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katykiwi Moonflower
Esquirette
Join date: 5 Dec 2003
Posts: 1,489
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06-02-2005 06:42
She broke your heart;
He made you cry... She ran off with another guy. He took another for his lover... WHATEVER! Whether you are the heart breaker or breakee, do you want him/her back? Confess here...after all who is listening  For me, sure, yes, in a heartbeat; I will love Vade Blair forever, and I miss him. EDITED days later to add....well maybe not so fast....met someone new. EDITED MANY DAYS LATER TO SAY...HELLL NOOOO!!! Thank you Blaze baby...xxx |
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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06-02-2005 06:49
She broke your heart; He made you cry... She ran off with another guy. He took another for his lover... WHATEVER! Whether you are the heart breaker or breakee, do you want him/her back? Confess here...after all who is listening For me, sure, yes, in a heartbeat; I will love Vade Blair forever, and I miss him. Aww hun! I gotta say, I would like to think that I would go back to Fred in a heartbeat, and I miss him like hell, but I think we are better as friends, and anyways, not my choice is it  There are some ex's i wouldn't touch with bargepoles, but out of about 4, i'd say 3 of them I would take back in an instant  I don't like being Single  _____________________
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Della Street
Lover of SL
Join date: 9 Aug 2004
Posts: 375
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06-02-2005 06:52
I have this rule. Once it is over, it is over. I allow millions of chances but once that door closes, it stays closed, because I know that what split us to begin with, will always be there and will hurt again. SO I feel it is always best to move forward and never go back. That has been my rule, not necessarily for everyone, though.
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katykiwi Moonflower
Esquirette
Join date: 5 Dec 2003
Posts: 1,489
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06-02-2005 06:54
There are some ex's i wouldn't touch with bargepoles _____________________
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Kris Ritter
paradoxical embolism
Join date: 31 Oct 2003
Posts: 6,627
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06-02-2005 06:54
I guess that would depend what they did
If they just disappeared off the face of the planet for a while, and they have a good reason for doing so without any contact (no, "I needed to find myself" is not a sufficient reason for not dropping a loved one a quick IM or email first! ), then sure, why not? If their prolongued absence is due to having spent the last month shagging their way through a coachload of women rugby players, twice, because they were "confused about things, but realise now it's you I love", probably not _____________________
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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06-02-2005 06:57
How about we just get married and have hot sex all the time?
I haf a skybox!  _____________________
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Beryl Greenacre
Big Scaredy-Baby
Join date: 24 Jun 2003
Posts: 1,312
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06-02-2005 07:02
I have this rule. Once it is over, it is over. I allow millions of chances but once that door closes, it stays closed, because I know that what split us to begin with, will always be there and will hurt again. SO I feel it is always best to move forward and never go back. That has been my rule, not necessarily for everyone, though. I've been with my husband now for nine years, and before I married him, I dated a lot of people. Since we own a house and have kids together, I would have to have a pretty darned strong reason to want to split from my husband at this point. But the various boyfriends I've had through my life... forget about it, once the door is closed, it's O-V-E-R. _____________________
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Lecktor Hannibal
YOUR MOM
Join date: 1 Jul 2004
Posts: 6,734
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06-02-2005 07:14
I NEVER return to the scene of a crime
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PetGirl Bergman
Fellow Creature:-)
Join date: 16 Feb 2005
Posts: 2,414
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06-02-2005 07:21
Lecktor
)))**** Tried that IRL.. dont work for me. .sorry so I dont think it can be done in SL... Now we miss the body language and the scents in SL so maybe its easier for men t o cheat us women but but beware there are other things that make us feel, se when its done.. OK the opposite are for sure all over to.. so... |
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Madiera Westerburg
waiting for apocolypse :D
Join date: 6 Apr 2004
Posts: 836
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06-02-2005 07:45
onsund took me back and has made me the happiest girl on the planet! 'nuff said
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"Unfortunately you cant wipe them out of existence... merely hide the drivel they have to spew"- Kris Ritter
If the lord was handing out bacterial infections for sinning, you'd be at the free clinic all the time. just when I manage to convince myself I'm a superior being, I walk into a door |
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Arbel Vogel
Burstin' w/Fruit Flavor
Join date: 17 Oct 2004
Posts: 1,155
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06-02-2005 07:49
If they cheated or abused me, then they have no chance.
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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06-02-2005 07:50
onsund took me back and has made me the happiest girl on the planet! 'nuff said Aww mommas happy NOW about that Hug Willow Auction _____________________
*I'm not ready for the world outside...I keep pretending, but I just can't hide...* <3 Giddeon's <3 |
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Colette Meiji
Registered User
Join date: 25 Mar 2005
Posts: 15,556
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06-02-2005 07:53
one of them , I would.
