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The Sex Continent: some thoughts on it

Ciaran Laval
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03-18-2009 18:02
From: Sling Trebuchet
Anyone who claimed to be shocked and disgusted by seeing bonking in a private house might be advised not to be a peeping tom.


Apparently not, although LL are saying that private homes are fine, people camming into places is a concern and one of the reasons for moving content to the adult continent. This is probably why the first draft of rules was so harsh, they are looking to protect the nosey parkers.
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03-18-2009 18:18
From: Ciaran Laval
Apparently not, although LL are saying that private homes are fine, people camming into places is a concern and one of the reasons for moving content to the adult continent. This is probably why the first draft of rules was so harsh, they are looking to protect the nosey parkers.

As opposed to protecting you from the nosey parkers.......
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Ciaran Laval
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03-18-2009 18:20
From: Brenda Connolly
As opposed to protecting you from the nosey parkers.......


Indeed, peepers rights seem to outweigh everything.
Hera Short
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03-18-2009 20:52
This is how i feel. Having a free for all is NOT as important as being able to control what our children and people who don't want to see explicit content see. Go find a 12 year old (Don't kidnap one please) and watch how easy it is for them to get into SL. Actually don't. I would be TERRIFIED of a child of that age seeing what's in SL as it stands.

I do feel that people have their rights to do their own thing, However, even my partner is from a country where they're about to start fining and possibly jailing people for downloading explicit content. By all means he shouldn't have to risk jail to enjoy SL!!! There are a lot of people in the same or similar situations.

All that aside I have a personal preference for pretty clean living, even in SL. I don't want to go into a place I think I'm just getting a skin and see people doing their thing. I don't want naked avatars wearing their xcites out of their clothes wandering my store and sometimes I am heavily offended by the roleplay that goes on RIGHT BESIDE ME even in a pg sim that has nothing to do with said roleplay.

I know that nobody can be made perfectly comfortable or be completely accomodated. That is how life works. No matter if it's first or second something will always come up that offends someone. However, I do think this is a big step in the right direction especially if everything is properly enforced.

As for skin designers, if you have a skin that's favored for it's genitalia go to one of the sex sims. That's where such belongs. Redgrave, one of the most popular (if not THE most popular) skin store in SL operates out of a PG sim and does fantastic business and has beautiful displays that make the skins look better than any display of nudity ever could. Even so, one of the posts I read from a Linden said that skin makers should be allright.

If you are a creator of people bits. Please, just move away, or flag yourself so i don't stumble into your store full of realistic sculpted wingwangs while looking for a new handbag. That is a long standing problem for me and actually KEEPS ME AWAY from some stores that I would otherwise shop at. Nobody is going to suffer from this long term except for those that can't prove they are an adult. And MAYBE those people that need to credit card verify will become consumers instead of just freebie munchers. (No offense to the freebie munchers. I love me some freebies.)

So everybody that's totally protesting this idea, please step back and take a look at what's really happening. It's not some form of evil linden oppression. We are actually getting more choice in how we spend our SL.

I think SL will be fine guys.
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03-18-2009 21:23
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From: Hera Short
Nobody is going to suffer from this long term except for those that can't prove they are an adult. And MAYBE those people that need to credit card verify will become consumers instead of just freebie munchers. (No offense to the freebie munchers. I love me some freebies.)
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Ceka Cianci
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03-18-2009 22:46
hmm..something about these tags just takes away from the whole thing..
but i guess if we have to cover up we may as well start here..

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03-19-2009 00:22
From: Phil Deakins
A Linden stated that stores that sell some sex furniture would not need to move as long as people were not "having sex" in them, but whether or not trying the animations constitutes "having sex" wasn't addressed, and LL's point of view about it isn't yet known (as far as I know).

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when you go to the supermarket and try/taste the samples .. are you having lunch or just testing?

I will hold the linden at his word. :D
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03-19-2009 00:29
/Dagon peeks in from his grumpy elf cloud of invisibility to see what he mised.

