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Colette Forster
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05-15-2008 13:31
From: Amaranthim Talon Last night I had a similar conversation- about how one's perception of what's OK can change in here. Now if SL would get on the band wagon - i.e. why is there only one partner allowed? Oh, that is so true. You know, it is great if you agree in advance that this is only role playing, that the feelings are not genuine, and not to translate into RL. BUT...refer to my previous post...it is all fun and games until someone really starts to care.
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Amaranthim Talon
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05-15-2008 13:44
From: Colette Forster Oh, that is so true. You know, it is great if you agree in advance that this is only role playing, that the feelings are not genuine, and not to translate into RL.
BUT...refer to my previous post...it is all fun and games until someone really starts to care. Nope- you missed my point- I don't agree this is role playing - I very much love my two dear loves  we just skipped over the jealousy thing.
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Lindal Kidd
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05-15-2008 13:48
From: Colette Forster Nothing like turning those men into pieces of meat! LMAO!
I disagree about CX though...I would say that he is more like...
Ice cream - Reliably sweet and delicious. Yet, can offer you a sexy surprise when you are not expecting something extra mixed in!
I think that sounds about right... Guilty. But savory, delicious meat that makes you inhale its aroma deeply and your mouth water...n'est ce pas? I like gumbo, but ice cream...ice cream is good too! One of the Essential Food Groups. But if somebody tells me that tonight's menu is steak, followed by ice cream covered in fresh strawberries and chocolate sauce, I'm going on an Instant Diet. Just so you know. re: Graph. GG, you might be seeing sneers where there aren't any. Most of the folks I know among the regulars wouldn't diss any sort of relationship, as long as it wasn't hurting someone. Flings, second partners, same sex, furries, weird polychromatic hermit crabs...if it makes you feel good, and the ones who care about you don't mind...it's all good.
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Yosef Okelly
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05-15-2008 13:51
From: Lindal Kidd I'm a member of the Yosef Fan Club too. Even though he got a little miffed when I asked him if he'd share some tips with a newbie who wants Teh Skillz. That boy can type like Bruce Willis looks.  I did not get miffed! I am not a good teacher. Mostly because of my lack of patience. besides, I'm not sure if what he is wanting can be tought.
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Oryx Tempel
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05-15-2008 13:53
From: Lindal Kidd But if somebody tells me that tonight's menu is steak, followed by ice cream covered in fresh strawberries and chocolate sauce, I'm going on an Instant Diet. Just so you know. Yeah, that's a lot of "food" all in one sitting...
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Amaranthim Talon
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05-15-2008 13:56
From: Oryx Tempel Yeah, that's a lot of "food" all in one sitting... Hmmm... I don't know.. I'm willing to give it a shot...
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LittleToe Bartlett
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05-15-2008 13:57
2K: Salmon flavored Pop-Rocks.
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Graphicguru Gustav
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05-15-2008 14:01
From: Lindal Kidd re: Graph. GG, you might be seeing sneers where there aren't any. Most of the folks I know among the regulars wouldn't diss any sort of relationship, as long as it wasn't hurting someone. Flings, second partners, same sex, furries, weird polychromatic hermit crabs...if it makes you feel good, and the ones who care about you don't mind...it's all good. Thanks Lindal, there was only one that did hit a nerve with me... its over and done with... moving on now... I'm good. And I appreciate your POV as well. And your key word to remember is 'Most'.
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Jezabell Barbosa
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05-15-2008 14:04
Hmmm
I love Gumbo! File Gumbo.
Hmmm Cx, yeah he is like gumbo alright. Savory and complex and when you are not paying attention a bit of spice and lots of heat.
Well maybe CX is more like Jambalaya and a crawfish pie and fillet gumbo. All the goodness of louisiana in one bite.
/me yells "Where is my peach?"
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Yosef Okelly
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05-15-2008 14:04
From: Jezabell Barbosa Yeah Elora is right! Really?
Um girls, I need to introduce you to some of my boys! All flavors, sugary sweet, sour, chocolate, and some painfully icy! Jezabell? Et Tu? You are always first in my heart. At one time were were planning to tie the knot, but my fasination with buckles got in the way. After all the things we have shared. The jokes. The passion. The bruises. The DNA testing -- which was inconclusive, BTW. Was it not you who showed me the ropes in SL? Also a few chains and the leather straps. You words have cut me .... and you said you were not into vor
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Graphicguru Gustav
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05-15-2008 14:05
From: Jezabell Barbosa me yells "Where is my peach?" Graph timidly raises his hand and says: "I'm a peach!"
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Yosef Okelly
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05-15-2008 14:06
From: Elora Lunasea Yes, really. That only does it for me when it comes from the person I'm involved with. And it has to be done with real emotion. Otherwise it's just words being spouted out of a fountain. Anyone can do that. If there isn't feeling attached to it, it means nothing. It's just a string of pretty things put together. Too many men here say the same damn things - it's like a pre-packaged script that must be sold someplace, I swear. In fact, I had someone say nearly the same stuff to me recently. Unless it was one of his Alts? No me. Nope. For what it's worth, they were all true feelings at one time. I write from experiences I have had and would like to have again.
