Join date: 8 Mar 2004
Posts: 2,307
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06-02-2005 11:58
but YAY welcome back! You are so sweet... Fred doesn't know what he is missing. I love you my dear friend and there are many others here who do too. *tickles wheeloo* _____________________
I find it rather easy to portray a businessman. Being bland, rather cruel and incompetent comes naturally to me.
John Cleese, 1939 - |
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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06-02-2005 11:59
As for the issue of the speed of online dating I believe that the reason for this is simple. Here are some of my thoughts: 1. Dating in SL is for the most part written - I have spent hours on a first encounter talking to someone in SL and it is all about communication. IRL you may go out on 10 dates and never cover the detailed and often personal information that is shared in a long in-world conversation. 2. The intimacy is taken to a new level - I don’t know why but as for myself I tend to be much more willing to share intimate details about my life online than in RL. This willingness to share more of myself and others to me often leads to a much deeper feeling of closeness to that person. 3. None of the usual first-meeting hang-ups - Such as her nose is too long, his eye twitches, her but is too big, his double chin is unattractive. The initial attraction in SL is to the brain of the other person. The initial attraction in RL is physical most of the time. Without the physical things getting in the way, we fall in love with the person’s brain first and the rest is of little importance. As for the fast breakups I would just say that there is RL time and SL time. I would say that 2 day2 in SL spent together is almost equivalent to a month in RL. Maybe even more. So… doing the math, 3 weeks would be like dating someone for about a year. Sounds about right to me when you consider what is shared between the partners and the level of intensity. Anyhoo, this is my 2 cents for what it’s worth. I feel exactly the same, 8mths i was with Fred, but it hurt much more than some of the RL relationships I have been in for way longer. Online you get to know a person inside out, I too am much more comfortable talking online than meeting up in RL and talking then, I take somebody for WHO they are, not what they look like, or what they do, or wear, or any of that. But if that person truly loves you in the first place, or wants to be with you, they won't take your heart, keep it safe for a few months, then chop it into small diced chunks and serve it to you with a side salad of bastige.  _____________________
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Billy Grace
Land Market Facilitator
Join date: 8 Mar 2004
Posts: 2,307
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06-02-2005 12:03
But if that person truly loves you in the first place, or wants to be with you, they won't take your heart, keep it safe for a few months, then chop it into small diced chunks and serve it to you with a side salad of bastige. Awww... I feel so sad now... but you are absolutely right. You did and do not deserve that. *hugz wheeloo tightly* _____________________
I find it rather easy to portray a businessman. Being bland, rather cruel and incompetent comes naturally to me.
John Cleese, 1939 - |
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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06-02-2005 12:04
Awww... I feel so sad now... but you are absolutely right. You did and do not deserve that. *hugz wheeloo tightly* Ah i'll live, and i'm keeping it friendly, I went through alot to get this far, I wouldn't just chuck away the chance of friendship, ball is well and truly out of my court *HUGGLES* _____________________
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Billy Grace
Land Market Facilitator
Join date: 8 Mar 2004
Posts: 2,307
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06-02-2005 12:18
Ah i'll live, and i'm keeping it friendly, I went through alot to get this far, I wouldn't just chuck away the chance of friendship, ball is well and truly out of my court *HUGGLES* My advice sweet one is that you put the ball firmly in your court and move on. You deserve so much more. *snuggles* _____________________
I find it rather easy to portray a businessman. Being bland, rather cruel and incompetent comes naturally to me.
John Cleese, 1939 - |
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Lecktor Hannibal
YOUR MOM
Join date: 1 Jul 2004
Posts: 6,734
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06-02-2005 12:20
Did someone say something about a serving of chunked heart ? *ears perk up*
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Margaret Mfume
I.C.
Join date: 30 Dec 2004
Posts: 2,492
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06-02-2005 12:43
Did someone say something about a serving of chunked heart ? *ears perk up* You're too late. Talen and Jake jointly hosted a holiday weekend bbq and had more guests showed up than they planned for. They made do with some of their special recipe Haggis. It was a Memorial Day celebration which truly lived up to its name. _____________________
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Jake Reitveld
Emperor of Second Life
Join date: 9 Mar 2005
Posts: 2,690
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06-02-2005 12:49
And I can categorically confirm that Talen and I have excellent taste in exes! At least with a bit of honey mustard (or tobasco) we do. *pinks his teeth, humming "i eat canninbals"*
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Margaret Mfume
I.C.
Join date: 30 Dec 2004
Posts: 2,492
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06-02-2005 12:58
A meal such as that deserves an equally grand dessert. I am reminded of the ladies in the hood where I grew up in. "Come here and give me some sugar. Mmmm. You're so sweet I could just eat you right up!"