I think I missed something major. So they are restricting sex and violence only certain parts of world now? Thought they had it cover with mature land settings.
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Farrah Popstar
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03-19-2009 02:53
From: Hera Short
This is how i feel. Having a free for all is NOT as important as being able to control what our children and people who don't want to see explicit content see. Go find a 12 year old (Don't kidnap one please) and watch how easy it is for them to get into SL. Actually don't. I would be TERRIFIED of a child of that age seeing what's in SL as it stands.

I do feel that people have their rights to do their own thing, However, even my partner is from a country where they're about to start fining and possibly jailing people for downloading explicit content. By all means he shouldn't have to risk jail to enjoy SL!!! There are a lot of people in the same or similar situations.

All that aside I have a personal preference for pretty clean living, even in SL. I don't want to go into a place I think I'm just getting a skin and see people doing their thing. I don't want naked avatars wearing their xcites out of their clothes wandering my store and sometimes I am heavily offended by the roleplay that goes on RIGHT BESIDE ME even in a pg sim that has nothing to do with said roleplay.

I know that nobody can be made perfectly comfortable or be completely accomodated. That is how life works. No matter if it's first or second something will always come up that offends someone. However, I do think this is a big step in the right direction especially if everything is properly enforced.

As for skin designers, if you have a skin that's favored for it's genitalia go to one of the sex sims. That's where such belongs. Redgrave, one of the most popular (if not THE most popular) skin store in SL operates out of a PG sim and does fantastic business and has beautiful displays that make the skins look better than any display of nudity ever could. Even so, one of the posts I read from a Linden said that skin makers should be allright.

If you are a creator of people bits. Please, just move away, or flag yourself so i don't stumble into your store full of realistic sculpted wingwangs while looking for a new handbag. That is a long standing problem for me and actually KEEPS ME AWAY from some stores that I would otherwise shop at. Nobody is going to suffer from this long term except for those that can't prove they are an adult. And MAYBE those people that need to credit card verify will become consumers instead of just freebie munchers. (No offense to the freebie munchers. I love me some freebies.)

So everybody that's totally protesting this idea, please step back and take a look at what's really happening. It's not some form of evil linden oppression. We are actually getting more choice in how we spend our SL.

I think SL will be fine guys.


Do you squeak when you walk? because thats a pretty uptight outlook on life. You should be on your own little NO sex island. Not us. Because let me tell you we arent staying in xxx land full time.
Phil Deakins
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03-19-2009 04:02
From: Hera Short
So everybody that's totally protesting this idea, please step back and take a look at what's really happening. It's not some form of evil linden oppression. We are actually getting more choice in how we spend our SL.
I may have missed a trend of thought but I'm not aware of "everybody that's totally protesting this idea". It's details of the change that are being discussed, or maybe I'm unintentionally selecting what to notice and what not to notice.

From: Hera Short
I think SL will be fine guys.
Of course SL will be fine. It's some users who won't be fine, such as those whose All search rankings tank, resulting in a significant loss of business for quite some time, because they are made to move without LL making any attempt to deal with Picks. That's as far as we know right now.
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Qie Niangao
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03-19-2009 04:30
I kinda lost track of this thread for a while. Thanks, Phil, for your response:
From: Phil Deakins
Picks for places that people like do tend to last. [...]
Now that you mention it, that's probably true. My two week half-life conjecture was based on how short most alts live and the removal of Pick-based IBLs after one week of account inactivity, but yeah I'll bet there's huge variability in the lifespan of Picks, depending on the industry (furniture longer than, say, entertainment: more of the accounts have long-term plans), the motivation for the Pick (voluntary longer than Paid, on the premise that there's always a higher bidder--or "greater fool";), and even the permissions of the items sold (Copy longer than Transfer: if the product can't move between accounts, the account is likely to be around a while).
From: someone
The All search system (GSA) inadvertantly works against places with a lot of items for sale, if all of those items are set to show in search. [...]

