Abortion: Putting A Face On The Issue
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Lucifer Baphomet
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03-06-2006 16:59
From: Vivianne Draper I'd have a lot more sympathy for your point of view if you weren't wasting money on Second Life. Because, you see, you don't really care that much about life. Oh you SAY you do. But really you don't. If you did, you'd give the money you currently spend on Second Life to the poor. To those who have no homes. To hospitals that try to save babies that are actually wanted by the parents but might have AIDs, addictions, genetic defects, and other birth defects. We, as a race (and by that I mean the human race) don't really care that much about life. We fight wars and kill thousands of people. Some people that are against abortion are actually in favor of wars -- a point of view I have a hard time fathoming but there ya go. We have the death penalty. Its ok with us that homeless people die on the streets. If it wasn't, we'd prevent it. Its ok with us that near-genocide goes on in places like Rwanda, and the Sudan. If it wasn't, we'd do something about it. But we don't. What we do instead is argue over bullshit like abortion -- like that is something that actually matters. Those that actually care about life aren't playing Second Life. They aren't posting on message boards. They are working for CARE or UNICEF or the Red Cross and spending their time helping to rid the world of real atrocities. Now I don't excuse myself from this. I'm among the people who don't really care that much. On the other hand, I'm not posting on message boards about how abortion kills little babies. Because people and babies die every day. Do you live in the US? Of course you do -- this isn't an issue anywhere else. Do you know that the US has one of the highest infant mortality rates of all the industrialized nations? Why is that, do you think? (I'll give you a hint -- it has nothing to do with abortion). Could it be that access to health care is difficult for the poor? Did you vote against socialized medicine? Did you vote? Do you rail against paying higher taxes for social programs? All these things mean less babies die. All these things mean less people die. Abortion is nothing, comparitively. Less babies die in the US every year due to abortion than malnutrition. Choke on that fact while you are rallying against abortion. So given where the real problems are, and given where you choose to spend your time, money and energy, I can only surmise that your motives are something other than life. I don't particularly care what those motives are -- they aren't anything I'm interested in supporting. But how about you call a spade a spade and tell us whats really going on hmmm? Best post of the day
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Kevn Klein
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03-06-2006 18:18
Alright South Dakoda, outlaw abortion on demand! You guys rock!
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Jopsy Pendragon
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What an absurd retort.
03-06-2006 18:21
From: Kiamat Dusk We could pass out condoms and tranquilizers to rapists. We could teach victims to not fight back thus diminishing the possible physical harm done to both participants. And then, after the act has been committed we can provide counseling in hopes that the victim can move on with his/her life and that the rapist would hopefully see the error of his/her (but mostly his) way. -Kiamat Dusk
Kiamat-
Your analogy would imply that women are getting pregnant deliberately because they WANT abortions!
Also, I doubt rapists and murderers voluntarily have their insides violated. (and rape is an argument FOR abortion, not against it.)
Besides... 'Murder' has always been 'relatively' legal: Our government sends soldiers into war to kill and to die. Some states still use Capital punishment. Self-defense sometimes justifies it. Pulling the plug on someone with a living will. Not putting a decrepit family member on life support. It's only illegal to ATTEMPT suicide. Successful suicide is legal. Oh, and putting a suffering family pet to sleep. (pets aren't people. Fine. It's still murder.)
My point (more simply) is this:
Law merely sets the cost and consequence for exercising free will.
Abolish Abortion and you end up with more dead or mutilated women and more children damaged by pre-natal drink, drugs, cigarettes, mal-nutriion, and neglect. If 'society' thinks that's a fitting punishment for the crime of abortion then 'society' is sick in the head.
Support abortion law and empower women with the ghastly right to safely destroy something before becomes a fully formed a human being.. which they feel unready or unfit to raise properly.
Frankly, I'm non-hetero and a non-parent, and sick of 'some' people telling 'other' people what they can and cannot do to their own body, so I favor empowerment, despite the ugliness of it.
More than anything, every child should be wanted by its own biological mother.
-- The value of an individual life is determined by the people that value that individual life.
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Jonas Pierterson
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03-06-2006 18:40
Don't forget oen group in the empowerment: the fathers.
Aside from rape/abuse..fathers should have a say. What if the father wants the child but the mother does not? Whos decision trumps the other?
Consider this situation:
John and Jane Doe were married for several years, and often discussed starting a family. One day, Jane finds out she is pregnant , but does not take the news cheerfully. She decides, without her husbands opinion to have an abortion.
1. Is it moral for the doctor to perform this procedure in this case?
2. Would this betrayal merit a divorce as much as Jane cheating on John?
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Jopsy Pendragon
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paternal empowerment?