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Lazarus Lumiere
Registered User
Join date: 4 Jun 2004
Posts: 106
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06-02-2005 12:59
two words: wood chipper
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Edav Roark
Bounty Hunter
Join date: 4 Sep 2003
Posts: 569
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06-02-2005 13:11
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Rose Karuna
Lizard Doctor
Join date: 5 Jun 2004
Posts: 3,772
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06-02-2005 13:36
Did someone say something about a serving of chunked heart ? *ears perk up* Sorry - couldn't resist in light of the topic.  Oh, come on, come on, come on, come on! Didn't I make you feel like you were the only man -yeah! Didn't I give you nearly everything that this man possibly can ? And each time I tell myself that I, well I think I've had enough, But I'm gonna show you, baby, that this man can be tough. I want you to come on, come on, come on, come on and take it, Take another little piece of my heart now, baby! Break another little bit of my heart now, darling, yeah, yeah, yeah. Have another little piece of my heart now, baby, You know you got it if it makes you feel good, Oh, yes it is. You're out on the streets looking good, And baby deep down in your heart I guess you know that it ain't right, Never, never, never, never, never, never hear me when I cry, Babe, I cry all the time! And each time I tell myself that I, well I can't stand the pain, But when you hold me in your arms, I'm singing once again. I'll say come on, come on, come on, come on and take it! Take another little piece of my heart now, baby. Break another little bit of my heart now, darling, yeah, Have another little piece of my heart now, baby, You know you got it, child, if it makes you feel good. I need you to come on, come on, come on, come on and take it, Take another little piece of my heart now, baby! Break another little bit of my heart, now darling, yeah, c'mon now. Have another little piece of my heart now, baby. You know you got it -whoahhhhh!! Take it! Take another little piece of my heart now, baby, Break another little bit of my heart, now darling, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Have another little piece of my heart now, baby, hey, You know you got it, child, if it makes you feel good. _____________________
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Billy Grace
Land Market Facilitator
Join date: 8 Mar 2004
Posts: 2,307
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06-02-2005 14:32
yes everyone i am auctioning willow off for snuggles friday night to support my avatar's drug ha...i mean to raise money for the "poor" you can start bidding here...and bidding will continue til reserve price has been met or until yall run out of steam..any openin bids? *raises paddle* 100 Lindens _____________________
I find it rather easy to portray a businessman. Being bland, rather cruel and incompetent comes naturally to me.
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Chip Midnight
ate my baby!
Join date: 1 May 2003
Posts: 10,231
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06-02-2005 14:51
I allow millions of chances but once that door closes, it stays closed I agree with this. It just takes me a reaaaaalllllllllly long time to get the damn door closed... usually several years if I really loved her. That is unless I was truly betrayed and then I'll slam it as fast as I can and hope it hits her on her way out. _____________________
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Jake Reitveld
Emperor of Second Life
Join date: 9 Mar 2005
Posts: 2,690
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06-02-2005 15:44
*raises paddle* 100 Lindens *raises paddle* 200 _____________________
ALCHEMY -clothes for men.
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Billy Grace
Land Market Facilitator
Join date: 8 Mar 2004
Posts: 2,307
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06-02-2005 15:55
*Raises paddle* 300 Lindens
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I find it rather easy to portray a businessman. Being bland, rather cruel and incompetent comes naturally to me.
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katykiwi Moonflower
Esquirette
Join date: 5 Dec 2003
Posts: 1,489
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06-02-2005 15:58
I know many other people who are "in love" after a single nights talking / etc.  And you are right, that doesn't last even in SL because they never saw you as a real person to begin with...just a cheap fast way to get off ..(and by the way, that doesnt mean the sex was not great )_____________________
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Billy Grace
Land Market Facilitator
Join date: 8 Mar 2004
Posts: 2,307
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06-02-2005 16:05
*perks up* Did someone say phone sex?
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I find it rather easy to portray a businessman. Being bland, rather cruel and incompetent comes naturally to me.
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Eggy Lippmann
Wiktator
Join date: 1 May 2003
Posts: 7,939
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06-02-2005 16:30
I would gladly take back all my ex-girlfriends, preferrably at the same time
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Jake Reitveld
Emperor of Second Life
Join date: 9 Mar 2005
Posts: 2,690
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06-02-2005 16:39
Yeah that was katy saying phone sex billy! Hot Phone sex.
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Iridian Oz
Registered User
Join date: 9 Feb 2005
Posts: 141
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06-02-2005 17:02
I would if I loved them and it was readily apparent that they loved me as well, and I wasn't involved with someone else.
Thinking more deeply about, there are a couple who I wouldn't. When someone can say they love you and then be so very cruel, that is nearly unforgivable unless they have a REALLY good reason, which is VERY rare. Sometimes it's better to be alone than to be hurt by someone who claims to love you. Owner of a Lonely Heart - Yes Move yourself You always live your life Never thinking of the future Prove yourself You are the move you make Take your chances win or loser See yourself You are the steps you take You and you - and that’s the only way Shake - shake yourself You’re every move you make So the story goes Owner of a lonely heart Owner of a lonely heart Much better than - a Owner of a broken heart Owner of a lonely heart Say - you don’t want to chance it You’ve been hurt so before Watch it now The eagle in the sky How he dancin’ one and only You - lose yourself No not for pity’s sake There’s no real reason to be lonely Be yourself Give your free will a chance You’ve got to want to succeed Owner of a lonely heart Owner of a lonely heart Much better than - a Owner of a broken heart Owner of a lonely heart Owner of a lonely heart After my own decision They confused me so - owner of a lonely heart My love said never question your will at all In the end you’ve got to go Look before you leap - owner of a lonely heart And don’t you hesitate at all - no no Owner of a lonely heart Owner of a lonely heart Much better than - a Owner of a broken heart Owner of a lonely heart (repeat) Owner of a lonely heart Sooner or later each conclusion Will decide the lonely heart - owner of a lonely heart It will excite it will delight It will give a better start - owner of a lonely heart Don’t deceive your free will at all Don’t deceive your free will at all - owner of a lonely heart Don’t deceive your free will at all Just receive it |
