Moderation rules question

I see him more as broccoli.. he gives me gas.

Btw - I'm stalking you At least till someone here shoves some work in my face to do.

Oh look its Enabran!

/me waves to Enabran.

Everyone wave to Enabran.

No Enabran more like everyone is accountable but they do not need to be constantly attacked for every thing they ever said. It's been 3 years and these things are still being used as; some sort of weapon.

Give it a rest it's old news.

Was that me?

I can't remember that one in particular..

If it was me - how do you know if I did or didn't get a warning?

What is that adage? The fish rots from the head. The ResMods are only as effective ultimately as their leadership, and if they can't be expected to apply any kind of logic or reason to discipline, the ResMods certainly can't be held accountable for that.

I asked you Again, I don't care that you didn't get one - I don't want you to. I just want them to stop this half assed joke of a disciplinary system where they give one person a warning for something mild, then let other things fly when it suits them.

Catherine,

Not to stir shit here, but everything Nolan said you have said to him or I in the past year.

Hmm I don't recall saying 'Fuck yourself twat'.. I think that one's made up.

So how long do I have to go then? Days months and year count please?

You said it to Catherine, after first saying go fuck yourself to Lewis.

Better go check that one if your gonna put quotation marks around it.

The "tactic" is all yours.

When you went off with sailor mouth on the forums, for weeks mind you, it was "she was pushed to the limit", and when someone else does it, you're screaming bloody murder. And why is it ok for you and Coco to bring up the past, as long as it's to holler about the things people have said to you on these forums in the past, but not ok others to bring up things you've said? Par for the course I suppose.

See the difference is Cat, even though Siggy and I are friends, as is he friends with other posters here, we're not going to rush to his side and start making excuses for him.

He's a big boy, an adult, and he doesn't need people to make excuses for him, although we could use that tactic too, you know.

You can try this new tactic - "stalker - blah blah blah" - but realize that in essence that it's an attack on my person. I am allowed to respond to threads here, as long as I stay within the rules, so you can accuse me of what is a real crime on the books in the US - and I don't care, because replying to some anonymous person, where they invite response by virtue of posting, especially when it's a person with a closet full of stuff she is now yelling at others about, is my right, as afforded me by LL, and it's certainly not stalking.

You won't scare me off with this stalker tactic Cat.

I feel the lolocaust building in the back of my throat......

Too late. If I said it, I meant it then. Was it right? Nope. Should ppl cus each other out? Nope. I put up with so much for so long, I finaly said "the hell with it, I might as well start talking this way too, since its acceptable" some time passed and I decided it didn't feel right for me to use that type of language.

That was then, this is now. I choose not to live in the past, rather I choose to learn from it. Pitty others don't do the same. Some of those quotes were from 2 years ago or so.

The system is flawed, now what.

Cat

Did I say that to Lewis? please provide the link.

You are right, the original was even more colorful:

"'Be the change' 'be the twat' more like. Heres a double dose of up your arse to go with his go fuck yourself."

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That post was not to you. unless your name is Enabran.

Exactly.. thank you... if your gonna quote me - quote me.. if you're not - don't

Besides if you read it I didn't say 'fuck yourself twat' I called her a twat then told her to shove it up her arse.

Yes the go fuck yourself was a restatement of the one right above it you made to Lewis. That clarifies it sooo much.

I guess the main point was that you have benefitted from the same thing here - you got away with those statements unscathed, that's all. Yes, it is flawed, now what? I don't know. It seems to be getting worse honestly. Either throw out the rules, or enforce them, but don't play favorites and punish some but not others. I am in favor of not at all, since it is ridiculous to punish adults, but these are not my forums. We can only go by the rules we have been given, however unclear, unenforced, and convuluted they may be.

I think it does.. if your gonna quote someone - you quote them. It's a pet hate of mine that coco does all the damn time.

Quoting = using my words.. so use them or don't - seriously it's that simple.. and if you wanna paraphrase - then don't put them in quotation marks.. it's putting words in my mouth.

Sorry, it was not intentional, I was trying to recall it from memory and should have just indicated it as a paraphrase.

I thought the ResMod program was supposed to improve moderation? We have seen no improvements at all.

No but if I'm to sympathise with your statement - or Enabran is to - then they have to believe it, and so I would like to know how long the statute of limitations is on your current witchhunt with me..

Also I think its funny you calling Nolan a stalker while running from post to post of mine to see how fast you can AR them

Really? Because niether Cristiano no myself EVER spoke to you that way. Yet you did to us, on more than one occasion.


In fact, I don't remember anyone swearing at you until recently, and I still haven't seen the actual quote.

I have never, ever, cussed at you Catherine. I swore at one person on these boards, and that was Korg - I called him an a**hole, and I would have taken my medicine like an adult had I been disciplined for it. I make no excuse for it to this day - it was wrong, and it broke the rules.

As far as your "I put up with so much for so long" - you know Catherine, you were complicit, you routinely attacked individuals, groups, and businesses on these forums for 2+ years. You incited many a flame war.

You got a pushback for it, big deal.

Be an adult, be accountable. Maybe we would let it go, if you ever once took accountability for it, and stopped using excuses like "sexism", "stalking", and being "pushed to the limit".

Yup I agree, enforce them or let anarchy run free. I have to tell you something however. Before I posted the word "fuck" I IMed Jeska and asked her if it was acceptable or not. She never replied. So there was my answer. They don't want us to use it but they wont stop us from using it. LOL aright then. The forums are a joke IMO.

Cat