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Are you "cheating" your RL relationship with someone in SL?

Animations Pfeffer
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08-29-2007 16:20
As i dont expect confessions here, its a poll.
Calveen Kline
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08-29-2007 16:24
Not now. I wouldn't consider it 'cheating' anyways. It'd be immature to let a virtual affair ruin your RL relationship.
Jesseaitui Petion
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08-29-2007 16:27
Sad.
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Atashi Toshihiko
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08-29-2007 16:30
What's with all the prying questions and polls? Are you writing a book or doing some research for something?

I don't have anything against that, I'm just curious.

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Bradley Bracken
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08-29-2007 16:30
I would never have a SL relationship because I have no intention of cheating on my other half and I would definitely consider it cheating. Certainly my opinion.
Brenda Connolly
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08-29-2007 16:30
Why is this anyone else's business?
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Bradley Bracken
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08-29-2007 16:31
From: Atashi Toshihiko
What's with all the prying questions and polls? Are you writing a book or doing some research for something?
-Atashi


Wow. I did just notice that Animations did that other poll also. Very curious.

I hope you're not trying to come to some type of scientific conclusions
Alicia Sautereau
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08-29-2007 16:33
i know 1 person who felt so guilty that she "broke up" with the guy once her rl husband was thinking to join sl but created an alt to stay with the sl guy, how sick is that...
Animations Pfeffer
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08-29-2007 16:33
From: Atashi Toshihiko
What's with all the prying questions and polls? Are you writing a book or doing some research for something?

I don't have anything against that, I'm just curious.

-Atashi



1.- Curiosity
2.- I was ill (cold) and had plenty free time today
3.- Trying to learn
Animations Pfeffer
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08-29-2007 16:35
From: Bradley Bracken
Wow. I did just notice that Animations did that other poll also. Very curious.

I hope you're not trying to come to some type of scientific conclusions


No!! He he

Just all day long sit here in PC because i was with cold and trying to had some conversation, fun and good time :)
Rioko Bamaisin
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08-29-2007 16:38
Nope. IMO if I need to find someone in cyber space to fulfill my needs, then I need to get a divorce. It may not be physical, but it is emotional cheating. IMO.
Bradley Bracken
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08-29-2007 16:40
From: Rioko Bamaisin
Nope. IMO if I need to find someone in cyber space to fulfill my needs, then I need to get a divorce. It may not be physical, but it is emotional cheating. IMO.


A HUGE AMEN!
Nika Talaj
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08-29-2007 16:42
ibtl.

OK, all these threads discussing the morality of SL affairs do serve some kind of purpose. But this one is just for curiosity, and thus imho is trolling. Tho I know you started this because you're just bored, Animations!

Do you want sex now?
Animations Pfeffer
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08-29-2007 16:47
From: Nika Talaj
Tho I know you started this because you're just bored, Animations!


Bored, yes and i was just asking myself if people does actually does this. I use SL more for doing business and im not sure if everybody is like me or some other people are looking in SL for "love", "sex", etc.

*Sooner or latter i will make a poll asking for sex in SL, because i dont think people really get excited by SL sex (its more funny that exciting for me he he, personally i dont think i can get excited by this), but... i will ask someday, today i enought questions he he
Rioko Bamaisin
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08-29-2007 16:48
FTR I don't care what other adults do with their time and relationships.That's none of my business. It just isn't for me,just wanted to clarify that.:)
Ricardo Harris
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08-29-2007 16:49
This is ridiculous. Sl is sl and rl is real life. If a partner is jealous of someone on-line then all that is in insecurity and obviously said relationship is weak. Strong relationships can withstand such a minor thing as the internet.
Brenda Connolly
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08-29-2007 16:50
From: Animations Pfeffer
Bored, yes and i was just asking myself if people does actually does this. I use SL more for doing business and im not sure if everybody is like me or some other people are looking in SL for "love", "sex", etc.

*Sooner or latter i will make a poll asking for sex in SL, because i dont think people really get excited by SL sex (its more funny that exciting for me he he, personally i dont think i can get excited by this), but... i will ask someday, today i enought questions he he

Please do a Forum Search before you do that. There have been enough polls on that topic.
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Cristalle Karami
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08-29-2007 16:51
From: Animations Pfeffer
Bored, yes and i was just asking myself if people does actually does this. I use SL more for doing business and im not sure if everybody is like me or some other people are looking in SL for "love", "sex", etc.

*Sooner or latter i will make a poll asking for sex in SL, because i dont think people really get excited by SL sex (its more funny that exciting for me he he, personally i dont think i can get excited by this), but... i will ask someday, today i enought questions he he

Once, when I used to camp on dance poles at this club as a noob, this guy got all hot and bothered about my seminoobie skin (cherry bomb caramel at the time) and its parts, talking about how he wanted to lick the screen. It's just pixels... I just don't get it, never will.
Imogen Saltair
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08-29-2007 16:55
From: Cristalle Karami
Once, when I used to camp on dance poles at this club as a noob, this guy got all hot and bothered about my seminoobie skin (cherry bomb caramel at the time) and its parts, talking about how he wanted to lick the screen. It's just pixels... I just don't get it, never will.



Did you never cry in a movie?

imogen
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Cristalle Karami
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08-29-2007 16:57
From: Imogen Saltair
Did you never cry in a movie?

imogen

Of course, but that is usually because the plot was compelling and the scene well acted. This is just a digital paper doll, and not even as realistic as it could be. There was no emotional connection. FFS, I'm way hotter now and I could see it sorta with this skin, but not that one!
Alyx Sands
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08-29-2007 17:00
Do you want sex now?

Oh, we had that one already..... :D
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Ann Launay
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08-29-2007 17:02
From: Alyx Sands
Do you want sex now?

Oh, we had that one already..... :D


And pie! But preferably not sex WITH the pie...
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Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
Victorria Paine
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08-29-2007 17:04
From: Cristalle Karami
Of course, but that is usually because the plot was compelling and the scene well acted. This is just a digital paper doll, and not even as realistic as it could be. There was no emotional connection. FFS, I'm way hotter now and I could see it sorta with this skin, but not that one!


Ah but with someone who is a good texter/actor and with a nice skin and so forth ... surely you see the point? The dismissal of text sex as being "all about the pixels" is silly .. it's about the text and the pixels add to that in imagery. If anything it is far more stimulating than a film because it is two people interacting with each other.
Bradley Bracken
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08-29-2007 17:05
This thread is falling apart faster than I thought it would. Yeah, I admit, I was a part of that. :D
Isablan Neva
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08-29-2007 17:06



sombody must be bored at work today....
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