03-06-2006 19:14
(warning: potentially unpopular OPINION following) Jonas- Being male, this is something I feel a little more 'empowered' to speak about.  Personally... I think if the biological father does something so egregious that the biological mother no longer wishes to bring his child into the world... she should have right not to. Heck even if he's the perfect husband... it should be her choice. I feel he should not have the right to deny nor demand an abortion. He can only attempt to persuade, married to her or not. If one spouse wants children, and the other does not... (which should have come up BEFORE getting married) I would say those are irreconciable differences and grounds for divorce ... without involving 'accidentally' punctured condoms, 'accidental' pregnancies or abortions. Of course... that opens the messy legal arena of liability and financial responsibility. Love and/or Sex makes people do silly things, which are often remembered differently later. How do you authoratively say he didn't know she was pregnant and absolve him of liability? How do you recognize that he deliberately got her pregnant or she deliberately got herself pregnant? Did he say he wanted a child privately then change his mind after the fact to run away? If it's as cut-and-dried as she wants the child and he doesn't... he should be legally absolved of all responsibility at the least. But I get the impression it's rarely that simple. Besides... who needs women to have children anymore anyway? http://www.malepregnancy.com/-- Gotta love those great folks at the RYT Hospital. 
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Siro Mfume
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03-06-2006 22:25
From: Kevn Klein Logically, nothing I do will either make my actual statement "abortion is wrong" more or less true. It is a moral statement, I am attempting to establish how you perceive things as a basis for making that statement. From: Kevn Klein It's either true or not. As has been shown, a statement can be partially true, even when it is a simple black and white statement as you have made. I can certainly think of cases where abortion is wrong, as well as okay and good. I don't know what you think of such cases as you have refused to answer. From: Kevn Klein So your demands that I prove a commitment means nothing. Are you going to accept my statement "abortion is wrong", and believe it's true if I tell you all the things I do for children, if it meets or exceeds your actions? Remember now, I have not claimed to help children. You could easily make the claim that I am a newborn flesh eating person as well. I'm perfectly willing to cite examples from my life that indicate I am not, however. For one, I'd put newborns in the class of food as 'meat'. I have never eaten meat, so I have never eaten newborns. I also think that even in the case of starvation and imminent, one should not resort to consuming the flesh of newborns. See? That's not so hard, is it? From: Kevn Klein If not, kill the drive to assume I am not morally rightious enough to make such a claim. See, I'm perfectly willing to accept ANY answers you give to those questions I mentioned. All they'll do is let me have some more insight into how you approach the problem. It's a basic 'seeing eye to eye' kind of thing. Even IF my own determination is that you are not morally righteous enough, that doesn't take away from the truth you see in your own statement. What it does is let me understand why you think what you think so more intelligent conversation can be had by all. Here's a basic example of someone explaining what they think and why. Intial statement: I don't like paying taxes. Why? Answer: Because I am lazy and I balk at the reams of instructions, forms and record keeping associated with retaining that much more of my meager pittance of a wage. You could further break down the statement to examine particular issues; like why am I lazy? Why am I poor? Why do I particularly care where my money goes if I have enough? And so on and so forth. All of which is relevant discussion to 'I don't like paying taxes' because many other people can make the same statement and have vastly different reasons for doing so. It helps discussion to understand someone's motives beyond their initial statements.
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Tod69 Talamasca
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03-07-2006 01:06
The whole Abortion issue is pointless. My solution is easier- Let the kid be born. Untill it's born it's defenseless, right? So once it hits the outside world.... Kill it!! 
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Michael Seraph
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03-07-2006 01:49
From: Kevn Kline Real men defend the weak and helpless from those who are stronger. What happens when the weak and helpless are guilty of some heinous crime and the stronger people are the one's bringing them to justice? Or is your world always in black and white?
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Zuzu Fassbinder
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03-07-2006 08:39
From: Tod69 Talamasca The whole Abortion issue is pointless. My solution is easier- Let the kid be born. Untill it's born it's defenseless, right? So once it hits the outside world.... Kill it!!  I can see it now... "But judge, he was reaching for a scalpel, it was pure self defense."
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Lorelei Patel
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03-07-2006 08:44
Here's a face of the abortion issue. This guy's letter was published in my local paper today. I think what he says speaks volumes about many anti-abortion men. Some select snippets: From: someone During college, I had been with a woman and she became pregnant.
My family didn't have any other male progeny. I was the sole male Schultz remaining on the family tree - as my father was in poor health and would soon pass away, never being a grandpa. The ability to father a son meant a great deal to him, and to me. However, the action of the young lady aborting our son has left an indelible scar on my soul to this day. ...
