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Angelique LaFollette
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Join date: 17 Jun 2004
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08-27-2007 12:21
I get approached like this a Fair amount, The Men seem Intrequed when i explain I'm a lesbian, and quite Disapointed when they discover i'm not in the least interested in "Being converted". Women on the other hand are very odd. When they Find out i'm a Lesbian Half get nervous that I'm going to be Interested in Them, the other half are Insulted when they Find i am not. With me, Best Indicator is, If YOU have to Approach ME, it's because i'm NOT Interested. If I'm Interested in You,, Lol, See you in bed. :p

Angel.
Cristalle Karami
Lady of the House
Join date: 4 Dec 2006
Posts: 6,222
08-27-2007 12:30
From: Colette Meiji
If you get married then maybe thats just the pre-nup agreement kicking in.

lol, could be.

But seriously, my best friend and sweetie gets hit on all the time by escorts - sometimes soliciting him, sometimes just looking for a little somethin' somethin'. In both his avs. It's amazing. I guess ZZ Top was right. Every girl's crazy 'bout the sharp dressed man. lol.

It's not limited to just women.
Avion Raymaker
Palacio del Emperador!
Join date: 18 Jun 2007
Posts: 980
08-27-2007 12:44
From: Trout Recreant
It's pretty bleak when basic literacy is a big plus, but I suppose that most of what you can do with them involves the ability to write creatively, so that would be a big plus, wouldn't it? In real life, physical attributes determine who is the most attractive, in SL, mental attributes and the ability to communicate those mental abilities make that determination. Hmmm. /me is pretty stupid, so he might be in trouble either way.


If done well, the big dumb gorilla look and routine can be amazingly successful, in RL or SL.
Oryx Tempel
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Join date: 8 Nov 2006
Posts: 7,663
08-27-2007 12:46
From: Avion Raymaker
If done well, the big dumb gorilla look and routine can be amazingly successful, in RL or SL.


How so?
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Rioko Bamaisin
Unstable Princess
Join date: 16 Aug 2007
Posts: 4,668
08-27-2007 13:06
I seem to only get these kind of propositions when I am clothes shopping or I am at a place trying to learn something new.(NCI etc....) Guys never seem to bother with me at a club or social like place. Go figure.
Tod69 Talamasca
The Human Tripod ;)
Join date: 20 Sep 2005
Posts: 4,107
08-27-2007 13:06
From: Oryx Tempel
Dang, dude. I must look like a frigid b*tch. I never get approached. *sniffle*


Me neither :(
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Tod69 Talamasca
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Join date: 20 Sep 2005
Posts: 4,107
08-27-2007 13:09
From: Angelique LaFollette
I get approached like this a Fair amount, The Men seem Intrequed when i explain I'm a lesbian, and quite Disapointed when they discover i'm not in the least interested in "Being converted". Women on the other hand are very odd. When they Find out i'm a Lesbian Half get nervous that I'm going to be Interested in Them, the other half are Insulted when they Find i am not. With me, Best Indicator is, If YOU have to Approach ME, it's because i'm NOT Interested. If I'm Interested in You,, Lol, See you in bed. :p

Angel.


Just tell those guys THEY'RE the reason you prefer women. ;)
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Oryx Tempel
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08-27-2007 13:26
From: Tod69 Talamasca
Me neither :(


Ha ha now that you mention it, I WAS approached the other day at this fashion show I was doing. But guess what? I was wearing my male avatar! Mind bending to be a woman pretending to be a man and approached by a woman... :eek:
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Victorria Paine
Sleepless in Wherever
Join date: 13 Jul 2007
Posts: 1,110
08-27-2007 13:37
From: Brenda Connolly
He he, I usually reach for the Scotch. Some guys can really charm the pants off you (Down, Figtree). I've had guys strike up conversations based on the most obscure of my profile interests, It impresses me, that they can read,(big plus), and bother to read the profile.


Yes that definitely scores points with me, too -- read the profile, have a connection, etc.
Avion Raymaker
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Join date: 18 Jun 2007
Posts: 980
08-27-2007 15:17
From: Oryx Tempel
How so?


Are you asking me why it works, or how to do it?

Oryx, you were probably raised right if you don't go for the big dumb brute. (I'm proud of you). But I'm sure you can understand the appeal, even if it isn't for you.
Kenbro Utu
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Join date: 26 Sep 2006
Posts: 483
08-27-2007 15:18
From: Trout Recreant
OP aside - it has to be a bizarre experience to be a woman in SL. I feel like I can go just about anywhere without being approached, other than the obvious places, by a woman looking for anything. It's a lot more like normal life - people are open to conversation about whatever, but they don't just approach and offer to jump in the sack if you are a man. At least that's my experience. I think it would be immensely annoying to be a woman if that's what you have to deal with all the time.