I don't know the reason for it, but I do have two possibilities. (1) In the old days of search engines, each engine had an "ideal page" and the closer a webpage came to it, the better it ranked. Size mattered back then. To my way of thinking, the "ideal page" was eclipsed by links-based systems, but that's only to my way of thinking. The GSA is apparently capable of ranking solely on content, so it may be that something of the "ideal page" is incorporated into it. (2) It could be to do with searchterm density in the page - the bigger the page, the more diluted the searchterm is likely to be.

I haven't done any tests at all, but my feeling is that it's more to do with page size than searchterm (keyword) density.
I guess it would be a pretty easy test, if I had any commercial instinct or motivation: Just two untraffic'd parcels, one with hundreds of items with the same name as the parcel, and another with hundreds of randomly named items, all set to show in Search. Maybe a third, control parcel, with no items at all in Search. If theory 1 holds, both "packed" parcels should be equally penalized in the Search rankings; if theory 2, only the parcel with randomly named items should suffer.
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03-19-2009 04:48
From: Qie Niangao
My two week half-life conjecture was based on how short most alts live and the removal of Pick-based IBLs after one week of account inactivity
I've never heard that before. Where did you hear it? You are saying that the All search system doesn't use Picks that are in the profiles of accounts that have not been used for a week? Incidentally, the Picks of most alts wouldn't count anyway - only the Picks of accounts that have html pages count.

Even so, many high ranking places have a *lot* of Picks that do count, and are effective in getting the high rankings. A move of location will destroy those Picks for search, and tank the rankings because of it.

From: Qie Niangao
I guess it would be a pretty easy test, if I had any commercial instinct or motivation: Just two untraffic'd parcels, one with hundreds of items with the same name as the parcel, and another with hundreds of randomly named items, all set to show in Search. Maybe a third, control parcel, with no items at all in Search. If theory 1 holds, both "packed" parcels should be equally penalized in the Search rankings; if theory 2, only the parcel with randomly named items should suffer.
I have always had good reason to test it, but never the motivation and, at this point, I still don't have it - perhaps because I'm half expecting to close down when the change comes - although, like Sling's traffic tests, it might be interesting to do it on an academic level.
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Qie Niangao
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03-19-2009 05:18
From: Phil Deakins
I've never heard that before. Where did you hear it? You are saying that the All search system doesn't use Picks that are in the profiles of accounts that have not been used for a week? Incidentally, the Picks of most alts would count anyway - only the Picks of accounts that have html pages count.

Even so, many high ranking places have a *lot* of Picks that do count, and are effective in getting the high rankings. A move of location will destroy those Picks for search, and tank the rankings.
Well, maybe they'll change Search again anyway, once they figure out what they're going to do about Traffic, or traffic manipulation, or whatever they eventually bestir themselves to do. (Jack was due to blog about that earlier this week, but I suppose his boss's little bombshell kind of pre-empted it.)

Hmmm... now where did I hear about the 1-week thing? It came up early-on in my own experiments with Search All: I'd neglect to login my webpaged alts for a while, and my Search ranking would slip; log them in and it would boost again. My timeline was terribly imprecise and I guessed it to be a gradual decline in IBL weight for the affected Picks over a couple weeks or more, but somebody corrected me that it was all-or-nothing (which makes sense, being a count, not individually weighted), and... Oh, crap! Apparently it's one month, not one week. :o See /327/64/299232/1.html.
From: someone
I have always had good reason to test it, but never the motivation and, at this point, I still don't have it - perhaps because I'm half expecting to close down when the change comes - although, like Sling's traffic tests, it might be interesting to do it on an academic level.
I'm thinking that if I were interested in SL income, I'd probably have dedicated parcels that I used exclusively for testing in-world SEO theories. Easy for me to say, though, as a bystander at best.
Qie Niangao
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03-19-2009 05:41
More on-topic, I suppose:
From: Hera Short, "Happy about this!
This is how i feel. Having a free for all is NOT as important as being able to control what our children and people who don't want to see explicit content see. [...]