Yes, the woman can claim it is her body and she can do anything with it. But what about the potential father? What right does he have? What option does he have but to live with the fact that he will know for the rest of his life that he lost a son, and potential heir, in a family where out of five males on my father's side all were unable to sire any children? Wow. King Henry VIII lives! And what if the baby had been a girl?
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Kendra Bancroft
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03-07-2006 08:47
From: Lorelei Patel Here's a face of the abortion issue. This guy's letter was published in my local paper today. I think what he says speaks volumes about many anti-abortion men. Some select snippets: Wow. King Henry VIII lives! And what if the baby had been a girl? How can you be so cruel. The Lansing Shulz's are soon to be no more ::  niff::::
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Kevn Klein
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03-07-2006 08:57
From: Michael Seraph What happens when the weak and helpless are guilty of some heinous crime and the stronger people are the one's bringing them to justice? Or is your world always in black and white? Oh yes, the fetus is guilty of some heinous crime and the stronger people are the one's bringing her to justice, sure.
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Kendra Bancroft
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03-07-2006 08:58
From: Kevn Klein Oh yes, the fetus is guilty of some heinous crime and the stronger people are the one's bringing her to justice, sure. are you deliberately obtuse?
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Kevn Klein
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03-07-2006 09:03
From: Kendra Bancroft are you deliberately obtuse? I thought you said you are done with me, what's wrong, you can't stop thinking about me? Hugs 
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Kendra Bancroft
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03-07-2006 09:04
From: Kevn Klein I thought you said you are done with me, what's wrong, you can't stop thinking about me? Hugs  I am done with you. Now it's for other people's entertainment.
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Kevn Klein
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03-07-2006 09:12
From: Kendra Bancroft I am done with you. Now it's for other people's entertainment. Then don't expect me to answer you. kthxbye 
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Jake Reitveld
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03-07-2006 09:13
From: Kevn Klein It's the science that says what is a body part. As opposed to what is a complete, separate human being.
I can't find any science that says body parts have their own feet and fingers, brain and heart. No body parts ever grow up to be the president of the USA. Well legally they do. They become infants and infants become president. Though some just get older and remain infantile.
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Jake Reitveld
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03-07-2006 09:15
From: Kevn Klein It's the science that says what is a body part. As opposed to what is a complete, separate human being.
I can't find any science that says body parts have their own feet and fingers, brain and heart. No body parts ever grow up to be the president of the USA. I'm just intrigued by your typical flip flop. Science is right when it comes to this issue, and wrong with evolution. I'm really not picking on you, its just the christian flip-flop dance. They love carbon dating when it comes to jericho, and hate it when it comes to t-rex.
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03-07-2006 09:16
From: Kevn Klein Then don't expect me to answer you. kthxbye  I don't. As I said my main purpose now is to entertain others.
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Jake Reitveld
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03-07-2006 09:17
From: Jonquille Noir Until they're actually born and it becomes 'not their responsibility.' You can't prove the child is mine! Didn Wacko Jacko write a song about that?
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Jake Reitveld
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03-07-2006 09:20
From: Kevn Klein Alright South Dakoda, outlaw abortion on demand! You guys rock! Right up to the point where the courts will strike this down as an unreasonable intrusion on the mother's rights-oh wait they won't because we have packed the Supreme Court with some judicial one trick ponies, just to ensure they don't strike such stupid laws down.
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Zuzu Fassbinder
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03-07-2006 09:30
From: Kendra Bancroft How can you be so cruel. The Lansing Shulz's are soon to be no more ::  niff:::: Could be natural selection, perhaps they have a trait that is undesierable to potential mates.
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Siobhan OFlynn
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03-07-2006 09:58
From: Kendra Bancroft I don't. As I said my main purpose now is to entertain others. And you're doing a damn fine job. Keep up the good work, Kendra. I only read Kevn's threads now for the entertainment value. 
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Sally Rosebud
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03-07-2006 10:03
From: Zuzu Fassbinder Could be natural selection, perhaps they have a trait that is undesierable to potential mates. Zuzu, stop trying to derail the abortion thread by talking about evolution! 
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Kevn Klein
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03-07-2006 10:04
From: Jake Reitveld Right up to the point where the courts will strike this down as an unreasonable intrusion on the mother's rights-oh wait they won't because we have packed the Supreme Court with some judicial one trick ponies, just to ensure they don't strike such stupid laws down. That's how the court system works. The pendulum is swinging back the other way. Finally. We are sick of left leaning activist judges and want a change. It's our right. 
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