It does get annoying for my wife, and for me also. LOL, sometimes if I am in the wrong mood I have been known to chase one of the idiots down and give them an ear full. One of the things I ask them is if they talk to women on the street in that manner. They always say no, and cannot explain why they do it here. It is not just restricted to "men" avatars, she has been hit on by "women" avatars also. You have to wonder if those "women" avatars are really guys but the approaches are so different. One of the few times I was hit on by a woman avatar, it was a request for sex while her RL husband watched over her shoulder, as foreplay for their RL sex. O.o
Brenda Connolly
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08-27-2007 15:46
From: Oryx Tempel
Ha ha now that you mention it, I WAS approached the other day at this fashion show I was doing. But guess what? I was wearing my male avatar! Mind bending to be a woman pretending to be a man and approached by a woman... :eek:

Someone should make a movie about it........
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Tod69 Talamasca
The Human Tripod ;)
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08-27-2007 15:50
From: Brenda Connolly
Someone should make a movie about it........


There is! "Victor/Victoria" starring Julie Andrews :)
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Brenda Connolly
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08-27-2007 16:19
From: Tod69 Talamasca
There is! "Victor/Victoria" starring Julie Andrews :)


We have a winner..... :p
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Jessica Elytis
Goddess
Join date: 7 Oct 2005
Posts: 1,783
08-27-2007 17:15
I have found the cure to 99% of all inane bad come on lines from N00bs thinking SL is only for sex:

Just pass them a LM to Linden Village titled "FREE SEXXX PALACE"

Almost every one handed such just clicks it and TPs out =^.^=

The last 1% are dumb enough to ask "What's this?" *facepalms*

~Jessy
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Nika Talaj
now you see her ...
Join date: 2 Jan 2007
Posts: 5,449
08-27-2007 17:19
My SL guy was in a Japanese sim shopping when a noob came up to him with a box on her arm and asked if he could help her get what she had just bought. So he coached her thru it, and was just telling her how it was nice to delete the box when it's empty, when she interrupted him with: "Do you want sex now"?

He said, erm no, you don't have to have sex with people who help you, and she went poof.

Now he uses the phrase as a general nonsequiter to indicate boredom with whatever's going on.

Me: I don't like the texture on this wall.
Him: Do you want sex now?

Friend: I think my tier payment is messed up.
Him: Do you want sex now?
Bree Giffen
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Join date: 22 Jun 2006
Posts: 2,715
08-27-2007 17:23
My alt always gets the question, "Are you as beautiful in real life?" to which I answer, "I've tried but I can't really get this avatar to look as good." That impresses em.
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ArchTx Edo
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Join date: 13 Feb 2005
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08-27-2007 17:26
From: Oryx Tempel
Dang, dude. I must look like a frigid b*tch. I never get approached. *sniffle*


Doing what I can to help you out Oryx...

I just wrote the following on the wall of the outhouse at the Junkyard.

"For a good time IM Oryx Tempel".


I hope that helps! :)
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Colette Meiji
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08-27-2007 17:29
From: Bree Giffen
My alt always gets the question, "Are you as beautiful in real life?" to which I answer, "I've tried but I can't really get this avatar to look as good." That impresses em.


hehhe

"Yes I look like a cute cartoon in Real life too, Its a condition called JessicaRabbititis."
Colette Meiji
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Join date: 25 Mar 2005
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08-27-2007 17:30
From: Nika Talaj
My SL guy was in a Japanese sim shopping when a noob came up to him with a box on her arm and asked if he could help her get what she had just bought. So he coached her thru it, and was just telling her how it was nice to delete the box when it's empty, when she interrupted him with: "Do you want sex now"?

He said, erm no, you don't have to have sex with people who help you, and she went poof.

Now he uses the phrase as a general nonsequiter to indicate boredom with whatever's going on.

Me: I don't like the texture on this wall.
Him: Do you want sex now?

Friend: I think my tier payment is messed up.
Him: Do you want sex now?


lol
Raymond Figtree
Gone, avi, gone
Join date: 17 May 2006
Posts: 6,256
08-27-2007 17:33
From: Nika Talaj
erm no, you don't have to have sex with people who help you
I kept telling this to my ex-girlfriend, but she never listened...
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Colette Meiji
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08-27-2007 17:35
From: Raymond Figtree
I kept telling this to my ex-girlfriend, but she never listened...


Hey, I only told her how to texture a prim - I had no idea that would happen.
Kascha Matova
Bus Bench Supermodel
Join date: 30 Mar 2007
Posts: 342
08-27-2007 17:39
From: Bree Giffen
My alt always gets the question, "Are you as beautiful in real life?" to which I answer, "I've tried but I can't really get this avatar to look as good." That impresses em.


I've told a few that I was far more elegant and sexy in RL with my head/foot up my own ass than my avie is...

They didn't always get it. Hmmmm...

So I usually end up resorting to telling them how my feet don't look like clubs with my shoes off and that I can bend my arms without my elbows looking like an accordion. THAT works :D
Raymond Figtree
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Join date: 17 May 2006
Posts: 6,256
08-27-2007 17:42
From: Colette Meiji
Hey, I only told her how to texture a prim - I had no idea that would happen.
That I didn't mind. It was that day the LA Lakers helped her change a tire that led to some minor upset.
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Oryx Tempel
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08-27-2007 17:58
From: ArchTx Edo
Doing what I can to help you out Oryx...

I just wrote the following on the wall of the outhouse at the Junkyard.

"For a good time IM Oryx Tempel".


I hope that helps! :)


Thanks! "Do you want sex now?" :p
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