I don't want naked avatars wearing their xcites out of their clothes wandering my store and sometimes I am heavily offended by the roleplay that goes on RIGHT BESIDE ME even in a pg sim that has nothing to do with said roleplay.

I know that nobody can be made perfectly comfortable or be completely accomodated. That is how life works. No matter if it's first or second something will always come up that offends someone. However, I do think this is a big step in the right direction especially if everything is properly enforced. [...]
But see, that's the thing: the worst offenses even now are already against Community Standards by being adult (or worse) content on PG sims--notably LL's own Welcome Areas, Help Islands, and sandboxes. If LL can't effectively enforce the rules on these newbie-rich areas -- and this in the midst of a huge initiative to improve New User Experience, no less -- why on earth should we imagine the new content segregation scheme should have any noticeable impact, other than to inconvenience a lot of people?

My Second Life experience is 99% G-rated, and so is the content on all my Mature parcels, as well as those of my neighbors as far as I've noticed. But I wouldn't want any of it to be PG land, for that 1% where I might someday do something Adult. Maybe "very Adult" even. So I want to move where the Adults are; if it turns out to be too racy for me, well, I can always go back to the safe haven of LL's PG land. Oh, wait...
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03-19-2009 05:48
From: Qie Niangao
Well, maybe they'll change Search again anyway, once they figure out what they're going to do about Traffic, or traffic manipulation, or whatever they eventually bestir themselves to do. (Jack was due to blog about that earlier this week, but I suppose his boss's little bombshell kind of pre-empted it.)
That's the second time it's been put off. It must be difficult deciding what to do to appease some people and yet not interfere with the stats :)

From: Qie Niangao
Hmmm... now where did I hear about the 1-week thing? It came up early-on in my own experiments with Search All: I'd neglect to login my webpaged alts for a while, and my Search ranking would slip; log them in and it would boost again. My timeline was terribly imprecise and I guessed it to be a gradual decline in IBL weight for the affected Picks over a couple weeks or more, but somebody corrected me that it was all-or-nothing (which makes sense, being a count, not individually weighted), and... Oh, crap! Apparently it's one month, not one week. :o See /327/64/299232/1.html.
That makes sense now :) It's the html page that isn't created, which in turn kills off the value of the Picks. It has to be on or off, and not somewhere in-between. It's whether an html page is created for the account or not. However, it's not just a count of links, as each page has a value attributed to it, which makes a difference in the value of links from different pages. Pages are not equal in value and links from them don't have equal values for the destination pages.

From: Qie Niangao
I'm thinking that if I were interested in SL income, I'd probably have dedicated parcels that I used exclusively for testing in-world SEO theories. Easy for me to say, though, as a bystander at best.
My interest would be academic rather than going all out to improve the income, but that's just me. I was *very* interested in Sling's traffic tests, but only "out of interest" - making use of it doesn't appeal to me. It's why I've never got into all the marketing tips, and never used places like Xsreet. All the "nose to the grindstone" stuff, as it was described in another thread, isn't in my nature.
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Marcel Flatley
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03-19-2009 07:35
From: Phil Deakins
You may be right. We wait with bated breath.

Incidentally, my bots don't smoke cigars ;)


https://xstreetsl.com/modules.php?name=Forums&file=viewtopic&p=459967#459967

Really Phil, read that first post, it might totally change your mind about bots!
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03-19-2009 08:22
From: Isablan Neva
Controlling your shoppers is another matter entirely and no one will be able to do that. I find people nakie and "fully attached" in my kissing gazebo on PG land all the time. I ask politely for them to get dressed, but I can't sit there watching 24/7.
I have a poseball shop that's devoted to adult products, where I encourage nudity and play, but oddly enough, it almost never happens! Go figure. (True, I haven't put up an encouraging sign yet, but still, some people just have all the luck. ;) )


Phil, I agree wholeheartedly with your point here.