I miss her. the rest ... BLA , forget it. |
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Talen Morgan
Amused
Join date: 2 Apr 2004
Posts: 3,097
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06-02-2005 08:14
I'm still close with all my ex's.....unfortunately for me I have to move soon and digging them all back up is gonna suck
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Build a man a fire and he'll be warm for a day...set a man on fire and he'll be warm the rest of his life
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Eboni Khan
Misanthrope
Join date: 17 Mar 2004
Posts: 2,133
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06-02-2005 08:15
Regardless of what they have done, if I really love them, I would take them back over and over and over and over again. I am a glutton for punishment
Maybe I have read "Love Story" too many times but, "Love means never having to say sorry..."._____________________
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Olympia Rebus
Muse of Chaos
Join date: 22 Feb 2004
Posts: 1,831
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06-02-2005 08:17
For me, sure, yes, in a heartbeat; I will love Vade Blair forever, and I miss him. I'm very sorry to hear this, Katikiwi I hope your SL experiance treats you better in the future ~Olympia _____________________
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Kris Ritter
paradoxical embolism
Join date: 31 Oct 2003
Posts: 6,627
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06-02-2005 08:21
I'm still close with all my ex's.....unfortunately for me I have to move soon and digging them all back up is gonna suck lmao! _____________________
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katykiwi Moonflower
Esquirette
Join date: 5 Dec 2003
Posts: 1,489
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06-02-2005 08:34
I'm very sorry to hear this, Katikiwi I hope your SL experiance treats you better in the future _____________________
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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06-02-2005 08:36
Thanks, the memories of all the fun times we had in Green & Mauve are the best! Your worth more tho, you know that right! OUR CHATS HAVEN'T GONE UNNOCTICED HAVE THEY I had a dream about Locke, things MUST be getting bad  _____________________
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Hiro Queso
503less
Join date: 23 Feb 2005
Posts: 2,753
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06-02-2005 08:37
I have this rule. Once it is over, it is over. I allow millions of chances but once that door closes, it stays closed, because I know that what split us to begin with, will always be there and will hurt again. SO I feel it is always best to move forward and never go back. That has been my rule, not necessarily for everyone, though. I'm of the same train of thought _____________________
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Madiera Westerburg
waiting for apocolypse :D
Join date: 6 Apr 2004
Posts: 836
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06-02-2005 08:45
Aww mommas happy NOW about that Hug Willow Auction yes everyone i am auctioning willow off for snuggles friday night to support my avatar's drug ha...i mean to raise money for the "poor" you can start bidding here...and bidding will continue til reserve price has been met or until yall run out of steam..any openin bids? _____________________
"Unfortunately you cant wipe them out of existence... merely hide the drivel they have to spew"- Kris Ritter
If the lord was handing out bacterial infections for sinning, you'd be at the free clinic all the time. just when I manage to convince myself I'm a superior being, I walk into a door |
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Colette Meiji
Registered User
Join date: 25 Mar 2005
Posts: 15,556
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06-02-2005 08:47
yes everyone i am auctioning willow off for snuggles friday night to support my avatar's drug ha...i mean to raise money for the "poor" you can start bidding here...and bidding will continue til reserve price has been met or until yall run out of steam..any openin bids? hmm keeping with the spirit of the thread .. mebe only her ex's shoudl be allowed to bid. hehe |
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katykiwi Moonflower
Esquirette
Join date: 5 Dec 2003
Posts: 1,489
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06-02-2005 08:48
I had a dream about Locke, things MUST be getting bad What is it about the Blair brothers anyway...  _____________________
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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06-02-2005 08:50
Dont start that stuff girl.... What is it about the Blair brothers anyway... I have NO idea, but they suck ass... Must have been good sucking tho, COS WE STILL THINK ABOUT THEM -.- _____________________
*I'm not ready for the world outside...I keep pretending, but I just can't hide...* <3 Giddeon's <3 |
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Billy Grace
Land Market Facilitator
Join date: 8 Mar 2004
Posts: 2,307
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06-02-2005 09:51
Kat, I am sorry to hear about your heartache. Nothing hurts more than the broken heart that comes from a love gone wrong.
Wheelooo, I have been gone for 2 weeks and had not heard that Fred left you… what could the idiot… errr… guy be thinking? You seem to have the worst luck with men. Both of you… keep your chins up, it will get better. I know it hurts now but I am a believer in the “better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all” mindset. Both of you are nice, intelligent, hot chicks and the right guy is out there for you so don’t give up hope. As for the question posed, it is hard to go back… not impossible… but very very hard. I would say that if there were good reasons for the breakup and you try again then you are asking for trouble and the chances are you will only get hurt again and again. There is a time to move on and look to the horizon for someone new so embrace this as a fresh, new start. What am I talking about??? Come to think of it… forget all of that stuff… all the two of you need is a little Billy Love. Meet me under the old oak tree at the strike if midnight and all of your worries will be washed away! _____________________
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