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Jezabell Barbosa
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05-15-2008 14:08
From: Yosef Okelly Jezabell? Et Tu? You are always first in my heart. At one time were were planning to tie the knot, but my fasination with buckles got in the way. After all the things we have shared. The jokes. The passion. The bruises. The DNA testing -- which was inconclusive, BTW. Was it not you who showed me the ropes in SL? Also a few chains and the leather straps. You words have cut me .... and you said you were not into vor See!! I cannot remember you. Please refresh my memory! Did we share a night in a cave where you showed me your sculptie werewolf leg? I began to itch and reminded you of my allergy to dander. Was that you? Are you my baby daddy? /me takes her alcohol swab and wipes where she has cut you. Vor, no Gor, yes
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Yosef Okelly
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05-15-2008 14:25
Yes about the cave but that was not my leg. I have a friend that was working on a new AV. He left the leg in game (2X size) and we(friends and I) decorated it with flowers. But some where along the way SL went bonkers and we never picked up where we left off. You were going through a break up and I kind of felt like I was taking advantage of you so I backed off. I backed up to far it seems.
/me sighs
C`est la vie
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Jezabell Barbosa
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05-15-2008 14:33
/me smiles at yo-yo Yes! I do remember you now! I have been going throught a break up now for the past year! Same break up story, different person. I am in a constant state of relationship flux and perpetual "do I love him, do I hate him, does he love me, does he hate me" indecision. Thank you so much for backing off  and showing me that leg! Muah™, Jez
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LittleMe Jewell
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05-15-2008 14:43
From: Colette Forster ((((((HUGS)))))) **hugs** back. I am doing much better now -- hope you are too. Our Forum family is great in helping one get thru these things. 
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Colette Forster
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05-15-2008 15:40
From: Graphicguru Gustav Thanks Lindal, there was only one that did hit a nerve with me... its over and done with... moving on now... I'm good. And I appreciate your POV as well. And your key word to remember is 'Most'. You and Claire are like THE couple...anyone who has something negative to say, has to go through all of us first...I'm not afraid to threaten violence!  Like my mother always said, "They're just jealous!"
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Colette Forster
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05-15-2008 15:43
From: LittleMe Jewell **hugs** back. I am doing much better now -- hope you are too. Our Forum family is great in helping one get thru these things.  I am soooo great! Thanks Lil!
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05-15-2008 15:46
From: Jezabell Barbosa Hmmm
I love Gumbo! File Gumbo.
Hmmm Cx, yeah he is like gumbo alright. Savory and complex and when you are not paying attention a bit of spice and lots of heat.
Well maybe CX is more like Jambalaya and a crawfish pie and fillet gumbo. All the goodness of louisiana in one bite.
/me yells "Where is my peach?" OMG First Lindal and now Jezzy.. topped off with Ice Cream GAWD My head will never fit through a prim doorway again. Ladies I am honored and flattered by the attention. (keep it coming) "CX" Faye apologies for side tracking your post.
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Brenda Connolly
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05-15-2008 15:52
From: ConductorX Nieuport OMG First Lindal and now Jezzy.. topped off with Ice Cream GAWD My head will never fit through a prim doorway again. Ladies I am honored and flattered by the attention. (keep it coming) "CX" Faye apologies for side tracking your post. Not bad. You could do worse. Imagine being likened to those big Gulf Shrimp. The ones with the heads still on when the serve them, with the dangly bug eyes, and all the creepy legs thingies. Just like the one's I had at Ralph and Cacoo's.
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LittleMe Jewell
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05-15-2008 16:13
From: Oryx Tempel Yeah, that's a lot of "food" all in one sitting... Oh, but what an interesting evening it would be. 
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Yosef Okelly
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05-15-2008 16:17
From: Colette Forster But the best relationship are those that grow over time, slow and steady...when the passion sneaks up on you and enraptures you so unexpectedly. When you feel like you might be drowning and realize instead...you are floating... /me swoons Right there with you.
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Oryx Tempel
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05-15-2008 16:25
From: LittleMe Jewell Oh, but what an interesting evening it would be.  When you put it THAT way... /me feels her cheeks grow red
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Jezabell Barbosa
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05-15-2008 16:28
From: Brenda Connolly Not bad. You could do worse. Imagine being likened to those big Gulf Shrimp. The ones with the heads still on when the serve them, with the dangly bug eyes, and all the creepy legs thingies. Just like the one's I had at Ralph and Cacoo's. Oh I love thoes things, and always remember to suck the heads... CX knows what I am talking about.
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Yosef Okelly
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05-15-2008 17:15
That would be crayfish. Also called crawdads or mudbugs. Those are freshwater critters. I love crawdads. Tastey little things. Spice them up hot and boiled with corn on the cob. Sausage on the side. Can you get fresh crawdads in Canada? 
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