In your place, I'd simply ignore the issue other than to take the simple measures already mentioned (like posting a sign, editing your shop description), and wait and see. Most likely, you'd be fine. If you do get a takedown notice, you can decide whether to drop the offending products or simply close up shop.
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03-19-2009 08:27
From: Clarissa Lowell
They may fully intend to leave the teen grid intact, and let it exist for those parents who do not wish their children to go into the wide-open Second Life world (okay, VISUAL and roleplay adult/violent content removed but...yeh...is SL all visual).

I think leaving an option for those parents is a good idea.

But notice that 'not merging the teen grid' does not equal 'not allowing kids in Second Life'. Maybe they mean they won't merge the grids physically.
Good point! Based on what I've read (though I've only skimmed most of the posts), your interpretation is consistent with what they're saying, even though it isn't quite how most people are interpreting it. I wonder if LL are clever enough to have done this intentionally ... ;)
Torian Carter
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03-19-2009 08:28
From: Argent Stonecutter

That's why we really need http://jira.secondlife.com/browse/SVC-205 - a privacy pocket in the sky...

I did not know about that one.. thanks... Voted for it right away.
Phil Deakins
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03-19-2009 10:10
From: Lear Cale
I have a poseball shop that's devoted to adult products, where I encourage nudity and play, but oddly enough, it almost never happens! Go figure. (True, I haven't put up an encouraging sign yet, but still, some people just have all the luck. ;) )
Maybe you should try a model that is already on one of a poseball pair ;)

Even in my model booths it's rare for someone to get naked with a model, but I did come across a couple a few weeks ago who were naked on the empty booth bed, and him wearing his 18" chopper lol. I've also come across people using the models for pleasure, but it's uncommon. The models do get tips once in a while, so you might consider trying it :)

And ty for the comment, Lear. That's what I intend doing - those little bits - unless I'm required to move, and then I'll decide whether or not to continue.
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03-19-2009 10:12
From: Phil Deakins
The models do get tips once in a while, so you might consider trying it :)

Phil the Pimp. :p
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Phil Deakins
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03-19-2009 10:14
From: Damien1 Thorne
Phil the Pimp. :p
hehe. It's crossed my mind :)

One of them got 100L tip not long ago. I can't think why because it was the male model of a male-female pair, so nobody could hop on with him. They can only use the menu to watch the pair perform the anims. His name is 4times Nitely, so maybe someone thought he needed food to build his strength up :)
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03-19-2009 10:16
From: Marcel Flatley
https://xstreetsl.com/modules.php?name=Forums&file=viewtopic&p=459967#459967

Really Phil, read that first post, it might totally change your mind about bots!
I treat my bots better than that, Marcel. I let them have time off to go and hump the sex models in other stores :D
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Separate PG Continent Is A Better Solution
03-19-2009 10:19
You would send all your unverified accounts there after giving them an opportunity to be verified. You would send all business users there. Then all those that wish to avoid all 'adult' content could voluntarily locate there. The rest of us would continue to use SL the way it was originally designed.

However, I think that the reason the Lindens would rather have a separate 'Adult' world is a simple lack of courage in the face of media scrutiny and the insanely prudish. It is censorship and in no way a common sense approach. The separate PG continent is a far more workable and sane solution. That is probably why it won't be enacted.
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Age Verifying Teens?
03-19-2009 13:37
My concern is with wondering who is or isn't underage . . . both to protect the teens and to protect adults from teens who might be a bit precocious. It's my impression that a relatively small number of residents engage in adult activity in specifically adult sims. Flirtations and romances kick up everywhere on the grid . . . in stores, galleries, clubs . . . not just X-rated spots. What safeguards will be in place to protect teens for predators and protect other residents from mistaking a teen for a consenting adult? This seems like an accident waiting to happen.

I am delighted that teens will have access to the amazing educational and cultural resources that Second Life has to offer, but I have real reservations that this is a good idea for Second Life. Just as teens have to wait to a certain age to drink, to drive or to marry (OMG - partnering!!), perhaps there is good reason for the current segregation and the safeguards that have kept the two grids apart.
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